Internal Family Systems (IFS) Meditations and Insights: Faithfully Growing with Tim Fortescue

Faithfully Growing with Tim Fortescue
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This podcast provides a platform for us all to learn, grow and access our authentic selves together. Your host is Tim Fortescue a life coach trained in Internal Family Systems. Tim comes alongside as an ally as you heal, grow & experience faith & spirituality in a nonjudgmental, inclusive container while also clarifying their vision and values while increasing self-awareness & self-compassion. Find out more about Tim and his coaching practice at www.faithfullygrowing.com

  1. 6D AGO

    IFS INSIGHT: Turning Toward My Protectors

    What if the patterns you feel ashamed of aren't failures—but protectors doing their best to keep you safe? In this episode of IFS Meditations & Insights, Tim Fortescue invites you into a gentle, compassionate exploration of protector parts through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). Rather than trying to fix, silence, or override these parts, we slow down to understand them. You'll learn the difference between managers and firefighters, why they take on extreme roles, and how curiosity—rather than judgment—can soften even the most entrenched patterns. Through teaching, reflection, and a personal story, this episode offers a reframe for habits like overworking, people-pleasing, numbing, anger, or constant vigilance. You're invited to ask a different question: What is this part afraid would happen if it stopped? And to discover how Self-led curiosity can create real, lasting change. If you've ever wondered, "What's wrong with me?"—this episode is for you. Follow, rate, and share if this resonates. And you can access free IFS guided meditations at exploreifs.com.

    12 min
  2. IFS MEDITATION: Parts Long Held in Hiding

    FEB 4

    IFS MEDITATION: Parts Long Held in Hiding

    Free Resources25 IFS Meditations at exploreifs.com & join a Facebook Community for connecting with others on this journey Like this episode? Share it with someone who might need to hear this. And follow or subscribe wherever you're listening or watching. In this gentle, compassionate meditation, Tim guides listeners through the process of safely connecting with exiles—the young, tender parts of ourselves that carry hurt and have been pushed down or hidden away. What You'll ExperienceThis meditation offers a carefully paced journey to: Create a safe, supported space in your bodyNotice and acknowledge protective parts firstGently approach younger, wounded parts (exiles) at a pace that feels safePractice presence without fixing or overwhelmingBuild trust with the parts of you that have felt aloneKey ThemesSafety First: Tim emphasizes working with protectors before approaching exiles, honoring any resistance or caution that arises. No Pressure: There's no requirement to go deep, see clear images, or resolve anything. Simply being present is enough. Gentle Curiosity: The practice invites you to notice—age, posture, feelings, messages—without judgment or the need to fix. Sustainable Pacing: You can step back anytime, wrap a part in care, and promise to return. This isn't about pushing through. Tim's Signature Reminders"You're not alone. You're beloved.""A drop of Self is enough.""Nothing has to be resolved today."Perfect for anyone new to IFS or those deepening their relationship with their internal system. No previous experience necessary.

    15 min
  3. SPECIAL EPISODE: Staying Human When the World Feels Impossible

    JAN 28

    SPECIAL EPISODE: Staying Human When the World Feels Impossible

    When the world feels overwhelming, the instinct is often to reach for certainty—clear answers, clean sides, simple villains. This episode offers a different path. I'm recording while events are still unfolding, exploring how Internal Family Systems helps us stay grounded, compassionate, and awake when lives are lost and narratives harden. Before we form opinions, our bodies react. Before arguments appear, parts show up. IFS invites us to notice what's happening inside—the tightness, the heat, the protective parts—before we take a side. It asks: "What is each part trying to protect me from?" This reflection includes a simple 5-step IFS practice for navigating overwhelming news cycles while staying connected to your humanity. I don't fit neatly anywhere anymore. I belong in the lived, messy middle—where people are more complicated than ideologies and where justice and compassion must walk together. I'm practicing this alongside you. Find out more at exploreifs.com

