Now Serving.. A Side of Therapy

Dalton Huckaby | Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | # 146802

🎧 Now Serving.. A Side of Therapy brings real conversations from the heart of Izzo Therapy — a bilingual, culturally responsive practice based in San Mateo and San Carlos. Hosted by Dalton Huckaby, each episode explores ADHD, mental health, identity, relationships, parenting, and healing. Whether you’re starting therapy, navigating life transitions, or simply curious about what happens beyond the couch, you’ll find connection, insight, and a side of real talk.

  1. 12 FEB

    There’s No Correct Way to Grieve (Part 2)

    Grief doesn’t follow a timeline.It doesn’t move in stages.And there is no “right” way to experience it.In Part 2 of this conversation, Dalton Huckaby continues his discussion with associate marriage and family therapist Lindsey Smith of Izzo Therapy, diving deeper into what it means to live with grief rather than trying to fix or outrun it.This episode focuses on how grief shows up over time — through memories, triggers, relationships, and moments of unexpected emotion — and how support systems play a critical role in helping people feel less alone in their experience. Lindsey reframes grief as something that can be befriended instead of resisted, offering a compassionate perspective that allows space for grief to evolve without judgment.Listeners are guided through practical and grounding concepts, including how to process triggers and memories when they arise, how to identify who can safely hold your grief, and how to build a personalized “grief kit” or emotional first-aid plan for moments when grief feels overwhelming. Rather than prescribing a one-size-fits-all approach, this episode emphasizes choice, self-awareness, and emotional regulation rooted in compassion.Part 2 reinforces a powerful truth: grief does not need to be rushed, minimized, or solved. It needs space, support, and tools that meet people where they are.This episode is for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone who is grieving, or wanting to better understand how grief can be carried with care over time.Why there is no “correct” way to grieveThe importance of support systems during griefProcessing triggers, memories, and remindersBefriending grief instead of fighting itCreating your own grief or emotional regulation kitAllowing grief to evolve over timeReducing shame and self-judgment around grief🎧 Now Serving TherapyHosted by Dalton Huckaby📅 Episode 027 — Recorded February 4Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube.🧠 Topics Covered

    20 min
  2. 11 FEB

    🎙️ Suck It Up and Move On? LMFT Mateus Porter

    What happens when young athletes are told to “tough it out”?In this episode, Mateus joins us to unpack the cultural pressure placed on athletic minors to suppress emotion, push through pain, and prioritize performance over mental health.We explore:The hidden emotional cost of “mental toughness”Supporting athletic minors in high-pressure environmentsHow family and coaching values shape behaviorThe difference between resilience and emotional suppressionHow identity gets tied to performanceWhat parents and coaches can do differentlyHow therapy can support young athletesSports can build discipline, confidence, and community — but when achievement becomes identity, young athletes can struggle silently.This episode challenges the “suck it up” mentality and invites a more balanced, emotionally informed approach to youth sports.If you’re a parent, coach, clinician, or former athlete — this conversation is for you.🎙️ Now Serving Therapy🔎 SEO Keywords (YouTube Description Add-On)youth sports mental healthsupporting athletic minorsteen athlete anxietysports performance pressuremental toughness vs emotional healththerapy for athletesparenting young athletesidentity and performance📱 Instagram CaptionEp028: Suck It Up and Move On?How many young athletes are taught to ignore their feelings in the name of performance?In this episode, Mateus talks about:⚽ Supporting athletic minors💭 How values shape behavior🏆 When performance becomes identity🧠 The mental health cost of “toughing it out”There’s a difference between resilience and emotional suppression — and that difference matters.If you’re raising, coaching, or working with young athletes, this one is important.🎧 Link in bio.#NowServingTherapy #YouthSports #TeenMentalHealth #ParentingAthletes #SportsPsychology #TherapyPodcast

