Fathering Our Future

Anthony Vandagriff
  • 5.0 (22)
  • Parenting
  • Updated Weekly

Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

  1. 6d ago

    How to Teach Kids to Communicate With Confidence

    Children do not automatically become confident communicators as they get older. They learn by watching us, practicing with us, and being given opportunities to speak for themselves. In this episode, I explain why teaching our kids to communicate is part of discipleship—not merely preparation for school or a future career. I also share practical ways dads can help children develop confidence, clarity, eye contact, strong body language, and the ability to speak graciously with different kinds of people. The goal is not to force our kids into uncomfortable situations. It is to prepare them, practice with them, and gradually let them handle real conversations for themselves. Explore practical resources for dads:https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/ Get Talk Time—Dads & Kids:https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/talk-time-dads-kids-50-simple-quest Listen to my conversation with Dr. Tim Elmore:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2026/05/18/raising-kids-in-a-world-we-never-knew-with-dr-tim-elmore/ Support Fathering Our Future:https://fatheringourfuture.com/support/

  2. Sep 21

    I Made Pancakes for 6 Years. Then My Son Did This.

    For nearly six years, I made pancakes for my children on Saturday mornings. I thought I was simply making breakfast and giving my wife a break. I did not realize how closely my children were watching. Then one Saturday morning, the routine came full circle. In this episode, I share why simple family traditions can carry far more influence than we realize. A small act of consistency can show love, give children something to anticipate, create opportunities to teach, and demonstrate what serving a family actually looks like. You’ll hear: • Why children need traditions they can depend on• How consistency gives children hope• Why visible service is an essential part of fatherhood• How children learn leadership by participating with us• What happened after my son watched this tradition for years You do not need an elaborate activity or a perfect record. Sometimes meaningful discipleship looks like a box of pancake mix, a Saturday morning, and a dad willing to keep showing up. Want the complete pancake tutorial? Email me at hello@fatheringourfuture.com. RESOURCES Fathering Our Future resources:https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/ Related episode, Your Family Is Too Busy: 4 Routines Your Kids Need:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2026/09/14/family-routines-for-kids/ SUPPORT FATHERING OUR FUTURE Become a financial partner:https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/anthony-vandagriff Contact Anthony:hello@fatheringourfuture.com

  3. Sep 14

    4 Family Routines Every Kid Needs

    Is your family always rushing from one obligation to the next? When dinner, bedtime, church, and leaving the house constantly become last-minute emergencies, our kids feel the pressure. A reel from Scot Anderson got me thinking about Ephesians 6:4 and how easily fathers can frustrate their children without intending to. But the answer goes beyond giving our kids a ten-minute warning. In this episode, I share four family routines that can create stability, strengthen communication, and make room for meaningful discipleship. I also explain why these patterns require margin, why dads must learn to say no, and why even good commitments can become harmful when they repeatedly pull us away from our families. Your family is your primary ministry. Your calendar should reflect that. RESOURCES Fathering Our Future resources:https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/ Talk Time: Dads & Kids:https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/talk-time-dads-kids-50-simple-quest Nanit Sound + Light Machine:https://amzn.to/4x8NYXH (Amazon) SUPPORT FATHERING OUR FUTURE Become a financial partner:https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/anthony-vandagriff Contact Anthony:hello@fatheringourfuture.com As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

  4. Sep 7

    How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex (Do This First)

    Most parents think they need to find the right words for “the talk.” But if difficult subjects are the only time we deliberately talk with or teach our children, even the perfect script can feel strange. In this episode, I explain what needs to happen before you talk to your kids about sex. We look at why this cannot be a one-time conversation, how children learn whether Dad is safe to talk to, and how everyday communication and family discipleship prepare them for conversations about bodies, sexuality, and growing up. I also share practical tools my family has used to make talking and learning together a normal part of our home. RESOURCES MENTIONED Talk Time: Dads & Kids:https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/talk-time-dads-kids-50-simple-quest As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Questions for Humans: Parents and Kids Second Edition by Dr. John Delony:https://amzn.to/4zLCR9u (Amazon affiliate link) Tiny Truths children’s devotional:https://amzn.to/3SgCVNV (Amazon affiliate link) God’s Big Picture Bible Storybook by N. T. Wright:https://amzn.to/4gEaukW (Amazon affiliate link) RELATED EPISODES Talking to Your Kids About Sex Without Shame with Dr. Danny Huerta:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2025/02/03/talking-to-your-kids-about-sex-without-shame-with-dr-danny-huerta/ How to Address Pornography With Your Kids with Hadley Baker:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2025/03/03/how-to-address-pornography-with-your-kids-with-hadley-baker/ What to Know When Talking to Your Kids About Sex with Dr. John Delony:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2025/03/24/what-to-know-when-talking-to-your-kids-about-sex-with-dr-john-delony/ The Importance of Ongoing Talks About Sex and Sexuality With Your Kids with Adam and Karissa King:https://fatheringourfuture.com/2025/04/14/the-importance-of-ongoing-talks-about-sex-and-sexuality-with-your-kids-with-adam-karissa-king/ Explore more practical Christian fatherhood resources:https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/

