The Stoic Handbook with Jon Brooks

Jon Brooks
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You've read the books. You know what Marcus Aurelius would do. But when life gets hard, the philosophy disappears. This podcast is for people who want to close the gap between knowing Stoicism and actually living it. New episodes every Monday. Start with the free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: https://www.stoicchallenge.co/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=show-description&utm_content=global

  1. 5d ago

    Nobody Does Evil on Purpose. Really?

    Stoicism says nobody does wrong on purpose: every bad act begins in a mistaken judgement about what is good. But does that survive contact with clear-eyed cruelty, compulsive habit and modern moral psychology? I test the claim against Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Medea, research on psychopathy and the Stoics' own internal disagreement. Then I keep the practical part that still works: catching one assent before it hardens into action. Sources and further reading: - Epictetus, Discourses 1.28 and 2.17 - Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 2.1, 7.26 and 11.18 - Cicero, On Fate 42-43 - Aharoni, Sinnott-Armstrong and Kiehl, “Can Psychopathic Offenders Discern Moral Wrongs?” (2012) - Aharoni, Sinnott-Armstrong and Kiehl, “What's Wrong? Moral Understanding in Psychopathic Offenders” (2014) - Kühn and Gallinat, “Brain Structure and Functional Connectivity Associated With Pornography Consumption” (2014) - Grubbs et al., “Pornography Problems Due to Moral Incongruence” (2019) Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  2. Aug 3

    Why the Relaxed Man Always Wins (with Bas Rutten)

    The most feared striker in MMA history spent this conversation talking about calm. Before his first fight in Japan, Bas Rutten wrote one letter on each fist with a marker: R, for rustig, Dutch for relaxed. He'd found out that morning his opponent was 33 pounds heavier, the round was thirty minutes long, and there were no rules he recognised. Mid-fight he was calm enough to overhear two spectators in the front row discussing a house move, and that was when he noticed the two voices in him. The aggressive one, and the one that kept him still. He retired without losing any of his last 22 fights and credits the whole run to that discovery. We talk about why the relaxed fighter beats the aggressive one nine times out of ten, the skin disease and asthma that made him the outcast of his school and which he now calls a blessing, the difference between anger and aggression, the single line that ended his drinking, and where Stoicism and the Catholic faith he returned to line up almost exactly. He also walks through the practices he runs daily: the pre-fight question "what's the worst thing that can happen?", the friend test for anger, and an evening examination of conscience he has kept for twelve years that Seneca describes almost word for word. Follow Bas Rutten: YouTube: youtube.com/user/OfficialBasRutten Instagram: @basruttenmma Website: basrutten.com The O2Trainer, the breathing device he invented: o2trainer.com His MMA Workout audio, the striking tape I mention my friend Joel wearing out: o2trainer.com/products/bas-rutten-s-mixed-martial-arts-workout-dvd Companion article and full show notes: stoichandbook.co/bas-rutten-staying-calm Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  3. Jul 25

    Are You Using Stoicism to Numb Out? | with Erick Cloward

    Stoicism is meant to help you master your emotions. There's a version of it that just teaches you to avoid them. In this conversation I joined Erick Cloward on the Stoic Coffee Break to talk about "stoic bypassing" (Jules Evans' term): using the philosophy to suppress hard feelings instead of feeling them. We both grew up learning to push emotions down, so it got personal. We cover the difference between suppression and reappraisal, alexithymia, why the Let Them Theory is thinner than it looks, how the manosphere funnels every emotion through anger, the case for voluntary discomfort, and a reframe from Epictetus that means you can never lose a first date. This first aired on Erick's show, the Stoic Coffee Break. Go and follow him. Erick Cloward / Stoic Coffee Break Podcast: https://stoic.coffee Original episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5oBAAeiX5x1aMCqoahP3Dv?si=6av80YqGSmeIMG7wdTjGbg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stoic.coffee Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  4. Jun 26

