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We're All Insane

Devorah Roloff
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  • Mental Health
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A podcast where real people share raw, unfiltered stories about their lives, challenges, and traumas that have shaped them. Each episode offers a deep dive into the unique journey of the guest—No scripts. No interruptions. Just authentic storytelling that unfolds naturally, in the guest's own words. If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please send an email to wereallinsanepodcast@gmail.com or fill out a form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUFf5ushHFd57GAZ2hAg5vvTSZNQxlOaRutdjggN-HQjufYw/viewform

  1. 1d ago

    My Mother Married My Rapist

    For 14 years, Cynthia endured unimaginable abuse at the hands of the man she believed was her father. From the age of five until she escaped at 19, she was groomed, manipulated, and repeatedly sexually abused by her stepfather…all while living in what appeared to be the perfect family. When she finally found the courage to tell someone at 16, she expected protection. Instead, she was met with disbelief, shame, and pressure from the very people who should have stood by her. Resources:  → https://rainn.org/  → https://paar.net/ Check Out Cynthia:  → https://www.instagram.com/cynthiaadelgado?utm_source=qr Sponsored By: → Shopify | Every story has a turning point. If you're ready to build something of your own, start your journey with a free trial at https://shopify.com/insane → HERS | Ready to reach your goals? Visit https://forhers.com/insane to get personalized, affordable care that gets you. → AquaTru | Go to https://AquaTru.com now for 20% off (your purifier) using promo code INSANE. AquaTru even comes with a 30-day best-tasting water guarantee.  On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:00 - What was her family dynamic?  → 00:01:48 - What was her first memory of sexual abuse?  → 00:02:51 - What was her next memory of abuse?  → 00:05:51 - What feelings dominated her childhood?  → 00:07:37 - Why didn't she know her stepfather wasn't her biological father? → 00:08:56 - How did she feel when she found out he wasn’t her father?  → 00:09:49 - How often was she abused?  → 00:10:13 - What happened when she became seriously ill? → 00:13:08 - How did everyone react when they found out? → 00:14:17 - Did her mom know what was happening? → 00:16:51 - Who else did he sexually abuse?  → 00:19:01 - How did the abuse escalate as she got older? → 00:24:26 - How did the abuse change when she was 14? → 00:26:06 - How did her high school girlfriend change everything? → 00:27:32 - What happened after the school reported the abuse? → 00:29:26 - Why was the police investigation so traumatizing? → 00:30:22 - How did her stepfather manipulate her from jail? → 00:33:19 - How did her family convince her to protect her abuser? → 00:36:09 - How was she manipulated into staying silent? → 00:38:48 - Why did the abuse begin again after he returned home? → 00:43:51 - How did her mother treat her differently from her sister? → 00:46:03 - What is a mother wound? → 00:48:38 - How did her mother also groom her?  → 00:51:56 - How does her family treat her abuser to this day? → 00:53:29 - Why does she still struggle to cut off her mother? → 00:57:17 - Why is it so difficult to understand her mother's choices? → 00:59:29 - How did her mother respond to the allegations? → 01:02:55 - What happened when he got out of jail? → 01:05:01 - How did her stepfather regain her trust? → 01:08:01 - What happened after he slapped her? → 01:14:37 - How did he continue manipulating her emotionally? → 01:17:19 - Why did she finally leave home? → 01:20:01 - When did she leave the city?  → 01:23:53 - What happened during the court proceedings? → 01:27:09 - How has family betrayal impacted her adulthood? → 01:30:20 - When did they get married? → 01:31:22 - How did the assault affect her mental health? → 01:34:05 - How is she breaking cycles moving forward? → 01:37:41 - How is she struggling with people pleasing?  → 01:40:02 - What is her relationship with her family like now? → 01:42:48 - Why do so many survivors feel guilty?  → 01:46:02 - How has becoming a stepmother changed her perspective? → 01:48:35 - How do you live your life with trauma? → 01:51:02 - Why does she feel obligated to share her story?  → 01:54:38 - Why is it so important for survivors to speak out?  Further Listening:  → My Father Was a Pastor and a Predator More We Are All Insane:  → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 2m
  2. My Mother Married My Rapist

