Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast

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Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom. Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships. We talk about: • Marriage and intimacy • Sexual communication • Desire differences • Erotic exploration • Guided audio intimacy • Confidence in the bedroom • Reigniting passion after kids • Sex toys, play, and connection • Building emotional safety • Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together. New episodes every week.

  1. 6D AGO

    Our Top 3 Tips for Better Sex

    If we had to narrow everything we’ve learned about intimacy down to just three things, this would be it. In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we share our top three foundations for better sex: Communication — understanding each other’s erotic style and emotional needsCuriosity — staying open, evolving, and willing to try new experiencesConfidence — the energy and presence that create true attractionWe talk about erotic blueprints, emotional intimacy, expanding beyond routine, polarity, and why confidence in the bedroom changes everything. Whether you’re feeling stuck, routine, or just ready to deepen connection, these three shifts make a real difference. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    41 min

  2. FEB 17

    What’s Coming Next in Coelle (New Categories + Sneak Peeks)

    We’ve been building something new inside Coelle — and this week, we’re giving you a preview. In our next app update, we’re launching two brand-new categories: Warm-Ups and How-To (Instructional) Sessions— eight new guided audio experiences designed to make intimacy more accessible, flexible, and confidence-building. In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we share: Why we created these new categoriesWho they’re forHow they support connection in different waysWhat makes warm-up sessions different from full experiencesWhy instructional guidance can reduce performance pressureShort sneak-peek clips from each categoryIf you’ve ever wanted intimacy to feel easier to enter — or clearer once you’re there — this episode will give you a first look at what’s coming next. The update is launching soon. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    35 min

  3. FEB 10

    Scott’s Favorite Guided Audio Intimacy Experiences

    In this episode of Do You Feel That?, Scott shares three of his favorite guided audio experiences from Coelle — the ones he personally returns to and why they work so well for him. We talk about: What each session creates emotionally and physicallyWhy certain styles of guidance support confidence and presenceHow guided audio removes pressure and decision-makingWhy different partners naturally gravitate toward different experiencesThis episode is meant to complement last week’s conversation with Brittney and give listeners two perspectives on how guided audio intimacy can support connection in different ways. If you’re curious about guided intimacy but unsure where to start, these episodes offer real examples — not theory — to help you find what resonates. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    32 min

  4. FEB 4

    Brittney’s Favorite Guided Audio Intimacy Experiences

    Last week, we introduced guided audio intimacy — what it is and why it works so well for couples. This week, we’re taking it one step further. In this episode of Do You Feel That?, Brittney shares three of her favorite guided audio experiences from Coelle — the ones she returns to most and why they resonate so deeply with her. We talk about: What each experience creates emotionally and physicallyWhen these sessions are most supportiveWhy certain guidance styles land differently for different peopleHow guided audio removes pressure and helps couples stay present togetherIf you’re new to guided audio intimacy or curious about how different experiences feel in real life, this episode offers a personal, grounded place to start. Next week, Scott shares his favorite picks and how they support connection from his perspective. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    47 min

  5. JAN 27

    What Is Guided Audio Intimacy? (And Why It Works So Well for Couples)

    What if intimacy didn’t require figuring out what to do, what to say, or who should lead? In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we introduce guided audio intimacy — what it is, how it works, and why it’s been such a powerful tool for couples who want deeper connection without pressure or overthinking. We talk about: Why so many couples struggle to stay present during intimacyHow guidance reduces decision fatigue and performance pressureWhat guided audio intimacy actually feels like (and what it’s not)Why structure can create more freedom, not lessWhen guided intimacy is especially helpful for couplesShort examples from Coelle, with our honest reactions and commentaryIf you’ve ever wanted intimacy to feel easier, calmer, or more intentional — this episode is a gentle introduction to a new way of connecting. Next week, we’ll share Brittney’s favorite guided experiences, followed by Scott’s picks the week after. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    39 min

  6. JAN 20

    Toggling: How to Move Between Safety and Desire Without Shutting Down

    Have you ever wanted closeness… but the moment things turned sexual, your body pulled back? Or wanted desire… but suddenly felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or numb? In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we introduce the concept of toggling — the ability to move back and forth between safety and stimulation, comfort and edge, without shutting down or pushing through discomfort. Because great intimacy isn’t about staying turned on the whole time. It’s about knowing when to lean in — and when to soften. We explore: Why desire lives in the nervous system, not just the mindHow too much safety can flatten desire — and too much intensity can overwhelm itWhy pausing doesn’t kill the mood (and often creates more desire)What toggling looks like in real-life intimacy, not theoryCommon mistakes couples make when someone needs to slow downLanguage partners can use to pause without disconnectingA simple toggle practice you can try together this weekIf you’ve ever felt like intimacy swings between “too much” and “not enough,” this episode will help you find the middle ground where connection and desire can coexist. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    29 min

  7. 12/23/2025

    What Happens After Sex Matters More Than You Think

    Most couples think intimacy is shaped by what happens before sex or during it. But research and experience tell a different story. In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we explore why what happens after sex plays a powerful role in emotional safety, bonding, and whether you’ll actually want intimacy again in the future. We talk about: Why the moments after sex are emotionally vulnerable (even when the sex was good)How oxytocin and memory shape desire moving forwardThe subtle ways couples disconnect without realizing itCommon after-sex habits that unintentionally shut desire downWhat healthy “landing” after intimacy actually looks likeSimple ways to help your partner feel seen, safe, and connected once sex endsIf you’ve ever felt close during sex but strangely distant afterward or noticed desire fading even when intimacy seemed fine — this episode will help you understand why, and what to do instead. Because sex doesn’t end at orgasm. Connection ends when you both feel settled again. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    27 min

  8. 12/16/2025

    The Initiation Gap: Why One Person Always Initiates (And How to Fix It)

    If you’ve ever noticed that one of you almost always initiates intimacy — while the other rarely does — you’re not alone. This dynamic is incredibly common in long-term relationships, and it’s far more about how desire works than how much someone wants their partner. In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we unpack the initiation gap — why it forms, why it hurts so deeply, and how couples can rebalance intimacy without pressure, resentment, or shutdown. We explore: Why most couples naturally fall into an initiator/responder patternThe difference between spontaneous and responsive desire (and why it matters)How repeated rejection trains the nervous system to stop initiatingWhy stress and mental load suppress desire — especially for the partner carrying more responsibilityHow cultural scripts shape who initiates and who waitsWhat not to do when initiation feels unevenPractical, science-informed ways to share responsibility for connectionIf initiation has started to feel risky, exhausting, or emotionally loaded, this episode will help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface — and give you tools to reconnect in ways that feel safe, mutual, and genuine again. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here: Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/downloadBook a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    35 min
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Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom. Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships. We talk about: • Marriage and intimacy • Sexual communication • Desire differences • Erotic exploration • Guided audio intimacy • Confidence in the bedroom • Reigniting passion after kids • Sex toys, play, and connection • Building emotional safety • Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together. New episodes every week.

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