Spiritual Shit

Alea Lovely

The down and dirty on modern spirituality. Follow Alea @thelovelyalea or visit her site thelovelyalea.com Remember to like and subscribe to never miss an episode and so can connect! Become a Patreon Supporter at patreon.com/thelovelyalea to get access to behind the scenes of our guests, Freebies, early access to new episodes, discounts on merch, free workshops and more.

  1. 10/23/2025

    Ep. 245 Stop Being a Target for Narcissists: Shattering the Illusion of "The Chosen Myth"

    🎙️ Are you tired of attracting narcissists and emotional vampires who drain your energy and distort your sense of self? Use and abuse your kindness and leave you feeling drained and rejected? This podcast pulls back the curtain on the “Chosen Myth” — the false belief that being endlessly empathetic, forgiving, or spiritually evolved somehow will get you the love you desire, but instead makes you a magnet for broken people. Spoiler: it’s not divine selection; it’s conditioning. Hosted by Alea Lovely, spiritual teacher and author of Meaningful Manifestation, this series breaks down the energetic and psychological patterns that keep you locked in these cycles. This episode unpacks how narcissists and adjacent types sense and exploit emotional gaps — and how you can close them by reclaiming your boundaries, your intuition, and your power. Raw. Insightful. Liberating. This isn’t about blaming or shaming — it’s about waking up. It’s time to stop being the chosen one for chaos and start being the chooser of peace. Find this workshop ( November 8th + 15th 1:00pm CST Replay available ) at thelovelyalea.com/workshop Work with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.com Order MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/book Get spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/services Become a Love Society Member to get workshops every week , extra content, and community hellolovesociety.com Follow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )

    37 min
  2. 10/02/2025

    Ep. 244 Resonance Over Test: Why Vibration Shapes Your Life More Than Lessons Ever Will.

    What if life isn’t a cosmic classroom full of tests, but a multidimensional game of vibration, resonance, and self-mastery? In this episode of Spiritual Shit we flip the old “Earth school” narrative on its head and explore a radical new paradigm: you’re not here to pass exams or prove your worth — you’re here to play with frequency. We’ll break down how the universe mirrors your energetic broadcast, why recurring “life lessons” are really vibrational echoes, and how to stop living like you’re being graded. If you’ve ever felt stuck in endless karmic cycles, wondering why the same struggles repeat, this conversation reframes the entire journey into one of conscious choice and freedom. Together we’ll unpack the myth of worthiness tests, the Hermetic Principle of Vibration, and how to re-author your personal frequency so you can level up — or level out — by design. Expect practical tools like story audits, somatic release, boundary setting, and frequency casting to shift your reality without waiting for “graduation day.” We’ll also explore relationships as resonance fields, energy dynamics that drain creatives and empaths, and how to step out of the old matrix rules to create a life driven by self-sovereignty. Perfect for seekers, spiritual entrepreneurs, and anyone ready to stop proving and start playing the game of life on their own terms. Work with me, your host,  here: Thelovelyalea.com Order MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/book Get spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/services Become a Love Society Member to get workshops every week , extra content, and community hellolovesociety.com Follow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )

    37 min
  3. 09/11/2025

    Ep. 243 Intuition vs. Proof: Why We Struggle to Trust Ourselves and How To Fix It

    In this episode, Intuition vs. Proof: Why We Struggle to Trust Ourselves, we explore why intuition can’t—and shouldn’t—be forced into the realm of proof. Intuition isn’t a genie that delivers evidence on demand; it’s a language of resonance, guidance, and embodied truth. When we pressure it to “perform” under the rules of science and logic, it goes quiet. We’ll uncover the deeper roots of this struggle: how colonization dismissed indigenous and earth-based ways of knowing, how patriarchy suppressed embodied and intuitive wisdom, and how the modern obsession with data and evidence narrowed our definition of truth. Along the way, you’ll learn why so many of us second-guess ourselves, outsource decisions, and feel shame when we can’t “prove” our inner voice. This conversation is a call to shift from proof-based living to trust-based living—where intuition guides and evidence follows in its own time. By reclaiming intuition as your birthright, you can step into greater freedom, authenticity, and alignment, and remember what your soul has known all along: proof always follows intuition, but it never leads. This lesson was first shared inside Love Society, my private spiritual community where we explore intuition, healing, and soul growth together every month. If you’ve been curious about joining, now’s the perfect time—you can get half off your first month with the code HALFOFF at hellolovesociety.com. And if you’re ready to go even deeper, I’ve just launched a brand-new coaching program all about developing your intuition, designed to help you move from doubt to clarity and truly hear your inner voice. You can learn more and apply at thelovelyalea.com/coaching.

    36 min

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The down and dirty on modern spirituality. Follow Alea @thelovelyalea or visit her site thelovelyalea.com Remember to like and subscribe to never miss an episode and so can connect! Become a Patreon Supporter at patreon.com/thelovelyalea to get access to behind the scenes of our guests, Freebies, early access to new episodes, discounts on merch, free workshops and more.

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