Unlikely Housewives: Real Talk For Worn Out Christian Women

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Feeling like a frazzled, coffee-reheating, “I’ve got this” mom who’s actually barely holding it together? You’re not alone. Welcome to Unlikely Housewives — the Christian mom podcast where two real women (and moms) trade people-pleasing for freedom, self-care for soul-care, and “the hustle” for a life of purpose. Tracy and Tori are Christian moms who met after moving their families across the country and realized they were both faking it, lonely, and tired of comparison. We’re recovering people-pleasers and straight shooters who believe God calls the unlikely — and that you were made for more than just surviving motherhood, marriage, and the daily grind. On this show, we talk real about: Christian parenting with purpose (and the mess that comes with it)Marriage, faith, and the hard conversations no one wants to haveWomen’s health, emotional baggage, and ditching cultural liesHow to stop pretending and start living with hope as a Christian momIf you’re a busy, isolated Christian mom looking for encouragement, laughter, and a reminder that you’re not alone — this is your tribe. Pull up those high-waisted yoga pants, tighten your top knot, reheat your coffee (again), and let’s rise together in faith, motherhood, and marriage. Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives

  1. 21h ago

    Why You Keep Having the Same Fight in Your Marriage | EP 173

    It’s not the laundry. It’s feeling like you have to notice it, remember it, and ask—then wondering why the person you love most doesn’t seem to see what you’re carrying. You love your husband. But you can love him and still feel lonely, frustrated, or tired of having the same conversation. Those feelings can be hard to admit, especially when you feel pressure to be a patient, gracious Christian wife who shouldn’t need to ask for more. This week we welcome Dr. Ricky Arenson for an honest, humor-filled conversation about the misunderstandings underneath recurring marriage conflicts. Together, we explore what happens when one spouse wants to talk and the other withdraws, when support turns into unwanted solutions, and when family life leaves little room to connect. The question underneath: Is this really about the unfinished task—or about wanting to feel seen, understood, and on the same team? “The same old fight may be pointing to something you haven’t been able to say or hear yet.” You don’t have to solve your whole marriage today. Start by getting curious about what’s underneath, telling the truth with care, and taking the next healthy step. “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” — James 1:19, NIV Meet Our GuestDr. Ricky Arenson is an endocrinologist, geriatrician, author, educator, and speaker based in Melbourne, Australia. In this episode, he draws on his clinical and teaching experience to discuss relationships, parenting, and human behavior. His books include Why Couples Drive Each Other Crazy, Spaceship Parenting, and Cracking the God Code. Find him at drrickyaaronson.com or look for his books on Amazon. ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

  2. Oct 6

    Why Self-Care Is Making You More Overwhelmed | EP 172

    What if your self-care routine is not actually caring for you? What if it is quietly becoming another job—another list to manage, another set of rules to follow, another place to spend money, and another way to feel like you are falling behind? Christian women often feel pressure to hide how exhausted they really are. We can say “I’m fine,” keep showing up, take care of everyone else, and still privately wonder why we are so tired—even while trying to do all the “right” things. Drink more water. Eat more protein. Take the supplements. Move your body. Get sunlight. Journal. Pray. Go to therapy. Sleep eight hours. Keep the house clean. Be present for your family. Stay grateful. And somehow do it all peacefully. No wonder we feel overwhelmed. In this episode, we are talking about the quiet pressure so many women carry: the belief that taking care of ourselves has to look productive, perfectly consistent, and Instagram-worthy. From supplement drawers and complicated routines to decision fatigue, guilt, and the pressure to “fix” every part of our lives, we are naming the wellness overwhelm that often goes unspoken. This is your permission slip to stop treating wellness like a performance. You do not need to become a more optimized woman to be worthy of care. You are allowed to have limits. You are allowed to seek help. You are allowed to choose the kind of care that helps in this season—even if it looks like an easy dinner, paper plates, a walk without turning it into a workout, going to bed before the dishes are done, or simply saying, “I don’t have the capacity for that right now.” Matthew 11:28–30: “Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take up my yoke and learn from me, because I am lowly and humble” ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives ⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

