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My name is Dustin Kelly, but everybody calls me DJ. I am former Army, serving as both a Forward Observer and a Military Police Officer. I have spent the last 16.5 years as a Police Officer and Detective in a large metropolitan Police Department. Throughout my career I have learned two things. 1. Everybody has a story to tell, and 2. The Best Stories Are True. This is the DTD Podcast.

  1. JAN 22

    Episode 186: Colonel Dave Lucas "A Green Beret Normalizing the Experience of War"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to Dave Lucas and His Background 03:37 Growing Up in a Military Family 06:39 The Decision to Join the Army 09:12 The Importance of Service and Sacrifice 11:50 Navigating Family Dynamics in Military Life 15:00 Communication as a Key to Marriage Success 17:30 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life 20:07 The Impact of 9/11 on Military Aspirations 22:50 Pursuing a Career in Special Forces 38:09 Transitioning to Big Army 41:33 Deployment to Iraq: The Unexpected Journey 45:02 First Combat Experience: Emotions and Realities 48:33 The Weight of Leadership in Combat 52:13 Love, Sacrifice, and Commitment 57:03 Changing Perspectives: From Hope to Disillusionment 01:00:53 Memorable Moments: Best and Worst Days in Iraq 01:07:41 The Call to Special Operations: A New Path 01:13:26 Facing New Fears in the Ranger Regiment 01:14:44 The Transition from College to Combat 01:17:00 Deciding to Join Special Forces 01:18:38 The Challenges of Leaving the Ranger Regiment 01:20:49 Adapting to Special Forces Missions 01:23:22 Understanding the Evolving Nature of Combat 01:25:30 Normalizing the Experience of War 01:28:29 The Role of Experience in Leadership 01:33:28 Reflections on Deployment Experiences 01:36:56 Personal Growth Through Leadership 01:41:11 Finding Balance and Understanding Loss 01:44:15 Commitment and Future Aspirations 01:48:51 Closing Remarks and Call to Action -SUMMARY- In this episode of the DTD podcast, host DJ engages in a deep conversation with Lieutenant Colonel Dave Lucas, who shares his remarkable journey through 27 years in the military, primarily in special operations. The discussion covers Dave's family background in the military, his decision to join, the importance of service and sacrifice, and the challenges of balancing family life with military duties. They reflect on the emotional toll of deployment, the impact of 9/11 on military careers, and the complexities of love and commitment in the face of danger. The conversation highlights the significance of communication in military families and the drive to serve one's country. In this conversation, the speaker reflects on their military career, discussing the emotional complexities of combat, the evolution of their leadership style, and the importance of commitment to service. They share personal experiences from deployments, the challenges faced in Iraq, and the transition to special operations. The discussion highlights the weight of responsibility in leadership roles, the normalization of combat experiences, and the significance of understanding the sacrifices made by service members. -TAKEAWAYS- Dave Lucas shares his family background in the military. He discusses the decision to join the military despite parental concerns. The importance of service and sacrifice is emphasized throughout the conversation. Dave reflects on the emotional toll of deployment on military families. He highlights the significance of communication in maintaining relationships during deployments. The impact of 9/11 on military careers is a pivotal moment in the discussion. Dave shares his experiences transitioning from military to civilian life. The conversation touches on the complexities of love and commitment in military life. Dave expresses the feeling of responsibility towards his team and family. He reflects on the personal growth and lessons learned throughout his military career. The emotional complexities of combat can shape one's perspective. Leadership evolves through experience and reflection. Normalizing combat experiences can impact mental health. Commitment to service requires putting others before oneself. Understanding the sacrifices of military service is crucial for society. The Ranger Regiment fosters a culture of excellence and accountability. Transitioning to special operations presents new challenges and responsibilities. Experiences in Iraq highlight the realities of war and its

    1h 49m

  2. JAN 15

    Episode 185: JT Moracco "Green Beret" Combat Experience:The Best Version of Myself

