The Modern Man Podcast

Ted Phaeton, The Radcast Network
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"The Modern Man" is a series focused on discussing the challenges and obstacles men face in today's society. It is an open forum of discussion where thoughts, strategies and ideas of men living a happy and fulfilled life are explored. The Modern Man aims to create a community of men not only sharing and connecting on a deeper level, but also exploring how to thrive and live a happy and fulfilled life. This is done through intentional conversations strategically aimed at issues that men face in today's society.

  1. 2D AGO

    195: Biohacking Doctor: Why High-Performing Men Crash in Their 40s (And How to Fix It).

    Are you successful but secretly running on empty? Most high-performing men are chasing success while feeling isolated, overworked, and physically deteriorating—and they don't even realize it. In this masterclass, I sit down with Dr. Scott Sherr, a board-certified internal medicine physician and health optimization expert, to dismantle the "Success Lie" that is leading men to burnout. We dive into the biological "Warrior to Wizard" transition and how to optimize your cellular architecture so you can win at work without losing at home. Troscriptions Website: https://troscriptions.com/modernman  STOP GUESSING. START LEADING. Take the "Where Did My Time Go?" Audit now to identify your time leaks and reclaim 10-20 hours of your week: https://themodernmanpodcast.com/wheredidmytimego  What You Will Learn In This Masterclass: The Sympathetic Spiral of Doom: Why staying in "fight or flight" mode leads to mitochondrial suicide and chronic disease. Warrior vs. Wizard: How the biological definition of strength must change as you lead a business and family. The "Normal" Trap: Why the standard medical definition of "normal" is actually a dangerous baseline for a high-performing man. Cognitive Edge: The truth about Methylene Blue and low-dose nootropics for bypassing brain fog and entering flow state. GABA vs. Serotonin: Why your "anxiety" is likely a braking-system issue, not a happiness issue. CHAPTERS 00:00 – The "Normal = Deteriorating" Trap  02:11 – The Warrior to Wizard Transition (Parenting & Control) 05:58 – Signs Your Nervous System is Crashing  08:56 – Why High-Performance Men Shouldn't Want to be "Normal"  11:17 – Mitochondria: The Engine of Executive Focus  14:27 – The Truth About Trauma Center "Health"  17:22 – The Sympathetic Spiral of Doom Explained  22:31 – How ATP Deficiency Destroys Decision Making  28:46 – Methylene Blue: A Battery Charger for the Brain  40:31 – The GABA Solution for Calm in the Storm  45:26 – Breaking the Spiral: Actionable Routines  50:23 – Identity Beyond the Title (Fatherhood & Legacy) ABOUT DR. SCOTT SHERR: Dr. Scott Sherr is a board-certified internal medicine physician specializing in Health Optimization Medicine (HOMe). He is the COO of Troscriptions and a lead faculty member of the HOMe-HOPe nonprofit, where he translates complex biochemical mechanics into actionable protocols for high-stakes performance. Sherr's Links: Website: https://drscottsherr.com/ https://homehope.org/ Instagram: drscottsherr   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights  🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

    58 min

  2. FEB 5

    193: Hedge Fund Analyst: The Corporate System is Designed to Enslave You with Alex Feinberg

    In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton sits down with former professional athlete and hedge fund analyst Alex Feinberg to deconstruct the "Success Trap" facing modern professionals. Alex shares his journey from the stress of elite athletics to the high-stakes world of Silicon Valley and high finance, where he discovered the "writing on the wall": the global economy is designed to maximize your output while minimizing your freedom.  They deep-dive into the Triple Seven Framework—the ultimate benchmark for integrated success: 7 hours of sleep, a 7-minute mile, and 7 figures of liquid assets. Alex explains why most high-performers are "isolated operators" who sacrifice their health for digits on a screen, and provides the Kingpin Model for reclaiming 10–20 hours a week without losing your professional edge. If you are a faith-driven leader seeking financial sovereignty, time mastery, and a deeper connection with your family, this conversation is your orientation for the "6-Hour CEO" lifestyle.    Chapters: 0:00 – The "Wallpaper Filter": Why you ignore the obvious  2:15 – Why the world is designed to enslave the American man  7:45 – The Pro Athlete Multiplier: Why your physique is your resume  13:10 – Hedge Fund Secrets: How to win when you aren't working  19:35 – The Kingpin Model: Identifying high-leverage moves 25:50 – Triple Seven Framework: Sleep, Speed, and Seven Figures  34:10 – Why "Work-Life Balance" is a lie for leaders  42:15 – Reclaiming your role as the Modern Noble Knight    Feinberg's Links: Website/Professional Bio: www.insanelyaddictive.com LinkedIn: alexfeinberg1 YouTube: @alexfeinberg1 Instagram: alexfeinberg1   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights    🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8  Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man