  3. Sep 29

    How to Stop Rescuing Your Kids Without Feeling Like a Bad Mom | EP 171

    How to Stop Rescuing Your Kids Without Feeling Like a Bad Mom An Unspoken conversation with parenting educator Jody Hill What if the hardest part of letting your child struggle is not their discomfort—but what it makes you believe about yourself as a mom? When your child gets a bad grade, misses a deadline, loses playing time, has friendship drama, or simply has to face a consequence, it can activate the thought Christian women often feel pressure to hide: “If I were a better mom, I would have prevented this.” In this week’s Unspoken conversation, parenting educator, bestselling author, and self-described “parent sidekick” Jody Hill helps us unpack the rescue reflex—the urge to jump in, fix it, email the teacher, smooth over the problem, or carry the consequence for our kids. Not because we do not love them, but often because their struggle feels personal to us. Jody offers a more hopeful path: be your child’s champion, not their savior. You can stay close, validate that something is hard, coach them through the next step, and still allow them room to build the confidence that comes only from doing hard things themselves. “Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” — James 1:4 (NIV) This verse is not permission to enjoy our children’s pain or leave them alone in it. It is a reminder that perseverance has a purpose. When we remove every obstacle, consequence, and uncomfortable feeling, we may interrupt the very process through which our children develop resilience, maturity, and trust in God. Your child’s struggle is not proof that you are failing. They need your love, guidance, and steady presence. But they also need the space—with your support—to discover that they can do hard things. Before you rush in this week, pause and ask: “Do they need me to fix this—or do they need me to believe they can take the next step?” Find Jody Hill on Instagram at @JodyHillParenting. Learn more about her book, The Parent’s Secret Superpower: 7 Simple Strategies to Raise Confident, Capable Kids With the Power of Your Words, and download her confidence “boosters and busters” resource at mysecretsuperpower.com. ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

  4. Sep 22

    3 Emotions Hiding Behind "I'm Fine" | EP 170

    You say "I'm fine" so often you almost believe it. But behind those two words is a woman carrying anger she renamed "being direct," sadness she buried under a packed calendar, and fear she disguised as "just being prepared." And if you're a Christian woman, the pressure to keep it together is even heavier — because nice Christian women aren't supposed to be angry, jealous, or overwhelmed. We're supposed to trust the Lord and be grateful. So we pray the polished prayer. "Thank you, Lord, I'm so grateful." While inside we're thinking: Why did that fall through? I'm scared. I'm disappointed. I'm exhausted. Here's the surprise: Jesus felt every one of those emotions. He wept knowing He was about to raise Lazarus. He felt righteous anger, deep sorrow, anguish, and compassion — all without sin. So why do we keep bringing God the edited version of ourselves? In this episode, we're naming the three emotions Christian women feel the most pressure to hide — anger, sadness, and fear — and the masks we give them so we don't have to admit they're there. Because buried emotions don't disappear. They show up as a fight about the dishwasher. They show up as the nightly glass of wine that used to be occasional. They show up as the sarcasm you think is just your personality. It's time to stop renaming what you're feeling and start naming it. Feel it. Name it. Bring it to God. In this episode: • The three patterns every woman falls into: communicating, concealing, and controlling — and why controlling is the sneakiest • The emotions Christian women feel the most pressure to hide: anger, sadness, and fear • How childhood messages like "stop crying" and "you're too sensitive" shaped the way you handle emotions now • Why your coping mechanism — wine, Netflix, organizing, sarcasm — is lying to you • The polished prayer vs. the unfiltered heart: why God doesn't need the edited version of you • What Jesus's emotions teach us about our own Faith Anchor: Psalm 62:8 — "Pour out your hearts before Him. God is a refuge for us." This week's question: What's the emotion you've been renaming instead of feeling?  If this episode hit home, go back and listen to: • For the One...Who Feels Shame • For the One...Who Is Grieving Visit us at unlikelyhousewivesofjoco.com ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives

