Full But Not Finished

Stefanie Michele
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Full But Not Finished is for anyone who's tried to "just stop eating when you're full" and realized it's never that simple. Hosted by Somatic and Intuitive Eating counselor and coach Stefanie Michele, this podcast dives into the ongoing work of recovery -- where fullness doesn't always mean satisfaction, and where food, body image, and nervous system work is never finished. Each episode unpacks the psychology, nervous system patterns, and cultural conditioning that shape eating behaviors, showing why willpower alone doesn't work and what real regulation looks like. If you've lived the binge–restrict cycle, felt trapped in body image spirals, or wondered why "normal eating" feels out of reach, this is where we make sense of it — not with rules, but with integration, somatic tools, and a more human way forward.

  1. HACE 1 DÍA

    19. I Need Help! Five Things I Needed to Help Me Recover from Decades of Food Noise and Body Image Anxiety

    If you're in recovery and you keep hitting the same walls, you might need more help than you want to admit. In this episode, I'm talking about what it looked like for me to recruit support during my all-in recovery from years of binge eating + restriction, and why it can feel so loaded to say, "I can't do this by myself right now." Here's what we get into:  Why needing help can feel like a character flaw when you're used to being capable The specific kind of overwhelm that makes "self-help" tools bounce right off How having a small "buffer" can change what you're able to tolerate in recovery  What it means when support creates stability so the actual healing work can happen The guilt math of asking for more help when you already feel like you ask for too much Why "accepting help" doesn't work if you're still punishing yourself for needing it What specialized support can do that love and reassurance can't (even when someone means well) The relief of making a clear decision in a hard season so you're not renegotiating everything daily A practical way to handle the inner critic: "not right now — we'll revisit later" How letting your body be part of the process can become a form of support, even if you're skeptical at first If you're in a season where recovery is asking more of you than you expected, this episode will make that feel a lot more normal. RESOURCES: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating Self-Study Course Read my Substack essays Read my short-form content on Instagram

    41 min

  2. 4 FEB

    18. From Burnout to Wintering: When Your Nervous System Is Afraid to Slow Down

    Many of us live in a nervous system state where movement, productivity, and momentum feel like safety. Slowing down doesn't feel restful — it feels threatening. And when the body starts asking for less, the mind often panics and tries to think, plan, or "fix" its way out. This episode explores what happens at the edge of capacity, when exhaustion collides with fear, and your system begins demanding a different pace. ✨ Why slowing down can feel terrifying even when you're exhausted ✨ How a lot of "motivation" is actually fear dressed up as productivity ✨ The difference between intuition and fear when your energy starts dropping ✨ "Wintering" — seasons where your system asks for less, whether you agree or not (from Wintering by Katherine May) ✨ How the body eventually forces a slowdown when the mind keeps trying to plan its way out ✨ Why consuming more content and "trying harder" often makes things worse ✨ A simple 10% practice: slowing speech, movement, and pace just enough to feel the body again The episode also connects this to eating disorder recovery, body image work, and nervous system healing — especially the pressure to keep fixing yourself, keep learning, and keep doing recovery "right," instead of allowing space for integration. Mentioned: Wintering (Wintering), Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals (Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals). RESOURCES: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating Self-Study Course Read my Substack essays Read my short-form content on Instagram

    39 min

  3. 28 ENE

    17. Perimenopause + Body Image: Can You "Prevent" Menopause Weight Gain? (Q&A)

    *]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "39bccc61-ca95-45a2-a4d3-fc20b519f985" data-testid= "conversation-turn-8" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> In this Q&A episode, I answer three listener questions that sit right at the intersection of body image, recovery, hormones, and nervous system patterns—especially in midlife. First: a listener in perimenopause is struggling with body acceptance and has convinced herself she needs to lose weight now to "get ahead" of the weight gain she expects menopause will bring. We start by naming what this fear is really asking for, and what it costs to try to solve it through control. Second: a listener notices a strong sense of urgency around cooking—food feels allowed and safe, but the act of cooking feels rushed, and the restless energy doesn't stop after the meal. We look at what urgency can mean when it's more about physiology than food rules, and why it shows up differently depending on context. Third: a listener asks about eating with PMS and describes extreme hunger and cravings for higher-calorie, processed foods in the week before her period. We talk about how to relate to cyclical hunger without turning it into panic, moral judgment, or a new restriction project. If you have a question you want me to answer on a future Q&A, send it in—and if you enjoy the show, a rating/review helps more people find it.   RESOURCES: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating Self-Study Course Read my Substack essay Read my short-form content on Instagram

