Tolu Afilaka

TOLU AFILAKA
  • 3.6 (5)
  • Comedy
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That’s My Time with Tolu Afilaka is your space to explore culture, entrepreneurship, strategy, and African stories that resonate globally. Hosted by Tolu Afilaka—a Nigerian entrepreneur, media owner, investor, speaker, comedian, actor, and strategist—this podcast brings you unfiltered conversations with leaders, creators, and changemakers shaping Africa and the diaspora. Tolu is the founder of A3 Media & Network, a modern media consultancy that has worked with brands like Coca-Cola, Access Bank, Glo, BUA Cement, and First Bank, and partnered with projects such as Billionaire Habits and The Leadership Podcast. He’s also a viral content creator and sought-after MC, has helped startups like TribaPay grow and thrive. Tune in to That’s My Time to dream boldly, think creatively, expand your awareness, and feel more connected to the stories, lessons, and voices shaping our world. IG : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ LI : https://www.linkedin.com/in/iyiola-afilaka-toluwalase-03497a214/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 4d ago

    #37 - Chude Jideonwo : Money Will Never Make You Happy

    What if the greatest success of your life still left you feeling empty? For years, Chude Jideonwo was achieving everything many people dream of. He built influential media platforms, advised political leaders, interviewed some of Africa's biggest names, and became one of the continent's most respected storytellers. Yet behind the success was a private battle with depression. In this deeply honest conversation, Chude opens up about the season that changed his life forever. He shares how depression stripped away everything he thought defined him, why he almost walked away from Christianity, what brought him back to faith, and why he now believes joy and happiness are not the same thing. We also explore purpose, forgiveness, ambition, politics, media, podcasting, storytelling, the Busola Dakolo interview, leadership, wealth, relationships, and the lessons he's learned after interviewing hundreds of remarkable people. This isn't just a conversation about success. It's about becoming whole. If you've ever questioned your purpose, struggled with your faith, battled anxiety or depression, or wondered whether success is really enough, this episode is for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 24m

  2. Jun 18

    #36 - TDA (THE DARE ALIU) : From Poverty to Building One of Nigeria's Biggest Fashion Brands

    Nigeria needs more people speaking sense, not nonsense. That was one of the first things Engineer Dari Aliyu said in this conversation. And honestly, it set the tone for everything that followed. Most people know Dari Aliyu as the founder of TDA, one of Nigeria's most respected fashion brands. What many don't know is the story behind the success. He lost his father at the age of two. He was raised by an uneducated mother. His older siblings sacrificed everything to keep the family together. He earned a scholarship into King's College, studied engineering in Russia under one of the toughest education systems in the world, and eventually built a brand that thousands admire today. But this conversation is bigger than fashion. It's about education, discipline, faith, value creation, poverty, success, ambition, family, entrepreneurship and the mindset required to build something meaningful from nothing. Dari shares lessons from his childhood, why he believes school is still important, why success is often misunderstood, how Russia shaped his thinking, the sacrifices behind TDA's growth, and why the pursuit of value matters more than the pursuit of money. If you're a student, entrepreneur, young professional, founder, creator, or simply someone trying to build a better life, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. Much of the discussion centers on education, discipline, value creation, overcoming hardship, and building a meaningful life through consistent effort and personal responsibility. This is not just a conversation about business. It's a masterclass on life. Sound Minds Podcast Hosted by Tolu Afilaka What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? CHAPTERS00:00 – Why Nigeria Needs More People Speaking Sense, Not Nonsense 01:33 – Meet Engineer Dari Aliyu 02:25 – Losing His Father At 2 & Growing Up With Nothing 04:19 – Why School Is Not A Scam 07:50 – The Biggest Misconception About His Background 10:07 – How His Mother & Siblings Saved The Family 12:24 – Winning A Scholarship Into King's College 15:56 – The Harsh Reality Of Studying In Russia 18:58 – Inside One Of The Toughest Education Systems In The World 21:07 – Why He Returned To Nigeria Instead Of Staying Abroad 23:42 – His First Job & Lessons About Money 27:19 – The Definition Of Success Most People Get Wrong 32:46 – How TDA Was Started 36:39 – Building A Fashion Brand Like An Engineer 39:35 – Why Society Celebrates The Wrong Things 42:56 – Growing TDA Through Difficult Times 47:58 – Surviving COVID & Reinventing The Business 51:17 – Meeting His Wife & The Power Of Divine Timing 54:30 – Success, Failure & Personal Growth 58:22 – Faith, Purpose & Finding Direction 01:02:18 – Protecting The TDA Brand & Building New Ventures 01:05:47 – The Principles That Changed His Life 01:09:57 – Final Advice For Young Nigerians Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 10m

  3. Jun 13

    #36 - FADO THE GREAT : The Untold Story Behind Nigeria's New Guinness World Record

