In this episode, Jamie Palmer shares personal insights and reflections as she transitions into the new lunar year, the year of the fire horse. She discusses her journey of deconditioning and setting boundaries, emphasizing the importance of creating space for personal growth and expansion. Jamie reflects on her experiences as a three-five emotional projector, highlighting the challenges and realizations she faced while implementing boundaries in her business. She notes the difference between clients who seek to extract energy and those who genuinely value her work. Jamie also discusses the significance of recognition for projectors and the importance of pursuing work that brings purpose and meaning. She encourages listeners to embrace their unique design and deconditioning process, offering guidance on how to navigate these personal and professional transformations Main Topics Covered Personal Growth and Boundaries: Jamie discusses her journey of personal growth, focusing on the importance of setting boundaries and the challenges she faced in doing so. She reflects on the reactions from others and the impact of these boundaries on her energy and business Projector Experience and Recognition: Jamie explores the nuances of being a projector, emphasizing the importance of recognition and the difference between energy-giving and energy-taking interactions. She shares her insights on how projectors can navigate relationships and business decisions Deconditioning Process: The episode delves into the concept of deconditioning, with Jamie sharing her experiences and the layers involved in this ongoing journey. She highlights the importance of embracing the process and finding meaning in the journey rather than viewing it as a destination Business and Personal Development: Jamie discusses her business strategies, including the development of new products and services like the HD or Biz Catalyst report and the Synergy chatbot. She emphasizes the importance of aligning business practices with personal design and desires Chapter Title: Introduction and Intentions Summary: Jamie Palmer introduces the podcast, sharing her intentions to discuss personal insights and reflections as she transitions into the new lunar year. She mentions her preparations for scaling her business and the foundational tasks she has been completing. Timestamps: Start: 00:02, End: 02:00 Chapter Title: Personal Retreat and Boundary Setting Summary: Jamie discusses her decision to take a break from calls during December and January, likening her experience to a lobster shedding its shell. She reflects on the importance of setting boundaries and the varied reactions she received from others. Timestamps: Start: 02:01, End: 06:00 Chapter Title: Human Design and Personal Insights Summary: Jamie explains her human design as a three five triple split projector with emotional authority. She shares insights about her personal challenges and the importance of recognition in her work, emphasizing the difference between extractive and reciprocal relationships. Timestamps: Start: 06:01, End: 12:00 Chapter Title: Patterns and Client Relationships Summary: Jamie identifies patterns in her client relationships, noting that those seeking to extract knowledge often resist boundaries. She reflects on the importance of equitable recognition and the challenges of maintaining boundaries. Timestamps: Start: 12:01, End: 18:00 Chapter Title: Decision Making and Business Strategy Summary: Jamie discusses her decision-making process, influenced by her human design, and the importance of pursuing meaningful work. She shares her approach to client selection and the necessity of marketing in her business model. Timestamps: Start: 18:01, End: 24:00 Chapter Title: Embracing Depth and Deconditioning Summary: Jamie talks about embracing depth in her work and the ongoing process of deconditioning. She shares her journey of gaining confidence and the importance of not rushing the deconditioning process. Timestamps: Start: 24:01, End: 30:00 Chapter Title: Projector Experience and Recognition Summary: Jamie reflects on the projector experience, emphasizing the need for reciprocal recognition and the challenges of being a fifth line. She discusses the importance of setting boundaries and the impact of her recent deconditioning process. Timestamps: Start: 30:01, End: 36:00 Chapter Title: Synthesis and Future Plans Summary: Jamie shares her plans for future work, including writing and sharing her synthesis. She discusses the importance of finding joy in the journey and the continuous nature of personal and business growth. Timestamps: Start: 36:01, End: 42:00 Chapter Title: Conclusion and Offerings Summary: Jamie concludes by inviting listeners to explore their own design and offers resources for further support. She highlights her Catalyst report and Synergy chatbot as tools for business development. Timestamps: Start: 42:01, End: 48:00 Visit My site: jamielpalmer.com Order your Book: https://www.jamielpalmer.com/human-design-for-business-book/ Download your chart: https://www.jamielpalmer.com/download-your-human-design-chart/ _______________________________________________________________ (00:02): Lessons from a three five emotional projector. So today's podcast is going to be a little off the cuff. I want to share some ahas in some insights and some just reflections as we step into the new lunar year, the year of the fire horse, and out of the old energy and kind of the process that I've experienced in the last few months. So one of the things that I've been doing behind the scenes is really just like dotting my i's and crossing my T's and essentially prepping to scale, prepping to expand, prepping to bring more people into my world, essentially. And I, in order to do that, I have had some foundational things, air quotes that I've needed to finish or complete or gain clarity around or establish some boundaries around or whatever it is. And so it's been a journey to say the least. (01:43): And it's really wild because one of the things that I did is that gave myself permission last year when early in early 2025, I gave myself permission to not have calls when I would have these periods of time where there'd be lots of people who didn't show up. And so around the holiday season, periods of time in the summer, and I told myself I would give myself that space. And what I didn't realize was one, this crazy journey that the house remodel that I did took me on, but conversely how much I really needed that space in December and January to just retreat and take some time to myself and essentially shed a layer. I always like to talk about the lobster when I talk about the deconditioning process in that a lobster has to get so uncomfortable in its shell that it sheds, it goes into retreat for a period of time, it grows a new shell, and then it's ready to come back into the world with other people. (03:17): And I'm coming out of this period of retreat where I've regrown this new soft shell of a lobster that gives me more space to expand because I'd been in this very uncomfortable place for quite some time, probably for the better part of last year. I felt just very uncomfortable in, I'd felt I'd outgrown things and I was either committed or I needed to finish or whatever it was. And in this reflection, one of the things that I decided to do was to essentially uphold a boundary. It was a boundary that I had always talked about implementing, but never actually took the steps to do it. I was just like, it's okay. I was just kind of willy-nilly about it, for lack of a better term. (04:26): And so I decided to implement this boundary, and it was pretty wild because I got this wide array of reactions around it. Some people were super supportive, some were very angry, some were projecting on me. It was a wild experience, and it made me really notice as a, I'm a three five triple split projector with emotional authority for those who don't know. So my solar plexus is connected to my heart via the 37 40. My root is connected to my spleen via the 38 28, and then my ajna is connected to my throat via the 1762. So one of the things that I started to notice come out in myself was my 37 40 and that 37 40, I've gotten better at managing my 37 40, but it is a place where I carry deep, deep conditioning and deep, deep lowercase T trauma about being too much, or I'll just, as I always like to say, suck it up and do it myself. (06:11): It was kind of wild because I been very generous with people for a very long time around this. And I was just like, I can't, it doesn't make sense for me to keep doing it is literally costing me money every month to keep doing this. And I could feel my 37, 40 getting into that space where it was maybe going to explode. And it dawned on me in this time, I had known pretty intuitively, instinctively for quite a long time that I needed to do this, that it was exhausting me, it was draining me. And ultimately I knew in implementing it via my 28 38, that it was going to be a struggle. It was going to be a fight, and I was fully prepared for it because when you're implementing a boundary that people have been benefiting from, it doesn't typically work out well when you're changing that, people don't necessarily like that. (07:33): So as I went through this process in this winter break, I didn't work from, or I shouldn't say I didn't work. I worked, I didn't take calls from roughly the first week in December till the last week in January. And it was actually kind of funny too. The very first day I was supposed to be back, there was a huge snowstorm here. We had two feet of snow and I ended up having to cancel the calls, which means that I didn't actually start taking calls to the first week in February. So I had almost two months in being in m