Relationship Status Podcast

Crux Media Group
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  • Relationships
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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

  1. 2d ago

    271st Date: Why Do Married Men Keep Sliding In Her DMs?

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf In The Building is joined by special guest co-host Angel, and things get interesting fast! The two debate whether good men are actually appreciated, why people keep choosing chaos over peace, and whether cheating has become way too normalized in today's dating world. Angel shares her thoughts on trust, relationships, and why some married men need to stay out of her inbox. Plus, the battle of the episode: Should couples wear matching outfits? Angel says it's cute. Yusuf says it's corny. The debate gets surprisingly heated. They also tackle money, loyalty, trust issues, shopping sprees, side pieces, sneaker culture, and why Yusuf absolutely refuses to match outfits with anybody under any circumstances. Real talk, plenty of laughs, and a few relationship gems along the way. Pull up and join the conversation! Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:25) - Return To Relationship Status(00:01:23) - Relationship Conversations Over CURLS(00:05:00) - Can A Man Take Himself Out On A Date?(00:08:18) - How To Get A Good Man(00:14:03) - A Good Man To One Person(00:15:20) - Why Do Cheaters Get Away With It?(00:19:59) - Married People Cheat On Their Wife(00:22:47) - Married People Post Their Life On Social Media(00:25:24) - Are You Matching? (EXCLUSIVE)(00:28:06) - Is It A Man's Idea To Match His Wife?(00:31:32) - "I Can't Wear The Same Thing As My Man"(00:32:47) - How To Get A Woman To Share Money With You(00:36:19) - How To Win A Relationship With A Skeptical Person(00:39:06) - "I Want To" In A Relationship(00:41:55) - "It's Cool to Get A Dog"(00:42:20) - "We're Not Special"(00:43:59) - "I've Never Had A Man Take Me on a Shopping Sp(00:48:05) - Adam Levine On His Son's $300 Sneakers(00:51:24) - My Son's Fashion Disguise(00:53:15) - Relationship Status Podcast

    56 min

  2. May 27

    270th Date: I Stayed Married 19 Years… But I Hated Him

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta Welcome back to another episode of Relationship Status Podcast with Yusuf and Vanetta. This week, Yusuf is joined by special guest co-host Angel for one of the most honest and unfiltered conversations the show has had yet. From dating culture and emotional availability to marriage, divorce, healing, and the realities of starting over in your 40s, nothing is off limits. Angel opens up about her journey from a fast-paced lifestyle in New Jersey to marriage, motherhood, church life, and eventually divorce after nearly two decades. She shares how past relationships shaped the way she views dating today, why she values her independence, and the challenges of letting someone in after heartbreak. Yusuf and Angel debate everything from: • Who gets attached faster — men or women • Dating multiple people while single • Why honesty in dating is harder than people admit • The pressure relationships can create • Social media relationships versus reality • Why some people fear commitment after divorce • The importance of feeling safe in relationships • Patterns, trust, communication, and emotional security • Petty behavior, jealousy, and setting boundaries The conversation also dives into the masks couples wear in public, the difference between loneliness and peace, and whether true love can make someone soften their stance on relationships again. If you’ve ever questioned modern dating, struggled with trust after heartbreak, or wondered whether marriage is still worth it, this episode is for you. Make sure you subscribe, leave a review, and follow Relationship Status Podcast on all streaming platforms for more real conversations about love, relationships, and life. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Married People Want To Get Married Again(00:00:49) - Relationship Status(00:02:30) - Single People(00:03:41) - Who Gets Attached Faster, Women or Men?(00:04:10) - Who Lies More In Dating? Women or Men?(00:08:05) - Is Dating Multiple People A Bad Thing?(00:11:27) - "I Don't Want To Cuddle"(00:13:47) - Married People Talk About Their Divorce(00:15:21) - I Got Married Young(00:19:39) - What Happened To The Married Woman In The Hurt(00:22:52) - Married Woman on Her Love Life(00:26:09) - He Says You Should Court Again(00:30:16) - Married Man Can't Help But Want To Be Married Again(00:34:52) - Married Woman on Being Independent(00:38:27) - "I Don't Want To Date A People Who Are Jealous(00:42:08) - What Some Men Say About Their Women(00:46:12) - "Do I Know You?"(00:46:47) - What's One Thing That You Wish You Had In A Relationship(00:51:11) - Married People Talk About Cheating On Their Partner(00:55:01) - 7 Pet Peeves of Relationships(00:56:49) - Relationship Status Podcast: Closing Out(00:59:15) - Podcast Summit 2017