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to JT Moracco's Journey 06:56 Childhood Challenges and Resilience 12:49 Navigating Abuse and Trust Issues 18:51 The Role of Faith and Spirituality 24:49 The Influence of a Strong Mother 41:19 Pursuing a Path to Financial Security 49:02 The Impact of 9/11 on Personal Motivation 57:01 Recognizing Flaws in Role Models 01:08:48 Transitioning to Special Operations 01:17:13 Balancing Family and Military Life 01:22:10 The Pressure of Performance 01:28:25 The Weight of Responsibility 01:34:03 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Destruction 01:40:55 The Cycle of Avoidance 01:47:03 The Impact of Past Experiences 01:55:50 Military Culture and Mental Health 02:03:39 Transitioning Roles in Combat Operations 02:09:07 Personal Reflections on Grief and Guilt 02:15:23 Facing Physical and Mental Health Challenges 02:20:32 The Struggle with Substance Use 02:29:36 Reprioritizing Life and Mental Health 02:39:49 CONCLUSION Summary In this episode, JT Moracco shares his profound journey from a challenging childhood marked by trauma to a successful military career. He discusses the physical and mental toll of military service, the importance of resilience, and the impact of his upbringing on his personal growth. JT reflects on his experiences in combat, the challenges of transitioning from big army to special operations, and the lessons learned along the way. His story is one of overcoming adversity, finding purpose, and ultimately, healing. This conversation delves into the complexities of balancing military duty with family life, the mental health challenges faced during and after deployments, and the impact of loss on personal and professional growth. The speaker shares personal experiences of coping with stress, the struggle with alcohol, and the importance of open communication in relationships. The discussion highlights the need for prioritizing mental health and the power of sharing stories to help others navigate similar challenges. -SUMMARY- In this episode, JT Moracco shares his profound journey from a challenging childhood marked by trauma to a successful military career. He discusses the physical and mental toll of military service, the importance of resilience, and the impact of his upbringing on his personal growth. JT reflects on his experiences in combat, the challenges of transitioning from big army to special operations, and the lessons learned along the way. His story is one of overcoming adversity, finding purpose, and ultimately, healing. This conversation delves into the complexities of balancing military duty with family life, the mental health challenges faced during and after deployments, and the impact of loss on personal and professional growth. The speaker shares personal experiences of coping with stress, the struggle with alcohol, and the importance of open communication in relationships. The discussion highlights the need for prioritizing mental health and the power of sharing stories to help others navigate similar challenges. -TAKEAWAYS- The military career takes a significant toll on the body. Childhood experiences shape resilience and character. Trauma can lead to suicidal ideations at a young age. Forgiveness is essential for personal growth. Finding purpose in combat can be addictive. The importance of surrounding oneself with motivated individuals. Transitioning from military life can be challenging. Mental health awareness is crucial for veterans. Childhood trauma can influence adult relationships. Resilience is built through overcoming adversity. Balancing family and duty is crucial for mental health. Mental health struggles are common during deployments. Reintegration into family life can be challenging after combat. Conflicted loyalties can arise between family and mission. Coping mechanisms like alcohol can lead to self-destruction. Childhood experiences can influence leadership styles. Military culture often stigmatizes mental health discussions.

