Overcome name-calling. Let Judas betray you. Ever mad that others aren’t? Is ‘helping others’ love? What it means to be whole: We are one. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 3, 2026 📖 Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself? (Two cents on JLP Mon 5-4-26) 📖 NEW* Biblical Question: Are you aware that there are evil spirits controlling how you think, feel, and act? 📖 *NEWER Biblical Question (after Church): Do you ever get mad at anyone who disagrees with you? Why or why not? 🗓️ Men’s Forum first Thur, May 7th, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events || See clips, links, and notes below. TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) - 00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome * (0:02:16) - 01 - ‘N-word’: Subject to words, name-calling * (0:10:45) - 02 - Tell ‘Judas’ to do it; Thoughts get busy! * (0:21:04) - 03 - People mad you’re not! Love is absence of ego * (0:27:30) - 04 - Men stay away. Thoughts are darkness: Walking dead * (0:36:32) - 05 - Doing ‘good’ things to show ‘love’? Make people feel good * (0:43:28) - 5B - Picking up trash for Earth * (0:45:28) - 06 - She ‘helps’ siblings; Puppy eyes to beta ‘husband’? * (0:56:52) - 6B - Want for nothing; Be happy with cornbread and water * (1:04:50) - 07 - Become a whole person? Feedback * (1:07:41) - 7B - JLP: We are one: Every human being is the same * (1:13:57) - 7C - Picking up trash, all ego; Shopping cart return * (1:17:06) - 08 - Guilt, family reunion; How to overcome the Devil, the ego * (1:21:28) - 8B - Strayed; coming back * (1:25:59) - 8C - Sugar’s boy; Raymond; JLP: You should want to seek God * (1:30:45) - 8D - Flat Earther?! Clean communities; Work identity; BQ * (1:41:40) - 09 - She had 3 husbands! Drop anger, the Devil: Forgive mother * (1:46:34) - 9B - Daughter, 8, bites nails… Did this help? * (1:50:25) - 9C - Do you love your husband? Love yourself? Let anger go? * (1:52:53) - 10 - JLP: Don’t let the Devil take the truth away from you * (1:56:05) - 10B - New BQ, Closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKS 🗒️ BLOG - https://rebuildingtheman.com/means-be-whole-church-260503 🎧 PODCAST / Substack - VIDEO - YouTube - Rumble - Pilled - FB - X Live - BitChute - Odysee PODCAST - Apple - Spotify - Podcast Addict - Castbox - Substack (RSS) Church with Jesse Lee Peterson at BOND, Sunday 11 AM PT (1 PM CT / 2 ET) https://rebuildingtheman.com/church Contact / Donate: 1-800-411-BOND (2663) or 323-782-1980 - https://rebuildingtheman.com/contact 🙏 SILENT PRAYER - https://rebuildingtheman.com/silentprayer 📼 PAST SERVICES: 2016-present | 2008-2014 (Archive) | 1991-1998 (select recordings) CHURCH NOTES 5/3/26 📖 Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself? 📖 NEW Biblical Question*: Are you aware that there are evil spirits controlling how you think, feel, and act? *📖 NEWER Biblical Question (after Church): Do you ever get mad at anyone who disagrees with you? Why or why not? 🗓️ Men’s Forum first Thurs, May 7th, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events 00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome (0:00:00) Start (0:01:08) Intro (0:01:21) Welcome (0:01:43) Lot to say… 01 - Overreaction to a word! “N-word,” subject to words (0:02:16) - Hake Report about the N-word (0:03:01) Nicaragua … Hake explains a little 1B - Big head; Cleft lip; Girls; Name-calling (0:07:49) - I was proud of my big head like my daddy (0:08:41) - I didn’t want a fat gf — but a thin one (0:09:27) - Ever been called the N-word? Rochelle called her it! I call myself it too (0:10:30) - JLP: Overcome words — Big Ego if so… 02 - Tell ‘Judas’ to do what she gotta do; Thoughts get busy! (0:10:45) - Young lady so scared, she trembled… (0:11:54) How do I deal with this family member? As Jesus did: Tell Judas to do what he had to do. Know that story? (0:12:38) - Jim in Alaska’s wife: Tell them who Judas was… Disciple who betrayed him… (0:13:09) - JLP: Jesus knew Judas was gonna do it — bumping fists and everything, having dinner. Go do it now. (0:13:53) - Emergency! Emergency! Thoughts made her think there was something there to protect! (0:14:53) - Shaking in your boots, go if you want — but don’t not go because of that. She could barely breathe on the way… Every eye that looked at her, she assumed they were thinking it. She bore it anyway, had a good time. No one asked or brought it up! Finally, she was asked, but it was empty words with no meaning. (0:16:24) - Finally she realized it was just words to her. 2B - JLP: Light is everything; Thoughts: suicide, (0:18:36) - Light is everything; Love is something else. What it will do to help you. There’s no you to be afraid of anything. (0:19:12) - JLP: Now I know why people commit suicide when things happen. (0:19:58) - Everything they were