    1 hr

  3. May 18 ·  Video

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX… (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "I sent that man $20 for gas"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - When You Realize How Much You've Changed(00:02:38) - When Is Kaia Coming Back?(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - "The Worst Thing I Ever Did For Love"(00:09:01) - "No Relationships in High School!" Says Dad(00:11:56) - Married People Need To Be Encouraged To Be Who They(00:15:50) - "I'm Confused About Quality Time With My Love Interest"(00:17:48) - Giving Permission To Be Who You Are(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing I Did For Love(00:22:52) - Dear Elijah, There's A Hole in the Bucket(00:23:10) - Advice Letter(00:23:53) - Should Help An Ex Be Acceptable In A Relationship?(00:29:12) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money(00:33:13) - What If He Had Seen The Notifications(00:36:40) - "I Just Ignore Your Phone Calls"(00:36:51) - Clayta Holmes: Don't Complain To People About Your(00:41:15) - Becoming Ashley With Ashley Martin(00:44:53) - Shabbos Shalom

    45 min

  4. May 18

    269th Date: She Found CashApp Notifications From His EX…

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status, Yusuf is back in the building holding it down with special guest co-host Ashley Martin from the Becoming Her Podcast for a real, unfiltered conversation about love, identity, relationships, and the boundaries people ignore in the name of “helping” an ex. The episode kicks off with the Question of the Week: “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done for love?” From losing yourself in relationships to staying too long after the red flags started waving, Yusuf and Ashley dive deep into how people sacrifice pieces of themselves trying to become what their partners want instead of remaining authentic. The conversation expands into dating dynamics, personal freedom in relationships, why Yusuf encourages his daughters to focus on self-discovery before serious relationships, and how people often resent the very changes they made to please someone else. Ashley and Yusuf also unpack insecurity, emotional maturity, and the importance of allowing people to be exactly who they were when you met them. Later, the hosts tackle a listener advice letter about a boyfriend secretly sending money to his ex-girlfriend. Was it harmless support or emotional disrespect? Yusuf and Ashley debate secrecy, trust, accountability, emotional transparency, and whether helping an ex behind your partner’s back crosses the line. As always, the comments section brought the heat, with listeners sharing their own stories, perspectives, and relationship lessons learned the hard way. Plus: • Ashley talks about the return of Becoming Her Podcast • Yusuf shares updates about joining the My7Figure Podcast community • Petty relationship confessions and hilarious reactions • Real talk about resentment, trust, and emotional boundaries • Shoutouts to the Relationship Status community and supporters Tap in for another honest, funny, and thought-provoking episode of Relationship Status — where the conversations are real, the opinions are unapologetic, and everybody leaves with something to think about. Follow Relationship Status on all social media platforms @RELSTATPodcast and join the conversation. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - "You sent that man some gas money"(00:00:53) - Relationship Status(00:01:27) - Becoming Back With Will(00:03:06) - Podcast Summit 2018(00:04:13) - worst thing I ever did for love(00:08:01) - Have You Encouraged Your Daughter to Get Out Of Relationships(00:11:02) - Married People: Self-Discovery(00:15:32) - "I Don't Give Permission" To My Love Interest ((00:18:43) - What If You Forget Where You Met Her?(00:19:53) - The Worst Thing She Did For Love Was...(00:22:15) - Pouring Into An Empty Cup For Love(00:23:10) - Monique Smith On Why She Stayed While Being Hurt(00:23:43) - Should I Tell My Ex-Girlfriend I'm Sending Money To(00:29:10) - He Sent His Ex-Girlfriend Money For Gas(00:33:03) - What Would I Do If I Had Seen Her Notifications On My(00:36:36) - Oh, My God, I'm a Petty Person(00:36:52) - How To Handle a Complaint From Your Partner(00:38:14) - Sharing My Love Letter To My Ex(00:41:15) - Her with Ashley Martin