    2h 42m

  3. JAN 8

    Episode 184: Tristan Wimmer "USMC Scout/Sniper"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to the Journey 03:50 Family Legacy and Military Background 06:00 The Impact of Traumatic Brain Injury 10:31 Brotherly Competition and Changes 14:26 The Effects of Military Training 17:43 Experiencing Combat and Its Aftermath 23:10 Guilt and Responsibility 28:48 Altruism and Personal Growth 32:27 Reflections on Military Service 39:50 Decisions and Consequences in the Marine Corps 46:14 The Aftermath of Injury: Accountability and Guilt 55:57 Navigating Mental Health: A Brother's Decline 01:07:00 The Impact of Relationships on Personal Struggles 01:13:01 Confronting the Reality of Suicide 01:21:16 The Breaking Point: A Brother's Struggle 01:24:42 Guilt and Regret: The Weight of Decisions 01:28:39 The Final Straw: Understanding the Tragedy 01:33:06 The Aftermath: Coping with Loss and Anger 01:39:00 Forgiveness and Healing: A Journey Forward 01:42:10 22 Jumps: A Mission to Honor and Heal -SUMMARY- In this conversation, DJ and Tristan explore the profound impact of military service on mental health, particularly focusing on the experiences of veterans dealing with traumatic brain injuries and the consequences of military culture. The discussion delves into the familial legacy of military service, the evolution of brotherly relationships, and the struggles of transitioning to civilian life. The guest shares personal anecdotes about his brother's journey, the challenges faced after injury, and the importance of accountability within the military. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the need for support systems and the role of altruism in healing and finding purpose after loss. This conversation delves into the complexities of transitioning from military service to contracting, the impact of personal relationships on decision-making, and the challenges of dealing with family mental health issues. Tristan shares his journey of navigating the loss of a loved one, the guilt associated with their decisions, and the importance of advocating for traumatic brain injury research. The discussion culminates in the establishment of '22 Jumps', an organization aimed at honoring veterans and supporting mental health initiatives. -TAKEAWAYS- Military service is often a family tradition. Traumatic brain injuries can have lasting effects. Brotherly competition can evolve into something darker. The military culture can amplify aggressive behaviors. Transitioning to civilian life is a significant challenge. Accountability in the military is crucial for healing. Adventure sports can provide a sense of purpose. Guilt can linger after a loved one's injury. Support systems are essential for veterans. Finding purpose after loss is a vital part of recovery. The transition from military to contracting can be purely transactional. Financial incentives often outweigh patriotic motivations in contracting. Relationships can significantly influence personal and professional decisions. Mental health struggles in families can create complex dynamics. It's challenging to help someone who refuses assistance. Guilt and regret are common feelings after losing a loved one. Public embarrassment can be a significant trigger for mental health crises. Forgiveness is a process that can lead to personal growth. Advocacy for traumatic brain injury research is crucial for veterans. Grassroots efforts can lead to substantial fundraising success.

    1h 59m

  4. 12/31/2024

    Episode 183: TJ Webb "The Gunfight: A Life-Changing Moment"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 A Day That Changed Everything 02:08 The Journey of Officer T.J. Webb 03:59 From Summer Cop to Full-Time Officer 06:54 Finding My Calling in Law Enforcement 11:55 Navigating Challenges in Milford 15:10 The Path to K-9 Officer 20:25 Building a Bond with My K-9 Partner 25:35 The Heartbreak of Losing Hank 30:55 Coping with Loss and Finding Direction 35:15 A New Chapter in the Drug Unit 37:28 Navigating Department Dynamics 39:54 Transitioning to the Marshall Task Force 41:09 The Power of Teamwork 44:18 Prioritizing Cases in High-Stakes Environments 46:07 The Role of Fate in Law Enforcement 51:21 The Night of the Incident 59:31 The Gunfight: A Life-Changing Moment 01:08:38 The Aftermath of the Incident 01:12:21 The Drive to the Hospital 01:16:27 Mental Resilience in Crisis 01:20:19 Focus on Family and Recovery 01:24:10 Navigating Investigations and Pressures 01:28:32 The Emotional Toll of the Job 01:31:02 Facing Reality on Christmas Eve 01:36:02 A Turning Point: David Goggins' Call 01:40:14 Confronting the Past 01:44:00 The Role of Physical Therapy 01:44:59 Setting High Standards for Oneself 01:50:07 Pushing Through Pain and Adversity 01:53:03 Advocating for Change: The Fight for Fairness 01:59:36 Facing Retirement: Fear and New Beginnings 02:07:57 Lessons Learned: Family, Friends, and Self-Discovery 02:13:56 The Fit for Duty Foundation: Supporting First Responders -SUMMARY- In this episode, Officer T.J. Webb shares his harrowing journey from a near-fatal shooting to his recovery and return to law enforcement. He discusses his early career, the challenges he faced in Milford, and the deep bond he formed with his K-9 partner, Hank. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of losing Hank and the impact of trauma on his mental health, ultimately leading to a new role in the drug unit. The conversation delves into the experiences of a law enforcement officer as he navigates the complexities of departmental dynamics, transitions to the Marshall Task Force, and reflects on the importance of teamwork. The officer shares insights on prioritizing cases in high-stakes environments, the role of fate in law enforcement, and the life-changing events of a specific incident involving a gunfight. The discussion highlights the challenges and realities of police work, emphasizing the emotional and psychological aspects of the job. In this segment, the conversation delves into the aftermath of a traumatic incident involving a police shooting. The speaker reflects on the chaotic moments following the event, the drive to the hospital, and the mental resilience required to cope with the situation. Themes of family support, the emotional toll of investigations, and the importance of confronting past trauma are explored. The speaker shares a pivotal moment when he received a motivational call from David Goggins, which served as a turning point in his recovery journey. The role of physical therapy and the significance of facing fears head-on are also discussed, highlighting the speaker's determination to reclaim his life and overcome adversity. In this conversation, the speaker shares his journey of resilience and self-discovery after a life-altering event. He discusses the importance of setting high personal standards, the role of pain in recovery, and the advocacy for fair treatment of injured officers. The conversation also delves into the challenges of retirement, the lessons learned about family and friendship, and the establishment of the Fit for Duty Foundation to support first responders' mental and physical health. -TAKEAWAYS- Officer T.J. Webb faced life-threatening injuries during an arrest warrant. His recovery was marked by determination and resilience. The book he wrote aims to inspire others facing setbacks. He started his career as a summer cop with limited powers. Webb's journey reflects the challenges of fitting into a police department. His bond with his K-9 partner, Hank, was profound and life-changing.

