Coach Lee

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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has a Master Diploma in marriage and family counseling along with multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee

  1. 3D AGO

    Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

    Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You? If you’ve just gone through a breakup, you’ve probably heard about the “No Contact Rule.” ▶ Watch the full video version here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xk-jElxOI9g But does it actually work? And more importantly… will no contact really make your ex miss you? In this episode, I explain what is actually happening psychologically when you stop reaching out after a breakup. This isn’t about playing games or trying to manipulate someone. It’s about understanding attraction, emotional space, and why chasing almost always backfires while calm, confident distance can change how your ex experiences the breakup. You’ll learn: Why constant contact pushes an ex further away What your ex feels when the pressure disappears The real reason no contact can create curiosity and reflection Why dignity and emotional strength are far more attractive than pleading How to use this time in a way that helps you, regardless of the outcome No contact is not about punishment, silence, or hoping your ex panics. It is about giving both of you the space necessary for clarity, emotional reset, and the possibility of attraction returning naturally. If you are struggling with the urge to reach out, this episode will help you understand why staying steady right now matters so much. Need Help With Your Situation? Visit: https://www.MyExBackCoach.com Coaching sessions and resources are available if you want structured guidance through this process.

    12 min

  2. JAN 7

    They Think You're Losing When You Wait After A Breakup

    Watch this video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTlsikDkZI8 Waiting after a breakup can feel like you’re losing ground — like you’re doing nothing while the other person moves on. Silence feels uncomfortable. Restraint feels risky. And the urge to reach out can feel overwhelming. In this episode, I explain why waiting feels so painful, why it often goes against your instincts, and what’s actually happening beneath the surface when you don’t chase, argue, or try to force clarity. What feels like losing from the inside often looks very different from the outside. We’ll also talk about how this dynamic shows up not only after breakups, but in long-term relationships and marriages — where reacting too quickly or emotionally can quietly push someone further away. Waiting isn’t about giving up. It isn’t about pretending you don’t care. And it isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about not undermining your position while emotions settle and reality sets in. If you’re struggling with the urge to reach out, worried that time is slipping away, or afraid that waiting means you’re being forgotten, this episode will help you see the situation more clearly — and respond from strength instead of fear. $7 Reunion Blueprint at ReunionBlueprint.com

    12 min

  3. JAN 2

    Why They Are Still Silent

    Silence can be one of the hardest parts of a breakup or separation. When someone stops reaching out, stops talking, or shuts down emotionally, the quiet can feel heavier than the conflict itself. In this episode, Coach Lee explains why silence happens, why it often has more to do with emotional avoidance than indifference, and how reacting the wrong way can push people further away. This conversation applies whether you’re dealing with an ex who hasn’t reached out, a spouse you’re separated from, or a marriage where you live together but barely speak. Silence doesn’t always mean it’s over. Often, it means something is unresolved and waiting for the pressure to ease. Understanding what silence really is can help you avoid panic-driven decisions and give you a better chance of reconnecting with clarity and steadiness.  Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint at https://ReunionBlueprint.com Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23Ga_TCyowc

    14 min

  4. 12/20/2025

    Should You Text Your Ex On Christmas?

    Watch this video on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-4-sFWsq_E  Christmas has a way of stirring up old emotions. Memories resurface, loneliness hits harder, and the temptation to reach out to an ex can feel overwhelming. In this episode, I talk through the real question behind “Should you text your ex on Christmas?”—and why the answer isn’t as simple as yes or no. We’ll look at what a holiday text actually communicates, how it’s often received on the other end, and when reaching out helps versus when it quietly sets you back. If you’re trying to get an ex back, protect your dignity, or avoid making a decision you’ll regret once the holiday passes, this episode will give you clarity and direction—without guilt, pressure, or false hope. Listen before you send that message. Get my Reunion Blueprint for only $7 at ReunionBlueprint.com

    13 min

  5. 12/10/2025

    Why They Really Pull Away

    Watch the video on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRcKL-WNqI8 When someone you love suddenly pulls away, it can feel confusing and unsettling. Whether it is your spouse, partner, or ex, emotional distance does not always mean the relationship is ending. In this episode, Coach Lee explains the real reasons people become quiet or withdrawn and what you can do to respond in a way that actually brings connection instead of pushing them further away. You will learn: • What emotional withdrawal usually means • Why overcommunicating or pushing for answers often makes things worse • Why silence or distance is sometimes about stress, burnout, or overwhelm • How to stay steady instead of reacting out of fear • How to give space without creating emotional coldness • What to do if the distance continues or becomes a breakup This episode is for anyone who is feeling a shift in their marriage, relationship, or situation with an ex and wants clarity on how to handle it with calm and confidence. More resources from Coach Lee: • Emergency Breakup Kit: MyExBackCoach.com/ebk • Free Mini Course to Save Your Marriage: MarriageRadio.com/mini-course-to-save-your-marriage/m • Coaching Sessions: https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ Subscribe for more insights on relationships, breakups, and marriage.