    45 min

  5. May 14 ·  Video

    Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!” (Video)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Should a Woman Be Sexually Celibate Until Marriage?(00:03:14) - Yusuf On Single Moms Who Are Celibate(00:08:04) - Should You Give Up On Your Wife?(00:11:13) - "Is Compatibility Necessary For Marriage?"(00:13:11) - "I Can't Take This..." The Guy Who Was Intox(00:16:02) - "Don't Put Me In A Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Questions(00:17:50) - Fast and Slow(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Favorite Sex Questions(00:21:52) - "Be The Side Piece or The Main Guy?"(00:22:44) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy Until Marriage

    27 min

  6. May 11

    268th Date: Women Who Go Celibate Were the BIGGEST Hoes?!”

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta This week on Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf & Vanetta dive headfirst into one of the internet’s hottest debates: “If a woman chooses celibacy until marriage, should a man be financially celate too?” From hilarious takes to brutally honest opinions, the conversation gets REAL about celibacy, dating expectations, sexual compatibility, modern relationships, double standards, marriage counseling, and why people sometimes choose appearances over truth. The duo also reacts to wild listener comments, debates abstinence vs. celibacy, talks relationship boundaries, and plays a spicy round of “either/or” questions that reveals a whole lot more than expected Topics include: Sex before marriage Financial expectations in dating Compatibility vs. commitment Toxic dating habits Loyalty, cheating & trust Passion vs. consistency Dating culture & social media lies As always, expect unfiltered opinions, laughter, chaos, and conversations that everybody’s thinking, but few are saying out loud. Tap in, subscribe, and join the conversation in the comments! ️ Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - How To Stop Having Sex(00:00:40) - Eat My Biscuits(00:01:53) - Celibate(00:03:14) - Celibacy Advice(00:06:02) - Were You Married Before Sex?(00:08:20) - How Many Cows Should a Woman Have In Her Marriage?(00:11:28) - "You Should Be Absorbent Until You Find Your Partner"(00:15:31) - "Don't Put Me In That Situation"(00:17:31) - Ask The Podcast Question of the Week(00:18:28) - Questions for Your Love Interest(00:19:30) - Questions People Have For Their Relationships(00:21:06) - "One Partner for Life"(00:22:31) - Posting A Cheater Or Hide The Least Loyal?(00:25:15) - Celibacy till Marriage

    27 min

  7. May 4

    267th Date: You’re NOT Growing Because You Won’t Do This… (Real Talk on Self-Love & Choosing YOU)

