Same Team with The Freemans

Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
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SAME TEAM: the podcast to help you become the best partner, parent, and person you can be! (formerly Empowered Couples) Hosted by your favorite couple, The Freemans, the husband-and-wife duo behind viral marriage content seen by 20M+ people every month. Both hold master's degrees in psychology, are authors, coaches, and parents... but what makes them stand out is how real and relatable their advice is. Most couples say: "Are they watching us?!" After 10+ years of coaching and 400+ episodes, this show still gives couples the practical tools, real talk, and honest coaching that most relationships are missing. Now they're also bringing on guest experts to share hard-won wisdom on marriage, parenting, and family life. Whether you're in a tough season or just want to stay connected through the chaos of life, you'll walk away from every episode with something you can actually use. If you're ready to improve communication, resolve conflict faster, and feel emotionally connected again, subscribe now. You'll want to binge past episodes and never miss what's next. P.S. The Freemans are also excited to celebrate that their new book, SAME TEAM, is now available for pre-order at meetthefreemans.com/sameteam

  1. 6d ago ·  Video

    How to Create Emotional Safety, Even in Difficult Moments

    Do you ever have the experience that a simple conversation with your partner can all of a sudden can create tension? If that has happen to you more than once, you know it makes you less likely to even want to bring things up agian. In our marriage coaching with couples, we can often predict whether a conflict will escalate into more disconnection or bring them closer, and it comes down to one thing: the level of emotional safety the feel. Though that may sound obvious, the "how to" for creating this level of safety usually isn't. What we've noticed is that most couples have never actually defined what emotional safety means, so they don't know what they're building or even when it's quietly eroding. In this episode, we define emotional safety, and show you how to tell the difference between normal tension and actually feeling unsafe, plus what to do in the moment when a conversation starts to spiral. You'll learn the everyday habits that make your partner shut down, withdraw or stop bringing things up, and the simple steps that help you both stay open, even when you disagree. We share honest moments from our own marriage, and why this matters for the kids who are watching how the two of you handle hard moments. Whether you tend to react fast or go silent, you'll leave with language and steps you can use at your next tough conversation.    👉 Want to go deeper? Join our live marriage webclass on November 3rd, How to De-escalate Conflicts and Navigate Emotional Triggers. Register at onlinecouplesworkshops.com/deescalate 📕 Pre-order our book SAME TEAM and you'll instantly get two guides, the 10-Minute Nightly Check-In and 12 Same Team Phrases to De-Escalate Tension, plus an entry to win an all-expenses-paid couples getaway to Scottsdale, Arizona for every pre-order before January 26: meetthefreemans.com/sameteam  👉 Our big dream is to get this book into 100,000 homes by launch. If this episode speaks to you, we would love your help sharing it with the people you love.

  2. Oct 13

    Being Married to a Spouse with the 'Mother Hunger' Wound (with Kelly McDaniel)

    In this episode we sit down with therapist Kelly McDaniel, author of Mother Hunger, to explore how the way we were cared for as children shows up in how we love, react, and connect as adults. You will realize that you don't just marry a partner, you marry their childhood. Aaron shares the birth story that shaped how he relates to touch and the real reason he once tried to break up with Jocelyn, and Jocelyn opens up about where her drive to be seen actually came from. Kelly also speaks directly to the partner on the other side of this, the one who wants to help but isn't sure how, and shares what it looks like to face it together, on the same team. 📕 Pre-order our book SAME TEAM and you'll instantly get two guides, the 10-Minute Nightly Check-In and 12 Same Team Phrases to De-Escalate Tension, plus an entry to win an all-expenses-paid couples getaway to Scottsdale, Arizona for every pre-order before January 26: meetthefreemans.com/sameteam 👉 Find Kelly's book Mother Hunger and her resources at kellymcdanieltherapy.com and on Instagram @KellyMcDanielTherapy.

  3. Oct 6

    Building the "Same Team" Mindset in Your Marriage

    You love each other, you both work hard, and still there are moments when it feels like you're playing on opposite sides, over the dishes, the bedtime routine, or the tone of one sentence at the end of a long day. Most couples never decide to become opponents. It happens so quietly that by the time you notice, you're bracing against each other instead of facing what's actually in front of you together. This is a reminder that everything is easier when you face it together, on the same team.  In this first episode of the relaunched Same Team podcast, we're back after a summer away with a new name, a new mission, and a first look at the core mindset at the heart of our upcoming book. We share the hardest season of our marriage, a newborn at home and an investment that turned into 800 hours of work in the Arizona heat, and the line Aaron had to draw on every drive to that property before he ever walked back through our front door. We also get honest about what your kids are quietly learning just by watching the two of you, and we give you two phrases straight from the book that will immediately bring you back together when stress or friction try to pull you apart.  📕Pre-order SAME TEAM and you'll instantly get two guides, the 10-Minute Nightly Check-In and 12 Same Team Phrases to De-Escalate Tension, plus an entry to win an all-expenses-paid couples getaway to Scottsdale, Arizona for every pre-order before January 26: meetthefreemans.com/sameteam 👉Our big dream is to get this book into 100,000 homes by launch. If this episode speaks to you, we would love your help sharing it with the people you love.

  4. May 12

    What Separates Couples Who Grow Apart vs Grow Together (Plus a BIG Update From Us!)

