Messy Minded Mama

Kate and Jenn

Hosted by two moms and mental health therapists, Kate and Jenn, this podcast is rooted in honest conversations about motherhood, mental health, and the messy middle so many of us live in.  Connect with us on Instagram: @messy.minded.mama Email us: hello@messymindedmama.com

  1. 2 days ago

    Episode 16 - Summer Reset: Prepare Now, Thank Yourself Later

    Send us Fan Mail We're back! 🎙️ After an accidental summer break before summer even started, we're catching up on all the end-of-school chaos, spirit weeks, graduations, and the inevitable round of sickness that seemed determined to kick off our summer plans. If you're entering summer feeling more exhausted than refreshed, you're not alone. In this episode, we share what moms in our community are craving more of this summer—rest, connection, slow mornings, adventure, and intentional time with their kids—and what's feeling hardest right now, from balancing work and family to feeling responsible for everyone's happiness. Together, we're talking about how to create a Summer Reset that gives you the permission slip you need and create rhythms that actually work for your family. Because summer doesn't need to be perfect to be meaningful. In This Episode: ☀️ Why summer often feels harder than we expect ☀️ What moms really want more (and less) of this season ☀️ How to decide how you want summer to feel before filling your calendar ☀️ The difference between creating rhythm and creating rigidity ☀️ Our personal Summer Permission Slips ☀️ A simple "Prepare Now, Thank Yourself Later" challenge Favorite Takeaways: ✨ Moms aren't asking for more activities. They're asking for more peace, presence, and connection. ✨ You are not responsible for creating a magical summer every single day. ✨ Kids need a present mom more than they need a perfect summer. ✨ Protecting your energy isn't selfish—it's what helps everyone enjoy summer more. Your Summer Reset Challenge: Choose ONE thing this week that future-you will appreciate. Maybe it's planning easy meals, scheduling downtime, setting family expectations, or letting go of something that no longer serves your family. A little preparation today can create a lot more peace later. Prepare now. Thank yourself later. Connect with us on Instagram @messymindedmama and tell us: 👉 What's one thing you want MORE of this summer?

    41 min
  2. 23 Apr

    Episode 13 - Meet the Moms Behind the Mic (The Stories Behind This Space)

    Send us Fan Mail We’re doing something a little different today.  Before we begin bringing real moms onto the podcast soon, we wanted to take a moment to pause and let you get to know us a little more—beyond the conversations we’ve been having here.  In this episode, we’re sharing the stories behind why this space exists. Not the polished versions—but the real moments in motherhood that felt heavier than we expected, the mental load we didn’t see coming, and how those experiences shaped the work we do now.  We talk about the intersection of our personal experiences as moms and our professional backgrounds, and why it became so important to create a space that feels supportive, honest, and grounded in real life—not performative or overwhelming.  If you’ve ever felt like you’re holding a lot mentally… or like you should be handling things better than you are… this conversation is for you.  There is space for you here.  We’re also so excited to begin bringing this space into real life. We’re hosting our first in-person event for moms—a space to connect, feel supported, and have honest conversations about the mental load of motherhood. ✨ Event Details: Messy Mama Moments: Canvas Painting with Your Littles May 9th — 9am-12pm Createry Workshop, Littleton This is a fun event for moms and their littles to get a bit messy and connect with others in our community. 👉 Register here — https://www.messymindedmama.com/canvas-painting-may-9

    41 min
  3. 26 Mar

    Episode 09 - The Unsolicited Advice You Just Didn't Ask For

    Send us Fan Mail Something about becoming a mom seems to come with an open invitation for opinions… from everyone. In this episode, we’re diving into the unsolicited advice we never asked for—but somehow keep getting. From sleep and feeding opinions to comments from strangers in public (yes, we’re talking about those moments), we’re unpacking why it hits so hard—and how to protect your confidence in the middle of it. We’re sharing the advice that made us laugh, the advice that completely contradicted itself, and the moments that made us question everything… plus a few pieces of advice that actually did help. This conversation is honest, light, and deeply validating—because if you’ve ever walked away from a comment thinking “wait… am I doing this wrong?”—you’re not alone. In this episode, we cover:  Why everyone suddenly becomes a parenting expert  The most common (and conflicting) advice moms hear  Real-life stories of advice that stuck with us  The difference between support and judgment  Advice we’ll absolutely never be taking again And most importantly, how to come back to your instincts in a world full of noise. Our biggest takeaway: You know your child—and yourself—better than anyone else. 💬 We want to hear from you: What’s the best or worst parenting advice you’ve ever received? Send us a text or DM us on Instagram—we might share it in a future episode 👀

    32 min

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Hosted by two moms and mental health therapists, Kate and Jenn, this podcast is rooted in honest conversations about motherhood, mental health, and the messy middle so many of us live in.  Connect with us on Instagram: @messy.minded.mama Email us: hello@messymindedmama.com