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  1. 12 MAY

    Real Christian Answers To AWKWARD Relationship Questions

    Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married? In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage. Nothing is off limits. Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud. We’ll talk about: What is actually happening when you “get the ick” Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning How to recognize and respond to gaslighting How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary Why Jesus never got married even though God said it’s not good for man to be alone How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation Whether you have to take your husband’s last name This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level. If you’ve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll: 1. Fornication — sex before marriage 1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3–5; Heb 13:4 2. Adultery — sex with someone outside of your spouse Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27–28; Heb 13:4 3. Polygamy — God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesn’t prescribe it Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4–6; 1 Tim 3:2 4. Rape Deut 22:25–27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10 5. Incest Lev 18:6–18; Lev 20:11–21; 1 Cor 5:1 6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26–27; 1 Cor 6:9–10; 1 Tim 1:10 7. Bestiality Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15–16 8. Prostitution Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3–5; 1 Cor 6:15–16 9. Sexual immorality (porneia) — catch-all Greek term — lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography Matt 5:27–28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3 10. Pagan sexual activity — sex tied to the worship of false gods or one’s own sexual gratification as an idol Ex 34:15–16; Num 25:1–3; 1 Cor 10:7–8; Rev 2:14, 20 On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list “anything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.” ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448  ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/cj_YfsT1yl0  God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    44 min

  2. 28 ABR

    Asking Older Christian Men (50, 60, 70) What Today’s Dating Culture Gets WRONG

    What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t? After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith. So we did. We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked them the same questions our generation is asking about dating, love, sex, and commitment. This conversation is less about trends and more about truth that will endure through time. We’ll talk about: How their view of attraction and what really matters has changed over time What romance actually looks like after decades of marriage The biggest mistakes they made that younger people should avoid What they see in today’s dating culture that is harmful or foolish What actually keeps a marriage alive for 30, 40, 50 years How to keep pursuing your spouse long after the honeymoon phase What they would tell their 25 year old selves about relationships What they think about porn, hookup culture, and sexual temptation today How to build a marriage that lasts through hard seasons The most important qualities to look for in a spouse What they are most proud of when they look at their lives now This episode is not fast advice. It is long-view wisdom. If you want a marriage that actually lasts, you need to listen to people who have already done it. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144  Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448  ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/if0jJ_KDEsw  God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    1 h

  3. 14 ABR

    Gen Z Christians Get Brutally Honest About Waiting For Marriage

    In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction. In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationships. We brought both guys and girls into the conversation on purpose, because this hits differently depending on who you are and what you’ve experienced. And we didn’t keep it surface level. We talked about desire, temptation, dating, boundaries, and the questions most people are thinking but not saying out loud. We’ll talk about: Why they’re actually choosing to wait and how that conviction formed The stereotypes people assume about them when they find out Whether waiting feels unrealistic or like they’re “missing out” How they handle sexual desire, temptation, and intrusive thoughts Porn, masturbation, and navigating grey areas in relationships How to communicate boundaries without making it weird What it’s like dating while holding that line Whether they’ve lost relationships because of it What they’d say to someone who feels disqualified because of their past What they’ve actually gained by choosing to wait This isn’t a conversation about perfection. It’s about real people trying to follow God in a culture that’s going the opposite direction. If you’ve ever felt alone in this, confused about what’s right, or unsure if waiting is even worth it… this episode is for you. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144  Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448  ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/iPnbz4UfmZc  God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    1 h 5 min

  4. 31 MAR

    Asking Christians WHAT REALLY Made Them Call Off Their Engagement

    What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience? Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud: What if this isn’t right? In this episode, we sit down with three Christians who love God, wanted marriage, and still made the decision to call off their engagements. We talk about the slow realization that something was off, the internal wrestle between fear and discernment, and what it actually looks like to walk away when everything in your life is moving toward a wedding. We’ll talk about: The moment they first sensed something wasn’t right Whether they ignored red flags and why The pressure to stay when doubts started creeping in How they knew it was time to call it off instead of “fight for it” The fear of disobeying God by walking away What people said and how they handled the questions The lies they had to fight after everything ended How to trust your ability to hear God again What healing actually looked like in the aftermath How to move forward without fear, shame, or regret This episode is not about shaming anyone. It’s not about creating fear around commitment. It’s for the person who feels uneasy but cannot explain why. The person who feels pressure to move forward but knows something is off. The person wondering if it’s too late to pause. A broken engagement is not a broken future. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= ⏰ Timestamps ⏰ (0:00) — Intro (1:36) — Why we're talking about broken engagements (3:54) — How did you meet the person you were engaged to? (4:55) — How long were you dating before the engagement? (5:10) — How sure were you when you said yes to the proposal? (6:22) — How long were you engaged before it ended? (7:31)— Who made the final call to end it? (7:59) — What was God teaching you in that season? (9:00) — How do you regain trust in your ability to hear God's voice? (14:00) — Did you ever feel like you were disobeying God in the relationship? (16:01) — What lies from the enemy did you have to fight? (18:23) — How to respond when people ask what happened (21:10) — Wisdom on keeping relationships off social media (24:10) — How long does it take to heal after a broken engagement? (27:54) — The role of therapy in healing (29:42) — Breaking inner vows and walking in repentance (31:24) — Overcoming trust issues and fear of vulnerability after heartbreak (35:01) — What to do when your ex moves on quickly39:15 — Stop feeding your pain on social media (40:10) — How to know if you should call it off or stick it out (43:03) — Breaking up vs. breaking an engagement vs. breaking a marriage (44:06) — Anxiety vs. a deep knowing that it's not right (46:28) — The difference between relationship anxiety and needing to end it (49:46) — A broken engagement is not a broken future ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144  Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448  ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/1ij2Hl1nGOs  God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    52 min

