Chaps Out

Men Coming Out Later in Life

UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com

  1. 21 Jul

    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott meets Graham who shares what it was like to come out at the age of 47 after years of hiding who he was. Married with two children, he spent decades wrestling with fear, shame and the worry that telling the truth would cost him the people he loved most. Then, on one day in July 2000, everything changed.Graham talks candidly about the moment he realised he could no longer live a lie, the surprising reactions from family and friends, the relief that followed, and why he believes "the most difficult person I had to come out to was myself." He also reflects on catastrophising, the fear of rejection, finding love later in life, and why he says, "You are the same person as you were yesterday before you came out." If you've ever questioned whether it's too late to live authentically, Graham's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be yourself.If this conversation resonated with you, remember: you are not alone. If you'd like to hear more from Graham, make sure you listen to the companion episode, Chaps Out Culture.If you enjoyed this episode, please like, rate, review and share the podcast, because it really helps more people find these conversations. And please subscribe or follow Chaps Out wherever you tune in.And if you grew up in the UK or Ireland and would like to share your coming out later in life story on the podcast, you can email me at chapsout@gmail.com. Thanks again for listening to Chaps Out. And as always, take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #ComingOut #ComingOutStory #LGBTQ #Gay #LaterInLife #Authenticity #MentalHealth #ChapsOut #Podcast #personalstory Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 47: Graham | CHAPS OUT
  2. 17 Jul ·  Bonus

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture- the companion podcast to #ChapsOut- host Grant Philpott is joined again by guest Steve, who shares some of his LGBTQ+ cultural highlights.He chooses the film 4th Man Out and TV series Big Boys. While each tells a very different story, both celebrate friendship, identity and the courage to embrace who you are. Whether it's navigating university life, coming out or redefining masculinity, these two recommendations remind us that growing up is rarely straightforward- but it's always worth the journey. Join us as we explore two funny, moving and uplifting queer coming-of-age stories that prove there's no single path from boys to men. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out the full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care.If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #LGBTQ #QueerCulture #Podcast #ChapsOut #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #RepresentationMatters #4thManOut #BigBoys #LGBTQStories #LGBTQHistory #PodcastRecommendations #ListenNow #QueerMedia #LGBTQCommunity #InclusiveVoices Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Chaps Out Culture: Steve recommends...
  3. 14 Jul

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of Chaps Out, host Grant Philpott is joined by Steve who shares his coming out story. Steve spent over 30 years hiding who he really was. Growing up in the UK during the 1980s, he convinced himself that if anyone discovered he was gay, he would lose everything. It wasn't until he was 40 that he found the courage to tell his wife, his children, his parents and the people closest to him. Steve shares the fear, shame and hope that shaped his journey, and why he now says, "My head was my biggest demon." This is a powerful conversation about coming out later in life, overcoming fear, and discovering that the reality was very different from the one he'd imagined. If you're questioning your own path, or supporting someone on theirs, Steve's story is one you won't forget. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 40: Steve | CHAPS OUT
  4. 3 Jul ·  Bonus

    Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..

    In this episode of Chaps Out Culture, host Grant Philpott welcomes back World Champion swimmer Mark Foster, one of Britain's most celebrated athletes, for a warm and nostalgic conversation about the LGBTQ+ culture that has shaped and inspired them. Together, they discuss music that defined their youth, including Soft Cell, while reflecting on the enduring power of 1980s pop and its connection to identity and memory. Mark also shares his love for the acclaimed drama, This Is Us. He also mentions his new autobiography, My Double Life. This episode offers a nostalgic look at the sounds, stories and experiences from growing up in Essex. If you enjoyed this episode of Chaps Out Culture please subscribe or follow wherever you listen, give us a 5 star rating and Share to help the podcast reach anyone who may need to hear it. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out Mark's full interview on the main episode of Chaps Out. Thanks again for listening and take care. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ #MarkFoster #WorldChampionSwimmer #Olympian #LGBTQPodcast #GayPodcast #LGBTQCulture #ComingOut #80sMusic #SoftCell #MyDoubleLife #ThisIsUs #PodcastInterview #ChapsOutCulture Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Chaps Out Culture: Mark Foster recommends..
  5. 9 Jun

    Coming Out at 44: Dave Turner | CHAPS OUT

    In this episode of #ChapsOut, host Grant Philpott is joined by Dave Turner who shares his journey of coming out at 44 and how one life-changing decision transformed not only his own life, but his relationship with his daughter. From years of hiding his true self to discovering the courage to live openly, Dave reflects on fatherhood, authenticity, resilience, and the unexpected rewards of stepping into who you really are. This is a moving story about courage, family, and the profound impact that honesty can have on the people we love most. If you've ever struggled with being yourself, faced a difficult life decision, or wondered whether authenticity is worth the risk, this episode is for you. Chaps Out is a UK-based podcast giving voice to perspectives you don’t often hear. We provide relatable, uplifting, and positive conversations that offer encouragement, affirmation, and support for anyone on the journey of coming out, while celebrating and supporting bisexual and gay men. Subscribe to Chaps Out for new episodes and join us having these important conversations. Please rate & review, it helps the podcast reach the people who may need to hear it. If you’d like to support Chaps Out and help with running costs and keep the conversations flowing, amplifying voices and inspiring others, you can contribute at https://Ko-Fi.com/chapsoutpod& https://chapsoutpod.substack.com/ Don’t miss our companion podcast, CHAPS OUT CULTURE, where guests recommend their favourite LGBTQ+ inspired art, music, literature, film, theatre, and TV. #ComingOut #LGBTQ #Bisexual #ComingOutStory #Fatherhood #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #LGBTQStories #ChapsOut Get full access to ChapsOutPod's Substack at chapsoutpod.substack.com/subscribe

    Coming Out at 44: Dave Turner | CHAPS OUT

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UK-based podcast where men share their stories of coming out later-in-life. chapsoutpod.substack.com