The Real Marriage Podcast

Griffin & Heather Gilstrap
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After ten years of marriage, two miscarriages, five children, job-changes and all kinds of surprises we’ve learned so much about what a Real Marriage is meant to look like. Yet, so many couples who were once madly in love, now feel distant, overwhelmed, isolated, and hopeless in their marriage. We knew it was time to get in the trenches and start an honest conversation about the gift of a Real Marriage. We began the Real Marriage podcast to help couples find their passion for marriage again. Our goal is to inspire and encourage you through conversations about our own marriage as well as through interviews with real couples and experts dealing with issues we all face in our marriages.

  1. 07/28/2025

    Our Story

    Every marriage has a story. How you met. How you realized they were the one. What life has been like since getting married.   We realized that we hadn't fully shared our story and how God brought us together.  It certainly had twists and turns and each of us made decisions that could have ultimately kept us from living in God's will but through His grace He finally brought us together. Listen and hear the story but also the significance of marriage being a mission.

    34 min

  2. 05/20/2025

    Staying Connected While Raising Kids

    You may have been told before you had kids that once they come there is no going back.  It changes everything.  It's hard to know how true that is until it comes but if we aren't careful it can create difficult challenges for the marriage.   Griffin and Heather ran into this recently in what seemed like a random moment.  Heather felt like she needed more time and focus on the marriage and Griffin was surprised by the feeling.  How they reacted to the conversation was critical.  Listen and hear this discussion about protecting your marriage and connection while going through the business of raising kids.  How can you prioritize each other? How do you make sure you have quality time so you don't miss important moments?

    30 min

  3. 02/10/2025

    Managing "That Time of the Month" Well

    Hormones! We all know that every month a woman is impacted physically, mentally and emotionally.  The question is how does that disrupt the marriage? It may or may not be an open and comfortable conversation in your home but if you aren't on the same page with this time of the month then you can open yourselves up to issues that develop over time. Listen and hear how Heather and Griffin have hit a breakthrough with not only understanding this dynamic better but making sure it doesn't negatively impact their intimacy and connection.

    24 min

  4. 01/28/2025

    Stop Being Stagnant

    A new year always produces reflective thoughts.   Where are we in life?  Where are we headed?  Are things where we want them to be? With how busy and overwhelming life is it can be tempting to just ask those questions but not have a true plan to move forward.   This episode is a discussion about why it is necessary to grow and move forward.  Why we must not get stagnant and just stay where we are.  We all have habits and reasons why we don't grow and progress whether it be individually or as a couple.  Listen to Griffin and Heather's passion around never wanting to settle in every aspect of life.

    27 min

  5. 11/18/2024

    The Power Of Gratitude

    Gratitude is a choice. Unfortunately it isn't always the natural one.  As we've discussed before it can be easy to live in a place of discontent and wanting rather than a place of gratefulness.   Listen and hear Heather and Griffin speak on the power of gratefulness.  You will hear them explore the significance of what your gratitude is anchored to and why it takes work to develop a natural heart of gratitude.   They also unpack how important it is to show your spouse and children what you are thankful for regularly.

    27 min

  6. 11/04/2024

    Was Homeschooling A Mistake?

    Making life-changing decisions always comes with trepidation.   This year Griffin and Heather made the big decision to homeschool all of their children.  After praying and seeking the Lord's guidance they made the move to alter their lives and maybe more significantly the lives of their children. This episode explores the challenges of making big decisions as a family.  How do you deal with second-guessing the decision? Is it a bad decision if it is hard? How important is it to be unified in these kinds of decisions as a couple?

    24 min

  7. 10/22/2024

    Managing your soul amidst the chaos of our current culture

    It's hard not to be anxious or worried. When you open social media, check the news or even just go about your day you run into information that is unsettling. Politics, wars, daily news, hurricane destruction, etc. make it really hard to avoid being affected by so many challenging circumstances in the world.  So, what's the balance between caring and being informed versus being overwhelmed by it all? How much time and energy should we put towards all of these things out of our control? It's not an easy answer but important to talk about because as you have noticed things don't seem to get better very often. Listen and hear Heather and Griffin talk about how they guard themselves after feeling the impact of being caught up in certain things in the past.  Hear how they help each other stay on track and focused on the things they can control.

    27 min

  8. 06/27/2024

    How Do You Keep Up With Everything?

    The demands on your life are strong. Do you often feel like you can't keep up? Like you are falling behind and missing things you should be keeping up with? One of the most common questions Griffin and Heather get is "How do you do it all?"  The true answer is that they don't feel like they do.  The feeling is often that we are not keeping up well enough. Listen and hear Heather specifically unpack how this challenge feels as a mother.  She speaks candidly about trying to meet the needs of the kids, keep up with the house, love Griffin well, etc.

    26 min
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After ten years of marriage, two miscarriages, five children, job-changes and all kinds of surprises we’ve learned so much about what a Real Marriage is meant to look like. Yet, so many couples who were once madly in love, now feel distant, overwhelmed, isolated, and hopeless in their marriage. We knew it was time to get in the trenches and start an honest conversation about the gift of a Real Marriage. We began the Real Marriage podcast to help couples find their passion for marriage again. Our goal is to inspire and encourage you through conversations about our own marriage as well as through interviews with real couples and experts dealing with issues we all face in our marriages.

Information

  • Creator
    Griffin & Heather Gilstrap
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2025
  • Episodes
    94
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Real Marriage Podcast
  • Show Website
    The Real Marriage Podcast