    20 min
  4. IFS INSIGHT: Exiles - the Parts We Push Down

    JAN 21

    IFS INSIGHT: Exiles - the Parts We Push Down

    For 25 Free IFS Meditations and to join the free Facebook Community, visit exploreifs.com Summary In this episode of IFS Meditations and Insights, Tim Fortescue delves into the concept of 'exiles' within the Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework. Exiles are the parts of ourselves that carry deep emotional pain and vulnerability, often pushed away by our protective mechanisms to help us cope with overwhelming experiences. Tim emphasizes the importance of recognizing these exiled parts, which can manifest as feelings of shame, grief, or rejection, and how they influence our current behaviors and reactions. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how these exiles can be approached with compassion rather than criticism, allowing for healing and integration into our broader self-system. Tim also discusses the role of 'protectors,' the parts of us that work tirelessly to shield our exiles from pain. These protectors may manifest as perfectionism, over-functioning, or numbing behaviors. He highlights that while these protectors are often seen as problematic, they are actually devoted guardians trying to keep us safe. The episode encourages listeners to gently engage with their exiles, fostering a sense of safety and connection, which can lead to a more harmonious internal experience. Tim concludes with practical steps for listeners to begin this journey of self-discovery and healing. Keywords Internal Family Systems, exiles, protectors, emotional healing, self-compassion, mental health, Tim Fortescue, IFS Meditations, personal growth, inner child Takeaways Exiles carry our deepest pain and vulnerability. Protectors are devoted guardians, not just problematic parts. Approaching exiles gently is a radical act of compassion. Exiles need to be met on their own terms, not forced into the light. Building trust with protectors allows for healing of exiled parts. Sound bites "Exiles don't need to be dragged into the light." "Approaching exiles gently is itself, a radical act." "It makes sense that some parts had to go underground." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to IFS and Exiles 00:46 Understanding Exiles and Their Impact 05:01 The Role of Protectors in Our System 07:53 Personal Story: Encountering My Exiles 12:41 Gentle Approaches to Healing Exiles 15:46 Practical Steps for Self-Discovery and Healing

    19 min

  5. JAN 14

    IFS MEDITATION: Meeting the Thinking Part

    Join Tim Fortescue in this guided meditation as we explore the Internal Family Systems (IFS) approach to understanding and embracing our thinking parts. Discover how your thinking style can be a protector, helping you navigate life's challenges with greater compassion and self-awareness. In this gentle meditation session, you'll: Explore your relationship with your thinking partEmbrace self-energy through compassionate self-explorationLearn to recognize how your thinking serves and protects youWhether you're new to IFS or deepening your practice, this meditation offers a warm invitation to meet yourself with curiosity and care. For more meditations and resources, visit exploreifs.com.

    12 min
  6. IFS INSIGHT- There is Room for Your Way Here: IFS for Different Ways of Thinking

    JAN 7

    IFS INSIGHT- There is Room for Your Way Here: IFS for Different Ways of Thinking

    Join Tim Fortescue in this episode of "IFS Meditations and Insights" as he guides you through the transformative journey of Internal Family Systems. Discover how different thinking styles, whether divergent or convergent, can be embraced to foster healing and self-discovery. Explore the beauty of befriending your inner parts and learn how curiosity and compassion can lead you to a more authentic self. Tune in for insights that encourage you to meet yourself where you are, and remember, you're not alone on this path. For more resources, visit exploreifs.com.

    10 min

  7. 12/31/2025

    SPECIAL EPISODE: Gratitude and Community: How You're Making Healing Possible

    Join Tim Fortescue in this heartfelt episode of "IFS Meditations and Insights" as he reflects on the power of community and gratitude. Discover how your support enables transformative healing journeys—from sliding-scale coaching to free meditations and teachings. Listen to inspiring stories of resilience and connection, and learn how you can be part of this ongoing journey of growth and healing. Support this work at exploreifs.com/give or join the Faithfully Growing Community at exploreifs.com. You're not alone. You're beloved. And you're enough.

    7 min
  8. IFS MEDITATION: A Year-End Parts Check-In

    12/31/2025

    IFS MEDITATION: A Year-End Parts Check-In

    In this episode of "IFS Meditations and Insights," Tim Fortescue guides you through a gentle meditation, inviting you to explore the parts of yourself that have carried you through the year. Embrace the power of presence and self-leadership as you reflect on your journey. For more insights and to join the Faithfully Growing Community, visit exploreifs.com.

    14 min
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This podcast provides a platform for us all to learn, grow and access our authentic selves together. Your host is Tim Fortescue a life coach trained in Internal Family Systems. Tim comes alongside as an ally as you heal, grow & experience faith & spirituality in a nonjudgmental, inclusive container while also clarifying their vision and values while increasing self-awareness & self-compassion. Find out more about Tim and his coaching practice at www.faithfullygrowing.com

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