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We're All Insane

Devorah Roloff

A podcast where real people share raw, unfiltered stories about their lives, challenges, and traumas that have shaped them. Each episode offers a deep dive into the unique journey of the guest—No scripts. No interruptions. Just authentic storytelling that unfolds naturally, in the guest's own words. If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please send an email to wereallinsanepodcast@gmail.com or fill out a form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUFf5ushHFd57GAZ2hAg5vvTSZNQxlOaRutdjggN-HQjufYw/viewform

  1. HACE 1 DÍA

    I Found A Hidden Camera In My Bedroom

    She thought he was just a family friend. He’d been around for years, came to our house every week, and everyone trusted him. But one night while dog sitting alone at his house, something in her gut told me to look closer… and what I found changed everything. This is the full story of the hidden camera, the warning signs missed, and the terrifying realization that her intuition had been trying to protect me all along.  Sponsored By: → Lucy | Find LUCY near you at https://lucy.co/stores, or save 20% on your first online order at https://lucy.co/INSANE with promo code INSANE. → Just Thrive | Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/INSANE On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:51 - What is disc golfing? → 00:05:21 - How did she meet “Dave?” → 00:09:00 - How did their families get close?   → 00:13:10 - How did she get close to his family? → 00:18:51 - What happened at the concession stand?  → 00:21:27 - How did the age gap influence her first encounter with him? → 00:27:41 - Why is it important to trust your intuition? → 00:29:17 - Why do we excuse behavior that makes us uncomfortable?  → 00:30:05 - What was it like dog sitting for him?  → 00:32:31 - What was it like working as a secretary for him?  → 00:41:15 - Why was she sleeping in their bed?  → 00:46:04 - How did she find the first camera?  → 00:46:54 - Where was the first camera?  → 00:49:32 - What kind of camera was it  → 00:59:28 - How did she take the camera to gather evidence?  → 01:02:36 - Did she ever change in front of the camera?  → 01:05:33 - How did he access the videos?  → 01:09:12 - What was happening with the other family friend?  → 01:12:02 - What was his wife like?  → 01:14:40 - What was it like filing a police report?  → 01:16:22 - Is it legal to film someone without their consent?  → 01:20:10 - What happened when she went to get her belongings? → 01:23:01 - How did his family react to the news?  → 01:30:01 - How did he groom her entire family?  → 01:34:11 - What was he charged with?  → 01:39:33 - Why wasn’t she able to read a victim impact statement?  → 01:45:51 - What kind of photos of children did they find?  → 01:52:09 - How did this impact her ability to trust others?  Show links: → Sex Offender Registry  Further Listening: → Living with a Serial Cheater More We Are All Insane:  → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h y 6 min
  2. I Lived With Bill Gates After Escaping Abuse

