"Come On, Man" Podcast

Paul B.
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Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.

  1. 1d ago

    Talking won't get you out of a SEXLESS MARRIAGE (This Will)

    Negotiating for sex in a sexless marriage only pushes your wife further away, and begging her for intimacy destroys the attraction you have left. This episode breaks down why talking, chores, and gifts never fix a dead bedroom, and reveals the passive dread method that rebuilds desire. Learn what to do instead of pleading with your wife for sex and how becoming the prize saves your marriage. ➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October 31st at midnight: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/dread/DREAD20VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  2. 4d ago

    Believing PASSIVE DREAD Is A Tactic, Not A PRIZE MENTALITY, Ruins Marriages

    Passive dread and prize mentality work together for married men over 40, and this episode breaks down why treating dread as a tactic aimed at her instead of a mindset shift for yourself is what blows up marriages. Paul Bauer covers why doing things to fix your wife starts you in her frame, why the old 12-level dread system became a covert contract, why ultimatums are a declaration of powerlessness, and why sex from her desire beats sex from her obligation every time. ➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October 31st at midnight: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/dread/DREAD20VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  3. 6d ago

    Still Love Her After The Breakup? This Will Set You Free Now

    How to get over a breakup when you still love them starts with understanding why winning her back rarely fixes anything, even when it works. Paul Bauer breaks down why she left long before she told you, why No Contact is for you and not a tactic to get her back, Rollo's Iron Rule about never rooting through the trash, and what genuine freedom from an ex actually looks like once her hold on you is finally gone. ➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October 31st at midnight: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/dread/DREAD20VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  4. Oct 5

    This Fixes A Sexless Marriage So Fast It Feels Like Cheating (Dark Psychology)

    Sexless marriage fix strategies that actually work start with understanding why negotiated sex and marriage counseling both hit a ceiling, because attraction can't be bargained for no matter how calm the conversation stays. Paul Bauer breaks down why obligation sex and bribery tactics like flirting in front of her backfire, what passive dread actually is, and why pre-selection makes her desire come from her own head instead of a deal you made. ➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October 31st at midnight: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/dread/DREAD20VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  5. Oct 2

    10 Proven Ways To Build Mental Toughness Most Men Never Master

    Mental toughness for men comes down to ten specific techniques most men never learn, covering everything from emotional control and composure under pressure to self-validation and staying calm when someone tries to bait you. Paul Bauer breaks down the ten-second pause, building a mentor inside your own head, why fighters go cold instead of hot before a fight, the belief that kept a man conscious after being impaled by a sword, and why saying "good" when things go wrong changes everything. ➡️ Take 20% off The Passive Dread Blueprint until October 31st at midnight: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/dread/DREAD20VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  6. Sep 30

    The One Big Marriage Red Flag You'll Miss Before You Say 'I Do' Again

    Marriage red flags before remarriage after divorce go far beyond money, and contempt is the single strongest predictor of divorce according to relationship research. Paul Bauer breaks down nine warning signs men over 40 need to vet for before saying "I do" again, from unresolved drama with an ex and financial dishonesty to prenup refusal and lackluster intimacy, and why building your own contenders list matters more than any single checklist item. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  7. Sep 28

    How Married Men Over 40 Should Use The Manosphere in 2026 To Fix A Sexless Marriage

    Manosphere criticism and "All Women Are Like That" get addressed head-on in this breakdown of what critics get right about red pill content and where they miss the mark entirely. Paul Bauer goes point by point through the most common critiques, from frame and dominance to bitterness and covert contracts, showing married men over 40 how to use LUCA versus DEERing and the Male Action Plan to actually fix a sexless marriage instead of feeding resentment and creating better beta males. VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

  8. Sep 25

    If You Ask Her What She Wants to Do, You've Already Lost FRAME

    Frame and approval seeking determine whether a woman respects you or walks away, and this episode breaks down a real text exchange where one small habit cost a man his girlfriend on his own birthday. Paul Bauer covers why asking "what do you want to do" hands her a decision she never asked for, why forgiving her before she apologizes trains her to test you harder, and the exact rewrite that would have changed the entire outcome. ➡️ Original Post: https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/stop-seeking-her-approval-and-you-will-notice-a.1338002?comment=c5z6dh7VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz--------------------------------------------FREE EBOOKS➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks--------------------------------------------FOLLOW MEFollow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastFollow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspodFollow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpodFollow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpodFollow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Channel Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------

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Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.

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  • Creator
    Paul B.
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    720
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Paul B.
  • Show Website
    "Come On, Man" Podcast

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