    Marcus Aurelius Morning Preparation: Stoic Affirmations from the Meditations

    During the 170s of the common era, while ruling an empire and often away from Rome, Marcus Aurelius wrote notes to himself in Greek. What survived is not a public book. It is a private notebook, the Meditations, sentences a man wrote to remind himself how to live. This is a short morning practice built from eight lines drawn from the Meditations. Some are close to verbatim, others are rendered in modern English to be repeatable in the mouth and the mind. Between each line there is a little silence. At the end, one quiet commitment for the day ahead. These were notes he wrote to himself. We are not the first to need them. Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  5. Jun 15

    Are Stoics Emotionless? Erick Cloward, Author of Stoicism 101

    Are Stoics really emotionless? It is the most common thing people believe about Stoicism, and it puts a lot of people off the one idea that might actually help them. In this conversation I sit down with Erick Cloward, host of the Stoic Coffee Break podcast and author of Stoicism 101, to take the myth apart. We get into why the word "stoic" came to mean cold and shut down, and why the Stoics actually felt their emotions fully. They just learned to be masters of them rather than ruled by them. Erick shares the example that makes it click: two people miss the same bus. One shrugs and reads a book, the other is furious. Same event, two reactions. The difference is never the event. It is the judgement you add to it. We also get into amor fati, the view from above, and what it really takes to react less and recover faster. Try this after listening: next time you react strongly, name the event in plain terms, then name the story you added on top. The gap between them is where the work happens. Erick's book and podcast: stoic.coffee  Companion article: https://www.stoichandbook.co/podcast/are-stoics-emotionless/ Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  6. Jun 12

    Marcus Aurelius Was Terrible at Stoicism

    Marcus Aurelius is the most quoted philosopher on the internet, and his private journal shows a man who kept failing at the thing he's famous for. He struggled to get out of bed. He needed ten separate strategies to manage his temper. Near the end of his life he wrote, to himself, that he was "far from philosophy." In this episode I read the passages most Stoicism channels skip. The two getting-out-of-bed debates, four books apart. The brutal self-talk about caring what people think. The procrastination confession. The contradiction of Commodus and the gladiatorial games. And the old distinction that makes sense of all of it: the sage versus the Stoic in training. Marcus knew which one he was. If you've ever felt like a fraud for relearning the same lesson again and again, this one is for you. Watch the video version: https://youtu.be/h1Rm4Cv_aQY Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  7. Jun 11

    Stoic Morning Practice: Quiet The Inner Critic

    You haven't done anything yet, and the voice is already running its commentary. Too slow, too weak, not enough. The day hasn't started and you're already failing in advance. This guided Stoic practice works with the inner critic directly — not to silence it, but to strip it of the authority it doesn't deserve. You'll practise the Stoic technique of examining your impressions: separating the bare facts from the judgements your mind adds automatically. Drawing on Epictetus's principle that it's not events but our judgements about them that disturb us, and on Marcus Aurelius's habit of asking "what is this thing in itself, stripped of my story?" — you'll learn to recognise the critic's voice as opinion, not fact. For best results, listen every morning for 30 days. The critic gets quieter when you stop agreeing with it. For mornings when the issue is letting go of what already happened, try "Stoic Morning Practice: Let Go Of What You Can't Control" — part of the same daily series. Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

  8. Jun 5

    Stoic Morning Affirmations: Eight Truths for the Day Ahead (Guided Practice)

    Most morning affirmations ask you to declare a future you wish for. The Stoics did the opposite. They began the day by recollecting what was already true. This is a short guided practice built from eight lines drawn from Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus and Seneca. No manifestation, no raising your vibration. Just eight reminders, a little silence between each, a brief rehearsal of one difficulty you expect today, and a single quiet plan to carry into it. Best listened to first thing, before you open your phone. Find somewhere to settle, and let the day start a little steadier. Free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: stoicchallenge.co The Stoic Vault: stoicvault.com

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You've read the books. You know what Marcus Aurelius would do. But when life gets hard, the philosophy disappears. This podcast is for people who want to close the gap between knowing Stoicism and actually living it. New episodes every Monday. Start with the free 7-Day Stoic Challenge: https://www.stoicchallenge.co/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=show-description&utm_content=global

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