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Neurodiversity, education, meaning of life, happiness and struggles - a personal journey into adulthood. To have the best experience, enjoy in the evening or at night. If you like what I do, buy me a coffee => https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

  1. #019 Setting Boundaries

    2 DAYS AGO

    #019 Setting Boundaries

    Where do you end — and someone else begin? In this reflective episode, we explore the psychology of boundaries: why they feel uncomfortable, why we avoid them, and why they are essential for healthy relationships. Drawing on the work of Brené Brown, Henry Cloud, Harriet Lerner, Mary Ainsworth, John Gottman, and Steven Hayes, this episode unpacks: • Why unclear roles create anxiety • How resentment quietly builds • Why secure relationships require clarity • How values — not fear — guide courageous action • And how boundaries strengthen connection rather than weaken it Through a personal story about blurred roles between boss and friend, we examine how calm, clear communication can transform tension into respect. If something in your life feels slightly misaligned — this episode may help you name it.

    7 min
  2. #018 Being Brave

    13 FEB

    #018 Being Brave

    Bravery isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s quiet. It’s the moment we notice our boundaries being crossed…when fairness, justice, or compassion are at risk…and we choose not to look away. In this episode, I reflect on what it truly means to be brave — not through confrontation, but through values. Drawing on psychological research and a personal conversation with my child, I explore how children learn courage by watching us protect what matters, speak up calmly, and stay faithful to our principles even when it’s uncomfortable. This is an episode about quiet courage, strong boundaries, and the kind of bravery that shapes how our children learn to stand in the world.

    6 min
  3. #017 Teenage Grief

    6 FEB

    #017 Teenage Grief

    In this reflective episode of St-John on Air, Iexplore how teenagers experience grief differently from adults — and why understanding those differences matters. Drawing on the work of adolescent development researchers such as Dr. J. William Worden, Dr. Laurence Steinberg, Dr. B.J. Casey, and grief specialists including Dr. David Schonfeld and Dr. Julie Kaplow, this episode examines how brain development, identity formation, emotional intensity, and peer relationships shape teenage grief. Through research-informed insights and real-life reflection, this episode offers guidance for parents, educators, and caregivers on how to support grieving teens with patience, presence, and compassion. Perfect for quiet listening, reflection, and anyone walking alongside young people through loss.

    7 min
  4. #016 Meaningful Questions

    30 JAN

    #016 Meaningful Questions

    What if the most powerful parenting tool isn’t advice — but curiosity? In this episode, I explore how the questions we ask our children shape emotional safety, trust, and long-term connection. Drawing on the work of psychologists and researchers such as Alison Gopnik, Carl Rogers, Peter Fonagy, Mary Ainsworth, Donald Winnicott, Daniel Siegel, Jaak Panksepp, Virginia Satir, and Murray Bowen, this reflection looks at why open, non-judgmental questions matter more than perfect answers. I talk about: how curiosity builds psychological safety why letting children reflect on us deepens trust how laughter strengthens attachment and how small conversations quietly shape a child’s inner story This is an episode about slowing down, listening more than speaking, and creating moments when children feel seen — and when we’re willing to be seen, too. A gentle, nighttime reflection for parents, caregivers, and anyone interested in emotional connection, attachment, and real relationships.

    7 min
  5. #015 Learning to Fail

    23 JAN

    #015 Learning to Fail

    Failure is something we’re rarely taught to handle, but it’s one of life’s greatest teachers. In this episode, we explore why failure feels heavy, how it shapes learning, and why embracing it can make us more resilient, thoughtful, and self-aware. Drawing on insights from researchers like Carol Dweck, Stanislas Dehaene, Brené Brown, Martin Seligman, Susan David, Daniel Kahneman, Joseph LeDoux, John Hattie, and Kristin Neff, we discuss practical ways to separate identity from outcomes, process emotions constructively, and use failure as a tool for growth. If you’ve ever struggled with disappointment, self-doubt, or setbacks, this episode offers a calm, reflective guide to turning failure into insight, resilience, and forward momentum. If you like what I do, buy me a coffee. https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

    5 min
  6. #014 Nice or Kind?

    16 JAN

    #014 Nice or Kind?

    In this reflective nighttime episode of St-John On Air, I explore the subtle yet powerful distinction between being nice and being kind — and how that distinction shapes our relationships, boundaries, and sense of self. Drawing on insights from Brené Brown, Harriet Lerner, Richard Davidson, Kristin Neff, and reflections shared by Simon Sinek and Trevor Noah, this episode gently unpacks why niceness often comes from fear, while kindness is rooted in care. This is not an episode about being harsh or confrontational. It’s about choosing honesty without cruelty. Care without self-abandonment. A quiet companion for the end of the day and an invitation to live with integrity, gently. If you like what I do, buy me a coffee. https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

    5 min
  7. #013 Letting Go Easily

    9 JAN

    #013 Letting Go Easily

    Why do children with ADHD fall in love with new activities — and then let them go so quickly? In this reflective, research-grounded night episode, we explore why ADHD children often struggle to stay engaged with hobbies, sports, and projects — and why quitting is not a failure. Drawing on the work of researchers and clinicians such as Dr. Russell Barkley, Dr. Edward Hallowell, Dr. Nora Volkow, Dr. Ross Greene, Dr. Edward Deci, and Dr. Dan Siegel, this episode gently explains how ADHD affects motivation, emotional regulation, and persistence. This episode is for parents, caregivers, and educators who want to support ADHD children with compassion, realism, and trust — and help them grow without pressure or fear of failure. A calm, understanding conversation for late evenings — when parenting questions feel heaviest. If you like what I do, consider buying me a coffee. https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

    7 min
  8. #012 Doable Resolutions

    1 JAN

    #012 Doable Resolutions

    In this episode of St-John On Air, I reflect on why so many resolutions quietly disappear by February, and why this isn’t a failure of discipline or willpower. Drawing on insights from behavioral psychology and neuroscience — including the work of Richard Wiseman on resolutions, Carol Dweck on mindset, BJ Fogg on tiny habits, Angela Duckworth on grit, Kristin Neff on self-compassion, and neuroscientist Andrew Huberman on motivation and dopamine. I explore what actually makes change sustainable. This episode is also personal. I share how my own long-failed resolution to “start exercising” finally became a lasting habit; not through intensity or pressure, but through consistency, patience, and staying. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by New Year’s resolutions, this episode offers a gentler, more realistic way forward. No hype. No perfection. Just doable change and the courage to stay. If you like what I do, consider buying me a coffee. https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

    6 min
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Neurodiversity, education, meaning of life, happiness and struggles - a personal journey into adulthood. To have the best experience, enjoy in the evening or at night. If you like what I do, buy me a coffee => https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

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  • Creator
    StJohndeGlanville
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © StJohndeGlanville
  • Show Website
    St-John On Air