Birds and Bees Don't Fck

Arielle Zadok
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We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

  1. 3D AGO

    Everyone Wants To Be A Cult Leader w/ Jimanekia Ebon

    Join the watch party LIVE AT FIVE on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BKSYUvCUo74?si=BiA5cpUkzvn53BrX Jimanekia Eborn is a trauma specialist, sexuality educator, survivor advocate, co-owner of Cintima, and founder of the nonprofit Tending the Garden, originally from Riverside, California where she actually DID received sex education multiple times growing up… but was any of it good? Absolutely not. In this episode we talk about grief, trauma work, modern dating struggles, sex education failures, intimacy coordination, professional wrestling (yes, I mean that), mental health, and why community and safe spaces are essential for connection and pleasure. Catch Jimanekia and I reading Reddit stories and join the afterparty over on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon: STORY 1: AITA for cancelling mother's day celebration that I arranged for my wife after hearing what she told my son? STORY 2: AIO if I end my relationship because my bf kisses and tells me he loves me before leaving for work in the morning? Where to find Jimanekia: Instagram: @jimanekia  Cintima Training: https://cintima.co Nonprofit: https://tendingthegarden.love Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Like my cuffs? Me too! Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here:  https://lovecrave.com/arielle   Episode Cheat Sheet & Index: 00:09 Intro 02:30 Imposter syndrome and starting the podcast 05:00 Jimanekia's work in professional wrestling mental health 08:30 Losing her father and navigating grief 10:20 The power of laughter during difficult moments 12:10 Community, connection, and safe spaces during the pandemic 15:15 Dating apps and the loss of real connection 17:45 Nervous systems, safety, and intimacy 20:00 Protecting your peace and sexual boundaries 21:40 Working in sex education and consent culture 23:00 Growing up in Riverside, California 23:50 Early sex education experiences 25:30 Sneaking HBO and learning from Real Sex and Loveline 29:00 Why representation in sex education matters 31:20 Finding community in the sex industry 33:30 Boundaries and accountability in sexuality spaces 36:00 How Jimanekia got into intimacy coordination training 40:30 Building Cintima and training intimacy coordinators 44:00 Working across trauma care, media, and sexuality education 47:00 Play parties, consent culture, and power dynamics 49:30 Weird and wonderful jobs in the sexuality industry 51:00 Learning about sex through books and curiosity 54:00 Balancing multiple careers in sexuality work 58:30 Why asking for help matters

    1 hr

  2. MAR 4

    Cute Butt Stuff w/ Whitaker Cohen

    Whitaker Cohen is the Founder and CEO of Amore Sui, originally from the East Coast where despite having a mom who worked for Planned Parenthood she still received plenty of medical sex education without any lessons on pleasure. We talk about terrible sex education, orgasm myths, squirting, consent, power dynamics, and how Whitaker went from a few bad anal experiences to launching a company designing beginner friendly butt plugs specifically for women.   Catch Whitaker and I reading Reddit stories and join the afterparty over on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck Episode cheat sheet: 00:38 Meeting Whitaker Cohen 05:23 Growing up with Planned Parenthood sex education 09:55 Goal oriented sex vs pleasure 12:14 Squirting myths 16:59 What sex education actually teaches 19:23 The clitoris and missing research 24:07 The "blue balls" myth 28:38 Consent, fawning, and sexual assault 33:10 Power dynamics and sex 37:52 Discovering anal pleasure 40:03 Starting Amore Sui 44:28 Designing a beginner friendly butt plug 49:09 Why most butt plugs are badly designed 53:43 Launching a sex toy company 58:01 Reddit story teaser   Bonus stories found exclusively on Patreon: STORY 1: I found my fiancés sex tape with my stepmother. We're supposed to get married in two weeks. STORY 2: AITA for locking up my stuff so my wife will not touch it   Where to find Whitaker: Instagram: @loveamorsui Get 10% off your oder: https://loveamorsui.com/ARIELLE15   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: @ThePleasureProducer // @birdsandbeesdontfck Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/birdsandbeesdontfck   Like my cuffs? Me too. Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here:  https://lovecrave.com/arielle

    1 hr
  3. Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit w/ Elisa Ellis (Bonus Episode)

    MAR 3 · BONUS

    Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit w/ Elisa Ellis (Bonus Episode)

    CLICK HERE to access the full episode. It's here! Our very first bonus episode of Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit and I'm starting this adventure with none other than comedian Elisa Ellis who also happens to get the most unhinged versions of me in real life. This episode is WILD ya'll. Here are the stories, only available on Patreon: Story 1: I just found out that I'm a mistress...of 4 years. OMG. How do I tell her? 48M/36F Story 2: My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn't know the baby's father and I don't know where to begin with fixing this Story 3: AITA For suing my girlfriend after she had my 1967 impala project taken to the scrapyard? Honestly, this was one hell of a way to start. Follow Elisa: On Instagram & TikTok @ElisaMcBear Follow Me: On Instagram & TikTok @BirdsAndBeesDontFck and my personal Instagram @ArielleZadok Love my Crave Cuffs? Use my link and get $15 off anything storewide: lovecrave.com/arielle

