He had it all. He had a suit and tie and an office on the 15th floor of the most recognizable building in Rochester, New York. Inside, though, Ben Albert was quietly miserable. Then the pandemic hit, and overnight he was laid off, broke, and officially "non-essential." In this raw and generous conversation, Ben takes us backstage to the months when he was lost. He talks about binge drinking, losing his father, his mother's illness, and doing morning affirmations with a twitching eye after a night with an empty bottle of whiskey. From that low point, he discovered a powerful idea: disintegration. He didn't need more habits. He needed to remove the ones muting his best self. Ben shares how a podcast called Rochester Business Connections turned into peers, mentors, and clients all at once. He also explains how he now guides podcasters to treat their show like a media business. In this episode, you'll discover: Why "shedding" is a necessary act before you rebuildDisintegration vs. integration: why removing bad habits can matter more than adding good onesThe 15-minute rule, about 1% of your day, and how small cuts compound into big changeHal Elrod's SAVERS morning routine (Silence, Affirmations, Visualization, Exercise, Reading, Scribing)The LinkedIn alumni strategy Ben used to land guests and build a business network from scratchWhy a podcast guest can be a peer, a local connection, a mentor, and a potential clientBuilding a Brand Bible: your "category of one," contrarian viewpoints, and contradictory valuesCase study: how the Rebel Roots podcast found its true audienceConnect with Ben Albert: 🎧 Real Business Connections podcast: realbusinessconnections.com 🤝 Grow Getters Only community: weallgrowtogether.com 💼 Find Ben on LinkedIn and Instagram Connect with Sabine Kvenberg https://sabinekvenberg.com/resources If this episode moved you, please rate, review, and share it with someone standing at the edge of their next chapter. 💛