Raising Teens with Collett Smart

Hope 103.2
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When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

  1. 5d ago

    Teens Worried About the News? How to Talk About Uncertainty

    Key Takeaways: Encourage open discussions with teenagers about current global challenges without minimising their concerns. Promote critical thinking skills to help teens analyse and interpret the information they encounter online. Highlight the power of historical resilience and problem-solving to inspire hope in uncertain times. Empower teenagers by focusing on their ability to control certain aspects of their environment and decisions. Model resilience and optimism as parents to influence teens positively, ensuring they learn coping strategies through observation and guidance. Notable Quotes: "Our role as parents and carers is to help our teens build confidence that they can handle uncertainty when it does come." "Hope isn't pretending that a problem doesn't exist. Hope is believing that challenges can be faced." "One of the greatest gifts we can give our teens is to teach them that not everything online deserves equal weight or attention." "Confidence grows when our young people experience that they actually have some choices and they have some agency." "I believe you'll be able to handle it. You're going to be able to handle what the world throws at you." Resources: Follow Collett Smart on Instagram and Facebook. Learn more on Collett Smart’s website: www.collettsmart.com   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Jul 28

    Refugee Teens: A Guide for Parents Who Want to Help | Aduk Dau | Marion Knell

    About the Guests: Aduk Dau is a resilient community leader born in Duk Payuel, South Sudan. Growing up amid civil war, she lived in a refugee camp in Kenya before resettling in Australia, where she became an advocate for refugee families. She is a nurse, interpreter, community leader, and storyteller, and the co-author of For Hope, Love & Life Itself, which narrates her journey from South Sudan to Australia. Marion Knell is a UK-based expert who has devoted decades to working with refugee families across Europe. Her expertise spans trauma recovery, intercultural adjustment, and family support. She has authored books such as Families on the Move and consults with Refugee Highway Partnership and European Freedom Network on care for refugees and refugee workers, developing courses for churches on working with traumatised refugees and supporting those who care for them. Key Takeaways: Empathy and Understanding: Recognising the pre- and post-trauma experienced by refugee children is essential for educators and communities to adequately support their growth and adaptation. Cultural Sensitivity: Creating inclusive educational environments requires teachers to be cognisant of the cultural background and specific needs of refugee students. Parental Role in Adolescence: Refugee parents often struggle with the cultural transition, needing support to guide their teens through identity formation and integration. Resilience and Growth: Stories of post-traumatic growth exemplify how crisis can forge stronger, more resilient individuals capable of contributing meaningfully to society. Community Involvement: Establishing connections through local initiatives and fostering genuine relationships with refugees can greatly enhance their sense of belonging and integration into the community. Notable Quotes: "My hope for refugee families that come to Australia is that life will change." - Aduk Dau "Resilient, they've been through a lot and they have to be supported so they can fit in and adjust." - Aduk Dau "I think it's important to be affected by what we hear, but not infected." - Marion Knell "One of the best things we can do if we are on the outside of the community is to offer help and support for the children." - Marion Knell "For young people to heal, achieve autonomy and live interdependently in the community." - Marion Knell Resources: Aduk Dau's Book: "For Hope, Love, and Life Itself" Marion Knell's Work with Welcome Churches: Welcome Churches   Resources: Follow Collett Smart on Instagram and Facebook. Learn more on Collett Smart’s website: www.collettsmart.com   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Jul 21

    Busy / Single Parents: Why Connection Beats Constant Presence

    Key Takeaways: Letting go of the "super parent" myth can alleviate feelings of guilt; focus on meaningful connections instead. Confirming through actions that your child knows they are loved and important is vital in parenting. Small touch points and personalized approaches to connection, such as texts or shared activities, are essential in building strong relationships. Community support and involving other trusted adults in your child's life bolster resilience and provide needed assistance. Understanding your teen's unique needs and responding with flexible, negotiated solutions can enhance your relational bond. Notable Quotes: "Being stretched doesn't mean you're failing." "Connection matters much more than your constant presence." "A five minute meaningful conversation can be more important or have more impact than hours spent in the same room." "No teen is meant to be raised by one adult alone." "Your teen doesn't need a perfect parent… They need a parent who keeps showing up."   Resources: Follow Collett Smart on Instagram and Facebook. Learn more on Collett Smart’s website: www.collettsmart.com   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. Jul 14

    Parenting Teens Is Hard — Here's Why (And What Helps)

    Key Takeaways: Independence is Key: Teenagers naturally drift away from parents as they seek independence, making this a crucial but challenging time for both. Adaptability is Essential: Parents must adapt to their teen’s rapidly changing behaviors and needs, understanding their own frustrations. Balancing Control and Connection: It is important to maintain connection over controlling every aspect of a teen's life, emphasizing trust and openness. Acknowledging Grief and Growth: Parents can acknowledge their feelings of loss and foreboding while celebrating the new person their teen is becoming. Communication is Paramount: Establish a communication style that respects the evolving needs of teens, guiding them without dictating. Notable Quotes: "It's hard because you care. It's hard because you love them." "The goal shifts from being involved in everything really just to thinking in your mind. I'm available for anything that they need." "If parenting your teen feels hard, it doesn't necessarily mean that something's wrong." "Give ourselves permission to feel those things that worry, that sadness, that excitement." "Influence comes through connection, conversations, trust."     Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  5. Jul 7