    HACE 4 DÍAS • SÓLO PARA PERSONAS CON SUSCRIPCIÓN

    I Lived With Bill Gates After Escaping Abuse

    Today’s episode includes an unbelievable story of surviving childhood abuse, growing up in poverty, becoming best friends with Bill Gates’ daughter, and eventually living with the Gates family after escaping her mother’s home. From trauma, addiction, assault, toxic relationships, and homelessness to rebuilding her life from the ground up, this conversation explores the long-term impact of childhood abuse, dissociation, attachment wounds, and survival. Topics Discussed: → What childhood trauma does to adults → How abuse affects adult relationships → What dissociation feels like after trauma → Why trauma survivors self sabotage relationships → How childhood abuse impacts attachment styles On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:37 - How did she end up attending an elite private school? → 00:04:13 - How did she become friends with Bill Gates’ daughter? → 00:08:52 - What was happening behind the scenes in her childhood? → 00:14:14 - Why did moving into a one-bedroom apartment change everything? → 00:19:21 - What happened during the “coat project” incident? → 00:23:10 - When did her mother’s paranoia begin escalating? → 00:29:07 - What was life like living with the Gates family? → 00:34:12 - What happened when she finally opened up about the abuse? → 00:38:09 - Why did she ultimately decide to move out? → 00:45:27 - What happened during her first weeks of college? → 00:49:43 - Why did she spiral into alcoholism after freshman year? → 00:57:22 - How did she become homeless in California? → 01:01:28 - How did a stranger’s kindness change her perspective? → 01:08:12 - What happened during the violent fight with her boyfriend? → 01:13:32 - How did she end up falling into addiction? → 01:15:47 - What was life like living homeless in a tent village? → 01:19:26 - What did rock bottom look like for her? → 01:20:43 - Who was the friend that helped save her life? → 01:23:14 - How did losing her best friend impact her recovery? → 01:25:08 - What role did faith and community play in getting sober? → 01:28:07 - Why did she decide to write her book? → 01:29:36 - How can sharing trauma help other people heal? Further Listening: → https://youtu.be/iwJwR-iOCR8 Check Out Mieraye: → Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/mieraye/ → Tik Tok | https://www.tiktok.com/@mieraye - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    1 h 36 min
  3. 17 MAY

    Living with a Serial Cheater

    Ginny Priem thought she was finally living the life she had always dreamed of…a successful career, meaningful friendships, travel, love, and a growing family dynamic with a man she trusted deeply. But behind the scenes, everything was a lie. In this episode, Ginny shares the shocking story of discovering that her partner was secretly living a double life while living in her home and raising his children alongside her. What started as an intense whirlwind romance slowly unraveled into manipulation, gaslighting, deception, hidden relationships, and emotional abuse. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:00:51 - How did after-work cocktails change her life? → 00:03:27 - What questions did she ask him when she finally confronted him? → 00:04:11 - What was her initial reaction to the news? → 00:05:09 - Why is it important to trust your intuition? → 00:06:22 - What was her life like before she met her ex-husband? → 00:11:05 - How long until she met his kids? → 00:13:07 - How quickly did he want to move in together? → 00:14:15 - What was their family dynamic like? → 00:18:12 - What was one of the beginning warning signs? → 00:23:43 - What excuses did he have for his behavior? → 00:25:36 - What was their sex life like? → 00:29:44 - What happened after they moved in together? → 00:34:11 - What did the security system footage show? → 00:36:41 - How to tell if you are not in a trusting relationship? → 00:37:44 - Why did he have so many pills? → 00:40:01 - What job did he have and how often did he travel? → 00:43:21 - What websites was he using to find partners? → 00:46:34 - How long should you wait to introduce someone to your kids? → 00:48:19 - What physical symptoms started showing up? → 00:49:45 - When did she finally start investigating? → 00:57:57 - What kind of love-bombing did she experience? → 00:59:26 - How did he respond to questioning the second time? → 01:02:29 - What was the timeline provided by the other women? → 01:07:43 - What happened after she kicked him out? → 01:10:35 - What was her conversation with his ex-wife like? → 01:15:04 - What kind of lies was he telling the other women? → 01:17:55 - How many women was he involved with? → 01:24:01 - How did her relationship with his children change? → 01:25:48 - What was his financial situation like? → 01:30:21 - How did the kids and new pets adjust? → 01:35:14 - Have they ever run into each other after they broke up? → 01:39:43 - When did she start writing her books? → 01:45:31 - How does trauma impact your life? → 01:50:20 - What is Kintsugi? → 01:55:58 - How empowering is it to share your story with others? Further Listening → My Boyfriend Trafficked Me Check Out Ginny:  Books: → You're My Favorite → I'm My Favorite: A Guided Journal for Your Path Forward → UNSUBSCRIBE: Why Letting Go is the Secret to Getting Ahead Websites: → www.ginnypriem.com → www.unsubscribeofficial.com Podcast: → UNSUBSCRIBE with Ginny Priem Socials: → Instagram → Facebook → LinkedIn → YouTube More We Are All Insane:  → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h y 7 min
  4. 10 MAY

