For The Love Of Men Podcast

Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
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The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

  1. 5D AGO

    #128: Stop Dating the Checklist

    Dating can start to feel confusing when attraction keeps pulling you toward the same kinds of outcomes, even when you know you want something deeper. In this episode, we slow the conversation down and look at what attraction is really pointing to beneath the surface. We talk about the difference between chasing a checklist and recognizing character, and why many women find themselves drawn to qualities that do not actually create the relationship they want.  In this episode, we discuss: - The difference between attraction to outcomes versus attraction to character and principles - Why focusing only on conventional attractiveness can cause you to miss emotionally available partners - How attraction can grow through emotional safety, integrity, and shared values - The concept of limerence and how it can distort attraction signals - Why instant chemistry is not always a reliable indicator of compatibility - The role of nervous system safety in attraction and connection - Moving out of transactional dating patterns and into value based connection #ForTheLoveOfMenPodcast #DatingWithIntention #FeminineEnergy #MasculineEnergy #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalAvailability #ConsciousDating #AttractionPsychology #RelationshipGrowth #SecureAttachment Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

    40 min

  2. JAN 30

    #127: Why Healthy Masculine Energy Might Still Feel Uncomfortable

    This conversation is for the woman who’s been doing the inner work, building her standards, and calling in something real… but still feels caught off guard when it finally arrives. We’re talking about what it takes to actually receive a relationship that feels safe, healthy, and grounded in mutual respect, and how to recognize when old patterns might be trying to protect you from something that’s no longer a threat.  We Talk About: Why emotional availability in men can feel destabilizing at first How polarity teachings sometimes oversimplify real human intimacy The skills women need to hold a man’s vulnerability without bracing Why emotionally mature men do want to be seen and witnessed How to support a masculine partner without overfunctioning What the “ick” actually signals, and how to alchemize itContainment and self-regulation as a feminine leadership skill Ways to create safety in yourself so you can be a safe space for others How to align with the kind of love and depth you actually desire #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #nervoussystemhealing #secureattachment #healthyrelationships #innerwork #datingwithintention #emotionallyavailablemen Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

    32 min

  3. JAN 16

    #126 Situationships: The Clarity You Need To Avoid Them

    In this episode, we're talking about the complexities of situationships. Because they are so common, we need to have a real conversation about the emotional dynamics, boundaries, and the importance of clarity in relationships so people who want a long-term relationship can make the adjustments to how they approach these conversations and feel empowered to be honest about what they want and know when to exit before falling into unfulfilling relationship patterns. Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney?Connect with Bri on Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Courtney on Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow the show on Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠Looking for deeper support?Check out our Masterclasses:1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a62️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f00:00 Introduction to Situationships07:29 The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships12:24 The Role of Emotional Depth in Dating19:48 Navigating Potential in Relationships27:09 Navigating Situationships vs. Long-Term Relationships35:32 Visceral Communication and Congruence44:02 Shifting Mindsets for Healthy Relationships

    53 min

  4. JAN 9

    #125: When Boundaries Become Barriers: Finding Safety in Love Again

    In this episode, we explore the difference between isolation disguised as boundaries and true pro-social behavior that leads to meaningful connection. We unpack the pendulum swing many of us experience: from codependence and enmeshment, to hyper-independence, to finally finding healthy interdependence.  We unpack the pendulum swing many of us experience, from codependence and enmeshment, to hyper-independence, to finally finding healthy interdependence. What you will hear:- The difference between boundaries that protect growth and those that isolate - How to stay in connection while staying true to yourself - Why all relationships include inconvenience and why that isn’t a problem - What it means to be a “safe” person in relationships and community - 10+ qualities of safe, emotionally mature people (and how to cultivate them) - The role of emotional labor in how we communicate and connect - Why intimacy and feedback go hand in hand - How to ask for what you want instead of waiting to be mind-read - The art of assuming positive intent without self-abandoning - The link between safety, play, vulnerability, and deeper connection Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #emotionallyavailablemen #healingafterbreakup #consciousrelationships #healthyboundaries #selftrustjourney #datingwithclarity #innerwork #relationshiphealing

    1h 3m

  5. 12/26/2025

    #124: Is It Emotional Labor or Are You Just Overfunctioning Again?

