Love Notes from Rhonda

Rhonda Britten

What if hearing “I love you” could change your day? Love Notes from Rhonda is your daily virtual hug—truth, soul, and fearless encouragement, all in under 10 minutes. Emmy Award-winner Rhonda Britten offers real stories, neuroscience, and the reminder you’re already worthy. No fixing, no striving—just love. Subscribe and let yourself be loved every day.

  1. Finding Your Gray: The Art of Willingness

    2 HR AGO

    Finding Your Gray: The Art of Willingness

    What if just being willing could change your whole life? In this episode, Rhonda explores how willingness, "the word I love almost the most"—is the bridge from feeling stuck to living true to yourself. Discover how the simple choice to be willing can help you create a life that’s truly yours, no matter what others think. Today, it's all about one extraordinary word: willingness. Rhonda opens up about the turning point where everything shifted, not with giant leaps, but with one small, powerful decision: being willing. Willing to see things differently, willing to let go, to accept, to move toward what calls you... even when you're scared or unsure. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by fear or stuck in old definitions of yourself, you’ll find comfort and courage here. Rhonda gently dismantles the myth that you must burn down your life to change. Instead, she teaches you to start exactly where you are, with willingness as your guide. This episode is a warm invitation to pause, breathe, and ask, “What am I willing to release, receive, or become?” Through stories, everyday wisdom, and honest truth-telling, you’ll discover why being willing to be willing is often the boldest step toward the life your soul intended. What You’ll Discover Why willingness is the difference between staying stuck and moving forwardHow to gently release fear of what others thinkThe truth about change: you don’t have to overhaul your life to become yourselfHow to handle the awkward transition between “who you’ve been” and “who you really are”Simple mindset shifts for handling discomfort, confusion, or loss as you growDaily practices to strengthen your willingness and keep moving, even if you’re scared Key Takeaway Being willing—even just to be willing—opens the door to the life your soul intended. It’s not about forcing change, but courageously choosing your own way, regardless of what anyone else thinks. Key Quote "Willingness is the difference between stuck and unstuck. You must be willing to do whatever it takes to live the life your soul intended." Resources Journaling Prompt: “What must I be willing to let go of, accept, or say to live the life my soul intended?”More encouragement and tools: https://fearlessliving.org Invitation Write down one thing you’re willing to practice this week—no matter how small. Say it out loud. Let willingness work for you, and if you felt something shift today, send this episode to a friend who needs a gentle nudge toward willingness. Reply and tell me your story—when have you been willing to take a step toward the life your soul intended, even when it felt scary? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to support our fearless community.

    5 min
  2. The Seduction of Insight: Aha or Nah?

    1 DAY AGO

    The Seduction of Insight: Aha or Nah?

    Have you ever wondered why those powerful ahas and bright insights don’t always lead to lasting change? In this episode, Rhonda reveals the vital difference between having an insight and actually living it. Discover how disappointment, shame, and guilt can disappear when you shift your focus from understanding to experience. Today, I want to talk about the difference between experience and insight—a conversation I know your heart is longing for. So many of us chase the rush of a breakthrough, that dazzling clarity, hoping it might change everything. But if you’ve carried heartbreak when an insight didn’t lead to real-life transformation, you’re not alone. I share the honest truth: the excitement of “aha! I get it” quickly fades if we don’t practice embodying what we’ve learned. It’s how we live, integrate, and experience those insights in everyday relationships that brings true change, joy, and freedom. If you’ve ever berated yourself for “knowing better” yet repeating old patterns, this episode is your loving invitation to let go of shame, embrace gentle practice, and step into genuine self-love. Because the work—the change—is not in the insight—it’s in the experience. What You’ll DiscoverWhy insights and ahas feel exhilarating but rarely change your life on their ownThe heartbreak and guilt that comes from “knowing better” but not changingHow practicing and embodying your insights is the only path to lasting transformationConcrete examples for integrating ahas into your daily relationships and choicesHow to release shame and disappointment around growth—and celebrate the courage of practiceRhonda’s invitation to live fearlessly through everyday experience, not just understanding Key TakeawayInsights are only the beginning; change happens when you practice, embody, and tangibly experience your ahas—moment by moment, day by day. Key Quote“Some of our deepest disappointments and sadness come from having an aha and insight—and yet nothing changed. Insight and aha is not the change. It is not the change. That insight and aha will not motivate you or inspire you or magically get you to change 99.9% of the time. It’s integrating that insight. It’s living that insight.”— RhondaResources Journal prompt: What insight or aha have you had that feels far away when you’re triggered? How can you practice living it today?More encouragement and tools at https://fearlessliving.org InvitationChoose one insight you’ve had and practice embodying it in your day, even if it feels awkward or hard. Write down your experiences, and notice how it shapes your choices. If this episode helped, please share it with one friend who needs it today. Reply with your own story—when have you let an insight linger instead of turning it into real-life practice, and what helped you finally embody the change? Subscribe and leave a quick rating so more hearts find us.

