Overcome Pornography for Good

Sara Brewer
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This podcast is for anyone who wants to overcome pornography for good. It will teach you about your brain and how to completely quit a pornography habit, 100% shame-free. If your ideal life doesn't include a porn habit, then this is the show for you. Visit sarabrewer.com to learn more about overcoming pornography for good.

  1. 4d ago

    284. What if I’m Single, Divorced, or in a Sexless Marriage? Can I Still Befriend My Sexuality? (Part 4)

    What’s possible when your sexuality belongs to you first? In this episode, I address a common question for those who are single, divorced, or in a sexless marriage: can you still befriend your sexuality? Many people are taught that sexual energy only belongs in a relationship, which creates confusion, shame, and reliance on others for regulation. I explain why outsourcing your sexual relationship to a partner or marriage doesn’t resolve underlying issues and often leads to dependency or resentment. Befriending your own sexuality allows you to reclaim this energy, experience aliveness, and bring vitality and presence into all areas of your life. You’ll hear why this process is about returning to yourself, not self-abandonment. You’ll learn why sexuality is yours to steward, how shame and distorted beliefs limit your vitality, and how curiosity and intentional practices help you integrate sexual energy safely and meaningfully. You’ll also learn about a 12-week live program that guides you to apply these principles and explore what’s possible when you befriend your sexuality. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/single-divorced-befriend-sexuality Sign up for the Befriend Your Sexuality program here: https://centerforovercoming.com/workwithme

    25 min

  2. Jun 22

    283. What's Possible When You Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 3 of 3)

    What’s possible when you stop running from your sexual urges? In the third episode of this series on befriending your sexuality, I explore how shame and avoidance create conflict around sexual energy and why learning to work with your sexuality instead of against it is key. When we honor our natural impulses and separate physiology from morality, we open the door to experiencing ourselves more fully and living more vibrantly. I share why healing shame-based operating systems inside yourself is vital. When each part of you is respected and valued, you can reduce internal conflict, stop feeling trapped by guilt, and start engaging with your sexuality in a way that feels safe and life-giving. This process impacts not just your sexual self, but also your sense of worth, your relationships, and the energy you bring to other areas of life. You’ll learn why shame distorts your experience, how understanding physiology versus morality changes your perspective, and how curiosity and intentional practices allow you to experience what’s possible when you befriend your sexuality. I also introduce a 12-week live program that guides you step by step to explore these principles and deepen this work. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/whats-possible-befriend-your-sexuality

    30 min

  3. Jun 15

    282. The Number One Thing Required to Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 2 of 3)

    What if the way you’ve been approaching your sexuality has been keeping you stuck? In this second episode of a three-part series on befriending your sexuality, I explain why most strategies fail and how a shame-based internal operating system filters your experiences, preventing meaningful change. I share why treating sexual urges like something to eliminate or control keeps you trapped, and how recognizing and working with your sexuality instead of against it is essential. We explore the difference between shame and guilt, why a worthy-based operating system transforms how you show up in life, and how understanding these dynamics can change your relationship with yourself and others. You’ll learn why a shame-based operating system keeps you striving without satisfaction, how guilt and shame affect your choices and behaviors, and how a new live program can guide you to apply these principles step by step to build a healthier, more empowered relationship with your sexuality. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/thing-required-befriend-your-sexuality

    28 min

  4. Jun 8

    281. What I Got Wrong About Quitting Porn (Part 1 of 3)

    What if the way you thought about quitting porn was holding you back? In this first episode of a three-part series, I explore common misconceptions about quitting pornography and why the strategies most people rely on often create more struggle than progress. I share why trying to push urges away, relying on willpower, or treating pornography like a smoking habit or addiction keeps you stuck. When you start to understand your sexual urges as natural biological impulses rather than something to eliminate, you can shift your approach and begin to work with your sexuality instead of against it. You’ll learn why these misconceptions prevent lasting change, how curiosity and intentional practices help you navigate your urges more effectively, and how a new 12-week live program can guide you step by step to apply these principles and build a healthier relationship with your sexuality. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/got-wrong-about-quitting-porn Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass Mentioned in this episode: FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer. When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass Grab your spot for this live class here!

    29 min

  5. Jun 1

    280. What’s Possible with Sam

    Do you feel like lasting change is impossible after years of struggle with pornography? In this episode, Sam shares his story of decades of challenges, including trying a 12-step program and thinking marriage would fix the problem. He explains how shifting to a new approach helped him regain control and experience a level of freedom he hadn’t thought was possible. Sam walks through the turning points in his journey, from early struggles with shame and willpower cycles to breakthroughs that came through focusing on meaningful milestones and practical strategies. He highlights how addressing challenges in other areas of life transformed his confidence, relationships, and ability to navigate urges effectively. You’ll learn why focusing on measurable progress rather than just time without porn creates meaningful change, how addressing life challenges outside of pornography accelerates growth, and how curiosity and intentional action helped Sam finally make lasting progress. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/whats-possible-with-sam Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass

    37 min

  6. May 25

    279. Overcoming Sexual Shame While Quitting Porn

    Do you feel shame about your sexual thoughts or desires while trying to quit pornography? In this episode, I explore why sexual shame often causes more harm than pornography itself and how you can move past it to quit porn in a sex-positive, shame-free way. You’ll learn how to separate natural sexual feelings from moral judgment, recognize that your thoughts do not define your worth, and approach your sexuality with curiosity instead of condemnation. This episode will help you reduce sexual shame and create a healthier, more empowered relationship with your sexual self as you work to quit pornography. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/overcoming-sexual-shame-quitting-porn Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass

    30 min

  7. May 18

    278. Using the Rules of Improv in Quitting Porn with Kat

    What can improv teach you about overcoming pornography? In this episode, coach Kat Jenkins shares how the principles of improv can be applied to quitting porn and navigating the challenges that come with it. Using rules from improv, she shows how you can change your responses, build trust with yourself, and create better outcomes in your journey. Kat walks through nine core improv rules and explains how each can support progress. From saying yes and being a good listener to finding your team, taking up space, and understanding who holds the power in a situation, these strategies help can help you approach your urges with curiosity and intentionality rather than avoidance or shame. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/rules-improv-quitting-porn-kat Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass

    23 min

  8. May 11

    277. How to Handle Slip-Ups Without Shame

    What happens after a slip-up can determine whether you stay stuck or finally make real progress. In this episode, I break down why slip-ups do not mean failure and how your response afterward can either keep you trapped in shame or become one of the most powerful tools for lasting change. I walk you through the four essential steps to handling slip-ups differently. You’ll learn how to stop repeating the same cycle and start using slip-ups as opportunities for growth. This episode will help you replace shame with curiosity, understand what is really fueling your habit, and create a more effective plan for overcoming pornography for good. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/handle-slip-ups-without-shame Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass

    19 min
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This podcast is for anyone who wants to overcome pornography for good. It will teach you about your brain and how to completely quit a pornography habit, 100% shame-free. If your ideal life doesn't include a porn habit, then this is the show for you. Visit sarabrewer.com to learn more about overcoming pornography for good.

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  • Creator
    Sara Brewer
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    285
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Overcome Pornography for Good
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