    24 min
  3. 29 JAN

    26. Understanding Grief and Loss with Lindsey Smith AMFT | Izzo MFT, P.C. |

    Defining Grief: Why Healing Is Non-Linear Grief is not something we “get over.” It is something we learn how to live with. In the Season 2 premiere of Now Serving Therapy, host Dalton Huckaby is joined by associate marriage and family therapist Lindsey Smith of Izzo Therapy for a thoughtful and compassionate conversation about grief, loss, and healing. This episode explores why grief is deeply personal and non-linear, and why the pressure to “move on” or follow a set timeline can make healing more difficult. Lindsey and Dalton challenge common misconceptions about grief stages, explain where those ideas came from, and clarify why grief does not unfold in a predictable order. Together, they discuss how grief lives not only in our emotions, but also in the body, relationships, identity, and sense of meaning. Lindsey emphasizes the importance of grounding and somatic practices to create safety before attempting to process grief, while Dalton reflects on how cultural expectations around productivity and performance often discourage people from slowing down and tending to emotional pain. The conversation also covers practical tools for coping with grief as it comes in waves. Lindsey shares supportive practices such as journaling, writing letters to loved ones who have passed, creating personal or family grief rituals, and building an individualized emotional regulation “first aid kit” to use during overwhelming moments. Listeners are encouraged to identify their own grief triggers and to practice self-compassion when grief resurfaces unexpectedly. Rather than viewing grief as something to overcome, this episode reframes grief as an experience that evolves over time — one that can be carried differently with support, awareness, and care. Lindsey also highlights the importance of seeking professional help sooner rather than later, noting that emotional pain deserves the same attention and care as physical injury. This episode is for anyone navigating loss, supporting someone who is grieving, or wanting to better understand the realities of grief before a loss occurs. What grief really is and how it shows up Why grief is non-linear and unpredictable Debunking myths about grief stages and timelines How grief lives in the body (somatic responses) Grounding practices for emotional safety Journaling, letter-writing, and grief rituals Understanding grief as waves and identifying triggers Emotional regulation tools for overwhelming moments Setting boundaries while grieving When and why to seek professional support 🎧 Now Serving Therapy Hosted by Dalton Huckaby 📅 Season 2 Premiere — December 19, 2025 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. 🧠 Topics Covered

    28 min
  4. 15 JAN

    Ep. 024 (Part 1): CORA — Supporting Those Impacted by Domestic Abuse

    In this episode of Now Serving: A Side of Therapy, we’re joined by Elliana from CORA, an organization dedicated to supporting individuals and families impacted by domestic abuse. This conversation focuses on building understanding — not only of what domestic abuse looks like, but also how it affects people emotionally, relationally, and psychologically. We explore how abuse can show up in many forms, why it’s often misunderstood, and what meaningful support actually looks like for those experiencing it. Topics covered in this episode include:• Who CORA is and the services they provide• How domestic abuse is defined and recognized• Common myths and misconceptions about abuse• Why abuse is not always physical• The grief and loss that often accompany abusive experiences• How communities and support systems can respond with care and accountability This episode is designed for clinicians, caregivers, loved ones, and anyone seeking to better understand domestic abuse and how to support those impacted by it with compassion and clarity. ⚠️ Content note: This episode includes discussion of domestic abuse, grief, and loss. Listener discretion is advised. 🎙️ Now Serving: A Side of Therapy is a mental health podcast focused on real conversations about therapy, healing, and human experience — created to help listeners feel informed, supported, and less alone. ▶️ Part 2 of this conversation continues next episode.

    23 min

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🎧 Now Serving.. A Side of Therapy brings real conversations from the heart of Izzo Therapy — a bilingual, culturally responsive practice based in San Mateo and San Carlos. Hosted by Dalton Huckaby, each episode explores ADHD, mental health, identity, relationships, parenting, and healing. Whether you’re starting therapy, navigating life transitions, or simply curious about what happens beyond the couch, you’ll find connection, insight, and a side of real talk.