    7 min
  3. Thoughts Are Just Thoughts: Love Beyond Judgment

    2 DAYS AGO

    Thoughts Are Just Thoughts: Love Beyond Judgment

    Is your inner critic keeping you from love? In this episode, Rhonda reveals why judging—yourself or others, robs you of connection, and shows how gentle self-awareness can open the way for true compassion. Discover practical steps to quiet the critic within, so you can make space for more love every day. Today, I’m inviting you into a conversation about judgement and love, the kind that starts within and radiates outward. I share how Mother Teresa’s wise words, “If you judge people, you have no time to love them,” apply not just to others but to ourselves. Together, we’ll look at why the brain is wired to judge, how to notice automatic judgments without shame, and the simple steps you can take to transform criticism into curiosity and kindness. I’ll show you how to gently navigate opinions versus true judgement, how social cues and discernment guide when to speak or stay silent—and why practicing gentleness with yourself is the foundation for real, lasting love. If you’ve ever felt trapped by self-criticism or overwhelmed by judgments about others, this episode is your invitation to pause, reflect, and shift toward compassion. What You’ll Discover Why judging yourself (or others) blocks your ability to loveHow automatic thoughts work—and why you don’t need to shame yourself for themThe difference between personal opinion and harmful judgementWhen to speak up, when to stay silent, and why both are acts of discernmentSimple ways to practice kindness and self-love, even when the critic appearsHow mindful awareness can transform everyday moments from judgement to connection Key Takeaway If you’re too busy judging, you don’t have time to love. The moment you pause—and choose gentleness instead, you open space for real love to flow. Key Quote “If you judge people, you cannot love them. You won’t have the time to love them. You won’t see what’s there to love.” — Rhonda Resources Journal prompt: Where in my life am I judging myself or others—and what would shift if I replaced judgement with curiosity or kindness?Practice: After an automatic critical thought, pause and ask, “Is this an opinion or judgement—and what would kindness look like here?”More tools and encouragement at fearlessliving.org Invitation This week, notice your inner critic and whisper to yourself, “I choose kindness instead.” Practice gentleness, whether you’re judging yourself, your clothes, or someone else’s choices. If this episode sparked something for you, share it with a friend who needs it today. Hit reply and tell me your story, how has judgment shown up in your life, and what did you notice when you paused to love instead? Subscribe and leave a quick rating—it helps others discover us.

    6 min
  4. I Love You: Words We Often Forget

    3 DAYS AGO

    I Love You: Words We Often Forget

    Have you ever longed to hear “I love you” from someone who never said it? In this special episode, Rhonda offers her voice as a stand-in for all the words you needed and never received. Join her for a warm, healing practice in forgiving the past and gently setting yourself free. Today, I invite you to receive words of love and healing you may never have heard from those you needed most. Whether it was a parent, grandparent, friend, or someone whose love was missing or withheld—today, I stand in for them. I speak the "I love you" you’ve been waiting for, offering apologies, understanding, and forgiveness where there was absence, fear, or pain. Together, we explore why others couldn’t give us what we needed, and how their inability had nothing to do with our lovability. I remind you—again and again, that you have always been lovable. I encourage you to release blame, let compassion flood in, and allow yourself to be set free from the old story of not-enoughness. Even if you never hear these words from them, you can let love in now. You don’t owe anyone a second chance, a call, or a letter. But you owe yourself freedom. Open your heart and let my words wash over you, you’re allowed to receive them, just as you are. What You’ll Discover How to recognize your longing for love and validation is deeply humanWhy other people’s inability to love or apologize is about their own limitations, not your worthinessThe healing power of imagining someone speaking the truth you always needed to hearHow forgiveness doesn’t require reconnection, obligation, or even a conversationA loving practice to help you finally release old wounds and walk forward free Key Takeaway You do not have to wait for anyone else to set you free—you can receive, forgive, and love yourself right now. Key Quote "Allow my voice to be the substitute—the fill-in—for all the times you didn’t hear ‘I love you.’ Imagine me as the person you wish you heard it from... and let yourself be set free." —Rhonda, 00:26 Resources Journal prompt: Who do you most wish would say, “I love you”? How would it feel to hear it now, even if only from yourself or a stand-in?Daily reflection pages: Write down the loving truths you'd like to absorb in your own voice.More support at fearlessliving.org Invitation Let yourself be the receiver of love today. Play this episode again anytime you need to hear those healing words and tell your heart, “I am lovable and I am loved.” If this episode helped, share it with one friend who needs a loving stand-in today. Reply and share! Who do you most wish you’d heard “I love you” from, and how did it feel to imagine those words spoken just for you? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to support our circle.

