Married A.F.

Matthew & Monica Powers | Relationship Advice & Support
  • 4.6 (11)
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Married A.F. is the candid, laugh-out-loud podcast about what really goes on after “I do.” Equal parts heartfelt and hilarious, this show explores the highs, lows, and everyday quirks of married life – with nothing off-limits. Each week, Matt and Monica pull back the curtain on marriage, from navigating intimacy and money squabbles to juggling careers, kids, and in-laws. With their engaging blend of personal stories and expert insights, they tackle questions many couples are afraid to ask (yes, even that one) with refreshing honesty. One minute you’ll be wiping away tears of laughter, and the next you might be nodding along in understanding at a truly raw and honest confession. Whether you’re newly wed, happily ever after, or wondering what you signed up for, Married A.F. offers you a front-row seat to the kind of unfiltered conversations usually reserved for close friends. Matt and Monica share hard-earned lessons to unpack topics like keeping the romance alive, communicating through conflict, and growing together (instead of apart). The tone is always supportive and real. You’ll feel like you’re sitting around the kitchen table with friends who tell it like it is and genuinely want to see your marriage thrive. Clear-eyed about the challenges but celebratory of the joys, Married A.F. is the ultimate marriage companion podcast that will leave you feeling entertained, understood, and inspired to make your relationship stronger than ever. If you believe marriage can be messy and magnificent, this is the podcast for you.  Tune in, and join a community of listeners who know that staying married is an adventure – one that’s easier (and a lot more fun) when you have a great conversation partner along for the ride.

  1. Purity Culture Left Us Confused About Sex

    6d ago

    Purity Culture Left Us Confused About Sex

    What if many of us learned more about avoiding sex than understanding it? In this episode of Married AF, we tackle one of the most controversial conversations in modern marriage, dating, and Christianity: purity culture. We unpack the viral statement, “She’s told to cover up. He’s never told to grow up,” and ask whether generations of people were handed shame instead of healthy relationship communication. We discuss how messages around sex, emotional intimacy, and love can shape marriage long after the wedding day. Some people grew up believing desire itself was bad. Others were taught that men simply cannot control themselves. We explore where those messages may have helped, where they may have caused damage, and how they continue affecting intimacy, marital issues, conflict resolution, and happiness inside relationships today. We also separate an important distinction: healthy boundaries are not the same thing as shame. Marriage advice often focuses on avoiding mistakes, but real marriage coaching should also teach connection, communication, emotional intimacy, and how couples can build a healthy understanding of sex within marriage. Whether you're newly married, dating, engaged, or have been married for decades, this conversation will challenge some assumptions and give practical support for building stronger relationship communication and deeper intimacy. In this episode: ✔️ How purity culture shaped marriage expectations ✔️ Why emotional intimacy affects physical intimacy ✔️ The difference between boundaries and shame ✔️ Marriage challenges couples rarely talk about ✔️ Communication tools for healthier sex and connection ✔️ Christian perspectives on love, marriage, and intimacy ✔️ Practical marriage advice and support Marriage is an adventure filled with challenges, growth, communication, conflict resolution, and learning how to love one another well. Sometimes the healthiest thing we can do is unlearn messages that were never helping us in the first place. 🎙️ Subscribe for weekly conversations on marriage, advice, support, dating, emotional intimacy, happiness, marital issues, marriage coaching, newlywed advice, intimacy, love, and relationship communication. 👉 Share this with someone who needs relationship support 👉 Subscribe for real, unfiltered marriage coaching and advice 👉 Drop a comment: What do you think? Visit us at https://www.themarriedafpodcast.com/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@MarriedA.F. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/themarriedafpodcast/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themarriedafpodcast/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@marriedafpodcast Visit Sunny and Stoked at https://www.sunnyandstoked.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIEDAF for 20% off your ENTIRE order! Visit Kingdom and Will at  https://kingdomandwill.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIED AF for 15% off your ENTIRE order! #Marriage #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianMarriage #Intimacy #Communication #MarriageCoaching #Love #Dating #ConflictResolution #EmotionalIntimacy #MarriedAF Kingdom and Will Premium garments designed to stimulate thought & initiate dialogue concerning Jesus & His Kingdom.Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

