The Jonnie Jensen Show

JONNIE JENSEN
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Welcome to The Jonnie Jensen Show – for business owning and career minded dads who want success at home so they can feel like the man and dad they want to be. Modern dads often put themselves last, thinking being enough for everyone else will make them happy. It won’t. When you get strong first – mentally, physically and emotionally – everything else improves. Jonnie is a divorced business owning dad and founder of the High Value Man Project. Real stories. Honest conversations. No alpha hustle. Just clarity, courage and commitment. Start here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/group

  1. Sep 23

    Don't Be Nice, Be Respected feat. Danny M Goldberg

    You were raised to be the nice guy. Nice gets you taken advantage of at work, at home and by your own kids. This isn't about being an arsehole. It's about being clear enough that people know you could be one. Rebuilding after divorce, or just tired of being the pushover at home? I created the Lifestyle MOT to show you exactly where to start. 3 mins, 15 simple questions, and you get a personal review back from me: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Danny M Goldberg has spent seventeen years training Fortune 500 companies and government agencies to have difficult conversations, and wrote A Little Bit of A$$hole after realising he'd lost his own voice at home. This one is for the man who says yes when he means no, explains every decision, and then wonders why he's not taken seriously by his partner, his team or his kids. Jonnie and Danny talk through divorce, dating again with your eyes open, and why nice men don't avoid the row, they postpone it until it blows. WHY THIS MATTERS The cost of nice builds up quietly. The boss who asks too much, the partner who stops seeing you as the man she fell for, the teenager who learns your no means "ask again later". This hour gives you the language to set the line early, before you end up drawing it in the middle of a blow-up. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 08:21 Getting divorced is awful. Being divorced is great.16:55 Why clarity in your fifties makes you more attractive, at home and in business21:17 "Be nice," they said. The bullies loved it.25:53 Set the expectation before you need the row29:09 Why second marriages repeat the first33:41 "Would you like to come up to this bar with me?"39:47 The 24-hour challenge44:14 Toxic people are toxic. Masculinity isn't.53:01 How to start something without betting the house CONNECT WITH DANNY M GOLDBERG Website: https://dannymgoldberg.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dannymgoldbergA Little Bit of A$$hole: https://littlebitahole.comOther books: https://www.amazon.com/Danny-Goldberg/e/B00LVAS23A YOUR LIFESTYLE MOT Where are you being nice when you should be clear? 3 mins, 15 simple questions, and you get a personal review back from me: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score SUBSCRIBE, REVIEW AND SHARE THIS WITH ANOTHER MAN Send this to the mate who says "whatever you want, mate" about everything, including the name of his own dog. If it helped, a ninety-second review is how the next man finds it, and subscribing means you won't miss the next one. Listen here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast

    Don't Be Nice, Be Respected feat. Danny M Goldberg

  2. Sep 15

    Forget January Resolutions - This Is The Best Time For Success

    Fourteen weeks to December...I'm not saying the C word! Many men will coast through, arrive in December knackered and slightly disappointed, and then promise themselves something on the 1st of January. FORGE starts in October. Eight weeks, small group, sixteen men, finishing before December even starts. This episode is the argument, FORGE is how it actually happens: https://live.highvaluemanproject.com/forge September to December is the most workable stretch in the calendar and it is the one most men write off. In this solo episode Jonnie makes the case for the fourteen week run: why the conditions in September beat the conditions in January, why the pressure a man feels about a busy autumn is almost always anticipated rather than real, and what it takes to arrive at the 20th of December with nothing hanging over him. He is open that this time of year does his head in too, and uses his own September, two kids out every night, a Hyrox at the end of October, to show what handling it badly looks like before turning it into something a man can use. WHY THIS MATTERS A resolution has no scoreboard. It runs to nothing and dies quietly in February, which is why most men have had the same January more than once. Christmas is a real date. The men who treat these fourteen weeks as a deadline rather than a wind down arrive at it with something to celebrate instead of something to apologise for, and their families get a December with a man in it rather than a man catching up. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 03:19 Why September Cranks Me Up Every Year 05:58 The Pressure Is Not Real. It's Anticipated. 09:21 Don't Make Her Everything 11:50 Work Back From Christmas Day 14:48 Protect December FORGE STARTS IN OCTOBER Eight weeks, small group, sixteen men. It runs through October and November, which means the work is finished before December even starts. Weekly 90 minute group calls, the FIRE CODE tracker, a cohort WhatsApp group, and accountability that starts the day you join rather than the day the sessions do. Fourteen weeks. Don't spend them on your own. https://live.highvaluemanproject.com/forge SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Send this to the mate who tells you every single January that this year is his year. He has told you three times. Send it now and save him the twelve months. Reviews take ninety seconds and they are how other dads find the show. On Spotify, hit the three dots and rate it. On Apple, it has to be done on mobile. Listen on Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple Listen on Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify Watch on YouTube: https://highvaluemanproject.com/video

