The Self-Confidence Project

The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill

The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.

  1. 3d ago

    Ep#295 - Dating a Younger Woman: What Actually Works (Part 2)

    Start with Part 1 first: Dating a Younger Woman: What Actually Works (Part 1) This is part two of my series on dating a younger woman, and today we're getting practical. An age gap can be a genuinely beautiful relationship, but what makes it work isn't the number of years between you. It's whether your life stages truly line up, how you handle the dynamics that can quietly creep in, and how you show up as a partner. In this episode we cover the life-stage conversations that matter most, including children and the long view (and what research says about larger age gaps), with exact wording you can use to bring them up. We talk about the power dynamics worth being aware of, how to handle outside opinions, and a client story about making an age gap work with respect and honesty. Then I share the question a younger woman is quietly asking that almost no man thinks about, what healthy younger women genuinely love about older men, and exactly how to attract a younger woman in a way that's healthy for both of you. Because the healthiest age-gap relationships aren't defined by the gap. They're defined by two equals who chose each other with open eyes. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Dating a younger woman • how to attract younger women • age gap relationship advice • older man younger woman • what younger women like about older men • dating after divorce for men Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠⁠ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

  2. Oct 22

    Ep#294 - Dating a Younger Woman: What Actually Works (Part 1)

    If you're dating after a long marriage or relationship and find yourself drawn to a younger woman, you may be wondering whether your age is working against you. Here's what most men don't realize: whether a healthy younger woman is drawn to you has far less to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account, and far more to do with why you want her. Because she can feel it. In this episode, the first of a two-part series, I talk about what "dating younger" really means (often just a few years), where an age gap can be genuinely beautiful, and the honest reasons men are drawn to younger women, including the ones most men never say out loud. I share the story of a client who spent years chasing younger women as a shield against his own age, and why it never worked. And I'll tell you the one thing a healthy younger woman picks up on in the first ten minutes of a date, the thing that tells her almost everything she needs to know about you. Part 2 gets practical: the life-stage conversations that matter most, the dynamics to watch for, what healthy younger women love about older men, and how to attract a younger woman in a healthy way. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Mentioned in this episode: Want to Attract Younger Women? Fix This One Mindset First: https://youtu.be/76aCUQi1tyU Dating a younger woman • older man younger woman relationship • age gap relationships • how to attract younger women • dating after divorce for men • dating in your 50s Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠⁠ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

  3. Oct 15

    Ep#293 - How to Flirt Naturally (Even If You Haven't in 20 Years)

    You're in line at a coffee shop. The woman in front of you glances at your order and says, with a little smile, "Bold choice." Your mind goes blank, you say something polite, and the moment is gone. Then, on the drive home, the perfect reply finally shows up. If flirting feels rusty after a long marriage or relationship, you're in very good company. In this episode I'll show you what flirting really is (hint: it's a rally, not a monologue), and give you a simple three-step way to do it naturally. You'll learn what to do when a joke falls completely flat, how to tell if she's flirting back, what playful flirting looks like over text, and how to turn good banter into a date. I also share one of the worst flirting attempts I've ever experienced, so you know exactly what not to do. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

  4. Oct 8

    Ep#292 - She Went Cold After a Few Great Dates. Here's Your Move.

    Three great dates. Real chemistry. You suggest date number four, and she writes back: "haha sounds fun!" No day, no question back. It doesn't feel like a yes, and it doesn't feel like a no. It just feels like she went cold, and suddenly you're rereading her texts at eleven at night trying to figure out what it means.  In this episode I'll show you why you can't solve that puzzle by guessing, and what you can do instead. You'll learn a simple test to tell whether she's busy or fading, how to check in with yourself about whether you genuinely like her, and a clear, low-pressure way to ask her out again. Then we get to the part so many good men miss: the crossroads. You can stay on the sidelines living on breadcrumbs, or you can choose self-respect and be honest about the consistency you need. I'll also explain the psychology of why breadcrumbs feel so hard to walk away from, and what to do when she pops back up two weeks later with "hey stranger!"  This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

  5. Oct 1

    Ep#291 - If Dating After Divorce Feels Awful, Watch This

    There's the version of you everyone sees: capable, handling things, telling people you're "good, busy." And then there's the version of you on a quiet Sunday night, wondering how you got here and whether you'll ever feel that kind of closeness again. If dating after your marriage or a long relationship ended feels awful, you're far from alone. It's one of the most common things I hear from good, accomplished men, and almost none of them say it out loud. In this episode I name the private struggles so many men carry after a significant relationship ends, and explain why this season feels as hard as it does. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Dating after divorce for men • dating after a long relationship • starting over after divorce • loneliness after divorce • how to move on after divorce • rebuilding your life after divorce Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/

  6. Sep 24

    Ep#290 - The Red Flags Good Men Talk Themselves Out Of

    If you're a good man who keeps ending up with the wrong women, even though it feels so good in the beginning, I want you to hear this: it's not because you're foolish, or weak, or bad at this. It happens to genuinely great men, especially after a divorce or a painful split. And here's the part most people miss: you rarely actually miss these red flags. You see them. You just quietly explain them away. In this episode I break down how that happens. How grief, loneliness, and a bruised confidence can hijack even a great man's judgment and the specific warning signs good men talk themselves out of the most. Most importantly, I share how to stop, because the only thing worse than being alone is being trapped with the wrong person. Only you can change your cycle with women. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/

  7. Sep 17

    Ep#289- How to Touch a Woman So She Never Forgets It (Like, Ever)

    There's a reason millions of women are hooked on the new show Off Campus, even swooning over men half their age. And it isn't the age, and it isn't that the characters are hockey players. It's the way those men tap into the real psychological elements of female desire and every woman watching finds herself quietly wishing the man in her life could do the same. In this episode I break down exactly what that is, because it's not about some technique with your hands you need to learn. It's about the layers of psychology and emotion that actually draw a woman in. And yes, this absolutely is a skill, it's just not the one you've been taught to believe you need. It has nothing to do with a fancy move or the one thing your ex happened to like, and everything to do with locking in so completely to the woman in front of you that she feels safe enough to truly let go. Quick note: this is for two people who've already established real, mutual attraction because that always has to come first. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

  8. Sep 3

    Ep#288 - Online Dating Is Destroying Your Confidence (Use It Without Losing Yourself)

    You match with someone lovely, you start to imagine what could be…and then she goes quiet. And somehow, the silence becomes a verdict on you. If online dating has been quietly wearing down your confidence, this one's for you. In this episode, I break down why the apps are so hard on good men, and it genuinely isn't all in your head, and how to use them without losing your sense of who you are. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠ 2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠ 3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

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The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.

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    The Self-Confidence Project with Kimberly Hill
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    297
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