The Secure Family Podcast

Andy Murphy

Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature. The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark.

  1. 5d ago

    When Your World Goes Dark: Surviving an Extended Power Outage

    Life in the Dark: What to Do Before and After the Lights Go Out   Andy Murphy hosts the Secure Family Podcast and explains how families can stay comfortable, protected, and informed during extended power outages. Long lasting outages are becoming more common. He outlines steps to take before an outage and what to do the moment the lights go out. From lighting your home, to cooking, to home defense, Andy shows us that our families can thrive and survive.   Get your free copy of my Family Disaster Preparedness Guide: https://www.thesecuredad.com/disaster Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Blackout interview with Patrick McNamara: https://youtu.be/vXOF1qLiF6g?si=UDxzFP_J5lJVP66B  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome! 02:14 When Outages Drag On 05:07 Build an Outage Kit 07:29 Family Communication Plan 09:31 Backup Power Options 12:13 Food and Medical Needs 13:08 Know Your Vulnerabilities 14:52 First Steps in the Dark 17:02 Save Battery and Update 17:41 Protect Food and Water 19:09 Home Security and Neighbors 21:00 Decide to Stay or Go 22:26 Wrap Up and Resources   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  2. Aug 26

    What Would You Do Under Attack? With Dr. Jeremy Butler

    Self-Defense Mindset with Dr. Jeremy Butler   Host Andy Murphy interviews self-defense expert Dr. Jeremy Butler about practical personal safety for families. Dr. Butler explains that personal safety is a life skill and recommends investing in three areas: firearms training (when appropriate and trained), self-defense/martial arts with a true protection focus, and holistic safety measures such as home security and ongoing education.   He argues for studying violence through videos for observational learning while protecting mental health. Butler teaches "Practicing the ARTS" (Avoid, Run, Talk, Strike), emphasizing awareness, escape, verbal de-escalation, distance management, and "preparing your witnesses" with clear commands and non-threatening posture.  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  For more from Dr. Jeremy Butler visit: https://www.jeremybutlerphd.com/  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 01:50 Meet Dr Jeremy Butler 03:07 Why Safety Is Personal 03:57 Jeremy's Career Mission 06:31 Building Your Safety Toolbox 09:19 Learning From Violence Videos 12:54 ARTS Self Defense Framework 16:06 Preparing Your Witnesses 18:07 When You Can Strike First 24:21 Predators Choose Targets 26:35 Protecting Kids In Public 29:31 Self Defense Is A Mindset 31:40 Dangerous Self Defense Myths 34:43 Where To Find Jeremy 35:48 Final Thoughts   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  3. Aug 19

    The Red Flags Predators Hope Parents Miss

    Spotting Grooming: Predatory Behavior and Red Flags   Host Andy Murphy discusses how parents can recognize grooming by understanding common predatory patterns and red flags. He highlights a Kentucky case involving a middle school teacher arrested under a new anti-grooming law (House Bill 4), which targets manipulation, trust-building, secrecy, and boundary violations before abuse escalates.   Andy explains six typical grooming stages and what behaviors to look for. He advises parents to raise confident kids, watch for private communication and repeated boundary violations, talk with children with compassion, and teach "good secret vs. bad secret," including vigilance about online contact. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 01:53 Kentucky Grooming Law Case 03:20 Why Discuss Grooming 04:21 Stage One: Choosing Victims 05:46 Stage Two: Gaining Trust 06:56 Stage Three: Meeting Needs 07:22 Stage Four: Isolation Tactics 08:32 Stage Five: Sexual Escalation 09:20 Stage Six: Maintaining Control 10:08 Talking to Kids About Secrets 11:13 Online Risks and Red Flags 12:10 Final Thoughts and Wrap Up    The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  4. Aug 12

    How to Get a Loved One Out of Jail Without Panicking with David Stuckman

    What to Do When a Loved One Is Arrested   Host Andy Murphy interviews veteran bail agent and PBUS president David Stuckman about what happens after an arrest and how families can bond a loved one out safely. David explains booking and jail processing, how families should verify incarceration directly with the jail or its website to avoid bail scams, and how bondsmen typically get paid.    The conversation covers failures to appear, forfeiture consequences, when bounty hunters are used, red flags for reputable bondsmen, and a sample DUI timeline including separate DMV license hearings.   For more for PBUS and David Stuckman visit: https://pbus.com/ Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Protect your senior parents from scams with this free video series. It will share why older Americans are being targeted as well as break down today's scams so you know the red flags to spot.  Watch Part 1 on YouTube now. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Show Introduction 02:00 Meet David Stuckman 04:13 Arrest To Phone Call 06:23 Bail Costs Explained 08:35 Big Bonds Need Lawyers 11:44 Ensuring Court Appearances 18:25 When Bonds Get Revoked 19:31 Rehab And Support Services 24:30 Bounty Hunters Explained 27:01 Choosing A Bondsman 29:14 Midnight Run Story 31:48 How Bail Business Works 33:28 Court Date Continuances 34:28 Missed Court Fallout 36:34 DUI Case Timeline 38:34 DMV License Hearings 41:13 Bonds Through Sentencing 42:47 How Bondsmen Get Paid 45:48 Premiums Collateral Fees 47:34 Bail Scam Stories 53:29 Spotting Scam Red Flags 58:22 Find PBUS Resources 59:51 Retirement  01:00:20 Final Thoughts    The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  5. Aug 5