    4 min
  5. How to Embrace 'Life is Good' No Matter What!

    4 DAYS AGO

    How to Embrace 'Life is Good' No Matter What!

    What does “Life is good” really mean...especially on hard days? In this episode, Rhonda invites you to discover the beliefs, shifts, and gentle practices that make goodness possible no matter what life throws your way. If you’re ready to anchor joy and choose a new perspective, love starts here. You’ve heard it a thousand times, life is good. From t-shirts to coffee mugs, the phrase is everywhere. But what does it truly mean to live inside that belief, especially when life feels hard, uncertain, or joyless? In today’s episode, I invite you to gently examine what’s standing between you and real goodness. We look at the beliefs you may need to release, the thoughts you must let go of, and the shifts possible when you choose to stand in “life is good”—regardless of circumstance. This is your warm hug of encouragement to move beyond comparing, complaining, or waiting for life to get easy. Instead, I share ways to embrace goodness—in your own heart, no matter what’s happening around you. It’s simple, it’s profound, and it’s worth practicing every moment. What You’ll DiscoverWhy “Life is good” is more than a catchphrase—it’s a daily practiceThe beliefs and thoughts that keep you from embracing goodnessHow to anchor joy in both difficult and effortless momentsWhy goodness isn’t about circumstances, but about how you choose to seeGentle questions to help you shift your perspective and claim “life is good”A daily assignment to help you change your inner dialogueSimple ways to let go and embrace, so goodness becomes your way of living Key TakeawayLife is good isn’t about ignoring difficulty, it’s about choosing, every day, to see and embrace what is good, even when it feels hard. Key Quote“How could you truly say life is good no matter what’s happening to you?”“What would you have to shift, let go of, or change to truly believe—no matter what—that life is good?”Resources Journal prompts: What belief do you need to release to stand in ‘life is good’? What would you need to embrace today?Practice: Write down “Life is good” every day for a week, and notice how your perspective shifts. Invitation Start your day by claiming “Life is good”, no matter what. Write it, say it, or simply pause and let yourself feel it. Let go of an old belief, embrace a new one, and if today’s episode resonates, share it with a friend who needs to hear “life is good” right now. Reply and share your story, when have you stood in “life is good,” no matter what was happening? What belief did you shift to see good, even in struggle? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to support our community.

    3 min
  6. You Are Already Enough: How to Choose Worthiness

    5 DAYS AGO

    You Are Already Enough: How to Choose Worthiness

    Is worthiness something you earn or something you declare? In today’s Love Notes from Rhonda, Rhonda Britten guides you through claiming your worth, reminding you that you don’t have to chase approval or do anything special to be valued. If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I enough?” this episode will help you turn inward and recognize the truth: you are worthy just because you breathe. So many of us spend our lives believing worthiness is something we must earn—through achievements, love from others, or doing “enough.” In this episode, Rhonda invites you to pause, breathe, and repeat after her: “I am worthy.” Together, we dig deep into what it means to claim worthiness from a spiritual place, rather than from external validation. You’ll hear why worth cannot be given or gotten, why your dreams and desires are sacred, and why your mistakes, relationship status, or yesterday’s pizza don’t diminish the light inside you. If you’ve felt weighed down by comparison, self-doubt, or the illusion that you need to prove yourself to anyone, Rhonda’s gentle guidance will help you release those burdens and choose to see your value—just as you are. This episode is your invitation to let go of conditions and step into fearless self-acceptance. What You’ll Discover Why worthiness can never be earned, deserved, or given—it simply isHow your self-worth is rooted in your existence, not your accomplishmentsWhy chasing approval and outcomes leaves you feeling perpetually emptyHow to break free from fear-based philosophies about valueSimple, heart-centered practices to claim worthiness in daily lifeWhy your dreams and desires are gifts from something greater—even if you’ve doubted them Key Takeaway You are worthy—right now, as you are. No mistake, failure, or external opinion can dim the value that is yours simply because you live and breathe. Key Quote “There is nothing to get. There’s nothing to earn. There is nothing to deserve. You are worthy as you are, exactly as you are.” —Rhonda, Love Notes from Rhonda, “I Am Worthy” Resources Journal prompt: What would change if you claimed your worthiness today?Explore self-worth practices and encouragement at https://fearlessliving.org Invitation Repeat after Rhonda: “I am worthy.” Practice this every day, especially when doubt creeps in. Write it down, say it aloud, and notice how your spirit shifts. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with one friend who needs a reminder of their worth today. Reply and share your story—when have you claimed “I am worthy,” and what shifted for you? What does worthiness mean to you right now? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to help others find us.

