Healing Conversations with Carla

Carla R. Cannon-Lawrence
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Healing Conversations with Carla is a biweekly podcast for people who are ready to slow down, get honest, and look at the patterns shaping how they live, love, lead, and see themselves. Through real-life stories and conversations about culture, faith, relationships, entrepreneurship, identity, and everyday life, Coach Carla asks the questions that help you make sense of what you're carrying, challenge old beliefs, and course-correct without judgment. Pull up a chair. Let's talk. 🌱

  1. 2d ago

    EP 154 | Healthy Boundaries vs Emotional Avoidance

    Have you ever told yourself you were setting a healthy boundary when, if you’re being completely honest, you just didn’t want to deal with what the situation was making you feel? Maybe you stopped responding, emotionally checked out, avoided the conversation, cut someone off, or decided you were simply protecting your peace. But how do you know when you’re genuinely protecting your emotional well-being and when you’re slipping into emotional avoidance? Sometimes distance is necessary. Sometimes walking away is wisdom. But sometimes what looks like a healthy boundary may actually be connected to conflict avoidance, childhood trauma, fear of rejection, people-pleasing, emotional detachment, or an old survival pattern that still influences the way you handle relationships today. This week I'm inviting you to take a closer look at the difference between healthy boundaries and emotional avoidance, and what may be happening beneath the surface when conflict, accountability, vulnerability, or disappointment makes you want to shut down, disconnect, or leave. Because every uncomfortable conversation isn’t unsafe. Every disagreement isn’t disrespect. Every person who challenges you isn’t necessarily toxic. If you’ve become good at protecting your peace but you’re beginning to wonder whether some of that protection has also made it harder to communicate, repair and/or maintain healthy relationships/friendships, tolerate healthy conflict, or remain emotionally present, this conversation is for you. The question I want you to sit with is simple: Am I protecting myself from harm or from discomfort? Press play. We have some things to unpack. #healthyboundaries #emotionalavoidance #healingwork #mentalhealthpodcast #podcastforwomen #protectyourpeace

  2. Aug 4

    EP 153 | Who or What May Be Guiding Your Decisions

    Have you ever been faced with a decision and found yourself wondering: is this God, is this fear, is this my intuition, or is an old trauma response speaking louder than I realize? Sometimes the hardest part about figuring out your next move isn’t a lack of options. It’s learning how to recognize what’s actually guiding you. Maybe you’ve said, “I just don’t have peace about it.” Maybe something felt off, so you assumed it was discernment. Maybe you’ve been protecting yourself from something (or someone) that genuinely isn’t right for you. Or maybe fear, anxiety, hypervigilance, childhood trauma, or an old survival pattern has been influencing your decisions in ways you haven’t recognized yet. And here’s where it gets interesting: what feels familiar can sometimes feel safe, even when it isn’t healthy. And what feels uncomfortable isn’t always wrong. Sometimes it’s simply unfamiliar. In this episode, I want to help you slow everything down and take a closer look at what may be happening beneath the surface when you’re trying to make an important decision. We’re talking about faith, fear, spiritual discernment, intuition, trauma responses, hypervigilance, self-trust, childhood messages, emotional healing, and the uncomfortable process of becoming someone your past didn’t necessarily prepare you to be. Because sometimes you’re not confused about the decision. You’re experiencing a conflict between the person you’ve had to be and the person you are now. So before you automatically follow the fear, before you call it discernment, before you decide you’re “protecting your peace,” and before you allow an old experience to make a new decision for you, I want you to ask yourself a different question: What part of me is actually making this decision? If you’re navigating a major life transition, questioning your next move, rebuilding self-trust, healing from childhood trauma, or simply trying to understand yourself more deeply, this healing conversation is for you. Press play. We have some things to unpack. Resources Mentioned: ⁠⁠Healing Conversations Community (HCC) ⁠⁠⁠Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠Schedule Your 1:1 Coaching Session⁠⁠Join Me on Substack⁠ Connect with Carla: ⁠Facebook ⁠ ⁠Instagram ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ #healingconversations #traumahealing #discernment #mentalhealthpodcast #podcastforwomen #womenshealth #spirituality #selftrust

