Walking on Eggshells and Not Feeling Safe in Your Own Home as a Stepmum

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In this powerful and rarely spoken-about episode, Katie talks to Jackie — a mum to one and stepmum to two — about what it’s really like to live in a home where you don’t feel safe.

Jackie shares how, after repeated incidents of her stepson stealing from her, she reached a point where she had to lock her bedroom door and live in constant vigilance. What followed were years of anxiety, hyper-awareness, confusion and emotional exhaustion — all while trying to hold the family together and protect her own child.

Together, Katie and Jackie explore:

• what it feels like when your home doesn’t feel like yours
• the emotional toll of living in survival mode as a stepmum
• how to set boundaries when trust has been broken
• the strain placed on your relationship when you’re constantly on edge
• the guilt stepmums carry when they don’t feel safe around a stepchild
• what healing and recovery look like after years of feeling unsafe

This is a brave, honest and validating conversation for any stepmum who has ever quietly struggled behind closed doors. Jackie’s story is a reminder that your experiences are real, your safety matters, and you’re not alone.

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