    I Lived In A Brothel

    Lexi never planned on entering the sex industry. At 18 years old, she answered what she thought was a modeling ad on Craigslist and accidentally found herself in the world of webcam modeling, escorting, stripping, and OnlyFans. Sponsored By: → Shopify | See less carts go abandoned and more sales go “cha ching” with Shopify and their Shop Pay button. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://shopify.com/insane → HERS | Ready to reach your goals? Visit https://forhers.com/insane to get personalized, affordable care that gets you. → Just Thrive | Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/INSANE On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - How did Lexi accidentally get started in adult work? → 00:03:28 - Was she nervous to start cam modeling? → 00:05:01 - What was it like working inside a cam studio? → 00:06:41 - What changed after she was allowed to show more online? → 00:08:49 - Was she scared her parents would find out? → 00:12:40 - How long did she do cam modeling, and how did COVID change things? → 00:17:17 - What was her first strip club audition like? → 00:20:16 - Has she ever felt uncomfortable or attracted to someone at work? → 00:21:56 - What happens if she actually likes a client? → 00:26:22 - What double standards do sex workers face while dating? → 00:29:19 - How does she handle judgment about sex work? → 00:33:47 - Was it difficult balancing multiple income streams? → 00:34:56 - What is the brothel application process really like? → 00:36:40 - How do negotiations work inside a brothel? → 00:38:17 - What are the wildest things she’s experienced on the job? → 00:42:04 - How does traveling work as a sex worker? → 00:45:12 - How much work goes into becoming successful in the industry? → 00:49:06 - How did a staph infection nearly change her life forever? → 00:54:15 - Why did she realize rest and hobbies mattered so much? → 00:56:25 - What was it like going viral after the Candace Owens interview? → 00:59:39 - Why did she decide to become an independent escort? → 01:04:13 - How does she screen and vet potential clients? → 01:08:31 - What is the grossest situation she’s ever dealt with at work? → 01:11:10 - Why are so many of her clients married men? → 01:12:15 - Does she genuinely enjoy the physical side of her work? → 01:15:16 - What does she want her future outside of sex work to look like? → 01:17:30 - Does she see herself leaving sex work one day? → 01:21:27 - Does she want marriage or kids in the future? → 01:22:37 - Why do some women to work with pimps? → 01:25:38 - Why is there so much division within the sex work community? Show links: → https://youtu.be/8Wfbhk91A44 Check Out Lexi: → https://allmylinks.com/littlemisslexxi → https://littlemisslexxi.com More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 h 36 min
  5. I Was Groomed at 17

    7 MAY • SÓLO PARA PERSONAS CON SUSCRIPCIÓN

    I Was Groomed at 17

    At 17, she believed she had found something real. He was attentive, thoughtful, and everything felt intentional. It looked like love. It felt safe. Nothing about it seemed wrong at first. In this episode, she shares what the relationship actually looked like from the inside, how grooming can build slowly over time, and how red flags don’t always feel like red flags when you’re living through them. What she eventually discovered changed everything. This is a story about manipulation, control, and how hard it can be to recognize danger when it’s disguised as care. Topics Discussed: → What does grooming look like in relationships → Signs of love bombing early dating → Why is it hard to leave abuse → How manipulators gain trust quickly → What are red flags in relationships → Can grooming happen to older teens On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - How did she meet the man who groomed her? → 00:03:29 - What was her understanding of relationships at the time? → 00:05:09 - What were the first warning signs? → 00:07:15 - How quickly did the manipulation begin? → 00:08:55 - When did she begin to sense something was wrong? → 00:11:24 - How did this affect their work dynamic? → 00:13:58 - When did she discover explicit material involving minors on his phone? → 00:16:30 - How did the manipulation continue to escalate? → 00:18:57 - How did her mom try to help her leave the situation? → 00:22:14 - How often did he take photos without her consent? → 00:27:03 - What happened after she started pulling away? → 00:30:36 - What inappropriate things did he say about her family? → 00:32:28 - What is it like sharing her story online? → 00:35:26 - What was his family environment like? → 00:41:02 - How does this connect to larger cultural issues? → 00:44:40 - How has she moved forward after surviving grooming? Check Out AbbeeLynn: → https://beacons.ai/abbeerider?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    51 min
  6. 3 MAY

