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The podcast exploring Sex, Relationships, and Liberation. Nicole, MA, (she/her), is a Queer, Non-Monogamous Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, Trauma-Informed Certified Yoga Instructor, and Doctoral Student in Clinical Psychology training in Psychedelic Integration Therapy. She is one of the leading academic theorists on expansive relationship styles and playfully embodied sexulity. Each activist on the show will nominate the next guest for a de-centered and ever-evolving journey of pleasure liberation. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

Modern Anarchy Nicole Thompson, M.A.

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The podcast exploring Sex, Relationships, and Liberation. Nicole, MA, (she/her), is a Queer, Non-Monogamous Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, Trauma-Informed Certified Yoga Instructor, and Doctoral Student in Clinical Psychology training in Psychedelic Integration Therapy. She is one of the leading academic theorists on expansive relationship styles and playfully embodied sexulity. Each activist on the show will nominate the next guest for a de-centered and ever-evolving journey of pleasure liberation. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn More: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

    160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill

    160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill

    On today’s episode, we have queer sex educator and podcaster Em Hill (She/Her) join us for a conversation about healing from sexual trauma to embodying empowerment. Together we talk about the mindfuck of doming cis-men, the subversion of role play, and the life-long exploration of our erotic narratives.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/160-updating-freud-on-the-penis-envy-thing-with-em

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

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    Em’s Community:

    Em is a queer sex educator focusing on middle school and high school and host of Sexistentialist, a podcast that seeks to normalize any and all safe and consensual sexuality experiences for adults.

    Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/sexistentialistpod/

    • 1 hr 14 min
    159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner

    159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner

    On today’s episode, we have Allen Turner (He/Him) join us for a conversation about creating narratives of play and nourishing connections. Together we talk about boldly embracing your authenticity, learning to practice love, and stepping into the flow state of play.

    Relationship Reflection : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipreflection

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: ⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice⁠⁠

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/159-finding-sexual-play-and-presence-through-narrative-theory-with-allen-turner

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Allen’s Community:

    Allen Turner designer/artist/storyteller/dancer/teacher believes in play and stories and the emergent moments that arise in between are powerful medicines that help us find our place and nourishment in the world.

    Website : crowmagics.com

    Resources to Learn More :

    Johari Window : https://www.communicationtheory.org/the-johari-window-model/

    • 1 hr 7 min
    158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas

    158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas

    On today’s episode, we have Kristen Thomas (she/her) join us for a conversation about our cultural shift towards more expansive pleasure. Together we talk about unpacking why you might be nervous at your first play party, telling your mom about your first threesome, and embracing the fluidity of our sexuality.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice⁠

    Transcript: ⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/158-liberating-non-monogamous-play-and-your-birthright-to-sexual-pleasure-with-kristen-thomas

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Kristen's Community :

    Website : https://www.openthedoorscoaching.com/

    Resources to Learn More :

    All or Nothing Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781101984345

    Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/e4c490ce/134-healing-from-the-grooming-of-purity-culture-with-dr-rachel-smith

    Sexual satisfaction among individuals in monogamous and consensually non-monogamous relationships: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-13429-005

    Are there “Better” and “Worse” Ways to be Consensually
    Non-Monogamous (CNM)?: CNM Types and CNM-Specific Predictors of Dyadic Adjustment https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02027-3

    The more the merrier? New study suggests polyamorists may have more satisfying relationships: https://www.cbc.ca/life/wellness/the-more-the-merrier-new-study-suggests-polyamorists-may-have-more-satisfying-relationships-1.4681382

    • 1 hr 12 min
    157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline

    157. Relationship Anarchist: Sarah Caroline

    On today’s episode, we have Sarah Caroline (she/her) join us for a research conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below.

    RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠⁠

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/157-relationship-anarchist-sarah-caroline

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith

    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Sarah Caroline’s community:

    Ny Times Article : https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/30/fashion/weddings/sarah-lenz-stephen-paskey-wedding.html?unlocked_article_code=1.N00.XYtp.uh0ce93H4sqB&smid=url-share

    Resources to Learn more:

    Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/109-the-relationship-anarchy-smorgasboard-and-finding-queer-belonging-with-maxx-hill

    • 1 hr
    156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris

    156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris

    On today’s episode, we have professional dominatrix Mistress Wild Iris (She/Her) join us for a conversation about exploring our psyches through BDSM and fantasy. Together we talk about confronting your shadow in play, the power of the priestess archetype, and surrendering to the keys of your erotic liberation.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/156-unlocking-your-inner-dominatrix-and-finding-erotic-catharsis-with-mistress-wild-iris

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith



    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Mistress Wild Iris:

    Website: https://www.mistresswildiris.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/MxWildIris

    • 59 min
    155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss

    155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss

    On today’s episode, we have psychedelic activist Tony Moss (He/Him) join us for a conversation exploring the relational impact of psychedelics. Together we talk about the importance of examining your set and setting, seeing your relational patterns from a new perspective, and finding your own spiritual empowerment with psychedelics.

    If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/155-the-relational-power-of-psychedelics-spirituality-and-integration-with-tony-moss

    Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith



    Modern Anarchy Community:

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.modernanarchypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Tony's Community:

    Tony Moss is a recording artist, producer, and creative director at I.AM.LIFE MUSIC, with over 25 years of experience working with plant medicines and psychedelics.

    Website: https://www.tonymoss.me/



    Resources to Learn More:

    Harm Reduction with Irina : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/2a5e0581/128-whats-your-cage-drug-use-pleasure-enhancement-and-harm-reduction-with-irina-alexander

    Rat Park: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNeSkyHccmo

    The Immortality Keys : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781250803986

    The Four Agreements : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781878424310

    Millionaires own a record 45% of the world’s wealth : https://www.cnbc.com/2017/06/14/millionaires-own-a-record-45-percent-of-the-worlds-wealth--and-their-share-is-growing.html

    • 1 hr 18 min

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