  5. Aug 31

    Should Your Teen Get a Job? The Responsibility Lesson Parents Miss

    Should your teen get a job while still in high school? After watching a reel from parenting creator Scot Anderson arguing that teens should not work at 16, I found myself agreeing with part of his reasoning and questioning the rest. Responsibility should be taught at home. But does that mean teenagers should be kept from opportunities to practice it? In this episode, I consider what a part-time job can reveal about a teenager’s character, money habits, work ethic, and ability to navigate real-world pressure. I also explain why I would rather help my children process those experiences while they are still at home. This is not an argument that every teenager must work. It is a challenge for parents to think carefully about how responsibility becomes wisdom. Explore practical Christian fatherhood resources:https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/

  6. Aug 24

    Be the Dad Your Kids Already Think You Are

    Your kids are watching you more closely than you realize. They see how you lead, how you respond, what you believe, and the kind of man you are becoming. And sometimes, they see something in you that you have a hard time seeing in yourself. In this episode, I share a personal moment with my son that reminded me just how much weight our example carries as fathers. The challenge is simple: Strive to be the dad your kids already think you are. You will not be perfect. Neither will I. But our children are learning about fatherhood, manhood, faith, integrity, and leadership by watching the way we live. So keep growing. Keep leading. Keep becoming the man your children believe you can be. For more resources to help you become a better dad, visit: fatheringourfuture.com/resources/

  7. Aug 17

    What My Garden Taught Me About Discipline as a Dad

    If you want to become a better dad, personal discipline matters more than you might think. And strangely enough, one of the best lessons I’ve learned about discipline came from watching cucumber plants grow in our garden. As the plant reaches toward the sun, it continually grabs hold of fixed points around it. Those anchors give it support as it grows and help keep one disruption from bringing the entire plant crashing down. I think dads need the same thing. In this episode of Fathering Our Future, I share three practical ways men can create those anchor points through commitments, community, and intentionally remembering what matters. I also revisit my philosophy of fatherhood through three connected areas: mission, relationships, and identity. Our mission is to disciple our children. But discipleship requires influence, and influence requires relationship. That means we have to become men of personal integrity—men our children can trust, respect, and actually want a relationship with. Being a good dad is not simply about checking boxes or providing the right things. It is about becoming the dad your child needs you to be. And that requires discipline. Motivation isn’t enough. Build anchors. Practice discipline. Become the man—and the dad—your children need. — Stop being a slave to your phone. Get From Weakness to Weapon and make your phone serve your pursuit of being a better man, husband, and father.  From Weakness to Weapon: https://fathering-our-future.kit.com/products/from-weakness-to-weapon For other resources designed to serve dads check out: https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/

  8. Jul 20

    What It Really Looks Like to Provide for Your Children

    Most fathers want to be good providers. We work hard to give our children a safe home, good clothes, opportunities, experiences, and the things we believe will help them have a good life. But providing for your children is about more than giving them good things. In this episode, I talk about Jehovah-Jireh and what it actually means. Because the way God provides for us needs to shape the way we think about providing as fathers. It goes beyond the generic and it goes beyond what we may call good. You can find my fatherhood resources, including tools for communication, discipleship, and discipline, here: https://fatheringourfuture.com/resources/

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Fathering Our Future is the podcast for dads who are dedicated to embracing this God-given identity and fulfilling the mission of fatherhood. We explore fatherhood from a biblical perspective focusing on identity, relationships, and mission. You’ll get scriptural guidance and wisdom that will help you as a dad. You’ll also get to hear from other dads and special guests on. topics you care about.

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  • Creator
    Anthony Vandagriff
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    266
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Anthony Vandagriff
  • Show Website
    Fathering Our Future