    What does it really take to break a Guinness World Record? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Fadó, Nigeria's leading magician and Guinness World Record holder for the Longest Magic Show. For over 22 years, Fadó dedicated his life to mastering an art many people misunderstood. Then came the challenge that would test his mind, body, finances, and resilience like never before: performing magic continuously for 50 hours. From sleepless nights and financial sacrifices to self-doubt and relentless preparation, Fadó shares the incredible story behind one of Nigeria's most remarkable achievements. This conversation goes far beyond magic. It's about vision, discipline, obsession, creativity, and the price people pay to achieve extraordinary goals. In this episode, we discuss: • The truth about magic and how it actually works • The journey to becoming a professional magician • Breaking a Guinness World Record • Performing for 50 hours without sleep • The physical and mental challenges behind the attempt • The sacrifices nobody saw • Going into debt to pursue a dream • Creativity, discipline, and mastery • Building a magic industry in Nigeria • What comes next after making history Whether you're an entrepreneur, artist, creator, performer, or someone pursuing a difficult dream, this conversation is packed with lessons on persistence, courage, and believing in your vision when nobody else does. 💬 What was your biggest takeaway from this conversation? 🎙️ Sound Minds Podcast Hosted by Tolu Afilaka #Fado #GuinnessWorldRecord #Magic #Magician #Nigeria #Podcast #SoundMindsPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    54 min

  4. Jun 4

    #35 - The Truth About Masturbation | Dr. Tolu Oko-Igaire (Part 2)

    THE DARK SIDE OF THERAPY, INTIMACY & SEX | Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire (Part 2) In this highly anticipated Part 2, Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire goes even deeper into the unspoken realities of intimacy, emotional connection, and sexual struggles in Nigeria. With raw honesty and clinical insight, she breaks down how culture, religion, parenting, and trauma shape our sex lives and relationships — often in damaging ways. From the emotional gap between men and women to the real reasons many marriages suffer in silence, Dr. Tolu doesn’t hold back. This episode is bold, eye-opening, and deeply practical. What We Discussed in Part 2: Why sex is not just physical — the massive importance of emotional connectionHow men are conditioned to be providers but struggle with intimacyThe damaging effects of parenting, culture, and religion on emotional expressionWhy many Nigerian men have low emotional capacity in the bedroomHealthy vs unhealthy masculinity and its impact on sexThe truth about sex education — what children should actually see at homeKinks, fantasies, exploration, and how far is “too far” in marriageCognitive reconditioning, CBT, and why changing adult behavior is difficultThe painful realities of Igbo apprenticeship system and its effect on menCreativity in sex, foreplay, and why many women are frustratedDr. Tolu combines professional expertise with compassion as she addresses the silent struggles couples face but rarely discuss openly. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr

  5. May 28

    #34 - DR. TOLU OKO IGAIRE: The Truth About Orgasm, Intimacy & Nigerian Relationships

    The Truth About Therapy, Intimacy & Sex That No One Talks About – Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire In this bold, eye-opening, and deeply honest conversation, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire — one of Nigeria’s leading voices in mental health, sex therapy, and emotional wellness. As Provost of the Institute of Counseling in Nigeria and a renowned sex therapist, Dr. Tolu brings rare expertise and vulnerability to topics most Nigerians shy away from. From her unique journey as a former food scientist to becoming a trailblazer in sexual and emotional health, she breaks down the cultural taboos, misconceptions, and silent struggles affecting relationships and intimacy in our society. This episode goes beyond surface-level advice. It’s a raw exploration of the real issues couples and individuals face but rarely discuss openly. What We Discussed: How therapists carry heavy emotional loads without breaking downThe dangerous difference between empathy and emotional projectionWhy many Nigerians struggle with intimacy and emotional connectionThe real reasons relationships and sexual lives suffer in our cultureHer personal journey from a church girl and food scientist to sex therapistCultural and religious barriers around sex and mental health in NigeriaThe orgasmic cycle, common sexual dysfunctions, and how to overcome themThe emotional and sexual gap between men and womenPractical ways to build emotional intelligence and stronger relationshipsDr. Tolu’s insights are practical, compassionate, and sometimes surprising. Whether you’re in a relationship, single, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this conversation offers clarity, healing, and tools you can actually use. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    31 min

  6. May 21

    #33 - Shine Roseman Speaks Out: The Brutal Truth About Nigeria’s Government & Leadership

