Beauty is a Bitch

Lauren Dimet Waters
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Join host and fashion and beauty veteran Lauren Dimet Waters as she discovers ALL the secrets to growing younger when it comes to beauty, fashion, wellness and longevity. Beauty is a Bitch! will unearth what’s new, what works and what you should not waste your money on to help middle age women keep fighting the fight. Together we can grow older better.. and get through this journey with a little humor and a lot of attitude! #growingyounger Read more on Lauren’s blog FountainOf30.com

  1. 6D AGO

    S9 E1 Is Cognitive Decline Inevitable? Brain Optimization with Dr. Tere Linzey

    As we move through midlife, many of us start noticing subtle shifts in our brains — maybe it takes longer to find a word, focus feels harder than it used to, or multitasking suddenly feels overwhelming. It’s easy to assume these changes are just “part of aging,” but the truth is far more hopeful: our brains are far more adaptable than we’ve been led to believe. That’s one reason this episode feels especially important. For so many years we were told that cognitive decline was inevitable, that once certain abilities slowed down there was little we could do. But today’s research on neuroplasticity tells a very different story — one where the brain can continue to strengthen, retrain, and improve well into later life when given the right kind of stimulation. My guest today, Dr. Tere Linzey, is a Licensed Educational Psychologist and founder of BrainMatterZ, a program dedicated to optimizing core cognitive skills like processing speed, attention, memory and executive functioning. With more than 30 years in education and research at institutions including Harvard and UC Berkeley, she has focused her work on helping people understand how the brain can be trained to function more efficiently at any age. Together, we talk about what’s actually happening in the brain during midlife, how to tell the difference between normal aging and cognitive skills that can be improved with training, and why strengthening foundational brain functions can have such a powerful effect on confidence, focus, and everyday performance. Dr. Linzey also explains how menopause, stress and modern lifestyle pressures influence cognitive health — and what we can begin doing today to support our brains for the long term. A few things we discuss: • What neuroplasticity really means and how it allows the brain to improve at any age • How to distinguish normal aging changes from cognitive skills that can be strengthened • The impact of menopause, stress and lifestyle factors on focus, memory and processing speed • Practical steps to support long-term brain health and cognitive resilience If you’ve ever wondered whether the changes you’re noticing are simply aging — or something you can actually improve — this conversation will leave you feeling informed, empowered, and far more hopeful about what’s possible. Show Notes: Website: https://www.brainmatterz.com/ Instagram: @tclinzey

    42 min

  2. 11/26/2025

    S8 E15 Why the Holidays Stir Up So Much in Midlife & How to Cope with Ann Bolinger-McQuade

    The holidays have a way of stirring up everything at once — joy, nostalgia, gratitude, and for so many of us in midlife, a deep grief for the people and seasons of life we miss. It’s a complicated blend, and it can feel incredibly lonely… even when you’re surrounded by family and celebration. That’s one reason this episode feels especially personal to me. I was never someone who believed in signs — until after my father passed. And then… they started showing up. Little moments, small winks from the universe that landed exactly when I needed them most. Now I see them all the time, and the truth is: they’re always there. You just have to be open to noticing them. My guest today, Ann Bolinger-McQuade, understands this better than anyone. As an author and workshop facilitator, she has dedicated her life to helping people recognize these quiet messages — what she calls personal oracles — especially during times when grief feels heavy. After her own breast cancer diagnosis set off a series of life-changing experiences, Ann began to see the world as alive, supportive and filled with guidance. Together, we talk about why the holidays feel so emotionally charged in midlife, how to hold both joy and grief without guilt, and simple ways to honor the people we miss. Ann also shares how to notice the meaningful “oracles” that often appear during this heightened season, offering comfort and connection when we least expect it. A few things we discuss: • Why mixed emotions during the holidays are completely normal — especially in midlife • How gratitude and grief can coexist without canceling each other out • Simple ways to feel connected to loved ones who aren’t physically here If the holidays feel complicated for you this year, this conversation is a soft place to land — and a reminder that you’re never as alone as you think. Show Notes: Website: https://everydayextradimensions.com/ Book: Everyday Oracles: Decoding the Divine Messages That Are All Around Us Instagram: @everydaypersonaloracles