  5. Sep 15

    Why “Choose Joy” Isn’t Working When Life Gets Hard | EP 169

    What if the fear you keep trying to hide is not proof that your faith is failing? In this week’s Unspoken conversation, we sit down with author, former cardiac nurse, and cancer survivor Jenna Schutt to talk about the things many Christian women feel pressure to keep quiet: anxiety, fear, mom guilt, exhaustion, disappointment, and the ache of trying to look “fine” when life feels anything but. After being diagnosed at 30 with a rare, incurable bone-marrow disease—while raising two boys in diapers—Jenna learned that knowing the right Bible verses is not always the same as knowing how to access faith when fear hits. Through chemotherapy, a stem-cell transplant, and long hospital stays, she discovered what she calls the Joy Reflex: training faith, peace, and joy to become a first response rather than a last resort. This is not a conversation about toxic positivity, ignoring painful circumstances, or pretending every hard moment is okay. It is an invitation to name what is really happening beneath the surface—and then choose truth over the fear trying to take the lead. You do not have to cover your fear with a smile, a spiritual cliché, or an “I’m fine.” You can acknowledge that life is hard. You can feel scared. You can admit you are overwhelmed. And you can still choose not to let fear lead you. As Jenna says, “Faith doesn’t deny the reality that you’re in, but it does determine how you’re going to walk in that reality.” Follow Jenna and learn more about the Joy Reflex: Website: https://www.jennaschutt.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejoyreflex/?hl=enBook/resources: Joy Reflex Training Guide jenna-schutt-7kfmcu.subscribepage.io Youversion Bible Plan: Anchor Before Panic: A 3 Day Peace Practice  http://bible.us/r/JoZ ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

  6. Sep 8

    You Keep Saying “I’m Fine”—But What Are You Really Carrying? | EP 168

    “I’m fine” is often the quickest answer—and sometimes the heaviest one. Because behind “fine” can be the grief you cannot explain, the resentment you feel guilty admitting, the endless mental list you cannot turn off, the fear you are holding for your children, or the pressure to keep everyone else okay. In our first episode of our Unspoken season, we are talking about the things Christian women often feel pressure to hide: the overwhelm, the sadness, the anxiety, the loneliness, the questions, and the emotions that do not seem “faithful enough” to say out loud. But here is the truth: God already knows what you are carrying. You do not have to have the perfect words. You do not have to tell everyone everything. And you do not have to keep holding it all by yourself. This conversation is an invitation to pause, look inward, and ask: What am I carrying that no one knows about? From there, we can begin to name what is heavy, bring it honestly to Jesus, and take one small step from hiding to healing. In This EpisodeWhy “I’m fine,” “I’m good,” and “I’m busy” can be such loaded responses.The invisible mental and emotional load so many women carry for their families.How grief can show up long after the loss—and in moments you do not expect.Why unspoken burdens can affect our bodies, reactions, relationships, and thoughts.The fear behind naming what is hard: What will people think of me? Will this land safely?Why you do not need to broadcast your pain to begin healing.How to bring your real thoughts, emotions, questions, and burdens to God.The value of safe, trusted community that can pray, listen, and gently say, “Are you sure you’re fine?”A simple prayer prompt for when you feel overwhelmed but do not yet know why.Share This EpisodeKnow a woman who looks like she is holding it all together but may be carrying more than she says? Send her this episode and remind her: she does not have to be “fine” to be loved, seen, or held by God. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

