What if creating a better future isn’t about continuing to build more—but about regenerating what we have lost? In this inspiring episode of Ask a Death Doula, Suzanne B. O’Brien welcomes visionary community builder, regenerative placemaker, and author Tony Cho for a powerful conversation about the growing movement to restore balance between people, community, and the planet. Tony’s book, Generation Regeneration: Codesigning the Future of Cities Through Regenerative Placemaking, invites us to rethink how we live, build, and belong. Regeneration asks us to move beyond simply sustaining systems that are no longer working and begin creating communities that actively restore life, deepen human connection, honor nature, and help both people and the planet flourish. Suzanne and Tony explore the profound connection between regeneration and what Suzanne calls the Great Remembering: our return to the timeless understanding that we belong to one another, that community is essential to our well-being, and that caring for people and caring for the Earth cannot be separated. For generations, communities knew how to care for their elders, support their caregivers, honor the dying, protect the land, and gather around those experiencing life’s greatest transitions. Much of that wisdom has been forgotten—but it has not been lost. This conversation is an invitation to remember. It is also a hopeful reminder that regeneration does not begin somewhere far away or require us to wait for someone else to lead it. It begins locally—with the places we create, the choices we make, the relationships we nurture, and our willingness to become active participants in the healing of our communities. In This Episode, Suzanne and Tony Explore: What regeneration truly means—and why sustainability alone is no longer enough The relationship between people, place, nature, culture, and community How our physical environments can either encourage belonging or deepen separation Why community must once again become part of our essential infrastructure The importance of creating spaces where people can gather, connect, and care for one another Moving from systems of extraction toward systems that restore and give back The loneliness and disconnection affecting modern society The wisdom we can recover from traditional and community-centered ways of living Suzanne’s vision of the Great Remembering and returning aging, caregiving, dying, and grieving to the sacred Why communities taking care of communities may be one of the most important movements of our time How each of us can participate in creating a more connected, compassionate, and life-affirming future About Tony Cho Tony Cho is a purpose-driven entrepreneur, author, visionary community builder, and leading voice in regenerative placemaking. He is the founder of Future of Cities and the author of Generation Regeneration: Codesigning the Future of Cities Through Regenerative Placemaking. Through his work, Tony is helping communities reimagine the built environment so that people, culture, nature, and purpose can flourish together. About Generation Regeneration Part manifesto and part field guide, Generation Regeneration presents a hopeful new vision for our cities and communities—one rooted in balance, belonging, ecological restoration, and shared well-being. The book invites policymakers, developers, cultural leaders, and everyday citizens to become co-creators of communities that do more than survive. It asks us to create places that actively heal, nourish, connect, and regenerate life for generations to come. A Message to Carry With You We do not have to invent an entirely new way forward. In many ways, we are being asked to remember what humanity has always known: that we need one another, that nature is not separate from us, and that healthy communities are built through relationship, reciprocity, service, and care. Regeneration begins when we stop asking, “What can I take from this place?” and begin asking, “What can I restore, contribute, and leave better for those who come after me?” This is the Great Remembering. This is community taking care of community again. And every one of us has a role to play. Resources Learn more about Tony Cho and his work: Here Discover the work of Future of Cities Read Generation Regeneration: Codesigning the Future of Cities Through Regenerative Placemaking Here Learn more about Suzanne B. O’Brien and Doulagivers Institute: Here Access the free Doulagivers Level 1 Family Caregiver Training and help bring essential end-of-life education back into your community Here If this conversation inspires you, please share the episode with someone who believes it is possible to create a more compassionate, connected, and regenerative world.