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Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

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    • 4.8 • 1.9K Ratings

Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

    (Matt Monday): The Dangerous “High Value” Guy You Should Avoid

    (Matt Monday): The Dangerous “High Value” Guy You Should Avoid

    Have you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them?
    Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you.
    Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs.
    We become pleasers and find it almost impossible to set any kind of boundaries for fear that this will drive them away and they’ll disappear. After all, if they left, “Would I ever find anyone as amazing as them ever again?”
    Sound familiar? Then you’re going to like today’s brand-new episode.
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    • 12 min
    (Rewind): Full of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This...

    (Rewind): Full of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This...

    Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship?
    Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?
    It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently.
    And this feeling isn’t limited to situations that have ended. Sometimes we are still seeing someone but we have this crippling anxiety over having irreversibly damaged the relationship. We feel we’ve created a perception of ourselves in that person’s eyes that we can’t now undo.
    If for any of these reasons you are currently torturing yourself, this video will be life-saving for you today. Trust me when I say it is essential watching.
    In this classic clip, I break down for you why you don’t need to be wallowing in pain, and why, despite everything that destructive voice inside is saying, you actually have reason to feel good today.
    Please also share this with someone you know who may be beating herself up right now. Life’s too short for any of us to suffer needlessly.
    I’m with you, friend. You’re loved.
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    • 8 min
    Is He Losing Interest Or Is He Just Comfortable?

    Is He Losing Interest Or Is He Just Comfortable?

    How do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you.
    If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one!
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    • 1 hr 8 min
    (Matt Monday): How to Be Confident When You DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE

    (Matt Monday): How to Be Confident When You DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE

    If you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it.
    Your coach,
    Matthew x
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    • 8 min
    (Rewind): Was Dumping Him The Right Decision?

    (Rewind): Was Dumping Him The Right Decision?

    You decided it’s time to break up.
    And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace.
    You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake?
    Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone.
    Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused!
    In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace.
    Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying.
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    • 7 min
    How To Leave A Narcissist

    How To Leave A Narcissist

    What do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist?
    It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for.
    But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave?
    That can be the hardest part.
    A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them.
    Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it’s the first step to real freedom, a clear mind, and a better life.
    In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson explain how you can overcome your doubts and get out of a toxic relationship once and for all.
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    • 1 hr 36 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
1.9K Ratings

1.9K Ratings

frainch toast ,

ya’ll on point :)

Hey I love Matthews work and incorporation of Jan’s is great! So much good information and ideas that really help me see my emotional life more objectively.

One slice of jam pie creative feedback-it would be cool if you could put in the show notes a timestamp of when you actually start discussing the topic of the podcast. I love y’all’s banter andi know lots of people do - but not every buddy has time to listen to a full hour and I wouldn’t want to miss anything important.

Xo from Atlanta

123Michelle P ,

LISTEN, you won’t regret it!!!

JAMS continues to blow my mind with their collaborative perspective!! I recommend your podcast to all of my friends and family.

Even though I tell everyone I know and even some who I don’t (have met in dating apps), I didn’t write the review because I knew Matthew would appreciate it… I wrote it because I want JAMS to know how much I appreciate you!!

homa mi ,

JAMS rock!

Hello JAMS! When commuting to work I either listen to a true crime related podcast or yours and I enjoy every single minute! I ADORE British accent and whenever AMS talk I’m over the moon. Listening to high quality content in British accent seems like a dream come true. You 4 are amazing. Love from Iran ♥️🙌🏻

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