    2h 18m

  5. 12/18/2024

    Episode 182: Rich Cullen "Green Beret, Special Activities, Punk Rocker"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to Rich Cullen and His Background 02:52 Journey to Europe: A Punk Rock Adventure 05:47 From Troubled Youth to Military Service 09:11 The Transition from Punk Rock to Special Forces 11:57 Recruitment into Special Forces: A Unique Path 14:51 Life Lessons from a Troubled Past 17:46 The Reality of Combat: First Experiences 21:07 Adapting to Military Life and Combat 23:57 The Complexity of Combat and Morality 27:11 Reflections on Duty and Brotherhood 30:05 The Emotional Toll of War 32:55 Conclusion: Finding Purpose in Service 41:04 The Struggle of the Little Guy 43:02 Emotional Investment in the Chase 45:55 Lessons from the Elusive Targets 47:17 A Whirlwind Adventure in Europe 51:14 Unexpected Encounters in a War Zone 57:00 Navigating Through Chaos 01:00:01 Reflections on Military Life 01:02:23 The Impact of Deployment on Family 01:04:51 The Allure of Returning to War 01:08:03 The Complexity of War and Home Life 01:11:20 Growth Through Adversity 01:19:45 Looking Ahead: Future Aspirations -SUMMARY- In this episode, Rich Cullen shares his remarkable journey from a troubled youth in Long Beach, California, to becoming a respected figure in the Special Forces community. He discusses his punk rock roots, the challenges he faced growing up, and how those experiences shaped his military career. Rich reflects on his time in Europe, the transition to military life, and the complexities of combat, including the emotional toll it takes on soldiers. He emphasizes the importance of brotherhood and duty, while also acknowledging the moral dilemmas faced in war. In this conversation, we explore the complexities of military life, emotional investment in missions, and the impact of deployment on personal relationships. The speaker shares vivid stories from their experiences in war zones, the challenges faced while trying to help others, and the emotional toll of chasing elusive targets. The discussion also delves into the allure of returning to combat, the struggles of reintegrating into civilian life, and the lessons learned through adversity. Ultimately, the conversation reflects on personal growth and future aspirations. -TAKEAWAYS- Rich Cullen's background as a first-generation American shaped his identity. His punk rock lifestyle influenced his approach to military service. Experiences in a tough neighborhood provided valuable life lessons. Joining the military was a way to find purpose and direction. The transition from punk rock to Special Forces was unconventional but fitting. Rich's father had a significant impact on his work ethic and values. Combat experiences brought both adrenaline and moral complexities. Brotherhood in the military is a crucial aspect of service. Rich reflects on the emotional toll of prolonged combat exposure. Finding purpose in service is a recurring theme in Rich's journey. The struggle of the little guy is a constant theme. Emotional investment can lead to confusion about self-identity. Lessons learned from elusive targets can be invaluable. Unexpected adventures can lead to life-changing experiences. War zones present unique challenges and dangers. Navigating chaos requires quick thinking and adaptability. Military life significantly impacts family dynamics. Returning to war can feel easier than civilian life. Separation in relationships can lead to resentment and distance. Personal growth often comes from facing adversity.