    Forget January Resolutions - This Is The Best Time For Success

  3. Aug 21

    The Holiday Pressure Trap

    You saved for it. You booked it. You told everyone it was going to be brilliant. That's exactly why it turned into a row by day three. Do not fall into the holiday pressure trap. See exactly where your energy, connection and joy is leaking. The free HVM Scorecard takes three minutes https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Jonnie is back from ten days in France with his two kids and one of their mates, and this episode is the honest version of how a family holiday actually goes well. Not the destination, not the budget, not the itinerary. The pressure a man loads onto the trip before he has even left the house, and what happens to his wife and kids when reality does not match the picture in his head. He shares what he does before he packs the boot, on the drive, at the dinner table and in the moments he deliberately steps back to catch. WHY THIS MATTERS For most men the holiday is the one stretch of the year his family gets all of him, and he arrives too loaded to give it. What he wanted to be the best fortnight of the year becomes the one everyone remembers for the wrong reasons. The cost is not a wasted week. It is another year of his kids and his partner learning what he is like under pressure. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 01:08 Why Holidays Go Wrong06:29 Plan Less, Enjoy More11:56 Make Mealtimes Matter14:18 Balance Family Time and Freedom15:58 Keep Your Healthy Habits17:11 Make Time for Your Relationship19:37 Choose Peace, Fun and Lasting Memories YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE Not sure where your life is leaking energy, focus and drive? The free HVM Scorecard takes three minutes and shows you exactly where you are winning and where you are losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy. https://highvaluemanproject.com/score SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Send this to the mate whose holiday stories always include a drama or a row! He will hate it and then he will thank you. Give the Jonnie Jensen Show a review. It takes ninety seconds and they are how other dads find the show. On Spotify, hit the three dots and rate it. On Apple, it has to be done on mobile. Listen here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast Watch on YouTube: https://highvaluemanproject.com/video

    The Holiday Pressure Trap

  4. Aug 11

    You Think You're Invincible. Then You Turn 45 feat. Oliver Anwar

    You never decided to let your health go. You just kept spending it, because it kept paying out. It stops paying out at about 45. Find out where you're leaking energy, focus and drive. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Oliver Anwar is an executive health coach working with entrepreneurs and senior executives around the world, based in Dubai. Eight years ago he was broke and filling vending machines in central London at 4am. He builds his coaching around blood work rather than the scales, and he is blunt about what men are getting wrong before they reach for TRT or a weight loss jab. He and Jonnie get into the crisis that arrives at 40 to 45, why identity beats discipline, and what a man can actually do about it starting tomorrow. WHY THIS MATTERS The men in this conversation are not unwell. They are successful, capable, and quietly running on a baseline nobody has ever measured. The bill for that lands somewhere between 40 and 50, usually in a doctor's room, and by then the options are worse and the price is higher. Nothing in this episode takes more than ten minutes a day to start. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 06:47 The crisis that lands at 40 to 4514:58 I am a healthy person: identity beats dieting22:51 Shortcuts, jabs, and the blood test your GP isn't doing28:26 You service the car and ignore the body34:17 Ten minutes a day, and the protein you're not eating40:41 Healthy masculinity, polarity, and attracting what you are CONNECT WITH OLIVER Fitness For Entrepreneurs: https://fitnessforentrepreneurs.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theoliveranwarYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theoliveranwar DISCOVER YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE Discover your High Value Man score, so you can see where you're leaking your energy, connection and joy. Three minutes, and a personal report the moment you finish.https://highvaluemanproject.com/score SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Know a man who's been telling himself he'll sort his health out after this next quarter? Send this to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man. A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show. Apple: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple Spotify: https://highvaluemanproject.come/spotify

