Confident Christian Influence | Leadership, Intentional, Clarity, God’s Plan, Time Management

Pam Pegram - Leadership and Personal Growth Coach for Christian Women

Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com

  1. 4d ago

    244. 5 Ways You're Influencing Others Without Even Realizing It

    Have you ever caught yourself thinking, I'm not really a leader? Maybe you don't have an important title, manage a large team, or speak from a stage. But here's the truth: leadership isn't about a position—it's about influence. Every single day, your words, choices, attitudes, and actions are shaping the people around you. In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, we're exploring five everyday ways you're influencing others—often without even realizing it. Whether you're leading your family, serving at church, encouraging a friend, or simply interacting with people throughout your day, God has placed you exactly where you are for a purpose. You'll discover how your everyday life can become one of your greatest opportunities to point others to Christ. In this episode, you'll learn: Why you don't need a title to be a leader Five practical ways you influence others every day How your attitude affects the atmosphere around you Why your words have more power than you realize How your choices give others permission to grow Why your response during difficult seasons speaks volumes about your faith How to intentionally develop Christ-centered influence wherever God has placed you Remember, someone is always watching—not so you can strive for perfection, but so you can faithfully reflect Jesus. The question isn't whether you're influencing people. The question is: What are you influencing them toward? If you've ever wondered whether your life is making a difference, this episode will encourage you to see your everyday moments through God's eyes and inspire you to lead with greater purpose, confidence, and Christ-centered influence. Resources Mentioned If you're ready to grow in your leadership and discover how to lead with greater clarity, confidence, and Christ-centered influence, I'd love to help. 📒Grab a copy of the Lead Framework at PamPegram.com/leadframework. 🌿 Learn more about the Called to Lead course and coaching opportunities at PamPegram.com/calledtolead. 🎙️ Be sure to subscribe to Confident Christian Influence so you never miss a new episode. I'd Love to Hear From You After listening, I'd love for you to answer this question: Which of the five ways you're influencing others challenged or encouraged you the most? Share your thoughts in our Confident Christian Leadership Facebook community or connect with me on social media. If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to leave a review and share it with a friend? Your support helps more women discover how to live with purpose and use their God-given influence to impact every life they touch for Christ.

  2. Jul 8

    243. How to Live the Life God Designed for You | 10 Life-Changing Lessons from Colossians 3

    How to Live the Life God Designed for You: 10 Life-Changing Lessons from Colossians 3 Have you ever wondered... Am I really living the life God created me to live? If you've been praying for clarity about God's purpose, seeking His direction, or longing to become the woman He created you to be, this episode is for you. While spending time with God in Colossians 3, I found myself writing down ten life-changing truths that every Christian woman needs to remember. These aren't just good ideas—they're biblical principles that will help you grow in faith, lead with confidence, and influence others for Christ. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, distracted by the world, or unsure of your next step, these lessons will help refocus your heart on what matters most. In this episode, you'll discover: Why setting your mind on eternal things changes everything How to overcome worldly distractions and live with purpose What it really means to find your identity in Christ How to develop Christlike character in everyday life The importance of spiritual growth and lifelong learning Why forgiveness, humility, kindness, and patience are marks of strong Christian leadership How God wants to use your story to influence and encourage others What it means to represent Jesus in your home, workplace, church, and community Practical ways to become the woman God designed you to be Ten biblical truths from Colossians 3 that can transform the way you live and lead Scripture Colossians 3:1-17 (NLT) Mentioned in this episode FREE LEAD Framework Download my free LEAD Framework and discover four biblical shifts that will help you gain clarity, grow confidence, and increase your Christ-centered influence. 👉 https://pampegram.com/leadframework Called to Lead If you're ready to grow as a Christian leader and intentionally influence others for Christ, learn more about the Called to Lead coaching program. 👉 https://pampegram.com/calledtolead Get Pam's Study Bible I love my Life Application, NLT, 3rd Edition Notes  👉 https://amzn.to/3I0iG16 Connect with Pam Website: https://pampegram.com If this episode encouraged you... Would you take a minute to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts? Your review helps more Christian women discover the show and gives me the opportunity to encourage even more women to live intentionally, lead confidently, and make a lasting impact for Christ. Thank you for listening! Until next time... Lead on, Sis.

