School Of Attraction Podcast

Damien Diecke
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A place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health. https://schoolofattraction.comhttps://www.youtube.com/schoolofattractionhttps://www.tiktok.com/@schoolofattaction

  1. JAN 28

    When Science Meets Ideology: A Geochemist Dismantles Feminist Critiques of Evolutionary Psychology

    What happens when a volcanologist and geochemist applies rigorous scientific standards to feminist theory and evolutionary psychology? You get one of the most intellectually honest conversations about gender differences, attraction, and modern dating politics you'll ever hear. Marc Defant, Professor at the University of South Florida, didn't start out studying human mating behavior—he studied volcanoes. But after discovering evolutionary psychology in the 1990s through Robert Wright's "The Moral Animal," he became fascinated by the collision between scientific evidence and social ideology. What he found shocked him: Feminist academia's critique of evolutionary psychology was based on political positioning rather than empirical rigor. In this wide-ranging conversation, Damien and Marc explore the uncomfortable truths about biological differences between men and women, the myth of the "blank slate," why women are underrepresented in STEM fields (and why that might not be oppression), parental investment theory, the wage gap reality, and how social construction theory fails under scientific scrutiny. This isn't about attacking anyone—it's about honest inquiry. Marc brings the dispassionate lens of a scientist to questions that are typically dominated by ideology, examining everything from mate selection to career choices through an evidence-based framework. Whether you agree or disagree, you'll appreciate the intellectual honesty. For academic papers and more information, visit Marc's website: marcdefant.com

    1h 1m

  2. JAN 22

    Deconstructing the Red Pill: A Nuanced Take on Hypergamy, Dating Markets, and Modern Masculinity

    Tim Wienecke returns to the School of Attraction podcast for a fascinating deep-dive into red pill philosophy and manosphere ideas. Rather than dismissing or blindly accepting these concepts, Damien and Tim (host of the American Masculinity podcast) take a thoughtful, nuanced approach to examining core beliefs about hypergamy, the dating marketplace, male and female attraction, and relationship dynamics. This conversation explores the grey areas that most people avoid—challenging ideas about women's attraction to resources, the 80/20 rule in dating, whether men and women can truly be friends, polyamory versus monogamy, and the evolution of desire in long-term relationships. With intelligent devil's advocacy and real-world perspectives from two dating coaches working across different continents, they dissect what's valuable in red pill thinking and where it misses the mark. If you're tired of echo chambers and want a balanced, honest discussion about modern dating and masculinity that respects your intelligence, this episode delivers. Check out Tim's podcast American Masculinity for more thoughtful conversations on these topics.

    1h 2m

  3. 09/29/2025

    Dating in Thailand, Apps vs. Cold Approaching, and the Future of Modern Relationships

    In this episode of the School of Attraction podcast, Damien reconnects with Chris Manak, a long-time dating coach and friend, to explore the evolving landscape of dating. They dive deep into what it’s really like dating in Southeast Asia, why many men mistakenly think moving overseas makes romance easier, and how cultural differences shape attraction. The conversation also unpacks how apps have reshaped modern dating, the rise of apathy in relationships, and whether men and women are drifting so far apart that AI and digital partners may become the norm. Damien and Chris bring candid insights, real-world stories, and hard-hitting truths about what it takes to succeed in today’s dating world. Whether you’re tired of swiping, curious about dating abroad, or wondering how masculinity and connection are changing in our times, this episode offers a refreshing and thought-provoking take on love, sex, and attraction.

    1h 1m

  4. 09/22/2025

    Inside the Sugar Dating World: Myths, Money & Modern Relationships

    In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with Marcus, host of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy, for a candid deep dive into the sugar dating lifestyle. From jaw-dropping stories to surprising success stories, Marcus shares how he went from a traditional marriage to navigating one of the most misunderstood dating subcultures in the world. You’ll discover: The realities vs. misconceptions of sugar dating — it’s not always “old guy with a 21-year-old”Red flags, green flags, and how to spot scams before it’s too lateWhy many high-value men turn to sugar dating instead of apps or barsHow chemistry and connection still matter — even when money is on the tableReal stories of relationships (and even marriages) born out of sugar datingWhether you’re curious, skeptical, or just love outrageous dating stories, this episode shines a light on a taboo world that’s shaping modern relationships in unexpected ways.

    49 min

  5. 09/15/2025

    Modern Masculinity: Healthy Strength vs. Toxic Myths With Tim Wienecke

    What does it really mean to be masculine in today’s world? In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien is joined by returning guest Wienecke for a raw, thought-provoking conversation on masculinity, aggression, and the modern challenges men face. Together, they break down: Why so many messages about being a man today are extreme, unhealthy, or rooted in controlThe four core masculine traits (aggression, risk-taking, status, and sexuality) — and how to channel them in positive waysThe difference between being willing to fight vs. wanting to fight — and why that mattersHow suppression of masculine traits can backfire, leading to disturbing dreams or misplaced aggressionThe importance of mentorship, healthy outlets, and self-awareness for men navigating their identityThis episode isn’t about tearing down masculinity — it’s about reclaiming it in ways that foster strength, connection, and authenticity. If you’ve ever struggled with the conflicting messages around masculinity today, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.

    1h 1m

  6. 09/08/2025

    Dating in the Digital Age: Why Modern Men Are Struggling (and How to Break Free)

    In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with head coach Denny Jones to unpack how the dating landscape has radically changed over the past decade. From the early days of Tinder’s explosive rise to today’s hyper-competitive online dating scene, they explore why so many young men now feel overwhelmed, socially anxious, and disconnected. You’ll hear eye-opening insights on: The hidden pressures modern men face from social media and online dating appsWhy fewer men are approaching women in real life — and how that creates massive opportunities for those who doThe lure (and dangers) of Red Pill communities, and why it’s easy for frustrated men to get sucked inHow to build real confidence and social skills in an age of isolationIf you’ve ever felt stuck swiping, anxious about rejection, or frustrated by today’s dating culture, this conversation will give you both clarity and a way forward.

    45 min

  7. 09/01/2025

    How Modern Victim Mentality Is Destroy Men's Sucess In Dating - Ryan Dixon

    Dating coach Ryan Dixon has noticed a drastic change in the mindsets of men over his 13 year coaching  career.  And this mindset is making it ever harder for them to find success in the modern dating landscape.  How can men find success? What should they be avoiding? How can they develop their confidence in a world that can feel like it's designed to keep them down?  Ryan Dixon - www.schoolofattraction.com.au

    51 min

  8. 08/25/2025

    The Curse Of Social Media On Modern Dating - Hayley Quinn

    What is social media doing to modern dating trends? How is it hurting women just as badly as it hurts men?  Where do we go as a society moving forwards from this point?  How to we bridge the gap between men and women who are hurt and traumatised by past dating experiences?  Hayley Quinn coaches both men and women as a professional dating coach - To find out more visit her at: www.hayleyquinn.com

    39 min
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A place for men to learn about everything from approaching and attracting beautiful women, to men's personal development, the politics of sex and much much more. There's no topic Damien won't discuss as we dive down the rabbit hole of learned seduction and men's health. https://schoolofattraction.comhttps://www.youtube.com/schoolofattractionhttps://www.tiktok.com/@schoolofattaction

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  • Creator
    Damien Diecke
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    250
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 School Of Attraction Podcast
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