The Midlife Mentors

The Midlife Mentors
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We’re The Midlife Mentors. Here to lift the lid on our no nonsense approach to midlife health and happiness.As midlifers, we’re constantly told we need have it all figured out. But in fact most of us don’t.Our mission is not only to de-bust the crazy diet and fitness myths, but to empower and educate from an authentic and balanced perspective based on reality.It’s time to step away from the madness we manifest in our attempts to attain goals that are unachievable, as we help you focus on the daily opportunities that redefine who and what you are, with the wisdom that comes with age.Contact us: team@themidlifementors.comBook a free no obligation Discovery Call: https://themidlifementors.com/freecall

  1. 3D AGO

    Charles Cumming: What It Really Takes to Become A Best Selling Spy Novelist

    Send a text Calling all budding espionage writers… In this solo episode, James sits down with one of the most respected names in modern spy writing, Charles Cumming, author of the critically acclaimed Box 88 series - novels celebrated for their psychological depth, moral tension and razor-sharp realism. But this isn’t just a conversation about spy stories. It’s about beginnings. How does a spy novelist actually get started? What sparks the first book? How do you land an agent, secure a publishing deal and sustain momentum in a fiercely competitive creative world? And why does it often take years - often decades - for stories to make it to the screen? James also explores Charles’ extraordinary real-life brush with the intelligence services, including being approached by MI6 - and how that encounter reshaped his understanding of secrecy, power and responsibility. This is a rare, behind-the-scenes look at the craft of espionage writing — and a masterclass in longevity, discipline and producing work that stands the test of time. If you’ve ever wanted to write… or simply love the shadowy world of spies and secrets… this one’s for you. https://charlescumming.co.uk/ IBIZA RETREAT: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    35 min

  2. FEB 9

    Procrastination (Revisted)

    Send us a text Procrastination - we all do it. But what happens when it’s stopping us from moving forward with goals that are really important to us? We can get really stuck in a rut with this, believing that we’ll never move ahead, which makes us procrastinate more! In this episode we discuss why we procrastinate, what kinds of people suffer from it the most and what are the main psychological drivers for this behaviour. Finally - as always, we share 10 tips that will help you overcome procrastination so you can finally stop holding yourself back and live the life you deserve.  Ibiza Retreat: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    32 min

  3. JAN 31

    Is Masculinity Being Dismantled? An interview with David Maywald

    Send us a text In this episode, we’re talking about masculinity - what it means, what it’s allowed to be, and why so many men feel increasingly unsure how to show up in the world and at work - without being labelled toxic, outdated, or problematic. Our guest is David Maywald, author of The Relentless War On Masculinity. David argues that while some harmful behaviours needed challenging, we’ve also lost sight of healthy masculinity and that many capable, well-intentioned men, especially in midlife, are paying the price. In this episode we explore whether masculinity is being evolved or quietly dismantled, why so many men feel sidelined and what reclaiming a grounded, healthy masculinity - that’s aligned with the healthy feminine - could actually look like today.  So buckle up and join us for this uplifting conversation. https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidmaywald/ https://www.amazon.co.uk/Relentless-War-Masculinity-Does-Ever-ebook/dp/B0FY3XV55T Ibiza Retreat: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    45 min

  4. JAN 25

    Rethinking Exercise & Nutrition At Midlife

    Send us a text In this episode, we talk about the shifts we’ve both had to make in how we approach health, training and nutrition in midlife. We talk honestly about what wasn’t working anymore, the habits that were quietly backfiring and the practical changes we’ve made to support energy, hormonal balance, recovery and long-term health and happiness. If you’re someone who’s tried harder and harder only to feel worse, this conversation will probably sound very familiar. Ibiza Retreat: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    30 min