    38 min

  3. 11/14/2025

    S8 E14 What Your Eyes Reveal About How Well You’re Aging with Dr. Pam Theriot

    Your eyes do so much more than help you see — they quietly reveal how well you’re aging. In this episode, I’m joined by optometrist, author, and dry eye specialist Dr. Pam Theriot, whose decades of experience have made her a true expert on the intersection of eye health, longevity, and midlife wellness. We get into the surprising ways your daily habits, beauty routine, and environment affect the skin around your eyes, your tear film, and even your vision. Dr. Theriot also shares her own journey with chronic dry eye and how it shaped her mission to help people feel at ease in their eyes again. We talk about the biggest mistakes women over 40 make with their eyes, the beauty trends doing more harm than good, and the simple, everyday habits that help your eyes look brighter, feel more comfortable, and age more gracefully. Some of the things we’ll be discussing are: • How your eyes reflect internal health — and early signs of aging you shouldn’t ignore • Whether certain beauty trends (hello, lash extensions) are quietly damaging your eyes • What women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond should avoid to protect long-term eye health • The link between dry eye, screen time, and hormone changes in midlife If you’ve ever wondered why your eyes feel irritated, look tired, or seem to be aging faster than the rest of your face, this conversation is your roadmap to understanding what’s really going on — and what you can do starting today. Tune in to learn why caring for your eyes is one of the most important (and overlooked) parts of aging well. Show Notes Website: www.pamtheriot.com Book: https://www.pamtheriot.com/dry-eye-book CLEAN beauty handout: https://www.pamtheriot.com/remover

    29 min

  4. 10/27/2025

    S8 E13 Rethinking Brain Health and Stress Through an Ancestral Lens with Gilbert Martina

    In this episode of Beauty is a Bitch, we’re taking a deep dive into brain health and stress — but from a completely different perspective. My guest, Gilbert Martina, is a former healthcare executive turned ancestral health educator, and he’s here to help us rethink how we approach wellness, aging and emotional resilience. We explore why dementia rates are soaring in Western cultures while remaining strikingly low in certain Indigenous Amazonian communities, and what those differences can teach us about lifestyle, community and connection. Gilbert also explains how chronic stress accelerates brain aging, how ancestral rituals like storytelling, meditation and communal living can protect cognitive health, and why reconnecting with tradition and spirit might be one of the most powerful tools for longevity. For women over 50 juggling it all — work, family, and self-care — this conversation offers practical, simple daily practices to support both brain and emotional health. We also touch on inherited trauma, its impact on the body and brain, and how to begin the healing process. As the holidays approach, Gilbert shares wisdom from his Caribbean heritage on finding peace, balance and resilience during stressful times — and how to take that first step toward a more grounded, connected way of living. Tune in to learn how honoring ancient wisdom can help you stress less, think clearer and age better — mind, body, and soul. Show Notes Instagram: @gilbert.martina Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gilbertbmartina Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/gilbert.martina.35/

    36 min

  5. 09/27/2025

    S8 E12 Money Talk: Why Midlife Women Can’t Stay Silent with Amanda Barclay

    We’ve made real progress in talking openly about menopause, women’s health, and how to live longer, healthier lives. But there’s still one topic too many women shy away from in midlife: money. For a lot of us, conversations about finances were considered impolite, unfeminine, or just not our responsibility. Add in the realities of divorce, career changes, caregiving, or years of putting everyone else first, and it’s no wonder so many women hit midlife feeling financially unprepared or even ashamed. But what if shifting the way we think and talk about money could actually be the most empowering move we make? On this episode of Beauty is a Bitch, I’m joined by Amanda Barclay, Senior Financial Advisor and Senior Vice President with Merrill, A Bank of America Company. She’s not only one of Forbes’ “Top Women Wealth Advisors Best-in-State” in 2024 & 2025, but she’s also deeply passionate about helping women take control of their financial futures. Together, we’re digging into the money conversations we need to be having — with ourselves, our friends, our partners and even our kids. We’ll explore questions like: How can we make finances a regular, unapologetic part of our midlife conversations? What steps should women take to prepare for the unexpected — whether it’s divorce, illness or time away from the workforce? And what money mistakes do women make most often, and how can we avoid them? Amanda also shares her perspective on building confidence, narrowing the wealth gap, and why financial independence is about so much more than numbers. This episode is all about giving you the tools and mindset shifts to feel secure, confident, and powerful with your money. Show Notes: Amanda Barclay Senior Vice President | Wealth Management Senior Financial Advisor Senior Portfolio Advisor The Barclay Group Merrill Lynch Wealth Management 805 Northern Boulevard, Great Neck, NY 11021 (516) 498-3308 Amanda.Barclay@ml.com http://www.fa.ml.com/amanda.barclay Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-barclay