    Survivor of Animal R*pe

    In today’s episode, a childhood sexual abuse survivor shares what it was like growing up in a home where sexual abuse, including abuse involving animals, was normalized, hidden, and never spoken about. She walks through the reality of grooming, manipulation, and fear, and how those dynamics made it nearly impossible to speak up, even when they knew something was wrong. She opens up about the impact on their relationships, their sense of safety, and the long journey of processing shame, seeking therapy, and eventually finding the courage to share their story publicly. This conversation also explores why so many survivors don’t report, what the legal process actually looks like, and how healing and advocacy can coexist. Sponsored By: → Biologica | Head to https://biologica.com/INSANE to get started and get up to 32% off your first subscription order today! Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that’s right for you. Check Out Jada: Tik Tok: @jadasadvocacy https://www.tiktok.com/@jadasadvocacy IG: jadasadvocacy https://www.instagram.com/jadasadvocacy/ On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:14 - What are fawning and flopping as trauma responses? → 00:04:39 - Did her parents allow her to hang out with friends, and were there good times in her childhood? → 00:06:16 - What were the specifics of the abuse, and what happened in court? → 00:07:58 - What are the misconceptions and minimization around bestiality and sexual abuse? → 00:12:43 - How do premeditation and grooming play a role in abuse? → 00:14:12 - Did the abuse happen to everyone in the household? → 00:15:28 - What was her mother and stepfather’s relationship like? → 00:16:45 - Did she confide in friends or share what was happening at home during school? → 00:19:42 - Did the larger community have any idea what was going on? → 00:22:29 - Who did she tell at age 14, and how did her first love play a role? → 00:25:58 - What caused the turmoil with her sister? → 00:27:26 - What happened when her sister found out? → 00:29:59 - How did her mother’s abuse reflect generational trauma? → 00:33:31 - What was her relationship like with her biological father and grandmother? → 00:38:24 - Why is it so hard to report abuse, even when you want to? → 00:41:12 - What happens when you file a police report for abuse? → 00:43:51 - What does it mean to not feel ready to report abuse? → 00:53:01 - What was her experience starting therapy and wanting her feelings acknowledged? → 00:58:42 - Why did she stop therapy and choose to share her story online? → 01:01:51 - What is the difference between intent and impact, especially with demeaning jokes? → 01:10:23 - What happened when she reposted her story and shared it with family on Facebook? → 01:15:01 - How did she resist fear and intimidation from her stepdad? → 01:19:13 - Why don’t many survivors report abuse? → 01:28:09 - What legal changes have happened around child abuse, and when? → 01:32:24 - What is the process of going to court, especially more than once? → 01:34:46 - What does the investigation process look like? → 01:38:46 - What happened with abuse from others and illegal photos? → 01:46:31 - What were the family dynamics like with her mother and uncle? → 01:51:55 - What did her healing journey look like, especially within marriage? → 01:56:45 - Why do people repeat cycles of abuse? → 02:00:16 - Why is it hard to navigate relationships after complex trauma? → 02:04:03 - How do you process shame and step into advocacy? More We Are All Insane:  → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts  Further Listening: → My Dad and Brother are R*pists Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2 h y 26 min

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A podcast where real people share raw, unfiltered stories about their lives, challenges, and traumas that have shaped them. Each episode offers a deep dive into the unique journey of the guest—No scripts. No interruptions. Just authentic storytelling that unfolds naturally, in the guest's own words. If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please send an email to wereallinsanepodcast@gmail.com or fill out a form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUFf5ushHFd57GAZ2hAg5vvTSZNQxlOaRutdjggN-HQjufYw/viewform

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