    50 min

  3. JAN 29

    192:The Uncomfortable Truth: Why 90% of Men Are Failing ( How To Be The Top 10%) w/ Kirk Kappelhof

    Science reveals that enjoying your habits might be shrinking your brain. Here is the neuroscience of the AMCC and why 90% of modern men are physically and mentally weaker than their grandfathers. In this episode of The Modern Man, we sit down with a High-Performance Strategist to decode the biological and sociological crisis facing men today. We break down the Anterior Mid-Cingulate Cortex (AMCC)—the specific area of the brain responsible for willpower—and why new research suggests that "doing what you love" might be killing your resilience. If you feel like you are working harder but getting weaker, the data backs you up. From plummeting grip strength to the "loneliness recession," we examine the exact statistics that reveal why modern men are falling behind previous generations. But more importantly, we give you the protocol to join the top 10% who are thriving.   We also dive deep into "The Anger Trap"—why most men default to anger because they lack the tools to process shame, guilt, or fear—and how to finally break that cycle to become a better husband, father, and leader. In this episode, you will learn: The Neuroscience of Willpower: Why the AMCC only grows when you do things you hate. The "90/10" Rule: Why the gap between the top 10% of men and the bottom 90% is widening. Emotional Leadership: How to stop snapping at your family by identifying the "primary emotion" beneath your anger. The "Rule of 3": A simple morning protocol to rebuild your self-respect before 8 AM.   Chapter 00:00 - The "Weakness" Crisis: Intro & Hook 02:23 - Why Comfort Kills Ambition (The Kilimanjaro Lesson) 06:58 - The AMCC: Why "Enjoying It" Shrinks Your Brain (Must Watch) 11:43 - How To Hack Your Self-Talk During Hard Tasks 18:53 - The 90% Decline: Why You Are Weaker Than Your Grandfather 26:07 - The "Anger Trap": Why Men Only Show 2 Emotions 33:00 - The "Nice Guy" Syndrome & People Pleasing 42:17 - Purpose vs. Pleasure: The Viktor Frankl Formula 49:23 - From Page to Emperor: The 4 Stages of Manhood 54:11 - The "Rule of 3": How To Fix Your Life By Tomorrow Morning Kappelhof's Links: Website/Professional Bio: thewhitehousery.com  LinkedIn: kirkkappelhoff YouTube: KirkKappelhoff Tiktok:@kirkkappelhoff Instagram: @kirkkappelhoff   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man   #MensMentalHealth #Neuroscience #Willpower #AndrewHuberman #ModernMasculinity #BurnoutRecovery #Stoicism #Leadership #TheModernMan

    1h 4m

  4. JAN 22

    191: The Regenerative Expert: "You Are Full Of 'Zombie Cells'!" (How To Delete Them) with Dr. Rhee

    Is your doctor lying to you about recovery? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tommy Rhee, the former team doctor for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and a pioneer in regenerative medicine. We uncover the dark side of "traditional" pain management—why cortisone shots, ice, and pain killers might actually be accelerating your aging process and destroying your joints. We dive deep into the breakthrough science of "Zombie Cells" (Senescence), how to lengthen your telomeres to reverse biological aging, and the new topical stem cell technology (Regen) that is saving NFL careers without a single needle. If you are a man over 30 feeling the aches of aging, this episode is your roadmap to a pain-free life.   CHAPTERS 0:00 - The "Pain Med" Trap: Why masking injury leads to rupture 02:17 - Who is Dr. Tommy Rhee? (NFL & UCLA Experience) 03:55 - Recovery vs. Overtraining: Why you feel old & tired 08:21 - The Truth About Cortisone & Injections (Secondary Injury) 10:32 - The "Regen" Breakthrough: Stem cells without needles? 14:39 - What are "Zombie Cells"? (The Science of Aging) 20:29 - Live Cells vs. Cell-Free: Safety & Cancer Risks Explained 26:49 - How to fix "Dad Knees" & Tennis Elbow 32:05 - WARNING: Stop taking pain meds before a workout 33:44 - The Future of Longevity: Active at 80 49:03 - Dr. Rhee diagnoses Ted's foot pain (Live Consult)   Rhee's Links: Website: rheegen.com Practice: physicalchiro.com Instagram: dr.rheetommy   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man   #StemCells #JointPain #AntiAging #DrTommyRhee #Biohacking #MensHealth #Recovery #TheModernMan #Longevity #Arthritis