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta In this powerful and transparent episode of Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf English and Vanetta shift the focus from romantic relationships to the most important one of all—the relationship you have with yourself. From hilarious food debates (Chicago vs. everywhere else ) to deeply personal reflections, the conversation evolves into an honest exploration of self-awareness, growth, and what it really means to “become” who you’re meant to be. Vanetta opens up about her journey from teenage motherhood to finally discovering herself later in life—after years of prioritizing everyone else. She shares how stepping into isolation, moving to a new city, and leaning into faith forced her to confront who she truly is outside of being a mother, wife, or provider. Yusuf reflects on his own path—breaking free from comfort zones, learning to say no, and stepping into leadership by choosing himself, even when it meant making tough decisions and losing relationships. Together, they unpack: Why growth requires discomfort The danger of being a people pleaser Learning that “no” is a complete sentence How environment impacts your evolution The challenge of choosing yourself without guilt What it looks like to redefine your identity outside of roles And the ultimate question: Do you love yourself in a way that others can see it? This episode is raw, reflective, and relatable—perfect for anyone navigating change, healing, or personal evolution. Join the conversation: What are you unlearning to grow? Who are you becoming? Do you truly love yourself? Tap in, reflect, and start becoming the version of you that you owe yourself. Follow, subscribe, and share with someone who needs this message. Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:00) - Relationship Status(00:01:13) - Favorite Chicago-Style Food(00:04:47) - Black Men Selling Hoodies at the Mall(00:07:41) - No Society Hoodie(00:09:21) - No Society(00:09:34) - The Relationship With Yourself(00:14:38) - Growing Up Struggling(00:19:22) - Kiki On Being Uncomfortable In College(00:21:47) - What's Something About Yourself That You Had to Unlearn in Order(00:26:09) - Ashley Martin on Becoming Her Girl(00:30:30) - Why I Chopped My Hair(00:32:28) - Choosing Who to Love(00:35:11) - Joe Clark: I'm Becoming An Hnic(00:38:22) - You Do Everything The Way You Do It(00:38:58) - Vanetta on Becoming A Real Woman(00:42:37) - Kanye West: I Don't Need No Advice From People(00:46:31) - Kanye West: I Have No Competition(00:49:45) - Do You Love Yourself As A Person?

    54 min

  8. Apr 27

    266th Date: When the Sex Fades… Is Your Relationship Over?

    Hosts: Yusuf & Vanetta In this candid and unfiltered episode of Relationship Status, Yusuf and Vanetta dive deep into the real meaning of intimacy. They break it down far beyond just sex. What starts as playful banter quickly evolves into a powerful conversation about connection, vulnerability, communication, and the realities of relationships as we grow older. They explore how intimacy shows up in different forms...mental, emotional, physical, and even spiritual...and challenge the common misconception that it’s only tied to sex. They unpack the importance of truly knowing your partner, being open enough to have uncomfortable conversations, and understanding how words, honesty, and connection shape the health of a relationship. This episode also tackles topics many people avoid: aging, changes in sexual dynamics, body image, and the fears that come with them. From discussing erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to asking the tough question—can a relationship survive when the sexual connection fades?—nothing is off-limits. With real-life examples, humor, and raw honesty, the conversation highlights: The difference between sex and true intimacy Why vulnerability is essential for a lasting connection How communication (or lack of it) impacts relationships The role of attraction and sexual chemistry over time Why avoiding hard conversations can lead to disconnection or infidelity Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode challenges you to rethink what intimacy really means—and whether you’re truly experiencing it in your own life. Join the conversation: What does intimacy mean to you? Tap in for laughs, honesty, accountability, and a whole lot of perspective. Send advice letters to: relstatpodcast@gmail.com Follow on all platforms: @RELSTATPodcast Support on Patreon: Patreon.com/Relationshipstatus for bloopers, bonus content, and more Chapters (00:00:08) - Relationship Status: You Can't Always Look Like Granny(00:02:09) - What Does Intimacy Mean To You? Drop It in the(00:06:06) - In the Elevator With Intimacy(00:06:55) - In the Elevator With Intimacy(00:12:03) - Is Intimacy More Important Than Sex?(00:14:44) - "I Can't Have Sex With Someone Without Intimacy"(00:16:36) - The Conversation About Sexual Hypertension(00:20:11) - African men talk of vaginal dryness after menopause(00:25:39) - Discussing Sex Early In A Relationship(00:27:58) - Can Relationships Survive When The Sexual Connection Fades?(00:30:25) - When Sexual Connection Has Diminished(00:33:56) - How To Start A Relationship With Someone You Don't Like(00:37:50) - Relationship Status Podcast

    40 min
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The Relationship Status Podcast hosted by CL, Fraronda, Vanetta & Yusuf, takes you on a random journey through the different issues that come up in relationships. Needless to say, the crew will give their honest take on things.

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