Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Amber Akilla
Friend Crush with Amber Akilla

Subscriber episodes also available on Patreon! https://patreon.com/amberakilla Welcome to Friend Crush with Amber Akilla! I am an Australian Chinese multi-hyphenate working in music and the creative industry. I am currently based in Shanghai, China. This is a space where I share my cute, chaotic and critical thoughts around friendship, love, relationships, dating, memes, pop culture, politics, self-help, self-empowerment and more ☆ come and join the party so you ensure you are staying hot & having fun!!! ♡ ♡ ♡

  1. FEB 21

    real baddie behaviour

    what does it really take to be a “baddie”? to me, being a baddie is more than just an aesthetic, its an attitude, and one that you have to define for yourself and EXECUTE!!!!!! baddie defined personalise your approach success is not the absence of failure example process your emotions two approaches sense of humour grey-rock baddie in training be prepared to walk away define your bottom line 10. allow yourself to evolve subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ free trial available on patreon~ join the group chat! https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla yesstyle code AMBER39

    16 min

  2. FEB 11

    the philosophy of being hot & having fun (re-introduction for youtube))

    don't forget to slay!!! subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla yesstyle code AMBER39

    15 min

  3. FEB 4

    before (or after) you send that essay text

    let's start speaking to the manager within!!! self-confrontation self-responsibility meeting other people's needs at the expense of your own maybe YOU need to validate you they aint reading all that make note of your blind spots the urge to purge is the means, NOT sending the essay text is the end process your anger true compatibility feels like peace, not war subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/amberakilla

    18 min

  4. JAN 28

    the price of slaying is haters

    sometimes you wanting the best for yourself and others, triggers the worst in people you actually care about........... SURPRISE!!!! it definitely surprised me... 1. any relationship context 2. nothing can prepare you 3. keep slaying 4. focus on the incompatibility rather than assigning blame 5. not everyone wants to slay 6. beware of selfish ass hoes 7. their behaviour is a projection 8. internal focus vs external focus, growth vs scarcity mindset 9. accept that you can't change them 10. don't minimise your truth for other people 11. sometimes your bestie is your #1 hater 12. some people are delusional to the point of detriment 13. slay requires sacrifice 14. nostalgia contributes no value to your future 15. sometimes its just your threatening aura 16. your new life will cost you your old one 17. reflect and revise 18. stay vigilant subscribe for exclusive podcast episodes ♡ https://patreon.com/amberakilla ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

    22 min

  5. JAN 21

    things i learnt about friendship in my 20s

    slive slaugh slove slearn and slay ! let me know your thoughts, feelings and lessons on friendship in the comments!! 1. better to have no friends than bad friends 2. define your inner and outer circle 3. drifting isn’t a bad thing 4. your friends are not your therapist, you are not your friends’ therapist 5. your friends are your cheerleaders 6. you can’t save other people from their bad decisions 7. shared values over shared interests 8. you don’t have to be friends with everyone 9. be wary of those you connect with in a flop era 10. how somone treats you is how they treat everyone 11. are you taking about them more than you talk TO them? 12. if its broken let it break 13. slay together, don’t suffer together subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

    34 min

  6. JAN 14

    situationships are self harm

    2025 only hit me up about the situationships you've ended, not the situationships you're in please & thank you xoxo 1. situationship defined 2. committment from a man is not a prize 3. you’re putting the vibes in jeopardy 4. this is incompatibility not a challenge 5. compatibility is not this hard 6. take yourself seriously 7. your trauma response is not your fault, but it is your responsibility 8. he has no motivation to change, your pain is your motivation 9. self-respect starts from within 10. you’re being anti-feminist against yourself 11. show yourself what committment is 12. you can’t put a relationship on your resume 13. it only gets worse, so get out 14. knowing early is a blessing 15. radically accept your delusion 16. create boundaires, get a hobby, cut contact 17. get real with yourself 18. do it for your fellow woman 19. you lack congruence between what you want and how you act subscribe to my podcast! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

    15 min

  7. JAN 10

    how to start new habits when your brain is mush

    some thoughts and suggestions on habits that worked for me in my darkest most flop hour... lay the foundation for your next slay, today!!!!!! downloadable / printable trackers here: https://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundle 1. 1% rule 2. visualise your brain garden 3. habit replacement 4. gaslight into a slay 5. give yourself a treat 6. rewrite your inner narrative 7. habit tracking 8. vision boarding 9. avoid skipping more than one day in a row 10. set a review date 11. habit stacking subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

    21 min

  8. JAN 10

    how to cure your chronically online clownery

    a list of practices and considerations i have used for digital distancing and to manage a healthier relationship with the internet and social media. its really use or be used, so make sure you set boundaries and protect your peace!!! subscribe to friend crush with amber akilla! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

    33 min
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Subscriber episodes also available on Patreon! https://patreon.com/amberakilla Welcome to Friend Crush with Amber Akilla! I am an Australian Chinese multi-hyphenate working in music and the creative industry. I am currently based in Shanghai, China. This is a space where I share my cute, chaotic and critical thoughts around friendship, love, relationships, dating, memes, pop culture, politics, self-help, self-empowerment and more ☆ come and join the party so you ensure you are staying hot & having fun!!! ♡ ♡ ♡

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