    57 min

  5. JAN 16

    190: The "Silent Crisis with David McLain & Jamal Jones

    The unspoken reality of being a widower, a single father, and a man trying to find love again. In this episode, I sit down with David McClain and Jamal Jones, hosts of the powerful podcast Getting Back Up. Both men lost their wives to cancer and were left to raise their children alone. They reveal the brutal truths about grief that most men are too afraid to admit—from the anger you feel at your late spouse for leaving you, to the guilt of removing their furniture to reclaim your home. If you are struggling with loss, navigating single fatherhood, or feeling guilty about moving on, this conversation is the permission slip you didn't know you needed. Topics Discussed:  - Why "staying strong" is actually a weakness in disguise.  - The "Dad's House, Dad's Rules" moment: Changing the environment to survive.  - How to date again without feeling like you are cheating on your late wife.  - The concept of "Post-Traumatic Growth" and how to harden like an egg, not soften like a carrot.   Chapters: 0:00 - Intro: The Widower's Dilemma  01:44 - The "Playdate" That Saved My Life  04:51 - What Male Grief Actually Looks Like (It's Not What You Think)  09:07 - Single Dad Survival Mode: "Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner"  13:50 - The Hard Truth: "You Can't Live In The Grave"  20:41 - The Taboo Emotion: Being Angry At Your Dead Wife 27:15 - Post-Traumatic Growth: The Egg vs. The Carrot  31:48 - How To Stop Passing Trauma To Your Children  36:31 - Finding Love After Loss: Navigating The Guilt  39:41 - "Dad's Rules": Why I Changed The Furniture  47:09 - Why Me? vs. Why Not Me?   McLain's & Jones's  Links Amazon Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding Apple Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding iHeart: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝  Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man #Widower #GriefJourney #MensMentalHealth #SingleDad #LifeAfterLoss #TheModernMan

    54 min
  6. 189: How to Exit Your 9-5 in 18 Months (The "No-Bank" Real Estate Strategy)

    JAN 10

    189: How to Exit Your 9-5 in 18 Months (The "No-Bank" Real Estate Strategy)

    Are you an ambitious professional feeling overworked and ready to reclaim 10-20 hours of your week? In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, Ted Phaeton sits down with real estate mogul Chris Prefontaine to break down the exact real estate strategy you need to exit your 9-5 and achieve financial freedom without ever stepping foot in a bank. Chris reveals his "Three Paydays" framework—a proven system for creative real estate investing that uses owner financing and principal-only payments to build passive income and long-term wealth. If you're a family-oriented leader looking for structure, brotherhood, and clarity, this is your roadmap to becoming a time-confident Noble Knight.   Chapters:  00:00 – Why most men feel isolated and unfulfilled in their pursuit of success. 02:18 – Resiliency: How Chris navigated the 2008 crash and came out debt-free. 05:14 – The 3-7 Year Rule: Why "Shiny Object Syndrome" is killing your progress. 07:48 – No-Bank Investing: A deep dive into owner financing and principal-only deals. 10:08 – The 18-Month Blueprint: How to transition from a W-2 to full-time investing. 20:48 – The Three Paydays Framework explained. 31:32 – Living the Dream: What life looks like with zero debt and total time freedom.   Ready to Lead Your Life? Free Resource: Get your free "Modern Man" book bundle at https://smartrealestatecoach.com/masterclass   Master Your Time: Take our Time Audit Quiz to find your missing 10 hours per week. Master Your Time. Lead Your Life. Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man   #TheModernMan #RealEstateInvesting #FinancialFreedom

    41 min
  7. 188: Fortune 500 Coach: The "Success" Lie That Is Killing Men! Stop Being A Robot! with Rob K.

    JAN 2

    188: Fortune 500 Coach: The "Success" Lie That Is Killing Men! Stop Being A Robot! with Rob K.