    31 min

  6. 09/12/2025

    S8 E11 The Style Evolution with Elysha Lenkin: Dressing for Who You Are Now

    In this episode of Beauty is a Bitch, we’re talking personal style — but not in the “what’s trending” kind of way. My guest, Elysha Lenkin, has spent over 30 years in the fashion industry (styling everyone from Serena Williams and Tina Fey to Carrie Underwood and O, The Oprah Magazine), and now she’s on a mission to help midlife women use style as a tool for personal evolution. Elysha and I dig into why so many women reach that moment of standing in front of their closet saying, “Nothing feels like me anymore,” and what’s really happening underneath. We talk about the biggest mistakes midlife women make when trying to evolve their style, the voices in our heads that whisper “Am I too old for this? Is it too much?” — and how to quiet them. And of course, we break down how style can actually energize the next stage of your life and help you show up bigger, bolder, and more confident than ever. Elysha is also launching her first Style Evolution online salon series — a five-day event designed to help women redefine their wardrobes and their confidence at midlife. If you’re ready to stop settling for “good enough” and start showing up in style that truly reflects who you are now, you’ll want to sign up. Show Notes The Style Evolution Series: styleevolutionseries.com Website: elyshalenkin.com Instagram: elysha_nyc

    37 min

  7. 07/29/2025

    S8 E10 The Truth About Women, Aging and Strength Training with Dr. Vonda Wright

    This week on Beauty is a Bitch, we’re diving into one of my favorite topics: how to age stronger, smarter and on our own terms. My guest today, Dr. Vonda Wright, is an orthopedic surgeon and internationally recognized expert on active aging and mobility. She’s spent 25 years helping everyone from elite athletes to professional dancers stay strong, injury-free and performing at their best—and now she’s sharing her expertise with the rest of us. Her new book, UNBREAKABLE: Go Strong. Live Long. Age with Power (coming out August, 26, 2025) is a powerful guide to building what she calls “shields” against the timebombs of aging—so we can extend not just our lifespan, but our health span. In this episode, we talk about why strength training is essential—especially in midlife—what push-ups and jumping can tell us about our longevity, and why it’s never too late to get stronger and feel better in your body. We also bust some of the biggest myths about women and aging—and Dr. Wright shares what she hopes every woman takes away from her book. If you’re ready to shift how you think about aging—and take back your power—this one’s for you. Let’s get into it. Show Notes: Pre-Order: UNBREAKABLE: Go Strong. Live Long. Age with Power   Website: drvondawright.com Instagram: @drvondawright Facebook: VondaWrightMD

    43 min

  8. 07/11/2025

    S8 E9 How to Prevent Travel-Related Back Pain in Midlife with Dr. Okubadejo

    If you’ve noticed your lower back doesn’t love planes, trains, or even the carpool line anymore—you’re not imagining it. As we age, our bodies become more vulnerable to travel-related back pain, especially for women over 50. But here’s the good news: there are simple, science-backed ways to feel better on the go—and today’s guest has the expert advice you need. Lauren sits down with renowned NYC spine surgeon and founder of The Institute for Comprehensive Spine Care, Dr. Bolanle Okubadejo, to break down why our backs get cranky during travel, and what we can actually do about it. From posture hacks to lifting tips, and even small movement strategies you can do right from your seat, this episode is full of practical tools to help you protect your spine without relying on gimmicks or gear. They’ll also discuss why women over 50 are particularly susceptible to back pain, the common travel mistakes that make it worse, and how to stay mobile, strong, and pain-free—no matter where life takes you. If you’re heading out on vacation, commuting daily, or just tired of feeling stiff after sitting, this is your must-listen episode. Your spine will thank you. Show Notes: Website: https://nynjspine.com Instagram: spinedocnynj

    27 min
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Join host and fashion and beauty veteran Lauren Dimet Waters as she discovers ALL the secrets to growing younger when it comes to beauty, fashion, wellness and longevity. Beauty is a Bitch! will unearth what’s new, what works and what you should not waste your money on to help middle age women keep fighting the fight. Together we can grow older better.. and get through this journey with a little humor and a lot of attitude! #growingyounger Read more on Lauren’s blog FountainOf30.com

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  • Creator
    Lauren Dimet Waters
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    121
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    ©2021 Lauren Dimet Waters
  • Show Website
    Beauty is a Bitch