    32 min

  2. May 26

    Stop Trying to Win Every Argument

    What if the biggest problem in your marriage isn’t the argument… but the way you argue? In this episode of Married AF, we celebrate a huge milestone, 500,000 downloads, and then dive straight into one of the most important relationship communication conversations we’ve ever had: why so many couples are trying to win arguments instead of understanding each other. We break down the hidden communication habits quietly damaging marriages, emotional intimacy, dating relationships, friendships, and even faith conversations. From shutting down emotionally to mentally preparing your comeback while your spouse is still talking, we unpack why modern conflict resolution feels more exhausting than productive and what healthy communication actually looks like. We also walk through five practical tools for better marriage communication and healthier relationships: How to stop treating conversations like competitionsWhy undistracted presence changes everythingThe power of asking better questionsHow to find common ground even during disagreementWhy grace and truth matter in every hard conversationIf you’re struggling with marital issues, emotional disconnect, intimacy challenges, recurring fights, or feeling unheard in your relationship, this episode offers practical marriage advice and support you can actually use. Whether you’re newly married, dating, navigating relationship challenges, or simply trying to communicate better with the people you love, this conversation will challenge the way you think about conflict, happiness, love, and connection. This episode is packed with: Marriage adviceRelationship communicationConflict resolution toolsChristian marriage coachingEmotional intimacy insightsCommunication strategiesDating and newlywed adviceBiblical perspectives on relationships and ChristianityPractical support for healthier marriagesBecause sometimes the strongest marriages aren’t the ones that never fight… they’re the ones that learn how to fight without destroying each other. 👉 Share this with someone who needs relationship support 👉 Subscribe for real, unfiltered marriage coaching and advice 👉 Drop a comment: What do you think? Visit us at https://www.themarriedafpodcast.com/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@MarriedA.F. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/themarriedafpodcast/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themarriedafpodcast/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@marriedafpodcast Visit Sunny and Stoked at https://www.sunnyandstoked.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIEDAF for 20% off your ENTIRE order! Visit Kingdom and Will at  https://kingdomandwill.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIED AF for 15% off your ENTIRE order! Marriage, Marriage Advice, Marriage Support, Christian Marriage, Communication, Relationship Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Love, Intimacy, Marriage Coaching, Dating Advice, Newlywed Advice, Marital Issues, Christian Relationships, Faith and Marriage, Relationship Challenges, Healthy Communication, Couples Podcast, Marriage Help, Relationship Advice, Christianity, Happiness, Couples Therapy Topics, Marriage Podcast Kingdom and Will Premium garments designed to stimulate thought & initiate dialogue concerning Jesus & His Kingdom.Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

    28 min
  3. “Submit to Your Husband” — The Most Misused Verse in Christian Marriage?

    May 19

    “Submit to Your Husband” — The Most Misused Verse in Christian Marriage?

    A viral debate about women losing the right to vote opened the door to a much bigger conversation about Christian marriage, biblical submission, leadership, love, communication, and the challenges many couples face behind closed doors. In this episode of Married AF, we unpack how fear, politics, and misused Scripture can quietly distort relationships, emotional intimacy, conflict resolution, and healthy partnership inside marriage. We talk honestly about the growing push toward “household voting,” rigid gender roles, and the dangerous belief that biblical leadership means control. Too often, people quote “wives submit to your husbands” while completely ignoring the command for husbands to love their wives like Christ loved the church. That imbalance creates marital issues that damage communication, intimacy, happiness, trust, and emotional connection. This episode dives deep into what healthy Christian leadership actually looks like in marriage. We discuss sacrifice, servant leadership, relationship communication, emotional intimacy, and why real biblical love never demands domination. We also confront how spiritual manipulation can create unhealthy power dynamics, silence women, and destroy the support and safety that strong marriages need. Then we turn to Scripture and the many women God used powerfully throughout the Bible. From Deborah and Esther to Priscilla, Phoebe, Miriam, and Abigail, the Bible paints women as essential leaders, advisors, helpers, and partners in God’s story. We also unpack Galatians 3:28, the true meaning of “helper” in Genesis, and why one-flesh marriage was always meant to reflect unity, partnership, intimacy, and mutual respect. Whether you are dating, engaged, newly married, navigating marital challenges, looking for marriage advice, seeking marriage coaching, or trying to strengthen communication and intimacy in your relationship, this conversation will challenge the way you think about Christianity, leadership, love, and healthy marriage. If you want honest conversations about marriage, support, conflict resolution, dating, emotional intimacy, relationship communication, happiness, love, newlywed advice, and building stronger relationships through faith and communication, subscribe to Married AF and join the conversation. 👉 Share this with someone who needs relationship support 👉 Subscribe for real, unfiltered marriage coaching and advice 👉 Drop a comment: What do you think? Visit us at https://www.themarriedafpodcast.com/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@MarriedA.F. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/themarriedafpodcast/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themarriedafpodcast/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@marriedafpodcast Visit Sunny and Stoked at https://www.sunnyandstoked.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIEDAF for 20% off your ENTIRE order! Visit Kingdom and Will at  https://kingdomandwill.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIED AF for 15% off your ENTIRE order! #Marriage #MarriageAdvice #Christianity #Communication #ConflictResolution #Dating #EmotionalIntimacy #Love #Intimacy #MarriageCoaching #RelationshipCommunication #NewlywedAdvice #MaritalIssues #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #Relationships #Support #Happiness