    The Hidden Tracker That Knows Everywhere You Go

    How Someone Might Track You and How to Protect Yourself   Andy Murphy explains common ways people may track someone or their child and how to respond safely. Using a real case where an automotive technician found a GPS tracker on a woman's car, Andy breaks down how you could be tracked.    He covers physical vehicle tracking methods like magnetic GPS units, OBD-II plug-in trackers, hardwired devices, and built-in connected car services. Plus, he recommends inspection areas inside and outside a car.   He also discusses technology-enabled stalking through shared accounts, location-sharing apps, cloud access, family phone plans, and stalkerware, including warning signs and careful steps to secure email first, review trusted devices and recovery options, adjust sharing settings, and document evidence while prioritizing immediate safety and avoiding actions that could escalate risk. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Protect your senior parents from scams with this free video series. It will share why older Americans are being targeted as well as break down today's scams so you know the red flags to spot.  Watch Part 1 on YouTube now. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 02:37 GPS Tracker News 05:17 Digital Stalking Basics 06:24 Vehicle Tracker Types 08:55 Where to Check Car 12:14 Connected Car Accounts 13:44 AirTag Alert Response 15:41 Apps and Cloud Tracking 17:08 Stalkerware Warning Signs 18:21 Secure Accounts and Privacy 20:26 What to Do If Tracked 22:56 Final Thoughts    The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  6. Jul 29

    Your Teen Is One Friend Request Away From Danger with Laura Parker of The Exodus Road

    Protecting Kids From Online Grooming and Sextortion with Laura Parker of The Exodus Road   Andy Murphy hosts the Secure Family Podcast. Today he interviews Laura Parker, CEO and co-founder of The Exodus Road, a global nonprofit fighting human trafficking. She explains how exploitation has moved online, enabling predators to groom and extort many children quickly through platforms like Instagram, Roblox, and apps with disappearing messages.   They discuss the signs of grooming like "love bombing." Laura emphasizes frequent micro-conversations, building trust so kids report problems without fear, and steps after an image is shared. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Protect your senior parents from scams with this free video series. It will share why older Americans are being targeted as well as break down today's scams so you know the red flags to spot. Watch Part 1 on YouTube now. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome 02:53 Meet Laura Parker 03:46 Exodus Road Mission 04:55 What Is Trafficking 05:47 Laura's Thailand Origin 07:35 Trafficking Goes Digital 09:07 How Grooming Starts 11:24 Sextortion Reality Check 12:45 Safer Social Media Rules 15:23 Age and App Risks 16:55 Warning Signs and Talks 22:03 Family Tech Agreement 24:41 Building Real Connection 27:14 Advice for Teens 33:15 If a Photo Was Sent 36:17 Resources and Wrap Up 37:28 Final Thoughts   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  7. Jul 22

    Gone in 120 Seconds: The New Ways Criminals Are Stealing Cars

    Protect your car with these simple habits   Andy Murphy of The Secure Family Podcast explains how to keep someone from stealing your car from your driveway. Car theft is not a simple smash and grab anymore. Andy shares how thieves have gone high-tech to steal everything from luxury cars to daily drivers. Simple habits, as he explains, will go a long way into keeping your car and family safe. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Protect your senior parents from scams with this free video series. It will share why older Americans are being targeted as well as break down today's scams so you know the red flags to spot.  Watch Part 1 on YouTube now. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome and Mission 01:06 Where I Found My Data 02:18 Protect Your Parents from Scams 03:02 Car Theft Trends and Stats 04:20 How Car Theft Changed 05:58 Relay Attack Explained 08:31 CAN Bus Hacking 11:48 Smash and Grab Risks 13:23 Everyday Prevention Habits 15:40 Connected Car Account Security 17:30 Layered Security Tools 18:04 Trackers and Faraday Pouches 19:55 Key Takeaways and Wrap Up   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

  8. Jul 15

    Spy Level Heists with Mike O'Rourke

    Burglary Tourism: How Theft Groups Target Homes and How to Defend Yours with Mike O'Rourke of Advanced Operational Concepts   Andy interviews security expert Mike O'Rourke the CEO of Advanced Operational Concepts about "burglary tourism." These are gangs who enter the U.S. to conduct targeted burglaries of affluent homes.   O'Rourke details their tradecraft: OSINT/"Google casing," people-search sites, county records and Zillow, social media exploitation, vehicle follows, illegal trackers, hidden cameras to build patterns of life, and illegal Wi‑Fi/cellular jammers to defeat cloud-based security.   Together they discuss how you can protect your home, not only from foreign gangs, but from everyday threats.   Learn more about Mike O'Rourke and his work: https://adopcon.com/   Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Protect your senior parents from scams with this free video series. It will share why older Americans are being targeted as well as break down today's scams so you know the red flags to spot. Watch Part 1 on YouTube now. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 01:05 DeleteMe Privacy Sponsor 02:17 Free Scam Protection Series 02:53 Meet Mike ORourke 05:15 What Is Burglary Tourism 06:11 How Crews Operate 08:30 Why They Target You 10:30 Targeting Tradecraft 18:13 Entry Methods and Defenses 19:52 Signal Jammers Explained 23:07 OSINT and Data Exposure 28:18 How Big Will It Get 29:58 Rapid Fire Future Threats 33:39 Wrap Up and Resources   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.

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Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature. The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark.

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