    In this powerful and emotional conversation, award-winning actress Shine Roseman sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks boldly about life, career, family, and the current state of Nigeria. From growing up in the streets of Ijesha to becoming one of Nigeria’s most loved actresses, Shine opens up about her journey, the influence of her parents, and why she can no longer stay silent about the suffering in the country. She addresses: Her humble beginnings in Ijesha and how it shaped her driveThe deep bond with her mother after losing her fatherWhy she refuses to stay quiet about bad governance and insecurityThe painful reality of Nigerians dying while leaders make moneyHer frustration with a government that shows no empathyThe importance of speaking truth even as a public figureThis episode is raw, honest, and deeply moving. Shine doesn’t hold back as she calls for change and challenges Nigerians not to normalize suffering. Whether you’re a fan of her acting or someone concerned about the state of the nation, this conversation will move you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 9m

  7. May 5

    #32 - Dr. Morenike Molehin: How She Built Oak and Teak Into a Global Interior Design Brand

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Morenike Molehin, CEO of Oak and Teak, to break down the real journey behind building a successful interior design business in Nigeria and globally. From studying Computer Science at Covenant University to becoming a leading interior designer and entrepreneur, Dr. Molehin shares the truth about career transitions, business growth, rejection, and leadership. This is not just a design story. It is a blueprint for anyone interested in: How to start an interior design businessHow to build a brand from scratchCareer growth and switching industries successfullyEntrepreneurship in NigeriaWomen in business and leadershipFaith, discipline, and long-term successWhat You’ll Learn in This Episode:How Dr. Morenike Molehin transitioned from Computer Science to interior designThe step-by-step journey of building Oak and TeakHow to handle rejection, failure, and self-doubt in businessThe role of mentorship and networking in career growthHow to grow a global brand from NigeriaThe reality of entrepreneurship and leadershipHow to balance family, faith, and businessThe mindset required to build long-term success and legacyDr Morenike Molehin, Oak and Teak, interior design Nigeria, interior designer Nigeria, how to start interior design business, entrepreneurship Nigeria, women in business Nigeria, business growth Nigeria, career transition story, Covenant University alumni success, Nigerian entrepreneurs, how to build a brand, startup Nigeria, leadership lessons, business podcast Nigeria, interior design business, CEO interview, success story Nigeria, faith and business, personal development Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 4m

  8. Apr 17

    #31 - Steve Hills Unfiltered: Music Ministry Is Not a Calling

    In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Pastor Steve Hills (Love Room) sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks openly about the realities of music ministry, work, calling, and longevity in gospel music. From his childhood desire to just sing, to writing hit songs like “Supernatural” and “OluwaTosin”, Steve shares honest truths that challenge common beliefs in the industry. He discusses: Why “Music Ministry” is not a biblical calling or officeThe difference between gifting and callingWhy most music ministers struggle financially and how to surviveThe importance of work, multiple income streams, and building outside the stage“Dying to self” and putting vision above egoHow to stay humble when friends rise fasterHis honest take on tattoos, freedom, and “All things are lawful but…”The power of knowledge and consistency over chasing viralityThe coming return of team ministry (the Levites)This episode is a must-listen for gospel artists, worship leaders, young ministers, and anyone who wants to understand the real demands of ministry beyond the stage. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 01:25 - Young Steve: “I Just Wanted to Sing” 05:37 - From Computer Science & Afrobeats to Gospel 12:52 - How He Writes Songs: Word + Progression 22:09 - Music Ministry Is Not a Calling 26:52 - The Return of the Levites & Team Ministry 29:41 - Knowledge Is Deliverance 36:19 - Consistency vs Chasing Virality 42:11 - Staying Humble While Friends Blow Up 47:45 - How Music Ministers Should Survive Financially 57:18 - “All Things Are Lawful But…” – Tattoos & Freedom 01:03:02 - Final Reflections Follow Pastor Steve Hills on Instagram: @stevehills Host: Tolu Afilaka – @toluafilakaa #SteveHills #MusicMinistry #GospelMusic #ChristianPodcast #DyingToSelf #WorshipLeadership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 6m
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About

That’s My Time with Tolu Afilaka is your space to explore culture, entrepreneurship, strategy, and African stories that resonate globally. Hosted by Tolu Afilaka—a Nigerian entrepreneur, media owner, investor, speaker, comedian, actor, and strategist—this podcast brings you unfiltered conversations with leaders, creators, and changemakers shaping Africa and the diaspora. Tolu is the founder of A3 Media & Network, a modern media consultancy that has worked with brands like Coca-Cola, Access Bank, Glo, BUA Cement, and First Bank, and partnered with projects such as Billionaire Habits and The Leadership Podcast. He’s also a viral content creator and sought-after MC, has helped startups like TribaPay grow and thrive. Tune in to That’s My Time to dream boldly, think creatively, expand your awareness, and feel more connected to the stories, lessons, and voices shaping our world. IG : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/ LI : https://www.linkedin.com/in/iyiola-afilaka-toluwalase-03497a214/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    TOLU AFILAKA
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © TOLU AFILAKA
  • Show Website
    Tolu Afilaka

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