  3. Jul 20

    EP 152 | Finding Your Path with Darrin Dewitt Henson

    In this intimate conversation, I sit down with acclaimed actor, author, director, choreographer, and motivational speaker Darrin Dewitt Henson to discuss purpose, pain, love, healing, identity, and legacy. Darrin opens up about the experiences that shaped him, the inner work required to remain grounded through success, and the inspiration behind his new book, Finding Your Path: Climb the Ladder Up to and Through Positive Affirmations. This conversation is for anyone who has ever questioned their purpose, struggled to separate their identity from what they do, or needed encouragement to keep climbing through life’s difficult seasons. This is more than a celebrity interview. This is a real and healing conversation with the man behind the role. In this episode, we're talking about... Identity beyond success and public recognitionPurpose, pain, healing, love, and legacyThe power of positive affirmationsStaying grounded while navigating successBecoming the person you were created to be Featured Book: Finding Your Path: Climb the Ladder Up to and Through Positive Affirmations by Darrin Dewitt Henson | www.thedarrinhenson.com Resources & Ways to Work with Carla: ⁠⁠Healing Conversations Community (HCC) ⁠⁠⁠Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠Schedule Your 1:1 Coaching Session⁠⁠Join Me on Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Carla: ⁠Facebook ⁠ ⁠Instagram ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Darrin Henson: Facebook Instagram #healingconversations #darrinhenson #findingyourpath #personalgrowth #positiveaffirmations #healingpodcast #thefamilybusiness #celebrityinterviews

    EP 152 | Finding Your Path with Darrin Dewitt Henson

  4. Jul 7

    EP 151 | Who Told You That You Were Too Much? (The Names We Were Given Before We Knew Ourselves)

    Have you ever been called too much, too sensitive, difficult, bossy, emotional, needy, or different? Did you ever stop to consider how those words may have shaped the way you learned to see yourself? Because sometimes a label doesn't stay a label. Sometimes it becomes a belief. And before you realize it, that belief is influencing the way you communicate, set boundaries, navigate relationships, make decisions, and even introduce yourself to yourself. This week, I'm taking you back to little Carla playing school, reflecting on celebrating my 42nd birthday in Cozumel, Mexico, and sharing a question I haven't been able to stop thinking about: Who did you decide you were because of what happened to you? We're talking about the names we were given before we knew ourselves, the patterns we may still be living from, and what can happen when we finally slow down long enough to separate who we are from what we learned to believe. And don't worry, we're not rewriting all of our childhood behavior into misunderstood greatness. Some of us absolutely needed to sit down somewhere. But I do believe correction and curiosity can exist in the same room. By the end of this conversation, you may find yourself questioning a name you've been answering to for years.🌱 Resources Mentioned: ⁠Grown Woman Talk Book- Dr. Sharon Malone⁠Healing Conversations Community (HCC) ⁠Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!⁠⁠Schedule Your 1:1 Coaching SessionJoin Me on Substack⁠ Connect with Carla: Facebook Instagram ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠ #healingconversations #innerchildhealing #consciousness #personalgrowth #healingjourney #healingpodcast

  5. Jun 8

    EP 150 | The 3 Pillars of Spiritual Growth (The Episode You Didn't Know You Needed)

    Have you ever felt disconnected from yourself, distant from God, or isolated from the people around you, even while trying your best to keep everything together? Today we're exploring the three pillars of spiritual growth and why so many people struggle to feel grounded, connected, and at peace in their everyday lives. Drawing from my own healing journey, spiritual practices, and my work as a Trauma Recovery & Identity Reconstruction Coach, we'll explore how trauma, life experiences, relationships, and personal growth shape the way we connect with God, ourselves, and others. If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply longing for a deeper sense of alignment in this season of your life, this conversation is for you. You may discover that the breakthrough you're seeking isn't about doing more; it's about reconnecting with what matters most. Resources Mentioned: BELOVED: Experiencing God as Abba in a Fatherless Generation LIFE AFTER BETRAYAL: How to Heal, Forgive & Move On JOURNEY TO FINDING ME: A Unique Path to Self-Discovery Work with Coach Carla: Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!View Coaching Packages & ProductsJoin HCC Today!Become a HCC Partner Today!Connect with Carla: ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ #HealingConversations #InnerHealingJourney #EmotionalAwareness #SpiritualGrowth