    You Think You're Invincible. Then You Turn 45 feat. Oliver Anwar

  5. Aug 6

    Your Marriage Isn't Broken, It's Paused feat. Dr Lee Baucom

    No man wakes up one morning and decides to stop fancying his wife. It happens by a decision neither of you remember making. See exactly where the connection is leaking. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Dr Lee Baucom has spent thirty years working with couples and is the author of Save the Marriage. Jonnie bought that programme during his own divorce, ten years ago, and says it changed how he thinks about relationships to this day. They talk about the relationships that aren't broken, just quiet, and what it takes for one man to bring one back to life without waiting for permission. WHY THIS MATTERS Nobody arrives at the end of a marriage. Everybody drifts there, one benign decision at a time, and most men don't notice until the distance is too wide to talk across. Lee names the exact slope, and what a man can do about it on his own. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 02:38 What Jonnie learned about himself after his divorce 04:41 Good people having bad relationships 08:40 Save the Marriage, and the app that came before it 10:24 The little things that keep love alive 11:29 How couples hit the pause button 14:38 Why "we really love each other" doesn't beat the statistics 15:21 Treating the symptoms instead of the disconnection 17:26 The three levels of connection: physical, emotional, spiritual 20:16 Why the movie stops at happily ever after 24:21 The telltale signs of the pause phase 25:49 Setting the rules early: no eye rolls, no silent moods 30:54 Anger is a secondary emotion 32:29 Why you're more gracious with strangers than your wife 33:34 The disses: from disinterest to disdain 36:30 What constant rejection does to a man 40:04 When the relationship strains, everything strains 45:09 Putting your whole life on one relationship 47:18 Relationship before results 49:37 The three Cs: connect, change, create 50:45 Invitational connection, not date night 52:40 The moment his girlfriend said "believe" 55:49 Breaking up with love CONNECT WITH LEE If your marriage is in crisis: https://savethemarriage.comIf you're stuck and drifting that way: https://unpauseyourmarriage.com YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE Discover your High Value Man score, so you can see where you're leaking your energy, connection and joy. Three minutes, and a personal report the moment you finish. https://highvaluemanproject.com/score SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Know a man whose marriage has gone quiet? Send this to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man. A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show. Apple: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/apple Spotify: htpps://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify

    Your Marriage Isn't Broken, It's Paused feat. Dr Lee Baucom

  6. Jul 28

    Clear Mind, Clear Results - Law of Attraction for Men

    A clear mind gets clear results. The reason this is true is much more scientific than most men believe. If you think the Law of Attraction is a load of crap then you may be missing out on the basic principles of "you get what you think about most of the time". This episode is why a clear mind matters and how to fix it. Find out where your thinking is clear and where it's cluttered. The free HVM Score takes two minutes: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Jonnie Jensen breaks down the law of attraction in real-world terms — not crystals and vision boards, but full body alignment: thoughts, actions and chemistry all pointing in the same direction. Why desire alone isn't enough. Why the doubt underneath is the thought that's actually running the show. And the simple exercise that clears the interference so you can get after what you actually want. WHY THIS MATTERS Most men are working hard and going in circles. Not because they lack effort or a plan, but because their doubts are louder than their desire — even when they can't hear them. This episode names that and gives you a way out. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 00:00 The Law of Attraction for Men: Alignment, Not Wishful Thinking 01:29 Who the High Value Man Framework Is For 03:48 Get Clear on What You Want 06:22 How Doubt Undermines Your Goals 08:30 The Desire vs. Doubt Exercise 10:38 Why Your Energy Has to Match Your Intention 11:08 The Laser Pointer Test for Focus 11:33 Clear Doubt and Build Momentum YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE Find out where your thinking is clear and where it's cluttered. The free HVM Score takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/score BOOK A POWER CALL Take the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Know a man who's going in circles despite working hard? Send this to him directly. One specific man. A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds and helps more men find this show. Listen on all platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/podcast

    Clear Mind, Clear Results - Law of Attraction for Men

  7. Jul 14

    Getting Divorced Is Tough. Being Divorced Should Be Great.