    37 min

  4. 21 ENE

    16. The 4 Types of Restriction That Drive Binge Eating

    Restriction doesn't only mean "eating less." It can also mean living with food rules in your head, shutting down emotions you don't know how to hold, or staying stuck in a stress state without relief. Any of those experiences can create a scarcity of safety, and scarcity is one of the biggest drivers of binge eating and overeating. This episode breaks down four types of restriction: • Physical restriction: not eating enough for your body (including subtle versions like portion control, cutting out food groups, or unintentionally under-eating during the day) • Mental restriction: the constant "I shouldn't," guilt, and food rules—even when you're eating plenty • Emotional restriction: using food to shut down feelings before they move through • Nervous system restriction: when your stress cycle stays open and food becomes a safety cue or a way to come back down If you've ever felt confused because you eat "normally" (or a lot) and still binge, this will help you understand what's actually driving the pattern and where to start. RESOURCES: Binge Eating to Intuitive Eating Self-Study Course Read my Substack essay Read my short-form content on Instagram

    56 min

  5. 14 ENE

    15. When Your Clothes Don't Fit... and You Want to Binge?

    Ever feel bad about your body and go straight to food? That moment feels confusing, self-defeating, and impossible to explain to anyone who hasn't lived it. This episode is about that moment — why it happens, what's actually driving it, and why the reaction makes far more sense than you've been told. Inside this conversation, we look at the psychological and nervous-system dynamics that turn body image distress into powerful eating urges, and why the more you care about your body, the more intense this loop can become. In this episode, you'll learn: • why body image distress creates all-or-nothing thinking and urgency • how mood-congruent cognition makes your thoughts spiral to match the mood • why the nervous system prioritizes escaping immediate discomfort, even when it creates more later • how binge urges can come from both collapse/soothing and mobilized, high-energy stress • why "self-punishment" is often about control, predictability, and making pain make sense • how the rebel/protector part responds to the invisible labor of body-image panic • why your brain anticipates restriction before you ever change a single behavior • and how slowing down becomes the doorway back to choice This conversation connects binge eating, body image, trauma, nervous system regulation, and scarcity psychology — giving language to a pattern that a lot of people live inside, but rarely understand. Work with me If you want support applying these ideas, I offer 1:1 coaching for binge eating recovery, intuitive eating, and body image healing. Apply here!

    43 min

  6. 7 ENE

    14. Why Restriction Feels Calming: Nervous System Dysregulation + Food Control

    For years I have talked about binge eating, compulsive eating, and the binge & restrict cycle — and how chaotic and dysregulated those patterns feel in the body. But what if restriction itself is also a form of nervous system dysregulation? In this episode, I break down how food restriction shows up inside the four trauma responses — fight, flight, freeze, and fawn — using polyvagal theory, nervous system regulation, and real lived experience to give it context. I also announce that my SENSR course is open for enrollment: all of the details are right here! In this episode, you'll learn: • why restriction can be an expression of anger and control (fight) • how chronic dieting becomes emotional avoidance and hyper-vigilance (flight) • why restriction is often about belonging, approval, and social safety (fawn) • how food restriction becomes self-punishment, penance, and disappearing after trauma (freeze) • how the body uses restriction to regulate overwhelm, threat, and emotional overload • why both binge eating and restriction are attempts at safety, not failures of character • how diet culture, weight stigma, and cultural power feed these nervous system loops • and why true healing requires learning how to complete stress cycles and build regulation without food control This conversation connects ED recovery, intuitive eating, body image, trauma, somatic therapy, and nervous system education — showing how our relationship with food is inseparable from how our body experiences safety, threat, and connection. If you struggle with restriction or periods of restriction, this episode offers a radically different lens — your nervous system is trying to protect you. Work with me If you want support applying these ideas to your actual life (not just your notes app), I offer 1:1 coaching for binge eating recovery, intuitive eating, and body image healing. Apply here! If this episode helps, subscribe and leave a rating or review—it's the best way to support the podcast and get this message out there!