    You’ve probably heard the advice: “Set him up to win.” But what happens when that feels a little too close to overfunctioning, or like you’re sliding back into old patterns of caretaking, controlling, or doing too much? In this episode, we unpack what emotional labor really is, how it gets tangled up with the mental load and relational leadership, and why so many women feel like they’re carrying the entire emotional weight of the relationship while still craving deeper connection. We share what healthy emotional contribution actually looks like, where the line lives between giving and self-abandonment, and how to stay connected to your feminine energy while allowing space for healthy masculine energy to meet you. We talk about: - The difference between emotional labor, mental load, and overfunctioning - How to stop disappearing in the name of “keeping the peace” - Why healthy men may not be stepping in the way you want them to, and what’s actually going on under the surface - How your body might still be bracing for disappointment, even when your mind says you’re ready for more - Why it’s not about leaning back or leaning in, but about holding your seat in the relationship - How to communicate what you really need without performing, shrinking, or overexplaining - Why your capacity to receive is just as important as your desire to give - How good, grounded men are already doing emotional labor, and how to recognize it when you see it - What it looks like to build a relationship where both people are invested, emotionally available, and respected Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #masculinemen #emotionallabor #healingrelationships #secureattachment #datingintentionally #healthyrelationships #emotionalintimacy #relationshiphealing

    49 min

  6. 12/05/2025

    #123: The Inner Work After the Breakup

    At this point, it’s no longer about your ex or the pain, but about how you show up now. You’ve cried, processed, journaled, and talked it out. So what next? In this conversation, we talk about the shift from overthinking to embodiment, how to stop performing your boundaries and start living them, and why the kind of love you are calling in, especially from an emotionally available grounded masculine man, can only find you when you are fully being yourself. If you have ever wondered whether you are healed enough to try again, or if high standards mean being alone forever, or if you are the reason things keep ending, we are talking about it all, today! What we cover in this episode - The final layer of breakup recovery no one talks about - How to tell if your boundaries are embodied or just rehearsed - Letting go of self-blame without letting yourself off the hook - The grief of almost relationships and why they sting so much - Feminine energy as a way of being, not something you perform - The quiet confidence that attracts emotionally available men - How to build nervous system capacity for deep mutual love - Why being fully yourself is the most magnetic thing you can do - The difference between real clarity and lingering fear - What it actually means to feel safe being seen again Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f #feminineenergy #masculinemen #breakuphealing #emotionalmaturity #doingtheinnerwork #selftrust #attachmenthealing #nervoussystemhealing #consciousrelationships #emotionallyavailablemen

    53 min

  7. 11/21/2025

    #122: Breakups: The Inner Work (Phase 2)

    Breakups are rarely just about what ended. They often reflect who we were trying to be, what we ignored, and how we hadn’t yet learned to choose ourselves. In this episode, we walk you through the healing phase. The moment when clarity starts to return and the urge to label your ex as the problem either keeps you stuck or becomes the entry point to real growth. What We Discuss: - How to recognize a capacity mismatch in relationships - The difference between incompatibility and emotional immaturity - Why “almost” relationships can feel the hardest to release - The nervous system’s role in who we’re drawn to - Healthy accountability vs self-blame after a breakup - What it means to embody your feminine energy after loss - How emotionally available masculine men are drawn to women doing this kind of healing work Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

    44 min

  8. 11/07/2025

    #121: Before You Say “If I’m Too Much, Go Find Less”… Listen to This

    This episode is for the woman learning how to soften without shrinking. For the man who wants to show up in his healthy masculine energy but isn’t sure how to respond when emotions run high. We’re having a real conversation about what it means to be seen, heard, and felt without losing connection. We explore how to communicate from self-awareness instead of defense, and how to create relationships that feel safe and expressive for both the feminine and masculine. We talk about: The thin line between authenticity and reactivity How self-protection can sound a lot like empowerment but push away masculine men The loop between women who overexpress and men who under-respond The impact of feminine energy when it’s expressed clearly, not chaoticallyHow to connect from your truth while still making space for emotional safety Want to work with Bri and/or Courtney? Connect with Bri on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@buildingbricoaching⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Courtney on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@courtney_schand⁠⁠⁠ Follow the show on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thefortheloveofmenpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Check out our website:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.fortheloveofmenpodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ Looking for deeper support? Check out our Masterclasses: 1️⃣ What Your Woman Wants Emotionally And How to Provide It: Unlock the secrets to fulfilling your partner emotionally! Join the Masterclass! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/767199b5-47dd-4b08-a405-2854480607a6 2️⃣ Creating More Emotional Intimacy: Learn the art of building emotional safety for your Masculine partner! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/344d8ff0-6c7f-4d83-909c-b1da3e4d2a1b 3️⃣ Navigating Triggers in an Empowered Way: Transform your response to triggers and cultivate empowerment! https://9803apykilombg2reyim.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/764d6284-6af5-456e-928f-14554f56c17f

    35 min
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The intention of this show is to bring together men and women in harmony and honor each other's masculine and feminine energetic cores in a polarized healthy, thriving relationship.

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  • Creator
    Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    126
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Courtney Schand & Brianna Mosher
  • Show Website
    For The Love Of Men Podcast