The Things You Can't Touch

Eden Ehioghae

The Things You Can't Touch is a podcast which demonstrates that philosophical discourse is not just reserved for ancient white men. It explores modern day issues, ethical dilemmas and trivial problems through the lens of philosophy, inviting guests from diverse backgrounds to challenge the norms and find the joy in interrogative discussion.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    What Does It Mean To Become Yourself ?

    Welcome back to another episode of The Things You Can’t Touch. Remember, this is a philosophy podcast. Today, we are joined by a guest who many of you may recognise from her online presence. She is known for embodying a particular character on social media... one that sparks conversation, controversy, and strong reactions. But this episode is not about prying into her personal life or turning her into a spectacle. This is a philosophical conversation about identity. Through questions about memory, structural injustice, religion, morality, personality, and social media, we explore how identity is formed, and reformed. We touch on thinkers like Bhikhu Parekh, standpoint epistemology, and broader questions about whether intelligence, disability, family, or trauma can ever define a single story about a person. As always on TTYCT, this is not about cancelling, diagnosing, or reducing someone to a label. It is about understanding complexity. It is about allowing people to articulate their own philosophical framework for who they are and how they move through the world. Thank you for being here - make sure to engage with us: 00:00 - Intro 01:28 - What Does It Mean To Become Yourself ? 03:12 - Are You A Different Person ... ? 04:15 - The Person You Are As Memories Overtime 05:30 - Misunderstood 07:19 - Structural Injustice (Sally HASLANGER Mot Haslington) 10:30 - Let Go Of The Past 13:30 - Parekh And Identity, Struggle And Adapt 16:38 - Disabilities And One Identity 18:15 - Has Social Media Done Harm Or Good ? 20:02 - Personality Disorders 23:50 - Religion 27:00 - What Is Real And What Is Fake 28:00 - Intelligence (And Standpoint Epistemology) 34:05 - Do Your Fans See You How You Want Them To ? 37:08 - Is Everything ... Real ? 39:35 - Family 41:40 - Morality 46:35 - Putting Down The Alcohol 48:12 - Message For TikTok 49:25 - Outro Thank you sticking to the end ! The most important part is to make sure to follow our guest on all her socials !! TikTok: @raejah_xx TikTok: @raejah4lives Instagram: @raejah4live

    50 min
  2. 22/08/2025

    E29 - Does Social Media Activism Create Real Change ?

    Welcome back to another episode of The Things You Can't Touch podcast ! In this episode, I am joined by the brilliant @kimcommentary from TikTok to unpack a big question: is social media activism actually effective ? From hashtags to viral campaigns, we dig into whether online movements translate into real-world change, and where the limits of digital activism might be. Kim is also one of the incredible guests joining me live on stage at the TTYCT Live Show on 29th August in East London. If you have ever wanted to be in the room where these conversations happen, this is your chance. Come for the philosophy, stay for the community. Get your tickets here: https://events.humanitix.com/wheredowedrawtheline-thethingsyoucanttouchpodcastliveshow/tickets Feel free to join the conversation here: 00:00 - Intro 01:15 - Does Social Media Activism Create Real Change ? 03:55 - Who Is An Activist ? 05:43 - Populism And Extreme Leftism 10:33 - Definition Of Activism 12:45 - Not Everyone's Opinion Matters 15:55 - Your Intentions 19:50 - Activism Is Too Accessible 26:20 - There Are Things You Need To Learn 29:26 - Can You Think From The Other Point Of View ? 31:35 - Violence 38:10 - The Metaphysical Concept Of Justice And John Rawls 41:24 - Equity 41:50 - Hannah Arendt 46:50 - Bell Hooks 48:26 - Jodie Dean 49:51 - White Is Right 52:09 - The Oppression Monolith 57:43 - Outro Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations that challenge what philosophy looks like today. Most importantly, make sure to follow our guest on all her socials: YouTube: @kimberleyonline TikTok: @kimberleyonline Instagram: @kimberleyonline Linktree: https://linktr.ee/kimberleyonline?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafrnx6WLDZUvTX7Yrm955gwLqbj4cjaYk9QIqPFgLdRp7B6Roo2ynOqxsap3Q_aem_GfLR6mXrpevzjUWeyanveg

    59 min
  3. 09/08/2025

    E27 - Is There A Difference Between A Community And A Cult ?

    Trigger Warning: sexual assault, rape, trauma, and cult-related discourse. Please take care of yourself while watching. This is a heavy and emotionally charged conversation. Welcome back to another episode of The Things You Can't Touch ! In this video, I sit down with Leah Lauder, a megachurch cult survivor and mental health advocate you might know from TikTok. Leah brings invaluable insight from her lived experience and knowledge of cult dynamics as we discuss some very difficult, yet necessary, topics. We talk about the recent allegations against Stepz, the disturbing way some are defending him through the lens of Christianity, and how this ties into wider patterns of abuse and control within high-control religious groups. Leah also helps unpack how cult leaders place themselves equal to, or even above, God, creating environments where manipulation and harm can thrive unchecked. This is not an easy conversation, but it is an important one. If you have experienced any form of abuse, please consider whether now is the right time to watch. Your wellbeing comes first. We should keep shining a light on these issues and hold space for survivors. Follow our conversation here: 00:00 - Introduction 03:24 - Is There A Difference Between A Community And A Cult ? 05:12 - Characteristics Of A Cult 06:29 - Guilt Makes You Vulnerable 08:35 - Reminder That This Is A Heavy Topic 12:38 - Stepz 16:00 - Paul Tillich And Deification 17:10 - The Cross Road ... Be Careful In These Streets 21:13 - Self Sealing System 23:55 - The People Who Are Oppressed Are Oppressing Themselves 29:50 - Theological Awareness 32:19 - Cloning, Offline, Psychological Terminology 32:49 - SPAC Nation And Cult Intimidation 34:57 - How I Got Into Podcasting 36:07 - Sadism, The Transcendent Belief System, And More Psychological Terminology 39:25 - The Pastors Themselves 42:19 - Is Leah Christian ? 47:30 - Sexual Assault In Cults 51:10 - Erving Goffman ... People Are Performing And Triangulation ??? 55:35 - Stepz (Again) And Shout Out To UKThanos 59:00 - Prove Yourself 1:02:27 - What Did You Do ? 1:03:50 - Recruitment 1:08:50 - Christians Are So Dumb 1:11:20 - What Makes You Susceptible To Cults (And Many A Detour) 1:18:40 - The Structure Of A Cult 1:22:35 - What If Cults Are A Community ? 1:23:57 - Cults To Stay Away From 1:27:11 - Outro Thank you for following our chat up until this point ! Make sure to share this video with anyone you think needs to hear this. Finally, and most importantly, make sure to keep up with Leah Lauder on her socials: TikTok: LeahLauder7 Instagram: LeahLauder_777 You Tube: @leahlauder777 ​

    1h 27m

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The Things You Can't Touch is a podcast which demonstrates that philosophical discourse is not just reserved for ancient white men. It explores modern day issues, ethical dilemmas and trivial problems through the lens of philosophy, inviting guests from diverse backgrounds to challenge the norms and find the joy in interrogative discussion.