    Divorce does not end your life. It simply ends your marriage. This episode breaks down how to get back on your feet in less time, with fewer mistakes, and more fun. Find out where you're at in the rebuild. The free High Value Man Scorecard takes two minutes and shows you exactly where to focus first: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Too many men walk out of a marriage and spend the next few years carrying it with them. In this episode, Jonnie Jensen breaks down the high value man route through divorce and rebuild: the six stages of grief and why they don't go in order, the Fab Four support structure, the soul cutting exercise, and how to use the 3XC framework to build something better on the other side. WHY THIS MATTERS Divorce doesn't take men down. The way men respond to divorce takes them down. There's a route through this that's faster, cleaner, and results in a better man on the other side. This episode is that route. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 00:00 Introduction — Divorce Doesn't End Your Life07:15 The Six Stages of Grief (And Why They Don't Go in Order)14:47 Clarity: Who Are You When She's Not in the Picture?21:34 The Fab Four — Your Divorce Support Team23:04 The Soul Cutting Exercise: How to Actually Let Her Go28:27 Commitment: Minimum Viable Output and Building the New Chapter YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE Find out where you're at in the rebuild. The free HVM Score takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/score BOOK A POWER CALL Take the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/powercall SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Know a man who's in this right now? Send this directly to him. Not a broadcast. One specific man. A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds and helps more men find this show. https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple

    Getting Divorced Is Tough. Being Divorced Should Be Great.

  8. Jun 30

    Work So Hard Burnout Nearly Killed Him feat. Nick Medlock

    If Nick hadn't have been training for a marathon, burnout would have killed him. And he was only 28 at the time! Now 5 years later he sold that business and is growing a second. This is a powerful Comeback Kings episode that will move, motivate and make you laugh. Find out where you're running on empty before your body makes the decision for you. Take your free HVM Score: https://highvaluemanproject.com/score Nick Medlock is 33. He built an outstanding-rated care company from the ground up alongside his mum, sold it when his health gave him no other choice, and is now building again. Jonnie Jensen talks to him about what happens when the drive that makes a man successful becomes the thing that nearly destroys him. WHY THIS MATTERS A man who can't stop isn't strong. He's running on empty and calling it dedication. Nick's story names where that road ends, and what the way back looks like. HIGH VALUE MOMENTS 02:12 Nick's Upbringing and Values05:57 The Importance of Friendships07:55 Career Beginnings and Family Business10:09 Challenges in Adult Care13:47 Burnout and Mental Health Awareness20:12 Realisations and Changes in Life24:22 The Struggle and Realisation25:53 Transitioning from Family Business29:47 Navigating the Sale of a Business30:55 New Beginnings and Business Ventures34:11 Building Trust in Partnerships38:44 Family Values and Parenting Goals CONNECT WITH NICK Blue Circle Surveyors: https://www.bluecirclesurveyors.co.ukLinkedIn: Nick Medlock DISCOVER YOUR HIGH VALUE MAN SCORE The free HVM Scorecard takes two minutes and shows you exactly where you're winning and where you're losing ground across focus, impact, relationships and energy.https://highvaluemanproject.com/score BOOK A TURBO CALL Take the scorecard, then book a call with Jonnie to go through your results. If working together is right for you, that's where it starts.https://highvaluemanproject.com/turbocall SHARE / REVIEW / SUBSCRIBE Know a business-owning dad who needs to hear Nick's story? Send it to him directly. Not a broadcast. One specific man. A review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify takes 90 seconds. It's the most useful thing you can do to help more men find this show. Listen on all platforms: https://highvaluemanproject.com/apple https://highvaluemanproject.com/spotify

    Work So Hard Burnout Nearly Killed Him feat. Nick Medlock
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Welcome to The Jonnie Jensen Show – for business owning and career minded dads who want success at home so they can feel like the man and dad they want to be. Modern dads often put themselves last, thinking being enough for everyone else will make them happy. It won’t. When you get strong first – mentally, physically and emotionally – everything else improves. Jonnie is a divorced business owning dad and founder of the High Value Man Project. Real stories. Honest conversations. No alpha hustle. Just clarity, courage and commitment. Start here: https://highvaluemanproject.com/group

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  • Creator
    JONNIE JENSEN
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    195
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © JONNIE JENSEN
  • Show Website
    The Jonnie Jensen Show