    42 min
  4. The Fear That’s Quietly Destroying Your Marriage (And You Don’t See It)

    May 12

    The Fear That’s Quietly Destroying Your Marriage (And You Don’t See It)

    Fear doesn’t always look like panic, it often looks like “keeping the peace.” But what it really keeps is distance. In this episode, we unpack how fear quietly shapes your marriage, your communication, and your emotional intimacy in ways most couples never recognize. We get honest about the real challenges couples face when fear is leading instead of love. From avoiding hard conversations to shutting down after rejection, to controlling behavior driven by insecurity, fear shows up in subtle ways that slowly erode intimacy, happiness, and connection. If you’ve ever thought, “It’s easier not to bring it up,” this episode will challenge that mindset and give you practical tools for better relationship communication and conflict resolution. We break down the three core fears that impact marriage, dating, and long-term relationships: fear of being alone, fear of rejection, and fear of loss. These fears don’t just affect struggling marriages, they show up in newlywed advice, marriage coaching sessions, and even strong relationships trying to grow deeper. Left unchecked, they create emotional distance, weaken love, and turn small issues into long-term marital issues. Through a Christianity-based lens, we point back to truth: perfect love casts out fear. Real love requires risk, honesty, and presence. If fear is running your relationship, emotional intimacy will always suffer. But when you confront fear, you create space for deeper connection, better communication, and lasting change. We also give you a simple, practical step you can take this week: Identify one fear, name the lie behind it, replace it with truth, and take one step toward honesty and connection. This is real marriage advice you can apply immediately, whether you’re dating, newly married, or years into the journey. If you’re ready to stop letting fear control your relationship and start building real intimacy, stronger communication, and a healthier marriage, this episode is for you. 👉 Share this with someone who needs relationship support 👉 Subscribe for real, unfiltered marriage coaching and advice 👉 Drop a comment: What fear have you been avoiding? Visit us at https://www.themarriedafpodcast.com/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@MarriedA.F. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/themarriedafpodcast/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/themarriedafpodcast/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@marriedafpodcast Visit Sunny and Stoked at https://www.sunnyandstoked.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIEDAF for 20% off your ENTIRE order! Visit Kingdom and Will at  https://kingdomandwill.com/ Enter Promo Code MARRIED AF for 15% off your ENTIRE order!

    31 min
  5. This Marriage Trend Is Exploding...But Is It Destroying Love & Intimacy?

    May 5

    This Marriage Trend Is Exploding...But Is It Destroying Love & Intimacy?

    An upside down pineapple is not just cute decor. For a growing number of couples, it is a public signal that the marriage is open, and that idea is spreading faster than most people think. Marriage is changing and not everyone knows how to handle it. In this episode of Married AF, we dive into one of the most controversial relationship trends today: hotwifing and open marriage. What’s driving couples to explore this kind of sexual adventure, and does it actually lead to deeper love, emotional intimacy, and happiness or does it create new challenges that most relationships aren’t prepared for? We break down real data, real couples, and real stories to uncover what’s really happening behind the scenes. From communication and conflict resolution to trust, intimacy, and emotional connection, this conversation goes far beyond surface-level marriage advice. Whether you’re newly married, dating, or navigating serious marital issues, this episode will challenge the way you think about love, support, and what it takes to build a lasting relationship. We also explore the role of Christianity and faith in modern relationships, asking the hard question: are cultural trends shaping our beliefs about marriage, or should our beliefs shape how we approach intimacy, communication, and commitment? If you’re looking for honest marriage coaching, relationship communication strategies, and real talk about love, dating, and emotional intimacy, this episode is for you.

