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Ever felt like you’re waking up in a world that still wants you asleep? Like you’ve always thought deeper, asked bigger questions… and saw through the illusions faster than most? Mind Love™ is a top 0.5% podcast with over 500 episodes, and Podcast of the Year winner. Hosted by Melissa Monte...speaker, story mentor, and self-proclaimed questioner of everything. This show is for the spiritually curious and mentally sharp. The ones who crave depth but reject dogma. Who believe in energy and brain chemistry. Who want to connect with Source but question religion. Who want to feel more free in a world that tells them to stay small. Inside each episode, we explore: Conversations that blend the sacred, the scientific, and the suppressedTools to help you rewire your mind, reclaim your voice, and rewrite your inner narrativeThe questions most people are afraid to ask...about healing, identity, and what it means to wake upNew episodes every week. Because thinking for yourself is a rebellion. And awakening is a discipline.

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  1. 6d ago

    AI Already Replaced Your Gut Instinct | Rana Gujral • 470

    Has AI already replaced your gut instinct? Rana Gujral breaks down how AI is quietly replacing the fast, intuitive judgment you use to make decisions every day, and why losing the muscle to catch AI's mistakes might be a bigger risk than the mistakes themselves. This conversation goes beyond the productivity angle into who actually gets blamed when an AI system fails, whether free will still means anything once AI is shaping your options, and whether you can actually fall in love with something that isn't conscious. One thing to know going in: partway through this conversation I realized my guest was reading real time AI generated answers off a teleprompter instead of speaking freely. The insights still hold up and are worth your time, but I wanted you to have that context before you hit play. What you'll learn: • Why the judgment you'll need most is the one you're quietly losing  • Who actually gets blamed when an AI system fails  • Why falling in love with something that isn't conscious isn't a bug Rana Gujral is CEO of Behavioral Signals, where he builds AI systems that read intent and emotion from voice in real time. He's the author of "The AI Instinct" (Wiley), which looks at what happens to human judgment, accountability, and identity once human and AI cognition become one coupled system. Find Rana's book "The AI Instinct" and all links at: mindlove.com/470 Ready to strengthen your own judgment in a world built to think for you? Join the free Mind Love Collective for consistent transformation, one call a month all year. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  2. Sep 1

    Reading The Room Is Costing You Your Boundaries | April Snow • 469

    Does sensitivity actually help you as much as it hurts you? April Snow breaks down why the same trait that makes you good at reading a room is also what quietly erodes your boundaries. This conversation goes beyond typical self-care talk into the real difference between caring about someone and taking on their emotions as your own, and why some of the most capable, high-achieving people never realize they're highly sensitive at all. It's a look at how sensitivity gets mistaken for weakness, when it's actually running the show in ways most people never connect the dots on. What you'll learn: Why boundaries erode fastest for people who read rooms bestThe real difference between caring about someone and caregiving themWhy high achievers rarely recognize their own sensitivity April Snow is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the author of Big Feelings, Big Joy. She's spent her career helping highly sensitive people stop treating their trait as something to manage and start understanding it as a genuine strength, backed by the research on how the highly sensitive brain actually works. Find April's book "Big Feelings, Big Joy" and all links at: mindlove.com/469 Ready to practice holding your boundaries instead of absorbing everyone else's? Join the free Mind Love Collective for monthly coaching and support throughout the year. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  3. Aug 25

    Why 'Let It Go' Is Actually Bad Advice | Cynthia Abulafia • 468

    What's actually wrong with being told to just let it go? Cynthia Abulafia breaks down why letting go might be the worst advice spirituality ever gave us, and why turning toward what activates you does more than release ever could. This conversation goes beyond surface-level mindfulness into the pulsation underneath every trigger, every ego spiral, and every moment you catch yourself performing peace instead of actually feeling it. Cynthia and Melissa get into the goddess as a model for staying in the mess of real life, instead of climbing a ladder out of it. What you'll learn: Why letting go quietly teaches you to disassociateThe real difference between a trigger and an activationHow non-duality gets used to dodge real accountability Cynthia Abulafia is a yoga therapist and author of Embodying the Goddess: How to Awaken Curiosity and Reverence on the Spiritual Path. She spent 15 years inside direct-path non-duality teaching before turning her focus to why the body, not transcendence, is where the real work happens. Her work maps a way back into the heart that does not require leaving it in the first place. Find Cynthia's book Embodying the Goddess and all links at: mindlove.com/468 Ready to turn toward what you would normally push away, with people who actually get it? Join the free Mind Love Collective for the kind of intimate community where breakthroughs happen. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  4. Aug 18

    Your 'Caring' Might Just Be Carrying | Dr. Tony Nader • 467

    Why does caring feel so exhausting right now? Tony Nader breaks down why so much of what drains us was never actually caring, it was carrying someone else’s pain, outcome, or opinion as if it were our own. This conversation goes beyond compassion fatigue advice into the actual mechanism your nervous system uses to confuse a stranger’s problem with your own life. Nader also walks through a real-time way to tell, in the moment, which one you’re actually doing. What you’ll learn: • Why caring and carrying feel the same but aren’t • Your nervous system can’t tell news from your life • The 10-second test that reveals when you’re carrying Tony Nader is a Harvard and MIT-trained physician and the successor to Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, leading Transcendental Meditation organizations worldwide. His empirical research on the nervous system has been published widely, and his new book, The Power of Caring, applies decades of that research to a simple question: why sustainable caring depends on regulation, not willpower. Find Tony’s book “The Power of Caring” and all links at: mindlove.com/467 Want to practice caring without carrying, with people who actually get it? Join the free Mind Love Collective for monthly themed calls and weekly challenge accountability. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  5. Aug 11