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    Season 6 Trailer

    What if “I’m fine” is not the truth? Maybe you are not lazy. Maybe you are not failing. Maybe you are not ungrateful for the life God has given you. Maybe you are simply carrying more than you were meant to carry alone. Here’s a snapshot of our new Unspoken season, where we are naming the things Christian women often feel pressure to hide: the emotional exhaustion beneath the full calendar, the quiet doubt behind the faithful smile, the fear of rejection, and the relentless pressure to be enough as a mom, wife, friend, and woman of faith. You can still show up for everyone, get the kids where they need to go, keep the house moving, serve at church, answer the texts, and look “fine” from the outside—while feeling emotionally and mentally depleted inside. And sometimes, instead of acknowledging what hurts, we get busier. We take on more. We keep moving because slowing down might mean admitting that something feels too heavy. This conversation is not about shame, fixing yourself, or telling the whole world your deepest struggles. It is an invitation to pause, tell the truth about what has gone unspoken, and bring it honestly to Jesus. “This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all… But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another…” — 1 John 1:5–7 What have you been carrying quietly that you can bring into the light with God this week? You do not have to explain every detail publicly. You do not have to have perfect words. But you can begin with honesty: Jesus, this is what I have been holding. I need You here. If this episode spoke to the exhaustion or pressure you have been carrying, add these episodes to your queue: Episode 107: Rest Must Be Stronger Than ExhaustionEpisode 9: You Actually Are a Good Mom; Don’t Fall for the Shame & GuiltIf this conversation encouraged you, share it with a woman who may be tired of pretending she is fine. And be sure to follow, rate, and review The Unlikely Housewives wherever you listen. ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

  8. Aug 18

    What Nobody Tells You About Hormones | EP 167

    You can look like you’re holding it all together and still be running on empty. For so many Christian women, the pressure to be grateful, capable, selfless, and strong can make it hard to admit what’s really happening beneath the surface: the exhaustion, hormone chaos, stress, extra weight, painful symptoms, coping habits, and the quiet fear that your body is failing you. In this honest conversation, Dr. Tabatha—a triple board-certified physician, faith-based women’s health expert, speaker, and bestselling author—invites us to stop faking fine and start bringing our whole selves to God. She shares her own story of burnout, chronic pain, and surrender, along with a faith-centered perspective on caring for our bodies as the vessels God created them to be. Your body is not broken—and you do not have to keep carrying the burden alone. Connect with Dr. Tabatha: Dr. Tabatha Barber Website Gutsydrtabatha Instagram ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts? PodMatch is the place you need to be. Join here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/unlikelyhousewives  🧖‍♀️Sunlighten Sauna Sponsor: https://get.sunlighten.com/unlikely  Save up to $1700! 🗣️Join our community on Facebook and connect with us on Instagram!  💙 Support the Unlikely Housewives!  Represent with our UH Merch! bit.ly/unlikelymerch   🎙️Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives ⭐️Write an apple review and YOUR review could be read on our next episode!  🇺🇸Hosted by Tori Shirah and Tracy Stine 💌Contact us ➡️ UnlikelyJoCo@gmail.com

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Feeling like a frazzled, coffee-reheating, “I’ve got this” mom who’s actually barely holding it together? You’re not alone. Welcome to Unlikely Housewives — the Christian mom podcast where two real women (and moms) trade people-pleasing for freedom, self-care for soul-care, and “the hustle” for a life of purpose. Tracy and Tori are Christian moms who met after moving their families across the country and realized they were both faking it, lonely, and tired of comparison. We’re recovering people-pleasers and straight shooters who believe God calls the unlikely — and that you were made for more than just surviving motherhood, marriage, and the daily grind. On this show, we talk real about: Christian parenting with purpose (and the mess that comes with it)Marriage, faith, and the hard conversations no one wants to haveWomen’s health, emotional baggage, and ditching cultural liesHow to stop pretending and start living with hope as a Christian momIf you’re a busy, isolated Christian mom looking for encouragement, laughter, and a reminder that you’re not alone — this is your tribe. Pull up those high-waisted yoga pants, tighten your top knot, reheat your coffee (again), and let’s rise together in faith, motherhood, and marriage. Want to be a guest on Unlikely Housewives? Send Tori Shirah a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/unlikelyhousewives

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