    17 min

  6. 12/06/2025

    Signs No Contact Is Working

    Watch the video on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16-KhyQEXEw In this episode, Coach Lee takes you deep into the psychology behind the no contact rule and explains the real, often overlooked signs that no contact is working on your ex. Breakups are emotionally chaotic, and when you’re the one staying silent, it’s easy to assume that nothing is happening on the other side. But in reality, your silence creates a shift in the dynamic, and that shift almost always produces visible — and invisible — changes in your ex’s behavior. Coach Lee breaks down each sign in detail, starting with micro-boundaries: the unfollows, refollows, profile edits, story views, and little digital breadcrumbs that reveal your ex is watching you more closely than you think. Emergency Breakup Kit (MyExBackCoach.com/ebk) Masculine Destiny (MasculineDestiny.com) Coaching Session (myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee) He also explains why your ex might suddenly check in with your friends or family, linger longer in conversations, or fish for updates about you — all indirect ways of staying connected without contacting you directly. You’ll also learn how to recognize when your ex softens their boundaries by unblocking you, making their profile public again, or allowing you to see more of their activity. These subtle shifts often reflect internal conflict and emotional uncertainty. Coach Lee also unpacks the meaning behind inconsistent behavior: deleted posts, sudden mood changes, and swings between confidence and sadness that show the breakup isn’t as settled in their mind as they want others to believe. Another major sign discussed in this episode is the use of emotional decoys — social media quotes, “moving on” posts, and vague messages that are really designed to get your attention or test whether you’re still watching. Coach Lee explains why these decoys usually mean your ex is conflicted, not confident, and how to interpret them without breaking no contact. Finally, you’ll hear why it matters when your ex isn’t afraid of being misinterpreted. When they like your posts, watch your stories, or send something small and casual, it often shows they aren’t worried that you’ll assume too much — a sign that they’re more comfortable with connection than distance. If you’re using the no contact rule and feeling unsure about whether it’s making any difference, this episode will give you clarity and help you understand the real emotional process happening on the other side of the breakup. It’s honest, practical, and grounded in years of experience working with thousands of individuals trying to get their ex back. By the end of the episode, you’ll know exactly what to look for, why these signs matter, and how to stay steady in your no contact journey so you don’t sabotage your chances of reconnecting.

    9 min

  7. 11/21/2025 · VIDEO

    What If My Ex Texts Me During No Contact?

    What do you do when your ex suddenly reaches out during no contact? Watch the video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYB9p2LdsRo A lot of people panic, overthink, or respond too quickly — and that’s usually where things go wrong. In this episode, I explain what an ex’s text actually means, why it happens, and how to respond without losing the progress you’ve made. You’ll learn: • Why an ex sends a “temperature check” • How to avoid breaking no contact the wrong way • What their message reveals about their mindset • The smartest way to respond — or not respond • How your silence shapes their emotional reaction If you're trying to get your ex back or simply want clarity during one of the most confusing moments after a breakup, this episode will help you stay calm, confident, and in control. Get my Reunion Blueprint at https://reunionblueprint.com

    14 min

  8. 11/07/2025

    Are You Addicted To Your Ex?

    Are You Addicted to Your Ex? Are you really still in love with your ex… or are you addicted to them? In this episode, Coach Lee explains why missing your ex can feel less like heartbreak and more like withdrawal. When a relationship ends, your brain is still craving the dopamine, the validation, the familiarity—and that craving can make you obsess, beg, stalk their social media, or feel like you’ll never be okay without them. But here’s the truth: That desperate pull toward your ex isn’t love. It’s chemical. And if you don’t break that addiction, you can actually push them further away and destroy any chance of getting them back. In this episode, you’ll learn: What “ex addiction” really is and how it works in your brain The signs you’re addicted—not just heartbroken How this addiction ruins your chances of reconciliation How to break the cycle so your ex starts to miss you instead Why your silence, stability, and self-control are more powerful than begging or chasing This isn’t about pretending you don’t care. It’s about getting control of your heart again so that you can heal, gain clarity… and if it’s meant to be, give your ex a reason to come back on their own.

    11 min
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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive. Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos. Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others. Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has a Master Diploma in marriage and family counseling along with multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting. Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com. SUBSCRIBE to this podcast as well as on YouTube at https://youtube.com/myexbackcoach so you don’t miss videos on saving relationships, keeping love strong, and the science of attraction. INSTAGRAM @RealCoachLee

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  • Creator
    Coach Lee
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
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