Katie Goar knows affordable housing from every angle.Today, she is the president of Quadel and one of the leading voices in America’s affordable housing sector. But long before she became a housing CEO, Katie experienced homelessness herself. As a child, she lived in a tent with her family, carried the shame of that experience for years, and later transformed that pain into purpose. Katie joins Joe Pardavila to discuss her new book, The Audacity, and the personal story behind her work in housing, leadership, and community impact. She opens up about the moment her younger brother drew a tent when asked to draw his home, why homelessness is a condition rather than an identity, and how stable housing can change the trajectory of an entire family. Katie also explains why “bootstrapping” can only take people so far, how NIMBYism holds communities back, why local solutions matter, and how leaders can build a “yes plan” when the default answer around them is no.This conversation is about housing, but it’s also about shame, survival, leadership, and the power of turning your story into a tool for helping others. What You’ll LearnHow Katie Goar went from housing insecurity to becoming president of QuadelWhy homelessness should be seen as a condition, rather than a permanent identityHow childhood instability can shape leadership, risk, and resilienceWhy “bootstrapping” alone can’t solve homelessness or housing insecurityHow affordable housing impacts education, health, employment, and local economiesWhy NIMBYism often blocks the exact workers communities depend onWhat Katie means by “strategic generosity”How a “yes plan” can help people move from fear to actionWhy leaders need a hype squad, a win journal, and the audacity to start before they feel readyWatch Katies Ted Talk: https://youtu.be/UMIn8_rA5iU?si=FvUg8WDWICYl8Wys Order Audacity: https://www.amazon.com/Audacity-Go-Wannabe-Leader-Others-ebook/dp/B0GZPV5N3C/ Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:28 Why Katie Goar decided to tell her story 02:00 Becoming a public voice in affordable housing 03:28 Breaking stereotypes about homelessness 06:06 Why bootstrapping can only go so far 08:16 The moment Katie’s brother drew a tent as his house 10:30 Anger, resentment, and growing up in survival mode 13:38 The “necklace of shame” 15:40 How childhood instability leaves fingerprints later in life 18:15 Homelessness as a condition, not an identity 19:32 Becoming an audacious problem-solver 21:00 From living in a tent to leading Quadel 24:26 Saying yes before you feel ready 25:45 Why people “fall into” affordable housing 27:49 Women leaders in the housing industry 30:00 Strategic generosity and solving housing locally 33:00 Federal funding, local action, and housing complexity 35:18 NIMBYism and the real cost of saying no 39:38 Affordable housing as workforce policy 40:35 Why Katie believes in a “yes plan” 42:02 Quadel’s mission and employee homeownership support 43:27 Wannabe leaders vs. leaders others want to follow 45:10 Why every leader needs a hype squad 46:45 First rodeo, second rodeo, third rodeo 48:36 Why Katie recommends starting a win journal 56:31 The sliding door moment that changed Katie’s family 58:10 Closing