    39 min

  7. 31/12/2025

    13. The January Trap: Last-Supper Eating, Gym Diet Culture, and Food Gifts [Q&A]

    If you're already thinking about how to "fix" your eating in 2026, listen to this first.    This Q&A episode covers three of the biggest pressure points people hit at the end of December and the start of January:   Last Supper eating, diet-culture talk in fitness spaces, and the anger that can come from getting food gifts from friends in their own food dysfunction.   I'm answering these questions with a grounded, anti-diet lens that helps you stay out of the reset → restrict → rebound cycle and move into the New Year in a more regulated way.   Q&A topics in this episode:   ⭐ New Year "start fresh" → Last Supper eating: why it happens, how it restarts the binge–restrict cycle, and what helps you stay out of the loop ⭐ Diet culture in fitness spaces: how to handle "work off the holiday calories" messaging, how to set boundaries, and what to look for in more weight-neutral/body-inclusive movement environments ⭐ Food gifts: when food gifts feel emotionally loaded, why that can be activating, and how to protect your relationship with food without turning it into a power struggle   SENSR COURSE OPENS JANUARY 2026 -- Save your seat here: https://www.iamstefaniemichele.com/sensr   You'll also hear...   ✨ The "fishing rod" visualization: noticing when your mind is 50 feet in the future and reeling it back into today ✨ How to tell grounded goals from hype: the physical difference between calm steadiness vs. "jazzy" urgent energy ✨ A language swap for goals that doesn't turn into food rules ✨ The "spam filter" method for diet-culture talk  ✨ What to do with the energy of anger   If you're navigating binge eating recovery, chronic dieting history, emotional eating, or "healthy eating" obsession, this episode gives you a steadier way to approach the New Year.   Subscribe for more Q&A episodes and conversations on binge eating recovery, body image, diet culture, nervous system regulation, and building a sustainable relationship with food.    BODY INCLUSIVE FITNESS STARTER PACK Louise Green Jessamyn Stanley Amy Snelling of The Snack Pass Meg Boggs SITA Size Inclusive Training Superfit Hero Body Positive Fitness Joyful Inclusive Movement  Search terms: weight inclusive fitness or body positive fitness  Apply to work with me: www.iamstefaniemichele.com/application

    43 min

  8. 24/12/2025

    12. Why Am I So Nostalgic? On being a highly sensitive person

    Nostalgia, body image, and high sensitivity are connected—and this episode explains why. This is for highly sensitive people who experience nostalgia as a full-body emotional event. Do you notice that when the past gets stirred, food and body stuff gets louder? Songs, places, photos, endings, and transitions don't just bring up memories, they can trigger urges to control food, reconsider our appearance, check, plan, restrict, overeat, or isolate. In this episode, we cover: Why highly sensitive nervous systems experience nostalgia as embodied memory, not just thought How childhood and adolescence can leave open stress loops that keep pulling us back Why food and body control can become a reliable way to contain emotional overwhelm Why you can feel pulled toward a time in your life that was actually painful or unstable Why longing for an old body and old coping patterns is often about unresolved emotional safety What recovery looks like when the buffer is gone and emotions come back online How to feel deeply without getting swallowed by it You'll also get a practical way to work with this when it hits: how to recognize the moment nostalgia arrives, how to give your body a short, contained window to feel what's there, and how to return to the present on purpose through simple routines that re-anchor you. Work with me If you want support applying these ideas to your actual life (not just your notes app), I offer 1:1 coaching for binge eating recovery, intuitive eating, and body image healing. Apply here! If this episode helps, subscribe and leave a rating or review—it's the easiest way to support the podcast and get this message out there!

    39 min
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Full But Not Finished is for anyone who's tried to "just stop eating when you're full" and realized it's never that simple. Hosted by Somatic and Intuitive Eating counselor and coach Stefanie Michele, this podcast dives into the ongoing work of recovery -- where fullness doesn't always mean satisfaction, and where food, body image, and nervous system work is never finished. Each episode unpacks the psychology, nervous system patterns, and cultural conditioning that shape eating behaviors, showing why willpower alone doesn't work and what real regulation looks like. If you've lived the binge–restrict cycle, felt trapped in body image spirals, or wondered why "normal eating" feels out of reach, this is where we make sense of it — not with rules, but with integration, somatic tools, and a more human way forward.

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  • Creador
    Stefanie Michele
  • Años de actividad
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodios
    19
  • Clasificación
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    © 2025
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