  5. JAN 18

    Men's Mental Fitness: An Interview With Neil Smith

    Send us a text On today’s episode we’re joined by someone who’s making a real impact in the mental health space. Neil Smith is the co-founder of Mettle alongside Bear Grylls, an innovative mental wellbeing app designed to help men build confidence, resilience and emotional strength through practical, science-backed tools. The focus of Mettle is on everyday mental fitness - not waiting until crisis hits, but empowering users to understand their emotions, develop healthier coping strategies and give them permission to take control of their mind in a simple, accessible way. We talk to Neil about his stellar TV career, the inspiration behind the app, why so many people,  especially men, struggle to access the right kind of support, and how Mettle is helping change the conversation around male mental health. https://bemettle.com/ https://www.instagram.com/be.mettle/ The Midlife Mentors Ibiza Retreat: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    44 min

  6. JAN 11

    Goals Without The Guilt

    Send us a text Welcome back to The Midlife Mentors and the first episode of 2026. This year, James and I decided to look ahead at the things we’d like to achieve a little differently. We didn’t want to pile pressure on ourselves. We didn’t want January to turn into another month of guilt, comparison or ‘I should be doing more’. So in this episode we’re sharing the simple way we’re approaching our goals this year - with three things we advise not to do, and three things that we’re focusing on instead - so together, with us, you can move forward without the shame or the stress. IBIZA RETREAT: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    25 min

  7. 12/20/2025

    Our 2025 Review: What's Shifted & Shaped Us (Fitness, Faith & Friendships)

    Send us a text As 2025 draws to a close, this episode feels rather special to us. It’s not about goals or resolutions - it’s a review - where we share what’s shaped us and what’s mattered most along the way. We touch upon how our bodies have changed and how we’ve adapted our training, friendships and connections, faith and James’ book. We also want to take this opportunity to say a heartfelt thank you to you all - for listening, for sharing the podcast, for your kind messages and your trust. This will be our final episode before Christmas and the New Year, and wherever you are listening from, we hope this season brings you joy, rest and a moment to breathe before the next chapter begins. See you in 2026! Our 2026 Ibiza Retreat is LIVE: https://themidlifementors.com/retreats/ Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    30 min

  8. 12/06/2025

    Datable Over 40: Expectation, Reality & Enjoying The Journey (Interview with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu)

    Send us a text In this week’s episode of The Midlife Mentors Podcast, we’re joined by two incredible women who have spent years on the front line of love and relationships  - active daters turned true insiders - Julie and Yue. They’re the powerhouse duo behind the award-winning Dateable podcast and authors of How To Be Dateable, a guide that’s helped countless people navigate the wild world of love in the digital age.  Their work has been celebrated by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily and so many others. Julie brings her background in human-centred design and deep qualitative research, while Yue draws on her experience as a dating coach - together offering a rare blend of insight, humour and grounded wisdom. In our conversation, we dive into expectations around dating at midlife, the biggest misconceptions, how apps have reshaped the landscape, and what’s coming next - whether the future is even more digital led, or if there’s a swing back to real-world connection. And of course, they share some brilliant tips to help you actually enjoy the process! You can find Julie and Yue at dateablepodcast.com and on Instagram @dateablepodcast Support the show Please remember, if you find the show helpful or it makes you laugh, motivates and inspires you - please do like, share and rate us. We don't run ads on the podcast or for the show, because we want to keep it as enjoyable for you to listen as possible. So if you can help us spread the word, we'd be incredibly grateful. For more information about The Midlife Mentors, click the below link: https://linktr.ee/themidlifementors.com Tik Tok: @themidlifementors IG: @midlifementors

    48 min
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We’re The Midlife Mentors. Here to lift the lid on our no nonsense approach to midlife health and happiness.As midlifers, we’re constantly told we need have it all figured out. But in fact most of us don’t.Our mission is not only to de-bust the crazy diet and fitness myths, but to empower and educate from an authentic and balanced perspective based on reality.It’s time to step away from the madness we manifest in our attempts to attain goals that are unachievable, as we help you focus on the daily opportunities that redefine who and what you are, with the wisdom that comes with age.Contact us: team@themidlifementors.comBook a free no obligation Discovery Call: https://themidlifementors.com/freecall

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  • Creator
    The Midlife Mentors
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    272
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Midlife Mentors
  • Show Website
    The Midlife Mentors

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