  6. Jun 1

    EP 149 | How Spiritual Bypassing Affects Love, Communication & Growth

    Have you ever felt like you were doing all the right things spiritually, praying, staying positive, going to church, encouraging others, quoting scripture, yet still finding yourself emotionally triggered, disconnected, overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally reactive, or repeating the same unhealthy patterns in your relationships? In this week’s episode, we're unpacking the reality of spiritual bypassing and how many people unknowingly use spirituality, positivity, or avoidance to suppress unresolved hurt, trauma, disappointment, fear, and emotional pain instead of truly healing it. I want to help you understand why unprocessed emotions don’t simply disappear and how avoiding difficult conversations, emotional honesty, accountability, and vulnerability can quietly damage your communication, relationships, emotional growth, and even your connection with yourself. We’re diving into the difference between genuine healing and emotional suppression, why awareness is the first step toward transformation, and how unresolved pain often disguises itself as anger, emotional shutdown, people-pleasing, distance, or frustration. If you’ve been struggling to identify what’s really happening beneath the surface emotionally, feeling stuck in cycles you can’t seem to break, or trying to appear strong while silently carrying emotional weight, this episode will help you slow down, become more emotionally aware, and begin confronting the root instead of simply managing the symptoms. This conversation is honest, therapeutic, eye-opening, and deeply necessary for anyone desiring healthier communication, deeper emotional healing, stronger relationships, and authentic personal growth. Connect with Me: Instagram Facebook YouTube Work with Me: ⁠⁠Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠View Coaching Packages & Products⁠⁠⁠⁠Join HCC Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠Become a HCC Partner Today!⁠⁠ Resources on Inner Healing & Personal Growth: Journey to Finding Me: A Unique Path to Self-DiscoveryLife After Betrayal: How to Heal, Forgive & Move OnBeloved: Experiencing God as Abba in a Fatherless GenerationWoman Heal: What Happened to You May Not Be Your Fault, But Healing Is Your ResponsibilityHow to Love Yourself When Life Keeps Hurting You How to Talk So Your Partner Will ListenLove Beyond Labels: A Guide for Couples#HealingConversations #InnerHealingJourney #EmotionalAwareness #RewritingYourStory

  7. May 28

    EP 148 | Just Because It Still Hurts Doesn’t Mean You’re Broken

    This episode is deeply personal, and after recently revisiting painful childhood memories and experiences, I felt led to come on and have an honest conversation about what healing really looks like beyond the inspirational quotes and social media captions. In this episode, I talk about the reality that just because something still hurts doesn’t mean you’re broken. Sometimes it simply means it mattered. During our time together, we discuss: Inner child woundsEmotional suppressionFunctional traumaDissociationGriefNervous system responses Long-term effects of dysfunctional environmentsI also share how suppression can silently impact our relationships, emotional health, self-worth, and ability to feel safe long after the traumatic experience has ended. This conversation is raw, reflective, educational, and compassionate for anyone who has ever questioned their healing journey because certain memories still affect them. If you’ve ever felt ashamed for still grieving, still processing, or still feeling emotional about what you survived, this episode is for you. Healing is not becoming unaffected. Healing is becoming honest. Listen, share, and join the conversation. Connect with Me: ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ Work with Me: ⁠⁠⁠Schedule a Consultation with Me Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠View Coaching Packages & Products⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join HCC Today!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Become a HCC Partner Today!⁠⁠⁠ Resources on Inner Healing & Personal Growth: ⁠Journey to Finding Me: A Unique Path to Self-Discovery⁠⁠Life After Betrayal: How to Heal, Forgive & Move On⁠⁠Beloved: Experiencing God as Abba in a Fatherless Generation⁠⁠Woman Heal: What Happened to You May Not Be Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Responsibility⁠⁠How to Love Yourself When Life Keeps Hurting You ⁠⁠How to Talk So Your Partner Will Listen⁠⁠Love Beyond Labels: A Guide for Couples⁠ #HealingConversations #InnerHealingJourney #EmotionalAwareness #RewritingYourStory

  8. May 18

    EP 147 | 3 Hidden Blockages That Hinder Emotional Healing

    In today’s episode, I’m talking about the hidden blockages that silently interfere with emotional healing and keep so many people stuck in cycles they don’t even realize they’re carrying. I break down 3 emotional blockages that can stifle healing, how they show up in everyday life, and practical strategies to begin working through them. This episode is honest, reflective, educational, and full of real conversation that I believe so many people need right now. Connect with Carla: ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ ⁠YouTube⁠ ⁠Visit Carla's Website⁠ ⁠Schedule a Consultation⁠ #healingconversations #soulcare #Innerhealingjourney #emotionalawareness

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Healing Conversations with Carla is a biweekly podcast for people who are ready to slow down, get honest, and look at the patterns shaping how they live, love, lead, and see themselves. Through real-life stories and conversations about culture, faith, relationships, entrepreneurship, identity, and everyday life, Coach Carla asks the questions that help you make sense of what you're carrying, challenge old beliefs, and course-correct without judgment. Pull up a chair. Let's talk. 🌱

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  • Creator
    Carla R. Cannon-Lawrence
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    152
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Carla R. Cannon-Lawrence
  • Show Website
    Healing Conversations with Carla