    Why Letting Go of Suffering Feels Like Dying | Richard Moss • 466

    Why does letting go of your own suffering feel like dying? Richard Moss breaks down why so many of us stay attached to our pain long after we've outgrown it, and why the act of letting go can feel like losing yourself entirely. This conversation goes beyond common advice about healing into what it actually means to touch a difficult feeling instead of fighting it, and why forcing yourself to forgive someone usually backfires. It's a different way of thinking about what your suffering has actually been doing for you all along. What you'll learn: Why your suffering might be protecting your sense of selfThe real difference between forgiveness and pretending to forgiveHow touching a hard feeling changes what it becomes Richard Moss, MD, is a former physician whose spontaneous spiritual awakening in 1977 completely changed his understanding of consciousness, healing, and human suffering. He's spent almost fifty years teaching people how presence, not willpower, is what actually changes us. Find Richard's book "The Mandala of Being" and all links at: mindlove.com/465 Ready to stop mistaking your suffering for safety? Join the free Mind Love Collective for the kind of intimate community where breakthroughs happen. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  6. Aug 4

    You Were Never Meant to Calm Down Alone | Arielle Schwartz • 465

    What if you were never actually supposed to calm yourself down alone? Dr. Arielle Schwartz breaks down why self-soothing on your own rarely works and why real calm actually depends on co-regulation with another person. This conversation goes beyond standard nervous system advice into the difference between empathy and compassion, and why too much of the wrong one leaves you just as burned out as before. It's the conversation you need if you've ever wondered why willpower alone never seems to be enough. What you'll learn: Why your nervous system can't calm down without another personThe real difference between empathy and compassionWhy what looks like burnout is often unprocessed trauma Dr. Arielle Schwartz is a clinical psychologist who has spent thirty years treating complex trauma using a nervous-system-informed, non-pathologizing approach. She combines EMDR, somatic therapy, and parts work into a model she calls Resilience-Informed Therapy, and has written eight books on trauma recovery. Her work reframes trauma symptoms as adaptive responses rather than pathology, which shapes everything in this conversation. Find Arielle's work and all links at: mindlove.com/465 Want real support instead of trying to calm yourself down completely on your own? Join the free Mind Love Collective for real accountability and a community that actually gets it. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  7. Jul 28

    Why Healed Shame Still Comes Back | Frank Spinelli • 464

    What if the healing work you already did doesn't mean the shame is actually gone? Dr. Frank Spinelli breaks down why old shame can resurface years after you thought you'd worked through it, even after real therapy, real progress, and real proof you'd changed. This conversation goes past the idea that healing is something you finish into what it actually takes to live alongside shame long term, not just survive it once. What you'll learn: Why the critical voice in your head was never yoursHow trauma loops try to fix the past through repetitionWhy staying busy can mask shame for years at a timeThe daily practice that keeps old wounds from running the show Dr. Frank Spinelli is a physician and author of The Shame Compass. He survived childhood abuse, later confronted his abuser as an adult, and built a framework for working with shame after his own healing cracked back open during the pandemic. Find Frank's book "The Shame Compass" and all links at: mindlove.com/464 Ready to build a daily practice for working through your shame instead of white-knuckling it alone? Join the free Mind Love Collective for consistent transformation, one call a month all year. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

  8. Jul 14

    How to Actually Want Sex Again | Kayna Cassard • 462

    Why do so many people desperately want to want sex but can't get their body to go there? Kayna Cassard breaks down why the gap between wanting to want and actually wanting is a nervous system problem, not a desire problem. This conversation goes into the specific conditions your arousal system needs that nobody ever taught you about. What you'll learn: Why wanting to want sex keeps you stuck in a shame spiralThe difference between responsive desire and low libidoHow your sexual arousal system is a reward system, not a switchWhat your body actually needs before desire can show up Kayna Cassard is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist who spent over a decade as a pelvic pain patient while specializing in sexual health. She created the Arousal Architecture framework after thousands of client hours revealed that most people aren't broken... they just don't know what their system actually needs. Find Kayna's book "Arousal Architecture" and all links at: mindlove.com/462 Ready to figure out what your arousal system actually needs with people doing the same work? Join the free Mind Love Collective for just one themed call a month and real support when you need it. mindlove.com/join See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Ever felt like you’re waking up in a world that still wants you asleep? Like you’ve always thought deeper, asked bigger questions… and saw through the illusions faster than most? Mind Love™ is a top 0.5% podcast with over 500 episodes, and Podcast of the Year winner. Hosted by Melissa Monte...speaker, story mentor, and self-proclaimed questioner of everything. This show is for the spiritually curious and mentally sharp. The ones who crave depth but reject dogma. Who believe in energy and brain chemistry. Who want to connect with Source but question religion. Who want to feel more free in a world that tells them to stay small. Inside each episode, we explore: Conversations that blend the sacred, the scientific, and the suppressedTools to help you rewire your mind, reclaim your voice, and rewrite your inner narrativeThe questions most people are afraid to ask...about healing, identity, and what it means to wake upNew episodes every week. Because thinking for yourself is a rebellion. And awakening is a discipline.

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