    1h 24m

  6. 12/11/2024

    Episode 181: Bobby Tuttle "Green Beret Special Warfare Center and School"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to Special Warfare and Leadership 03:46 The Role of Storytelling in Special Operations 07:07 Investing in People: Training and Development 09:53 The Importance of Mentorship in the Community 13:08 The Evolution of Special Operations 15:59 Mentorship and the SWCS Campus 22:47 Holistic Development in Special Operations 30:46 Pride and Community in Military Training 33:37 Future of Special Operations and Recruitment 38:44 Closing -SUMMARY- In this conversation, Lieutenant Colonel Bobby Tuttle discusses the comprehensive training and development of soldiers in the Special Operations community. He emphasizes the importance of character, mental health, and physical fitness in creating effective operatives. The conversation also highlights the investment in soldiers and their families, the significance of storytelling to preserve the legacy of Special Operations, and the vital role of mentorship within the military. Tuttle shares insights on the future of Special Operations, focusing on recruitment and the need for continuous improvement in training and facilities. -TAKEAWAYS- The training aspect focuses on building strength and endurance. Mental health is crucial for decision-making in stressful environments. Investment in soldiers includes facilities and family support. Storytelling is essential to preserve the legacy of Special Operations. Mentorship is a key component of military culture. The future of Special Operations relies on attracting the right talent. Holistic health and fitness programs are being implemented. Community and family dynamics play a significant role in soldier success. Continuous improvement in training facilities is a priority. The importance of sharing stories to maintain relevance in the military.