    5 min
  7. Let My Words Wash Over You, Lovebirds!

    6 DAYS AGO

    Let My Words Wash Over You, Lovebirds!

    What if you could hear “I love you” exactly as you’ve always needed—from a voice that feels safe, healing, and true? In this special Valentine’s Day episode, Rhonda Britten offers unconditional love, standing in for anyone you’ve wished would say those words. Let this immersive love note wash over you, help you claim your worth, and open your heart to receiving love—right here, right now. Today is a day of love, and I invite you to soak it in. This episode is not just a Valentine’s Day celebration—it is your chance to experience the full presence of love, spoken straight into your heart. I repeat the words “I love you” for you—over and over—allowing you to claim it, know it, believe it. If you’ve ever longed for someone to say “I love you,” but never heard it, I stand in for that person. I offer forgiveness, compassion, and the permission to receive what has always been yours. We explore receiving love even when you struggle to believe you deserve it, and gently address the wounds that make love feel out of reach. This episode is your warm invitation to surrender—even for just a moment—and let yourself be loved, fully and fearlessly. What You’ll Discover How to allow yourself to receive love, even if it feels unfamiliarWhy hearing “I love you” so often can soften, heal, and open your heartThe power of standing in for the person you’ve always wished would tell you “I love you”Forgiving the past, releasing shame, and making space for lovePractices for letting “I love you” permeate your cells and become part of your daily life Key Takeaway You can claim love now—let these words fill you until you believe them: you are lovable, you are loved, and every part of you is worthy of love. Key Quote “Allow my words to wash over you, to permeate your cells. I love you. I love you. I love you.” “On this day of love, believe the sound of my voice is every voice you’ve ever wanted to hear saying the words, I love you.” (Rhonda) Resources Journal prompt: Who have you wished would say “I love you”—and what would it feel like to let Rhonda stand in for them, just for today?More encouragement, free journaling sheets, and daily support at https://fearlessliving.org Invitation Let yourself listen—really listen—to “I love you” today. Write down what you feel, and watch your reaction at the end of every episode. If this episode touched you, send it to one friend who needs a reminder of love today. Reply and share your story—when was the last time you let someone’s words of love truly soak in, and how did it feel? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to help others find us.

    4 min
  8. Release Your Baggage: The Secret to More Love

    6 DAYS AGO

    Release Your Baggage: The Secret to More Love

    Are you hanging on to relationships, memories, or pains that no longer serve you? In this heartfelt episode, Rhonda invites you to release, surrender, and let go—making space for more love, healing, and joy in your life. Discover how the act of letting go changes everything. Today, I want to talk about releasing, surrendering, and letting go, as we make way for more love in our hearts, souls, and every cell of our being. So often, we hang onto relationships and patterns—not because they serve us, but because they help us feel safe. But what if keeping anger, sadness, and frustration only keeps those cycles alive inside us? What are you willing to let go of, and who are you ready to release? In this episode, I guide you through a gentle practice to let go of hurt, heartache, and disappointment, inviting more love in. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by the past or afraid to open your heart, this episode is your invitation to surrender—with compassion, courage, and the promise that more love is waiting on the other side. What You’ll Discover Why holding onto anger, sadness, or resentment actually keeps old patterns aliveThe difference between releasing for safety and surrendering for growthHow to recognize relationships and soul contracts that no longer serve youA heartfelt practice to let go and make space for more love, right nowThe power of keeping the lessons—and letting go of the painHow surrender allows you to become fully yourself, open for love Key Takeaway Letting go is not loss—it’s the gateway to more love, freedom, and healing. When you release what no longer serves you, you create space for your true self to expand. Key Quote “I let go. I let go of the hurt. I let go of the sadness. I let go of the anger. I let go of the pain. I stand here now fully and completely myself, with all ties to the past that no longer serve me—broken, released, and surrendered.” — Rhonda Resources Journal prompt: What relationship or pattern are you ready to release? What would more love feel like in that space?Practice: Put your hand on your heart and repeat—“I am willing to release anything and everything that no longer serves me.”More tools and support: https://fearlessliving.org Invitation Take a moment today, hand on your heart, and let yourself say yes to release. If this episode helped, please send it to one friend who’s holding onto something today. Reply and share your story: What have you found yourself clinging to, and what changed when you were finally able to release or surrender? Subscribe and leave a quick rating to support our community.

    6 min

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What if hearing “I love you” could change your day? Love Notes from Rhonda is your daily virtual hug—truth, soul, and fearless encouragement, all in under 10 minutes. Emmy Award-winner Rhonda Britten offers real stories, neuroscience, and the reminder you’re already worthy. No fixing, no striving—just love. Subscribe and let yourself be loved every day.