Centered in the City

Centered in the City

Centered in the City is a virtual oasis to support you living a more mindful and intentional life in the hustle and bustle of your city. Certified Professional Mindfulness Coach, Wade Brill, will lead you in various practical and tangible meditations, discussions and interviews that create a space for you to pause, reflect and connect. Manage stress, anxiety and overwhelm so you can feel more calm, centered and intentional as you live your life in the city.

  1. 1d ago

    Episode 299: The Hidden Emotional Needs Behind Our Tech Habits with Jay Vidyarthi

    What if the way you use technology could actually teach you more about yourself? We spend so much of our lives surrounded by technology—scrolling, searching, streaming, texting, working, and increasingly, asking AI to think alongside us. But what if our relationship with technology isn't just about willpower or screen time? What if it's a window into our deeper emotional needs? In this episode of Centered in the City, I'm joined by Jay Vidyarthi, award-winning author of Reclaim Your Mind, designer, entrepreneur, and thought leader at the intersection of mindfulness and technology. Jay has spent more than 15 years practicing meditation and has helped design more than 50 technologies aimed at improving human wellbeing. His work includes Muse, the Healthy Minds Program, and other innovative approaches to using technology in service of human flourishing. We explore what it really means to reclaim our minds in a world designed to capture our attention. Jay offers a nuanced perspective: there is absolutely a responsibility on technology companies and attention-harvesting platforms to create healthier digital environments, but there is also a personal responsibility to become more aware of how and why we engage with technology. And that awareness can tell us a lot. In this conversation, we explore: Why our relationship with technology can be a mirror for our deeper emotional needs How scrolling, notifications, and algorithms can give us a watered-down version of what we're actually seeking How self-awareness can help us recognize when we're being hooked by an algorithm Why simply blaming technology doesn't give us back our agency How mindfulness or journaling can help us pause long enough to notice what we're actually looking for How to create a more empowered and intentional relationship with technology How we can use AI to enhance our capabilities without cannibalizing the very human capacities we want to preserve Why protecting our attention may be one of the most important ways we protect our humanity   Take a listen to this episode and share your takeaways with us on Instagram @OneWade  and @jay.vidyarthi   Resources: Centered Walks: Guided walking meditations to support you getting out of your head and into your body 100 Mindful Moments to Balance & Energize by Wade Brill Reclaim Your Mind By Jay Vidyarthi   ***** Jay Vidyarthi is the award-winning author of RECLAIM YOUR MIND and an accomplished designer, entrepreneur, and thought leader at the unique intersection of mindfulness and technology. As the founder of Still Ape, he's been involved in over fifty technologies that have helped millions of people improve their well-being, including Muse, the Healthy Minds Program, Sonic Cradle, and many more. His work and ideas have been featured by Harvard, MIT, TED, Forbes, CNN, Fast Company, Psychology Today, and Mashable. A meditation practitioner for over fifteen years, Jay is as comfy on a silent retreat as he is challenging his son to epic video game battles. On days off, he can usually be found making music, enjoying screen time, or out for a walk somewhere near Lake Ontario. Learn more at jayvidyarthi.com

  2. Aug 13

    Episode 298: Forest Bathing in the City: How to Reconnect With Nature & Self

    What if you didn't have to escape the city to reconnect with nature? In this episode, we explore the practice of forest bathing and how simple moments of intentional connection with the natural world can become part of everyday life—even in the middle of a busy city. Modern life can easily pull us away from the natural world. Screens, schedules, noise, and the pace of daily life can make nature feel like something we have to travel to experience. But the benefits of nature connection aren't reserved for remote forests or weekend getaways. In this episode, discover simple ways to bring more awareness, curiosity, and connection with nature into your everyday routine—whether you live in the countryside, a suburb, or the heart of a city. In This Episode, We Explore: What forest bathing really means What a "sit spot" is and how to create your own How mindfulness isn't about achieving a specific state Why you don't have to leave the city to experience nature connection Simple ways to notice and engage with nature every day How slowing down can change the way we experience familiar places Why connection with nature is about relationship, not escape Take a listen to this episode and share your takeaways with us: @OneWade and @enchanted.place.inc Resources: Download Centered walks and get one of my favorite walking meditations to guide you on connecting to "Awe" on your walk. Learn more about some of the research on Forest Bathing: Standford Medicine  Get a copy of my interactive journal guide, 100 Mindful Moments to Balance & Energize  ***** Cyndi is a certified forest bathing guide and the founder of Enchanted Place , a Vancouver-based platform dedicated to helping people reconnect with the living world. Grounded in the belief that taking care of our mental health and taking care of the planet are deeply connected, her work offers guided forest immersions and somatic practices that help us slow down, regulate our nervous systems, and find calm. Cyndi studied Psychology and Sustainability at Minerva University and holds her certification through the Forest Therapy School.   Cyndi is also looking for a UX designer/technologist/artist who can help her build enchanted place's digital experience. If you are interested to chat, please reach out to her via email: Cyndi@enchanted.place