  3. Jun 30

    242. You Don't Need to Know God's Whole Plan - Just Your Next Step

    Have you ever found yourself praying, "God, if You'll just show me the whole plan, I'll do it." Friend, what if God never intended for us to see the entire journey? In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, we're talking about why God often reveals the next step—not the whole plan. If you've been waiting for complete clarity before moving forward, this conversation is for you. You'll discover why faith isn't about having every answer, how God leads us one step at a time, and how taking one simple act of obedience can move you closer to His purpose for your life. If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or afraid of making the wrong decision, I pray this episode encourages you to stop waiting for the perfect plan and start trusting the God who already knows it. In this episode, we'll talk about: Why God rarely gives us the entire blueprint. What the Bible teaches about walking by faith instead of sight. How to gain clarity without knowing every detail. The difference between waiting on God and delaying because of fear. Why small acts of obedience often lead to extraordinary impact. One simple coaching question that can help you identify your next faithful step. Scripture Mentioned Hebrews 11:1 Psalm 119:105 James 1:5 Your Next Step Challenge Before you move on to the next thing, take a moment to ask yourself: What is one thing God has already been asking me to do? Not your five-year plan. Not every answer. Just your next faithful step. Then, come join us inside the Confident Christian Leadership Facebook community (click here) and share one sentence:  "My next step is __________." We would love to pray for you, encourage you, and celebrate as you step forward in faith. Resources 🎙 Join the Confident Christian Leader Facebook Community - HERE 🎓 Learn more about the Called to Lead Course & Group Coaching: https://PamPegram.com/CalledToLead If this episode encouraged you... Would you take just a minute to subscribe, leave a written review, and share this episode with a friend? Your review helps more Christian women discover the podcast and encourages them to grow in clarity, confidence, and Christ-centered influence. Remember, friend... You don't need God's whole plan. You just need the courage to take your next faithful step. Until next time, Lead with confidence. Influence with purpose.

  4. Jun 23

    241. God's Plan to Use You to Influence Others Doesn't Expire in Midlife

    Have you ever wondered if you missed God's plan for your life? Maybe you're in midlife and looking back at opportunities you didn't pursue, dreams you set aside, or mistakes you wish you could undo. Perhaps you're asking yourself, "Is it too late for me?" In this encouraging episode, Pam shares a powerful reminder: God's purpose for your life does not come with an expiration date. Whether you're 45, 55, 65, or beyond, God is still at work. He is still calling, growing, and using women who are willing to say "yes" to Him. Join Pam as she explores biblical examples of men and women who stepped into God's plan later in life, why your past does not disqualify you, and how your greatest season of influence may still be ahead. If you've been feeling stuck, overlooked, or uncertain about your next step, this episode will inspire you to stop focusing on the clock and start focusing on the One who called you. In This Episode You'll Learn: Why God's calling doesn't expire in midlife The lie many Christian women believe about age and purpose How Moses, Abraham, Sarah, and Caleb demonstrate God's perfect timing Why your past mistakes don't disqualify you from making an impact How God uses your experiences, challenges, and victories to influence others Practical encouragement to take your next faithful step Why your greatest influence may still be ahead of you Key Scriptures: Ecclesiastes 3:11 Joshua 14:10-12 Jeremiah 29:11 Romans 8:28 Key Takeaway: If God still has breath in your lungs, He still has purpose for your life. Your calling has not expired. Your influence still matters. And your best impact may still be ahead of you. Resources Mentioned: Ready to gain clarity, confidence, and Christ-centered influence? Learn more about the Called to Lead coaching program: https://pampegram.com/calledtolead Connect with Pam: Website: https://pampegram.com Join the Confident Christian Leadership Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/confidentchristianleadership Loved This Episode? If this episode encouraged you, please: ✓ Subscribe to the podcast ✓ Leave a review ✓ Share it with a friend who needs the reminder that God isn't finished with her yet Your support helps us reach more Christian women who are ready to lead with confidence, influence others, and live out God's purpose for their lives. Keywords: Christian leadership, Christian women in midlife, God's purpose, God's calling, biblical leadership, Christian personal growth, leadership development, Christian influence, intentional leadership, faith-based leadership, confidence in Christ, God's plan for your life, Christian women leaders, leadership after 50, leadership after 60, leaving a legacy, Christian coaching, Called to Lead, Christ-centered influence

  5. Jun 16

    240. 5 Essentials to Find Clarity in God's Plan for Your Leadership

    Don't miss out on fulfilling the plan and the purpose God has for you. Don't miss your calling. Richard Blackaby said, "Some people never experience the mighty work God intended to do in and through their life because they don’t have the patience to allow God to bring His work to maturity." That quote is what has led us to this episode. There are 5 Non-negotiables if we want to experience God's divine direction and intervention in our life so that we can become who He is calling us to become and do what He created us to do. I can't wait to share them with you. As a Believer, you are called to lead. There are people in your sphere of influence who need your guidance, your leadership, and your encouragement in order for them to find their way to Jesus. You have seeds to plant. You are called to make a difference. If you want to say yes - you need to know these 5 essentials.  1. You must do it God's way. 2. You must know what the Bible says. 3. You must be in continual fellowship with the Holy Spirit. 4. You must ask for Divine Guidance 5. You must be willing to to obey it when you receive it.   Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to check out the Called to Lead framework. Learn more here.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.