    Navigating School Psychology and Mental Health | Michelle Basson

    All views expressed in this episode are personal to Michelle Basson. Michelle Basson is a dedicated school psychologist actively working in both public education systems and the academic sphere associated with university settings. Her role involves providing comprehensive support and counseling to students across multiple school environments, including both primary and high schools. Michelle's work extends to assessment and securing individual student support, making a significant impact on bridging student needs with available resources. Key Takeaways Rising Mental Health Concerns: There is a notable increase in bullying and depressive symptoms amongst younger students, highlighting the urgent need for early intervention and mental health support in schools. Role of School Psychologists: School psychologists are instrumental in assessing students and securing additional support, effectively bridging the gap between student needs and school resources. Navigating Consent and Confidentiality: The process of obtaining consent and confidentiality in school counseling can vary significantly depending on the student's age and situation, necessitating sensitive navigation by school psychologists. Importance of School Systems: For parents, understanding the support systems available in schools and how to access them can be crucial in ensuring their child receives the necessary help. Demystifying Counseling: Open communication and breaking down the perceived complexities surrounding school counseling can foster a supportive environment for students, reducing the stigma around seeking help. Notable Quotes: "There's a real rise in kind of depressive symptoms in young people and anxiety... a really scary trend in schools." "The more information we have, the more knowledge we have, the more the whole process becomes demystified." "In the high school, definitely a lot of the referrals are counseling referrals... very open about what it might entail, the first session will just be getting to know you." "If the student refuses to be seen by us... we have a person called the Student Support Officer." "My hope is just that we continue to talk about mental health... students just know where they can find support." Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. Jun 30

    Relieved Your Teen Is Leaving? That's Normal

    Key Takeaways: The process of raising children aims to prepare them to thrive independently rather than keeping them at home. Transitioning to an "open nest" allows for relationships to evolve, fostering a friendship between parents and young adults. Parents have the opportunity to deeply appreciate who their children are becoming, while children gain newfound appreciation for their parents. Family interactions become more intentional and meaningful once children have left home, as time together is a choice rather than an expectation. The journey of parenthood doesn't end when children leave the house; it simply evolves into a new role of guidance and support. Notable Quotes: "Our role wasn't to raise our children who stay, our role was to raise adults who can thrive on their own." "I think an open nest is a home where parents can shift their relationship to a friendship." "Leaving home doesn't end your role, it changes it. You're less of a director, you're more of a guide." "Remember, raising teens isn't about keeping them close forever. It's about helping them grow strong enough to fly."   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. Jun 23

    Letting Teens Go: The Shift No One Prepares You For

    Key Takeaways: Transition from Authority to Ally: Empowering parents to shift their roles from strict rule enforcers to supportive allies, improving the parent-teen relationship. Control and Instructions: Highlighting the risks of micromanaging older teens, emphasising that too much control can create distance instead of fostering growth and maturity. Effective Connection: Suggesting practical ways to nurture connection with teens through natural interactions, like shared activities and thoughtful conversations. Boundaries as Bridges: Encouraging open discussions about household chores, privacy, and personal space to enhance mutual respect and prevent resentment. Acceptance of Different Choices: Emphasising the importance of staying supportive and connected even if children make choices that differ from parental hopes, ensuring they feel safe. Notable Quotes: "Instead of being a rule setter, you might now be more of a sounding board instead of being the manager Think of yourself as becoming an ally." "Mistakes are what help us and them to learn and to grow. And protection can just feel like pressure for them." "Boundaries aren't walls, they're bridges." "Connection doesn't mean we always have to agree. Support also doesn't always mean silence." "The good news is that this stage can bring some of the most meaningful, honest and rewarding relationships that you'll ever have with your kids."   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Letting Teens Go: The Shift No One Prepares You For

  8. Jun 16

    Empty Nest: When Your Teen Leaves Home - Janet Evans

    Win a copy of Janet Evans' book Empty Next by clicking here!!!  Janet Evans is an accomplished author and podcast host recognised for her insightful work on the themes of parenting and personal growth. She co-authored the book "Empty Next" with Dr. Amelia Haynes, targeting the often unspoken phenomenon of empty nest syndrome. Alongside her literary contributions, Janet is known for co-hosting the podcast "She Wasn't Born Yesterday," which celebrates the experiences and transitions faced by women over 40. Janet’s expertise in traversing this delicate phase of parenting combines personal experience with practical strategies tailored to support parents through this emotional transition. Key Takeaways: Emotional Spectrum: Parents often experience a mix of pride and grief when their children leave home, highlighting the natural, varied responses to empty nesting. Improved Relationships: Interviews with young adults reveal that many develop stronger relationships with their parents after moving out, underlining the potential for positive change. Reevaluating Misconceptions: The episode challenges common misconceptions, such as the assumption that mothers are more affected than fathers by their children's departure. Global Phenomenon: Empty nest syndrome is not exclusive to Western cultures; parents worldwide experience similar emotional transitions despite differing family structures. Proactive Transitioning: Parents are encouraged to plan ahead by prioritising personal interests and marital relationships to ease the transition into this new stage of life. Notable Quotes: "You bring them up for like 20 odd years. It's a long time to be in the same job." "A lot of [young adults] got on a lot better with their parents once they'd moved out." "You should never feel guilty about missing your children after they've left home." "With all of the people that we spoke to, the dads were just as affected. Oh, my goodness. And some of them even more so." "Every single situation is different, and every personality is different… overwhelmingly, most parents want the very best for their kids." Resources: Janet Evans's book "Empty Next" explores empty nest syndrome and its impact. Podcast "She Wasn't Born Yesterday" hosted by Janet Evans, focused on women over 40. Hope 103.2 Radio, mentioned as an initial platform for the podcast concept.   Click here to contact Collett or ask her a question or Click here to contact the Raising Teens team. Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice. Visit Raising Teens for more resources, click here for Collett's books, or join the discussion on Facebook. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. Support the show: https://hope1032.com.au/donate See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram. 

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