    There is one single thing that all couples who grow closer over time have in common. Though in the beginning of a relationship, you might not think that anything could get between you, what you realize as time passes is that you will need to fight… When couples start to face challenges, tests, or unforeseen circumstances – they can tend to start to turn on each other. They see each other as opponents rather than teammates. That is when they fight against each other. But this episode is going to introduce a powerful mindset shift. It's the one that has you realize that the fight is not against each other, but against the problem you are facing.  Tune into this episode too as we have a big announcement. We had gotten a book deal from Penguin Random House for a brand new book, and it is now available for Pre-order. As a podcast listener you are the first to hear about it. Right now pre-order your copy of "Same Team: How to break cycles, grow closer, and model a loving marriage for your kids" and get: 1) the 10-Minute Nightly Check-in Guide AND 2) Be added to a drawing for an ALL EXPENSE PAID LUXURY TRIP to Arizona.    PS - Additional resources like guides, challenges, books, and coaching can be found at: meetthefreemans.com/links

  5. Apr 30

    You're Doing a Lot… But This Might Be Why Your Partner Doesn't Feel It

    You're doing a lot. You're handling all your own responsibilities, and sometimes still picking up the slack. You're doing what needs to get done for your family. And yet… something still feels like it's not enough for your partner. Maybe your partner seems distant, less appreciative, or not as connected as you'd expect given how much you're putting in. This is one of the most common frustrations we hear from couples—the disconnect between effort and how that effort is actually received. In this episode, we unpack why doing more doesn't always translate into feeling closer, and what might be missing beneath the surface. If you've ever thought, "I'm doing everything I can… why doesn't it feel like enough?" This conversation will give you a new lens to understand what's really happening in your relationship, and 3 simple actions to take to start shifting it in a way your partner can actually feel. ✨ If you want simple, daily ways to strengthen your connection and bring more emotional and physical closeness into your marriage, join the 30-Day "Best of Us" Couples Challenge. It's designed to help you show up for each other in ways that truly land. Join now at mycoupleschallenge.com/best.

  6. Apr 21

    What Women Are Taught Vs What Marriage Needs Them to Learn

    Many women enter marriage with expectations and habits shaped long before the relationship ever began. Some were modeled growing up, others reinforced by culture, and many rooted in a genuine desire to love well and create a strong home. But what once felt natural doesn't always translate into what creates true connection and partnership in a marriage. This is where frustration can build and where many start to feel like they're putting in effort but not getting the closeness they hoped for. In this episode, we unpack the gap between what women are taught about love and relationships and what marriage truly needs to feel connected and fulfilling. This is the follow-up to last week's episode where we covered what men are taught versus what marriage needs them to learn, and together these conversations will help you see the patterns that play out between you. If you've ever felt like you're carrying a lot or not getting the response you hoped for, this will give you a new level of clarity and direction for how to move forward together. ✨ If you want simple, daily ways to strengthen your connection and bring more emotional and physical closeness into your marriage, join the 30-Day "Best of Us" Couples Challenge. It's designed to help you show up for each other in ways that truly land. Join now at mycoupleschallenge.com/best.

  7. Apr 14

    What Men Are Taught Vs What Marriage Needs Them to Learn

    Many men enter marriage doing exactly what they've been conditioned to do their entire lives. They show up with a certain mindset about what it means to contribute, support, and lead in a family. And while those instincts come from a good place, they don't always translate into what actually creates closeness, emotional safety, and a strong partnership. This is where a lot of couples get stuck. One partner feels like they're giving a lot, while the other still feels something is missing. In this episode, we unpack the gap between what men are taught to bring into a relationship and what marriage truly needs from them to feel connected and fulfilling. When this gap goes unrecognized, it can lead to frustration, miscommunication, and feeling like you're not on the same team. But once you see it clearly, it opens the door for a completely different level of understanding, connection, and respect. ❤️ If you want simple, daily ways to strengthen your connection and bring more emotional and physical closeness into your marriage, join the 30-Day "Best of Us" Couples Challenge. It's designed to help you show up for each other in ways that truly land. Join now at mycoupleschallenge.com/best.

  8. Apr 7

    Assumptions About Who's Doing What and Responsibilities Slipping Through the Cracks

    This time of year, life starts to fill up fast. Between holidays, travel plans, kids' activities, family events, and everything in between… even couples who usually feel on top of things can start to feel stretched. And it's not always the amount of responsibilities that creates tension, it's what happens when those responsibilities aren't clearly talked about. Assumptions start to form. Expectations go unspoken. And before you know it, things are slipping through the cracks or quietly falling on one person more than the other. In this episode, we're breaking down why this season tends to create more friction in relationships and what's really happening beneath the surface when things start to feel uneven or unappreciated. We'll help you recognize the patterns that lead to this dynamic and introduce a simple shift that can bring more clarity, teamwork, and follow-through into your relationship. If you want a practical way to stay on the same page, grab our Family Meeting Guide to start having these conversations weekly, or get it as a bonus when you join the 30-Day Prioritizing Us Challenge to build stronger communication and connection through this busy season. Find both of those resources here: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/links

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SAME TEAM: the podcast to help you become the best partner, parent, and person you can be! (formerly Empowered Couples) Hosted by your favorite couple, The Freemans, the husband-and-wife duo behind viral marriage content seen by 20M+ people every month. Both hold master's degrees in psychology, are authors, coaches, and parents... but what makes them stand out is how real and relatable their advice is. Most couples say: "Are they watching us?!" After 10+ years of coaching and 400+ episodes, this show still gives couples the practical tools, real talk, and honest coaching that most relationships are missing. Now they're also bringing on guest experts to share hard-won wisdom on marriage, parenting, and family life. Whether you're in a tough season or just want to stay connected through the chaos of life, you'll walk away from every episode with something you can actually use. If you're ready to improve communication, resolve conflict faster, and feel emotionally connected again, subscribe now. You'll want to binge past episodes and never miss what's next. P.S. The Freemans are also excited to celebrate that their new book, SAME TEAM, is now available for pre-order at meetthefreemans.com/sameteam

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  • Creator
    Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    448
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Marriage Ministry
  • Show Website
    Same Team with The Freemans

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