    39 min

  7. 12/04/2024

    Episode 180: Benjamin Sledge "Civil Affairs and Psychological Operations Command"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:04 Family Influence and Military Legacy 06:13 Father's Role in AIDS Care and Compassion 12:12 Struggles with Faith and Church Disillusionment 18:49 Teenage Identity and Social Acceptance 29:58 Military Decision and Internal Conflict 36:06 Training and Preparation for War 44:47 Facing Reality: The Moment of Arrival 52:02 Beliefs and Misconceptions: Understanding the Mission 58:29 Cultural Shock: From Curiosity to Disillusionment 01:01:52 The Weight of Loss: Remembering Kyle 01:10:39 The Struggle with Purpose: Transitioning Home 01:22:02 Faith and Philosophy: Questioning Existence 01:27:22 Finding Connection: The Role of Father Rocheford 01:29:45 The Weight of War and Personal Struggles 01:38:28 The Impact of Relationships on Mental Health 01:46:39 Facing the Consequences of Past Actions 01:57:33 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing 02:08:27 The Importance of Sharing Veteran Stories -SUMMARY- In this conversation, Benjamin Sledge shares his journey from a challenging upbringing in Oklahoma to becoming a decorated combat veteran and author. He discusses the profound influence of his family, particularly his parents, on his values and choices, including his decision to join the military. Sledge reflects on his father's pioneering work as an AIDS nurse during a time of stigma and fear, and how this shaped his understanding of compassion and empathy. He also delves into his struggles with faith, identity, and the pressures of social acceptance during his teenage years, ultimately leading to a conflict between his desire for a carefree college life and the responsibilities of military service. The conversation culminates in a discussion about the importance of training and preparation for the realities of war, highlighting the internal conflicts faced by soldiers. In this segment of the conversation, the speaker reflects on their experiences in Afghanistan and Iraq, detailing the emotional and psychological challenges faced upon arrival, the disillusionment with the mission, and the impact of loss on their perspective. They explore the complexities of cultural understanding, the struggle with purpose after returning home, and the philosophical questions that arise from witnessing the brutality of war. The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and mentorship, particularly through the figure of Father Rocheford, who offers a different perspective on faith and purpose. In this conversation, Benjamin Sledge shares his profound experiences as a veteran, exploring the weight of war, the impact of relationships on mental health, and the journey of self-discovery and healing. He reflects on the importance of sharing veteran stories and the struggles of reconciling his past actions with his present self. Through candid discussions about faith, personal growth, and the challenges of life after combat, Sledge emphasizes the need for community and understanding in the healing process. -TAKEAWAYS- Philosophical reflections on the human condition arise from war experiences. The search for purpose can lead to self-destructive behavior. Mentorship plays a crucial role in navigating trauma. Faith can be questioned in the face of war's brutality. War can leave deep emotional scars that affect personal relationships. The importance of having someone to talk to about one's struggles cannot be overstated. Self-reflection is crucial in understanding one's role in past relationships. Healing often requires facing uncomfortable truths about oneself. Community support is vital for veterans dealing with trauma. Sharing stories can help bridge the gap between veterans and civilians. Faith can be a source of strength during difficult times. Acknowledging one's flaws is the first step towards personal growth. Writing can be a therapeutic outlet for processing trauma. Understanding moral injury is essential for veterans' mental health.

    2h 14m

  8. 11/27/2024

    Episode 179: Emily Lopez "Special Operations Civil Affairs"

    -CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to the Harding Project Fellowship 02:50 Major Emily Lopez's Journey and Role 06:06 The Importance of Storytelling in the Military 08:53 Bridging the Civilian-Military Divide 12:13 Modernizing Military Communication 15:08 The Future of the Special Warfare Journal 18:01 Encouraging Writing and Sharing Stories -SUMMARY- In this episode of the DTD podcast, Major Emily Lopez discusses her role as an editor for the Special Warfare Journal and the significance of storytelling within the military community. She emphasizes the importance of sharing personal experiences and insights to foster professional dialogue and bridge the gap between military and civilian perspectives. The conversation also highlights the modernization of military communication and the initiatives being implemented to encourage writing and sharing of stories among service members. -TAKEAWAYS- The Harding Project Fellowship aims to enhance military storytelling. Only individuals can share their unique experiences. Storytelling fosters authenticity and understanding in the military. Modernizing communication is essential for reaching wider audiences. The Special Warfare Journal will focus on relevant topics and stories. Encouraging writing can help bridge the civilian-military divide. The new website will facilitate access to military journals. Storytelling is crucial for recruitment and public perception. The journal will include contributions from both active and reserve forces. Engagement with the community is vital for the journal's success. Stay connected and never miss an episode by subscribing to our podcast on your favorite platform! Don't forget to hit that notification bell to be the first to know when a new episode drops. For exclusive full interviews and behind-the-scenes content, visit our official website: https://www.dtdpodcast.net/ Follow us on social media for updates, sneak peeks, and more engaging content: 🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dustin.kelly.79 🔗 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/DTDPODCAST_DJKELLY 🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/

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My name is Dustin Kelly, but everybody calls me DJ. I am former Army, serving as both a Forward Observer and a Military Police Officer. I have spent the last 16.5 years as a Police Officer and Detective in a large metropolitan Police Department. Throughout my career I have learned two things. 1. Everybody has a story to tell, and 2. The Best Stories Are True. This is the DTD Podcast.

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    DJ KELLY
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    191
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    © DJ KELLY
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