Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. Chaps Out Culture: Alex recommends Wildhood

    5 DAYS AGO ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Alex recommends Wildhood

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Alex, who shares powerful LGBTQ+ film and TV recommendations that have shaped and inspired him. From the 2021 Canadian independent film, Wildhood- a heartfelt story of identity, love, and reconnecting with heritage- to classic series like Six Feet Under, exploring self-acceptance and complex relationships, this conversation dives deep into stories that resonate across the community.Alex also acknowledges the impactful EastEnders storyline between Christian and Syed which began in 2009 and reflected on cultural pressures, identity, and the very real consequences of living a life that isn’t true to yourself.It’s an honest, thoughtful chat about representation, Alex’s personal journey, and the media that helps us understand who we are.If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/#LGBTQ #LGBTQPlus #QueerCulture #QueerVoices #Pride #LGBTQCommunity #QueerStories #RepresentationMatters #GayFilm #QueerCinema #IndieFilm #Wildhood #SixFeetUnder #EastEnders #TVRecommendations #FilmRecommendations #Podcast #PodcastClip #YouTubePodcast #ChapsOut #ChapsOutCulture #LoveIsLove #Identity #SelfAcceptance #QueerMedia Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    5 min
  2. Coming Out at 26: Alex | CHAPS OUT

    28 APR

    Coming Out at 26: Alex | CHAPS OUT

    Content note: This conversation includes experiences of homophobia, cultural pressure, and mental health challengesIn this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by Alex, who shares what it was like growing up between the UK and Nigeria in a deeply religious environment, where being gay “put the fear of God” in him and safety was never guaranteed. He opens up about the pressure to conform, the impact on his mental health, and the long, complex journey to coming out in his late twenties. From fear and isolation to self-acceptance, Alex reflects on finding the strength to live openly, reminding us that it’s a lonely road to walk, but it’s worth getting there. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    21 min
  3. Chaps Out Culture: Shaun Coram unboxes 'Hedwig & The Angry Inch'

    24 APR ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Shaun Coram unboxes 'Hedwig & The Angry Inch'

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Shaun Coram to share his LGBTQ+ recommendation: 2001 FILM, Hedwig and the Angry Inch. From its gritty Berlin origins to its rise as a cult rock musical, Shaun explores the film’s unique blend of raw emotion and high-energy glam rock, highlighting standout moments and songs like “Wig in a Box” and “The Angry Inch.” He talks about how the soundtrack hits just as hard outside the film, and why this underrated classic continues to resonate so deeply- especially for those on their own journey of self-discovery. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #GayPodcast #LGBTQPodcast #HedwigAndTheAngryInch #QueerCinema #CultMusical #RockMusical #Pride #LGBTQRepresentation #IndieFilm #MusicalTheatre #GlamRock #QueerStories #ComingOut #PodcastClip #ChapsOutCulture Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    5 min
  4. Coming Out Later: Shaun Coram

    21 APR

    Coming Out Later: Shaun Coram

    In this episode of Chaps Out, Grant Philpott speaks with Shaun Coram who shares his story of coming out later in life and opens up about navigating married life, fatherhood, identity, and the emotional journey that led him to finally live authentically. From early signs he didn’t fully understand, to the realities of coming out in midlife during his marriage, Shaun reflects with honesty, humour, and hard-earned perspective on what it truly means to start again. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    20 min
  5. Chaps Out Culture: Elliot Juby's recommendations

    17 APR ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Elliot Juby's recommendations

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Elliot Juby who highlights some important TV and films that influenced his life and helped him make sense of his journey. From the emotional impact of ‘All of Us Strangers’ to the camp joy of ‘The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert’ and the depth of ‘Bad Education’, Elliot reflects on how queer storytelling gave him the conversations and emotional connections he didn’t always have in real life. Elliot also recommends the films Y Tu Mamá También and I’m So Excited!, as well as the original UK version of groundbreaking TV series Queer as Folk as some of his favourite influences. Elliot talks about representation, chosen family, and how LGBTQ+ stories can become a form of healing when real-life conversations are missing. A moving and personal exploration of queer culture and the importance of being seen. If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #chapsout #chapsoutculture #lgbtqpodcast #queervoices #queerstories #representationmatters #chosenfamily #comingoutjourney #queerculture #GayUK #ukpodcast #podcastrecommendations #allofusstrangers #PriscillaQueenOfTheDesert #badeducation #YTuMamaTambien #ImSoExcited #queerasfolk #queercinema #LGBTQFilms #queertv #filmrecommendations Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min
  6. Coming Out at 31: Disowned, I made a family- Elliot Juby | CHAPS OUT

    14 APR

    Coming Out at 31: Disowned, I made a family- Elliot Juby | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, Grant Philpott speaks with Elliot Juby who shares his journey growing up in a Jehovah’s Witness family, leaving the religion at 19, and coming out multiple times across different stages of his life. Elliot discusses the profound impact of being rejected by his family due to his sexuality and how he rebuilt his life from scratch. He demonstrates his resilience and the importance of having the support of his friends. The conversation explores the emotional reality of living authentically, when it comes at a cost and touches on loss, mental health, and self-acceptance. A deeply honest discussion about rebuilding life, finding strength in community, and learning to be yourself at any age. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ChapsOut #podcast #uk #British #Men #comingout #LaterInLife #lgbtq #mentalwellness #LGBTQPodcast #GayMen #ComingOutLaterInLife #AuthenticLiving #comingoutlaterinlife #lgbtqstories #latebloomer #LGBTQUK #GayPodcast #QueerVoices#authenticliving #ItsNeverTooLate #pride #GayUK #MenWhoLoveMen #PodcastRecommendation #queerstories Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    41 min
  7. Chaps Out Culture: Grant Philpott on Midnight Cowboy

    10 APR ·  BONUS

    Chaps Out Culture: Grant Philpott on Midnight Cowboy

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, regular host, Grant Philpott is joined once again by guest ‘takeover’ host, Jonathan Welford, who returns to turn the spotlight on Grant’s personal queer cultural recommendation. Their conversation explores the classic 1969 film Midnight Cowboy, which Grant describes as his all-time favourite for its emotional depth, complex relationship between its male lead characters, and iconic soundtrack featuring artists like Harry Nilsson and Elephant’s Memory. They reflect on how the film captures themes of loneliness, connection, and survival, while also discussing how queer stories were historically portrayed on screen. Jonathan also shares his own recommendations, including lesser-known German LGBTQ+ comedies, ‘Regular Guys’ (1996) & ‘Balls’ (2004) that bring a lighter, more humorous take on identity and relationships. The episode celebrates the power of film and media in shaping queer narratives, highlighting both the heavier, darker, more nuanced stories of the past and the more playful, diverse representations that have followed.If you’re passionate about queer culture, LGBTQ+ history, meaningful conversations, or uncovering hidden cultural treasures, this episode is made for you. Subscribe to Chaps Out to catch new episodes and be part of these vital discussions. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod & https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    9 min

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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com