    8 min

  4. 09/26/2025

    An Overdue Update

    I ghosted, I know. And I'm sorry. So here's a little update on where things are at! Including me losing (for now) my primary instagram account @ariellezadok Like, comment & subscribe if you're happy to hear me! ________________ Get your Backstage Pass and join the circle community: https://www.thepleasureproducer.com/backstagepass Take the free masterclass, Pleasure on Purpose: https://www.thepleasureproducer.com/masterclass Dive into The Sexy Directory: https://thesexydirectory.substack.com/ Follow me on instagram: @BirdsAndBeesDontFck // @ThePleasureProducer (at least these still exist... for now!)

    19 min

  5. 06/26/2024

    Sexy Confidence (w/ Tia Lynn)

    Tia Lynn is a sex and intimacy coach, Tedx speaker and host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast originally from Utah where as you can imagine, the Mormons (which she was not one of) taught her nothing about sexuality but a whole lot about judgement. Some things we said... "Pole dancing gives permission for others to explore their desires and sensuality." "Transitioning into sex coaching happened naturally based on client feedback and impact." "When you upgrade and when you progress past that, that makes them look at themselves in a way that they're not ready to." "Play parties provide a space where sex is permitted, but it's not required." "Consent is required at play parties, and there's accountability for violating someone's boundaries." ... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!   Where to find Tia: Intsta: @sexybizbabe Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-biz-babe/id1450558365?mt=2   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/   K, love you, byeeeee

    51 min

  6. 06/19/2024

    Sugar Baby Gone Wrong (w/ Nnamdi Ngwe)

    Nnamdi Ngwe is an actor, comedian and writer for The Amber Ruffin Show and Tab Time originally from London where his initial sex education was just the bad kids used to try to get the younger kids to kiss. Then he got a little older and realized how unhinged that was!   Some things we said... "I would, as long as it's like, my feelings wouldn't be hurt if it's like, don't do that. Continue on. Yeah. Here's some guidance. Here's some notes. Let's keep going." "You think that I'm not in control, you think that I'm not in power, your dick is in my mouth. I can f*****g hurt you or heal you right now. Do not f**k with me." "You have better sex when you know what you're working with. But none of us were ever taught what we're working with. So, like, we're just like flailing about." "That's daddy official. Okay, okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you've been a sugar daddy. I've been not a good one." "You have your erotic persona and then you have who you are. Yeah. Really? Like you have, there's, there's two worlds." "To get somebody in a position to release to you in that way is such a gift and it's so powerful."   ... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!   Where to find Nnamdi: Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/nngwe17/   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/   K, love you, byeeeee

    53 min

  7. 06/12/2024

    Letting Your Freak Flag Fly (w/ Teresa Lo)

    Teresa Lo is an award winning writer and comedian originally from Coffeeville Kansas where nearly 40% of her high school class had a baby before graduation… which is another reason why accurate sex education is so important!   Some things we said... "Comedy and the sex world is the only place that accepts freaks and lets us thrive." "If I really wanted it, I could have done it." "How bad do you want something? What are you willing to sacrifice?" "People, not all people, but many people are very dishonest about sexuality where they can't be open with what they really want." "Some people are afraid to even negotiate, to even say upfront, like these are what I want. This is what I'm cool with. This is what I don't like to do. This is what I like to do." "There are so many men out there that want to treat a woman, that want to be in that dynamic, that want to be daddy, that want to be a master." ... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!   Where to find Teresa: Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/teresalowriter OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/tloclub   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/   K, love you, byeeeee

    1 hr

  8. 06/05/2024

    Tantalizing Tantra (w/ Layla Paul)

    Layla Paul is a strategic brand consultant for kinky brands originally from Chicago where her lack of sex education lead her to put her own child through the Our Whole Lives (OWL) program. What a badass move. Some things we said... "If it can do double duty, I'm all about that" "You have this one product that's made for XYZ, but how can you use it in a different way?" "Partnerships with deep, visceral connections and loyalty last regardless of monogamy or non-monogamy." "The primal aspects of attraction, like scent and voice, are often overlooked but play a significant role in intimacy." "Intimacy coordinators in film ensure the safety and comfort of performers during intimate scenes." ... plus so much more. Watch it on YouTube to get the full experience!   Where to find Layla: Intsta: https://www.instagram.com/kinkybrands/ Website: https://kinkybrands.co/   Where to find Arielle: Insta: @ariellezadok // @birdsandbeesdontfck Freebies, classes, OnlyFans and more: https://stan.store/ArielleZadok Website: https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com/   K, love you, byeeeee

    1h 3m
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We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

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  • Creator
    Arielle Zadok
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    86
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2018 - 2023 Arielle Zadok / Champagne Womb LLC
  • Show Website
    Birds and Bees Don't Fck

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