  6. Jun 3

    239. How to Become a Strong Leader and Leave a Lasting Legacy

    Are you a Christian woman who longs to be a strong leader and leave a lasting legacy? Then this episode is for you.  I believe you are called to lead and lead well - shining your light as you rise up to do the right thing for the right reason, as you serve for God's glory, and as you love others. That sounds really good - but how do we do it? Well, it all starts with the decisions we make. Today is a good day to decide to be intentional to lead strong and leave a legacy of relentless faith. As a Christian woman who wants to lead well - we must focus on our integrity more than our achievement. And if we stumble here - let's be quick to hold ourselves accountable, take responsibility, and then put Jesus first. Strong leaders invest in people. Leadership is never about "me". It is always about we. We are called to pour into the lives of others - mentoring, encouraging, and leading by example. This is how we make an impact in their lives. Most importantly, we must stay focused on what matters most. There is only one answer here. What matters most is our relationship with Jesus. Everything else come after that.  It my prayer that you will make the decision to become the strong leader God has created you to become so you can do what He is calling you to do.  Don't shrink back. Don't delay. Don't let the enemy distract you or deter you. Rise up and surrender to the One who is ready to strengthen you and mold you into a legacy building strong leader! Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to check out the Called to Lead framework. Learn more here.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

  7. May 19

    238. 4 Intentional Habits That Changed My Life and Leadership

    Simple daily practices that changed my life and helped me grow in faith, confidence, and influence.  We all have habits that deplete us and rob us of becoming the best leader we can be and from living our best life. Some of our exhaustion, overwhelm, and fatigue is greatly impacted by our the poor habits and ruts we fall into. When we are intentional to establish habits that replenish us - it changes everything. I cannot wait to share these habits with you and encourage you - well, even challenge you - to do them for the rest of the year. I believe they will be life changing and life giving for you. 1. Start your Reading your Bible and in Prayer. Use a Study Bible with commentary that helps you gain understanding. Here is a link to the Bible I use - Shop Here Want to use My Daily Journal Method I mentioned? Learn more here. 2. Be a Continual Learner. Check my Social Media Accounts for a list of the books that have changed my life. 3. Use a Truth Journal. You can purchase one Here. 4. Open your hands when you pray, praise, and worship.   Being intentional about your habits is vital. They will help you with your personal growth, fulfill your potential, and become the leader God is calling you to become.  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to check out the Called to Lead framework. Learn more here.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.

  8. May 12

    237. Leading Your Children with Purpose and Influence

    Mama, there is no greater leadership position you hold than being a mom. You owe it to your children to learn to lead as well as you possibly can. There are some core principles for us as Christian moms that we should be intentional to follow. When we do, we increase the opportunity to intentionally influence our children and make a lasting impact in their lives. Listen as I walk through a few of them with you. 1. Nurture the Spiritual Growth of your Children 2. Model Christian Character to your Children 3. Make sure Your Home is a Place where Faith Grows   Key Scripture References... Proverbs 31:10-31; Ephesians 6:1-4; Titus 2:4-5; Psalm 127:3-5   Leadership is always challenging, but especially when leading the ones we treasure. Decide today that you will stop going through the motions and start being intentional about leading in a way that points your children to Jesus. Apply these Biblical principals for the Christian mom - model your faith, teach Scripture, pray fervently, love affectionately, and nurture a Christ-centered, safe home environment.  Invitation:  If you are a Christian woman who wants to lead with clarity, confidence, and biblical alignment, I invite you to check out the Called to Lead framework. Learn more here.   Your Next Step If this episode resonates and you’re craving deeper clarity, confidence, and intentional growth, I would love to walk alongside you. 👉 Learn more about coaching and next steps at: https://www.pampegram.com/ Let’s help you lead from a place of alignment, not exhaustion—so you can live a rich, satisfying life and make the impact God designed you for. Lead on, Sis. 💛 Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] Learn more about working with Pam [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com Interested in Pam's Study Bible? It is linked here.

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Do you feel called to more but have no idea what that “more” is? Do you want to impact lives at work, in your community, and at home — but aren’t sure how? Are you doubting your ability to lead and wondering if it’s too late? Are you overwhelmed and thinking, “I can’t possibly add one more thing to my plate”? I’m so glad you’re here. This podcast will help you finally live out the purpose God has for you, grow a deeper connection with your Savior, and make a meaningful impact in the lives of those around you. Hi, I’m Pam Pegram — a wife, mom, MeMe, Entrepreneur and Jesus lover. Like you, I felt called to more but spent a lot of time arguing with God, trying to convince Him I didn’t have the capacity. Eventually, I realized He wasn’t asking me to do more — He was inviting me into more with Him. That changed everything. Once I gave in and surrendered it all to Him - I began to grow into the woman He created me to be, started seeing lives change around me, and finally discovered I had time for everything He actually called me to — without stress. Now, I help women grow in confidence, gain clarity in their purpose as they follow God's plan, and find the time to do it all. It's not as hard as you think. You just need a little guidance and encouragement.  If you're ready to shift your focus from your position to the purpose behind it… to trade confusion for clarity on your next steps… and to expand your influence in a way that makes an eternal difference — all while learning to rest in Him — you’re in the right place. So grab your coffee, your journal, and that half-finished to-do list... and let’s get going. Learn more about Pam and the resources she offers you at pampegram.com

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