    42 min
  6. Summer of '99 Cruise Full Recap: Escape Culture, Faith, and What It Says About Marriage

    Apr 28

    Summer of '99 Cruise Full Recap: Escape Culture, Faith, and What It Says About Marriage

    What happens when you mix alcohol, nostalgia, and thousands of people chasing a feeling? You get chaos and clarity. In this episode, we break down our experience on the Summer of ’99 cruise with Creed, Daughtry, Collective Soul, Filter, Black Stone Cherry, Oleander, Revis, 12 Stones, Nonpoint, Living Colour, and more and it was nothing like we expected. From wild hookups and public drunkenness to fights that ended in “cruise jail,” we saw firsthand what happens when people chase escape instead of purpose. But that’s not the whole story. In the middle of the madness, we also saw something unexpected, real conversations about faith, moments of gratitude, and reminders that even in the loudest, most chaotic environments. God still shows up. We talk about: Why “getting drunk” isn’t the flex people think it isThe truth about hookup culture (even in your 40s and 50s)What people are actually searching for beneath the partyThe surprising moments where faith broke through the noiseAnd what this says about modern relationships and marriageThis episode is funny, raw, uncomfortable at times and honest. Because what we saw on that ship? It’s not just about a cruise. It’s a snapshot of culture. 🎧 If you’re married, dating, or just trying to figure out relationships in today’s world, this one will hit.

    59 min
  7. Your Marriage Feels Like Roommates? Here's the Real Problem

    Apr 21

    Your Marriage Feels Like Roommates? Here's the Real Problem

    What if the best sex in your marriage doesn’t come from being more adventurous, but from feeling more secure? In this episode, we break down the surprising connection between trust, emotional safety, and sexual satisfaction and why the couples having the most fulfilling, creative, and exciting sex lives aren’t the wildest. They’re the safest. We dive into real research from relationship psychology, attachment theory, and sexual communication studies to show you: Why trust is the foundation of great sexHow emotional safety increases desire and explorationThe hidden reason your sex life may feel stuckHow anxiety, secrecy, and disconnection shut intimacy downPractical ways to rebuild trust and reignite connectionIf your relationship feels more like roommates than partners, this episode will challenge you in the best way. 👉 Because the truth is: You don’t need new moves. You need deeper trust. Subscribe for real conversations about marriage, intimacy, and relationships. Share this with your spouse, you’ll want to talk after this one.

    35 min
  8. 7 Questions That Will Instantly Improve Your Marriage (Try This Tonight)

    Apr 14

    7 Questions That Will Instantly Improve Your Marriage (Try This Tonight)

    Seven questions sounds like a simple game, until it exposes how well you really know your spouse. In this episode of Married AF, we put our marriage under the microscope with 7 powerful relationship questions that are designed to spark deeper communication, emotional connection, and real intimacy. From funny scenarios like getting separated in a grocery store to deeper moments involving fear, parenting, and crisis, this conversation moves fast from lighthearted to real life. We talk about: The 7 questions every couple should ask each otherWhat your answers reveal about how you see and value your spouseThe moment your heart drops in parenting and how you respond togetherThe 3 words that define your spouse’s personalityThe power of small details (like smells, habits, and instincts)What should stay private in a marriage and why it mattersHow to communicate when emotions are high and fear is realThis isn’t just a game, it’s a shortcut to feeling known again. If your marriage feels stuck, surface-level, or just busy, this episode will help you reconnect fast. 👉 Perfect for: Date night conversation startersMarriage communication tipsCouples wanting deeper emotional intimacyChristian marriage encouragement (without being preachy)🎧 Listen now, then try these questions with your spouse tonight.

    29 min
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Married A.F. is the candid, laugh-out-loud podcast about what really goes on after “I do.” Equal parts heartfelt and hilarious, this show explores the highs, lows, and everyday quirks of married life – with nothing off-limits. Each week, Matt and Monica pull back the curtain on marriage, from navigating intimacy and money squabbles to juggling careers, kids, and in-laws. With their engaging blend of personal stories and expert insights, they tackle questions many couples are afraid to ask (yes, even that one) with refreshing honesty. One minute you’ll be wiping away tears of laughter, and the next you might be nodding along in understanding at a truly raw and honest confession. Whether you’re newly wed, happily ever after, or wondering what you signed up for, Married A.F. offers you a front-row seat to the kind of unfiltered conversations usually reserved for close friends. Matt and Monica share hard-earned lessons to unpack topics like keeping the romance alive, communicating through conflict, and growing together (instead of apart). The tone is always supportive and real. You’ll feel like you’re sitting around the kitchen table with friends who tell it like it is and genuinely want to see your marriage thrive. Clear-eyed about the challenges but celebratory of the joys, Married A.F. is the ultimate marriage companion podcast that will leave you feeling entertained, understood, and inspired to make your relationship stronger than ever. If you believe marriage can be messy and magnificent, this is the podcast for you.  Tune in, and join a community of listeners who know that staying married is an adventure – one that’s easier (and a lot more fun) when you have a great conversation partner along for the ride.

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  • Creator
    Matthew & Monica Powers | Relationship Advice & Support
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    120
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Married A.F.
  • Show Website
    Married A.F.

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