thinking about the “N-word” was inside them… (0:20:37) What else? (0:20:51) Assassination attempt was last Saturday… We talked about it last Sunday… 03 - People mad that you’re not mad at whom they’re mad at (0:21:04) - Why still support Trump? I told this tall guy… “If I was a black person, I would beat your a—!” I said now you’re acting like a black person! WHy you acting like that? (0:22:36) - Alex: Man cut my hair — he charged me again after he fixed it, and cut it more — and I got mad. Buddy didn’t get as mad as me, and told me to let it go. And I got mad at him. (0:23:17) - JLP: Let’s say you get mad at your husband… (0:24:18) - “Epstein!” How you gonna tell me what I should be mad at! (0:24:40) - Wow! That’s my cousin! 3B - Love the absence of the ego (0:25:05) - Love is the absence of the ego. When you don’t have ego… all powerful… You’ve got to die in order to live … Anyone with ego is of their father the Devil! (0:26:41) - Devil treats everyone the same way! Everywhere, Ooh, you want rice? All born of the woman must be born of the father. 04 - Men stay away from wives. Thoughts are darkness: Walking dead (0:27:30) - Daniel: My whole life I never agreed with my mother. Grandmother raised me while parents worked. Grandfather stayed away. (All men stay at work; their kids suffer, though!) Daniel continues: Mother listens to preachers, priests… (0:28:43) - If you gotta be a Mexican, it’s best to be a white one. (0:29:16) - Jim is anxious to get home. Does she obey you? Wife: I understand what it really means — not what I originally thought it meant. I understand women anyway. 4B - Positive thoughts are darkness, a segue (0:30:25) - She asks… Positive thoughts is where the darkness is — good, happy stuff sucks me back into the negative thoughts, like a segway (sp) maybe segue (yeah, segue). (0:31:41) - In God, in Truth, there is no thinking … She’d think it’s what she had to do. (0:33:02) - The light is everything. Walking dead. (0:33:34) No, they are the walking dead 4C - Practical thinking and No thinking: Only two worlds (0:34:26) - Two worlds only: (1) No thinking, and (2) practical thinking. (0:35:08) - Practical thinking … (0:36:06) - JLP: Good both working on yourselves, Jim and wife… 05 - Doing ‘good’ things to show ‘love’? Make people feel good (0:36:32) - No free will, Jesse asserts with someone… (0:37:27) - Crying in appreciation (0:37:51) - Lying? Appreciation tears, let it come and go. (0:38:09) - Good things he does. Why do you call them good? Make someone else feel good? “It’s love.” What love? (0:39:01) - One gal’s grandma: Make you feel good. To make others feel happy, you’re happy! That’s a good thing! (0:39:46) - Daniel: Doing good for people, that’s passing on love… “Recently, my cousin, he asked me for gas money.” Oh, you feel good about it! You the sucka! “If they pay back, I’m not AS dumb…” (0:41:38) - Boy, 9, says: The other person you’re helping feel happy and want to make others happy. (0:42:10) - Alexis — it’s nice, but fleeting 5B - Picking up trash for Earth (0:43:28) - I tear up when I see the Lord working through me … The Earth likes it. We’re cells of the Earth, trying to clean up what we live on … JLP: picking up other people’s trash! I’m gonna and you to my neighbor! (0:44:38) - Pick up dogs’ stuff… (0:45:13) - Nice to see there’s no more trash…. 06 - She helps siblings; Puppy eyes to beta ‘husband’? (0:45:28) - The granddaughter: We wanna help others to feel a way, or feel in control. I’m quick to help my siblings — maybe I’m the fool too. I’m not anymore. Not truly helping them — doing a disservice. (0:46:40) … I feel I owe them… (0:47:56) - What do you tell your husband to STOP — I probably just give him puppy eyes… He gives up. What a beta, huh? “I don’t think he’s betaaaa.” (0:49:01) If he’s not alpha, heeee’s… “Beta.” (0:49:51) - Why don’t you listen when he says not to help them… Man says: “Guilt.” Yeah! “Probably guilt and shame…” 6A - Won’t obey him! Still gonna marry her?! Not gonna change! (0:51:26) - If you loved what’s right… Forgiven mother? … He’s not my husband YET! … Why you looking right at him? (0:52:11) - Like those white women… (0:53:19) - You still gonna marry her? “I don’t think it happens very often.” She says, “I’m very independent, in charge of my family.” (0:54:09) - She’s NOT gonna change! What’s happening now, is not gonna happen. (0:54:47) - Why don’t you let God change you NOW? “I fall asleep a lot when I’m busy.” Why do you fall asleep so much? Catch myself and slow down more. Not praying. He is. You about to marry the Devil! (0:55:48) - Put the marriage off for 20 years or so. 6B - Want for nothing; Wife killed husband; Be happy with cornbread and water (0:56:52) - Any questions? Not wanting anything… Shall not want… (0:58:14) … (1:00:00) JLP story of a woma