  5. 17 MAR

    Reacting to Christian Dating HORROR Stories

    We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in. If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier. In this episode we react to stories like: The girl who asked God for a sign about a guy… and the next day he got arrested The guy who would only hold hands during worship songs The date that somehow ended with a trip to the dean’s office at a Christian college The man who compared a girl to a 12 passenger van while explaining why he wouldn’t date her The ministry leader who used a Samson Bible verse to try to convince a girl to marry him The relationship that came with a very intense and very prophetic future telling mom The church play that ended with someone leaving their fiancé and marrying the Grinch Some of these stories are hilarious. Some are uncomfortable. And some are genuinely cautionary tales about manipulation, immaturity, and confusing spirituality with wisdom. If you’ve ever wondered whether your Christian dating experience was the weirdest one out there… it probably wasn’t. 🎧 Let’s talk about it ============================= Links: Have an insane Christian dating story that should be read on a future episode? Submit it ⁠⁠here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2G97mnaDx7C6nqRMNXyL8z0waiOKEwPB3bVF582n9Wa7sTw/viewform  Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/dating/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144  Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/dating/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448  Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/outgGe76bOI  God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    31 min

  6. 3 MAR

    Asking Christian Women What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage

    Before you get married, you think you know what matters. After you get married, you realize what actually does. We sat down with three married Christian women to answer the questions single men and women are quietly carrying about attraction, safety, purity, commitment, and what really makes a marriage last. This is not surface level dating advice. This is what shifts in a woman’s heart after covenant… what feels different, what deepens, what gets harder, and what becomes more beautiful than you expected. We’ll talk about: Whether a woman really “just knows” he’s the oneThe fears they had before marriage and what actually matteredHow their view of physical attraction changed over timeWhat truly makes a woman feel safe and secure long termThe difference between healthy pursuit and emotional pressureHow wives want husbands to communicate about past sexual strugglesWhether expecting sexual integrity is unrealisticWhat to say to a Christian woman anxious about the wedding nightWhat strengthens emotional safety inside marriageWhat quietly kills connectionWhen a wife needs empathy instead of solutionsWhat ended up being harder than expectedWhat ended up being far better than expectedIf you are single, this episode may help you prioritize differently. If you are married, it may help you articulate what your heart has needed all along. Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/1082791?variant=39874577662144 Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here: https://shop.moralrevolution.com/collections/date-well/products/date-well-men?variant=40043652448448 ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/ljYiSEmxSRI God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    1 h 15 min

  7. 17 FEB

    Asking Christian Men What They WISH They Knew BEFORE Marriage

    What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts. We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women’s questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single. From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a man’s perspective evolves inside marriage. We’ll talk about: Whether a man really “just knows” she’s the oneThe hardest adjustment in the first year of marriageHow their view of physical attraction changed after getting marriedThe difference between attraction and lust from a married perspectiveWhat respect actually feels like to a husbandWhether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch pornHow married men pursue purity during seasons without sexWhat keeps a marriage strong long termWhat kills connection the fastestWhat turned out to be better than expected If you are single and trying to choose wisely, this episode will help you see past chemistry and into character. If you are married, it may help you understand your husband more than you expected. 🎧 Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠ Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here. ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/FX_nkgivsTo God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    1 h 19 min

  8. 3 FEB

    What Jesus Told Ben Fitzgerald That Finally Set Him Free

    What happens when you finally stop pretending you want freedom, and actually tell God the truth? In this deeply honest conversation, Ben Fitzgerald shares his story of struggling with pornography while walking in ministry, the moment God confronted what he was still keeping as an option, and how real freedom finally came when everything was brought into the light. Ben opens up about the tension of being anointed but still broken, the night he told God, “I want this, but I do not want to want it,” and why honesty from spiritual leadership played a crucial role in his deliverance. He also shares how Bethel leadership refused to let him step into pastoral leadership while he was secretly battling pornography and how that loving but firm boundary became part of his healing. We’ll talk about: What it actually looks like when God rescues someone from addictionWhy wanting freedom and being free are not the same thingThe moment Ben realized pornography was still an option in his heartHow honest accountability broke the power of secret sinWhy spiritual compromise dulls our sensitivity to GodWhat the fear of the Lord really looks like in a believer’s lifeWhat to say to someone who feels spiritually numb or stuckWhy fighting sexual sin alone never works If you feel trapped in a private battle, tired of starting over, or afraid that your sin disqualifies you from God’s calling, this episode is for you. Ben’s story is proof that freedom is possible, but it requires truth, surrender, and courage. 🎧 Let’s talk about it 👇 ============================= Links: Find more info on Date Well Women ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠ Find more info on Date Well Men ⁠⁠here. ============================= Connect with us: ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com Miss our last podcast episode? Catch it here ➡︎ https://youtu.be/JFGApLrRlk8 God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

    44 min
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