    You achieved the money, the car, and the title... so why do you feel empty? In this episode, I sit down with Rob Kalwarowsky, an MIT-trained engineer turned elite executive coach who has worked with everyone from Olympic Gold Medalists to Fortune 500 executives. But before the success, Rob was "The Robot"—a high-achiever who saved his company tens of millions of dollars while secretly battling a toxic work environment that led him to a suicide attempt. We uncover the "Success Lie" that keeps men isolated, overworked, and unfulfilled. Rob reveals the "DIY Mask" that caps your business growth, the specific phrase that predicts burnout in 6 months, and the "I'm Human" leadership method that can turn your internal chaos into your greatest competitive advantage. If you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, this conversation is your permission to put it down.   ◼️ Topics Discussed: The "High Performer Robot" mindset and why it's deadly. How to spot the "Trappings of Success" before it's too late. Why your "Do It Yourself" mask is costing you millions. The "I'm Human" code word strategy for high-stress teams. Internal Family Systems: How to manage the voices in your head.   Chapters 00:00 - The "Success Trap" Trailer  1:47 - The "Rob Kawasaki" Story & Identity  2:22 - Turning Internal Chaos Into An Advantage  4:16 - The "High Achieving Robot": Making Millions, Feeling Nothing  08:35 - The Breaking Point: Depression & The Suicide Attempt  12:36 - Waking Up: Why We Go Back To Work After Rock Bottom  16:13 - The "Status Quo" Bias: Why You Can't Leave Your Toxic Job  20:00 - Internal Family Systems: Who Is Controlling Your Brain?  26:31 - The "DIY Mask": Why You Are The Bottleneck In Your Business  31:00 - The "I'm Human" (or Cheesecake Factory) Strategy  35:23 - The "Pointless" Feeling of Winning  42:58 - The Hawaii Moment: Choosing Freedom Over Fear   Kalwarowsky's Links Website: www.robkalwarowsky.com LinkedIn: rob-kalwarowsky Instagram: bosscoachrobk   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man

    49 min
  8. 0:00 - Intro: The High-Functioning Addict 09:18 - Growing Up With a Heroin Addict Father 11:11 - The 30-Hour Bus Ride That Saved My Life 13:51 - The Truth About Quitting Cold Turkey 22:49 - What Is a Spiritual Awakening? (Real Definition) 28:02 - I Saw

    12/26/2025

    0:00 - Intro: The High-Functioning Addict 09:18 - Growing Up With a Heroin Addict Father 11:11 - The 30-Hour Bus Ride That Saved My Life 13:51 - The Truth About Quitting Cold Turkey 22:49 - What Is a Spiritual Awakening? (Real Definition) 28:02 - I Saw

    Jesse Todisco was a successful salesman by day and a heroin addict by night. Then came the 30-hour bus ride that changed everything.   In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, I sit down with Jesse Todisco—author of From Heroin to Healer—to discuss the dark reality of high-functioning addiction and the "impossible" journey of recovery. Jesse opens up about breaking the cycle of generational trauma, the truth about quitting cold turkey, and the profound Ayahuasca experience where he reconnected with his deceased daughter. If you feel stuck, numb, or like you are repeating your father's mistakes, this conversation is the wake-up call you need. We go beyond the surface to discuss why "success" often masks deep pain and how to finally find peace. In this episode, you will learn: The Hidden Cost: How high-performers hide addiction and why rock bottom is necessary. The Impossible Twist: Jesse's firsthand account of seeing his dead daughter during a plant medicine ceremony. Breaking Trauma: How to stop being "just like your dad" and become the father your children need. Tactical Tools: How to use Breathwork and "Gratitude Stacking" to hack depression immediately.   CHAPTERS  0:00 - Intro: The High-Functioning Addict 09:18 - Growing Up With a Heroin Addict Father 11:11 - The 30-Hour Bus Ride That Saved My Life 13:51 - The Truth About Quitting Cold Turkey 22:49 - What Is a Spiritual Awakening? (Real Definition) 28:02 - I Saw My Dead Daughter (Ayahuasca Story) 31:19 - Integration: How to Actually Change Your Life 35:19 - Parenting: Breaking The Cycle of Anger 39:04 - "Gratitude Stacking": A Tool for Depression 43:14 - What It Means to Be a Modern Man   🔗 CONNECT WITH JESSE TODISCO Book: From Heroin to Healer (Amazon) Organization: weareawakenedhearts.org Email: hello@jessetidisco.com   Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights   🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow  Subscribe to our YouTube channel:  The Modern Man   ABOUT THE HOST Ted Phaeton is a TV News Anchor, Coach, and the Host of The Modern Man Podcast. He helps ambitious men master their time so they can lead their families, build wealth, and leave a legacy—without burning out.

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"The Modern Man" is a series focused on discussing the challenges and obstacles men face in today's society. It is an open forum of discussion where thoughts, strategies and ideas of men living a happy and fulfilled life are explored. The Modern Man aims to create a community of men not only sharing and connecting on a deeper level, but also exploring how to thrive and live a happy and fulfilled life. This is done through intentional conversations strategically aimed at issues that men face in today's society.

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  • Creator
    Ted Phaeton, The Radcast Network
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    426
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © The Modern Man Podcast
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    The Modern Man Podcast