  3. Aug 6

    Don't Stop Dating Yourself When You Start Dating Someone

    Have you ever started dating someone you really like and suddenly your life starts revolving around them? OR maybe you are in a long-term relationship and you feel yourself slipping away? When we are building romantic relationships with people and become emotionally invested in someone, it can be surprisingly easy to lose touch with ourselves. In this episode of Centered in the City, I explore how to stay connected to yourself while building a romantic relationship and why healthy dating isn't about becoming less invested, more detached, or "playing it cool." It's about learning how to love someone without abandoning yourself. I share practical ways to recognize self-abandonment, maintain your own identity and routines and strengthen self-trust while navigating a (new) relationship.You'll learn how to distinguish between healthy compromise and self-abandonment,and use mindfulness to come back to yourself when dating anxiety takes over. In this episode, you'll discover: Why dating someone you really like can make you lose touch with yourself What self-abandonment can look like in romantic relationships How to stay connected to your friends, routines, interests, and goals while dating The difference between healthy compromise and abandoning your own needs Why you don't have to choose between loving someone and loving yourself Curious to go deeper into this topic with 1:1 coaching? Schedule a Connection Call here to get on the fall waitlist.  Share your takeaways or Qs with me from this episode with me on Instagram @OneWade or send me a note here.

  4. Jul 23

    Am I Living Life Right? How to Stop Questioning Every Decision

    Have you ever looked around at the life you've worked so hard to build and wondered... "Am I in the right place?" "Am I making the right decisions?" "Why do I still feel anxious about the future?" If you're an ambitious woman navigating your career, relationships, purpose, or the pressure of time, this episode is for you. So many high-achieving women believe that once they reach the next milestone—landing the promotion, finding the partner, buying the home, or achieving financial success—they'll finally feel settled. But instead of certainty, many find themselves carrying a quiet anxiety: What if I'm getting it wrong? In this episode, we're exploring why success doesn't always quiet self-doubt, how societal expectations shape the way we evaluate our lives, and what it looks like to stop chasing the "right" path and start creating a life that feels deeply aligned. In this episode, you'll learn: Why high achievers often experience more uncertainty—not less—as they accomplish their goals. The difference between living from external expectations versus inner alignment. How to recognize the three voices influencing your decisions: society's expectations, your personal ambitions, and your inner wisdom. Why asking, "Am I choosing right?" keeps you stuck—and the question that creates more clarity instead. Practical mindfulness practices to cultivate self-trust and make decisions from a grounded place instead of fear. Share your takeaways with me on Instagram @OneWade Take the Overwhelm Archetype Quiz Here If you are wanting to support creating more inner alignment so that you can make decisions with confidence, explore 1:1 coaching together (limited spots available).  Check out mindfulness resources here.

  5. Jul 2

    Dopamine Overload: How to Stop Chasing the Next Hit and Find Calm in an Overstimulated World

    Do you find yourself reaching for your phone without thinking? Constantly checking emails, scrolling social media, or feeling restless when you finally have a moment of quiet? You're not alone. In today's always-on world, our brains are bombarded with endless opportunities for quick dopamine hits. While dopamine itself isn't the enemy, constantly chasing stimulation can leave us feeling distracted, anxious, overwhelmed, and disconnected from ourselves. In this episode of Centered in the City, I explore how dopamine influences our attention and how mindfulness can help you reclaim your focus, inner calm, and sense of presence. You'll discover practical tools to interrupt autopilot behaviors, regulate your system, and create a healthier relationship with technology and life without giving up the things you enjoy. In this episode, you'll learn: What dopamine really is  How dopamine overload contributes to anxiety, overwhelm, and mental fatigue The hidden cost of constant stimulation on your focus, creativity, and relationships Mindful practices to help you stop compulsive scrolling and become more intentional with your attention How to regulate your nervous system instead of relying on external distractions Why true fulfillment comes from presence not the next notification   Share with me your takeaways from today's episode. Join me on Instagram @OneWade. Curious to explore if coachign 1:1 is a fit? Schedule a complimentary call here.  Check out my interactive journal 100 Mindful Moments to Balance & Energize here

  6. Jun 25

    Dating Anxiety: How to Stop Overthinking and Trust Yourself Again

    Do you find yourself replaying conversations after a date, obsessively checking your phone or overthinking? If dating feels full of uncertanity and anxiety, I wanrt you to know you are not alone.  In this episode of Centered in the City podcast, I explore the root causes of dating anxiety and shares practical tools to help you stop overthinking, regulate your nervous system, and reconnect with self-trust. Modern dating can trigger uncertainty, fear of rejection and the pressure to "get it right." Whether you're navigating online dating or simply feeling exhausted by the process, this episode will help you approach relationships with more presence, confidence, and peace. You'll learn how to notice the anxiety and cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself while dating. The goal isn't to control the outcome. It is to stay connected to yourself throughout the journey. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why modern dating creates anxiety and emotional overwhelm The signs you're dating from fear instead of self-trust Why high-achieving women often overthink relationships Three common dating traps  Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Coaching practices to calm dating anxiety and regulate your nervous system How to trust yourself along the journey Ways to elevate your energy and confidence   Share your takeaways of this episode with me on Instagram @OneWade.  Want more 1:1 support to manage dating anxiety? Explore if working together is a fit with a connection call.  Take the Overwhelm Archetype quiz and learn how to uniquely managine overwhelm in your life.  Manage anxiety by adding walking meditations into your daily routine. Download Centered Walks to support you getting out of your head and into your body.

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Centered in the City is a virtual oasis to support you living a more mindful and intentional life in the hustle and bustle of your city. Certified Professional Mindfulness Coach, Wade Brill, will lead you in various practical and tangible meditations, discussions and interviews that create a space for you to pause, reflect and connect. Manage stress, anxiety and overwhelm so you can feel more calm, centered and intentional as you live your life in the city.

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