Growing Home Together Podcast

Growing Home Together

Join us in prayer for a strong marriage and wisdom in parenting. We share uplifting advice and practical tools to help you grow closer to God and each other in every season of life.

  1. Jun 23

    Thriving as a Mom When Your Kids Leave the Nest—with Pamela Henkelman

    Can you still hear the beat of “Pomp and Circumstance” from the day your child crossed the graduation stage? For so many parents, this milestone signifies a big life transition—not only for their child, but for themselves, too. For the child, they’re flying the nest and entering the real world for the first time. For the parent, they will be entering (or approaching) the empty nest season of life. If you are going through this today, I know you are very excited for what this next chapter holds for your child. But you may also be wondering how to keep your life and heart full when your nest is empty. If you are feeling overwhelmed with the changes in your family life right now, or you are struggling inside with the realities of your child leaving home, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. Our guest is here to help prepare our hearts to thrive in our empty nest season of life. Pamela Henkelman is a speaker, writer, podcast host, and a Certified Empty Nest Coach. She helps Christian moms let go with grace, strengthen their marriages, and rediscover their God-given purpose in the empty nest chapter of life. In this episode, Pamela shares: What happens in this role shift from directing to supportingHow to navigate grief during this transitionHow you can recapture your sense of personal identityAnd more!We hope you enjoy this conversation! Show Notes: https://growinghometogether.com/pamela-henkelman-131/

    37 min
  2. May 5

    Parenting From a Place of Peace Rather Than Worry—with Laurie Davies

    Worry and stress can show up in every season of parenting—from the moment we first bring our newborn baby home from the hospital to the day they start preparing to head out into the world on their own. Over the years, we’ve felt the weight of countless uncertainties swirling through our minds as we raised our five children. Thoughts like: When will my baby sleep through the night? Are they hitting those developmental milestones on time? Will they make good friends? How will they adjust to going to school for the first time? And on and on it goes. We know firsthand that sleepless nights in parenting don’t end with the baby years—as our children grow and change, we as parents must learn how to navigate new challenges right alongside them. Being concerned for our children and watching out for the dangers they can’t yet see themselves is a normal part of parenthood; however, healthy concern can quickly transform into unhealthy worry. Our latest guest knows the destructive power of worry, and she is here to help us mark a path to peace. Laurie Davies is a speaker, lay counselor, and the author of an important new book, Emotional Hoarding: Letting Go of the Stuff That Keeps You Stuck. In this episode, Laurie shares: Key differences between concern and worryEncouragement for parents in every seasonHow to rely on God and release your worryAnd more!We hope you enjoy this conversation! Show Notes: https://growinghometogether.com/laurie-davies-129

    53 min
  3. Apr 21

    Practical Ways to Parent Your Child with ADHD—with Kirk Martin

    A few weeks ago, we were sitting around the dinner table, enjoying a simple family meal together. But it felt like our son with ADHD spent less time in his chair and more time moving around the house. During the course of the meal, he got up for water, then the bathroom, then a spoon, then to grab something from his room…the list kept going! By the end, we had lost count of how many times he’d been in and out of his seat. Moments like that remind us how often our expectations as parents don’t quite match the day-to-day reality of parenting a child who has ADHD. Getting out the door can feel like a challenge. Jackets and homework seem to disappear at the worst times. And some days, his room looks like a tornado passed through. There are days when it feels like so much of our energy is spent trying to manage behavior that we don’t always get to slow down and simply enjoy who our son is. If you’ve felt this too, please know you’re not alone. So many families are walking this same road, trying to better understand, support, and truly appreciate their child’s unique way of moving through the world. Our guest today, Kirk Martin, has walked this journey himself as a parent to his son, Casey. Kirk is the founder of CelebrateCalm, where he equips parents and teachers with strategies that help decrease power struggles with children who are diagnosed with ADHD or autism. In this episode, Kirk shares: Some of the benchmark behaviors of an ADHD childCreative ways to work with your child’s preferencesHelpful strategies to support our children in the classroomAnd more!We hope you enjoy this conversation! Show Notes: https://growinghometogether.com/kirk-martin-128

    1h 4m
  4. Mar 24

    Balancing Life: How to Live Your Priorities without Burning Out—with Kelsie Zarko

    In a “more is better” culture, how can women live lives that are balanced, not burned out? It’s easy to mistake a busy life for a meaningful one. Often, we don’t realize how exhausted we truly are until we reach a breaking point. I’ve had my own season of burnout, juggling a job, volunteer roles, and homeschooling while Rob traveled extensively for work and we prepared for a cross-country move. When the boxes were finally unpacked, I looked around and found myself in a new life that was shockingly quiet. Out of that stillness, I gained a lot of perspective about roles, priorities, and peace. As women, we care deeply for the close relationships in our lives. We want to love others well. We also want to give our best to the values and commitments that matter to us, whether that be a job, volunteer work, or homeschooling. How do we find the balance? My guest today has wrestled through these questions as well. Kelsie Zarko is a wife, mom of two, and owner of the small business, Curate Social. We sat down for an honest, mom-to-mom conversation about seasons, roles, identity, and so much more. Kelsie shares powerful insight into how women end up burned out, and how we can find a different path when we stop striving and choose to live from a place of being deeply loved. In this episode, Kelsie shares: Practical ideas for being intentional in relationships and prioritiesA helpful definition of self-care and how to pursue itThoughts on how to live from identity, not performanceAnd more!I found this conversation so encouraging and I hope you do, too! Show Notes: https://growinghometogether.com/kelsie-zarko-126/

    41 min
  5. Mar 10

    Finding Hope When Facing Addiction in Your Marriage—with Julie Sanford

    Every week, we hear from wives who are quietly carrying the weight of a husband’s alcohol addiction. “I am hoping and praying that he gets healed and that his addiction doesn’t kill him.” “I have anxiety. I have fear. I feel stuck.” “Too many times I have felt hopeless and have wanted to be dead so I wouldn’t feel this pain.” “Hopefully my marriage will turn out for God’s glory.” These words reflect the deep pain many women experience behind closed doors. Loving someone who struggles with addiction can leave you exhausted, confused, and wondering where God is in the middle of it all. That is why we are so grateful for today’s guest. Julie Sanford is a wife and mom of three who never imagined she would one day be married to an alcoholic. After walking through the long and difficult road toward her husband’s sobriety, she now comes alongside other Christian wives facing similar battles. Julie is a recovery mentor and the host of the Married to Addiction podcast, where she offers practical tools and biblical encouragement for marriages impacted by addiction. In this episode, Julie shares: Common misconceptions wives often believe about their husband’s alcohol addictionWhy shifting from “fixing him” to caring for yourself is a crucial step toward healingThe importance of understanding what addiction truly is, and what it is notAnd much more!We hope this conversation brings clarity and hope to your heart! Show Notes: growinghometogether.com/julie-sanford-125

    36 min
4.7
out of 5
15 Ratings

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Join us in prayer for a strong marriage and wisdom in parenting. We share uplifting advice and practical tools to help you grow closer to God and each other in every season of life.

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