    1d ago

    My Mother Married My Rapist

    For 14 years, Cynthia endured unimaginable abuse at the hands of the man she believed was her father. From the age of five until she escaped at 19, she was groomed, manipulated, and repeatedly sexually abused by her stepfather…all while living in what appeared to be the perfect family. When she finally found the courage to tell someone at 16, she expected protection. Instead, she was met with disbelief, shame, and pressure from the very people who should have stood by her. Resources: → https://rainn.org/ → https://paar.net/ Check Out Cynthia: → https://www.instagram.com/cynthiaadelgado?utm_source=qr Sponsored By: → Shopify | Every story has a turning point. If you're ready to build something of your own, start your journey with a free trial at https://shopify.com/insane → HERS | Ready to reach your goals? Visit https://forhers.com/insane to get personalized, affordable care that gets you. → AquaTru | Go to https://AquaTru.com now for 20% off (your purifier) using promo code INSANE. AquaTru even comes with a 30-day best-tasting water guarantee. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:00:00 - What was her family dynamic? → 00:01:48 - What was her first memory of sexual abuse? → 00:02:51 - What was her next memory of abuse? → 00:05:51 - What feelings dominated her childhood? → 00:07:37 - Why didn't she know her stepfather wasn't her biological father? → 00:08:56 - How did she feel when she found out he wasn’t her father? → 00:09:49 - How often was she abused? → 00:10:13 - What happened when she became seriously ill? → 00:13:08 - How did everyone react when they found out? → 00:14:17 - Did her mom know what was happening? → 00:16:51 - Who else did he sexually abuse? → 00:19:01 - How did the abuse escalate as she got older? → 00:24:26 - How did the abuse change when she was 14? → 00:26:06 - How did her high school girlfriend change everything? → 00:27:32 - What happened after the school reported the abuse? → 00:29:26 - Why was the police investigation so traumatizing? → 00:30:22 - How did her stepfather manipulate her from jail? → 00:33:19 - How did her family convince her to protect her abuser? → 00:36:09 - How was she manipulated into staying silent? → 00:38:48 - Why did the abuse begin again after he returned home? → 00:43:51 - How did her mother treat her differently from her sister? → 00:46:03 - What is a mother wound? → 00:48:38 - How did her mother also groom her? → 00:51:56 - How does her family treat her abuser to this day? → 00:53:29 - Why does she still struggle to cut off her mother? → 00:57:17 - Why is it so difficult to understand her mother's choices? → 00:59:29 - How did her mother respond to the allegations? → 01:02:55 - What happened when he got out of jail? → 01:05:01 - How did her stepfather regain her trust? → 01:08:01 - What happened after he slapped her? → 01:14:37 - How did he continue manipulating her emotionally? → 01:17:19 - Why did she finally leave home? → 01:20:01 - When did she leave the city? → 01:23:53 - What happened during the court proceedings? → 01:27:09 - How has family betrayal impacted her adulthood? → 01:30:20 - When did they get married? → 01:31:22 - How did the assault affect her mental health? → 01:34:05 - How is she breaking cycles moving forward? → 01:37:41 - How is she struggling with people pleasing? → 01:40:02 - What is her relationship with her family like now? → 01:42:48 - Why do so many survivors feel guilty? → 01:46:02 - How has becoming a stepmother changed her perspective? → 01:48:35 - How do you live your life with trauma? → 01:51:02 - Why does she feel obligated to share her story? → 01:54:38 - Why is it so important for survivors to speak out? Further Listening: → https://youtu.be/ChjEtgNM1EI - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    1h 57m

  3. Jul 5

    I Was a School Shooter

    Some stories are incredibly difficult to hear—but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be told. At 16 years old, he brought a shotgun into his high school. One teacher was shot, countless lives were forever changed, and he would spend the next 17 years in prison living with the consequences of his actions. Today, he works alongside educators, law enforcement, and mental health professionals, speaking openly about warning signs, intervention, accountability, healing, and hope for those who may be struggling in silence. Topics Discussed: → What causes someone to become a school shooter? → Can childhood trauma lead to violent behavior? → What are the warning signs before school violence? → How does untreated depression affect teenagers? → Can someone truly change after prison? Sponsored By: → AirDoctor | Head to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code INSANE to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models. A 30-day money-back guarantee backs every purchase. → Cozy Earth | Stay comfortable all summer long with Cozy Earth’s Bamboo Sheet Set, Everywhere Pant, and Everyday Polo. For an exclusive offer, head to https://cozyearth.com and use code INSANE to receive 20% off your order. On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:57 - What can we learn from someone who committed school violence?  → 00:02:52 - Why is he telling his story now? → 00:05:24 - What was his childhood really like? → 00:07:27 - How did childhood sexual abuse shape his mental health? → 00:08:01 - When did depression begin to take over? → 00:09:05 - Why did he attempt suicide? → 00:12:21 - How did his relationship with school change? → 00:13:59 - Did the mental hospital actually help? → 00:16:16 - How did his mental health spiral so quickly? → 00:17:36 - Why did his mom hire an attorney?  → 00:20:18 - Why didn't he tell anyone about the abuse? → 00:22:59 - What is the impact of being open about your trauma?  → 00:26:20 - How can we all relate to each other more?  → 00:27:57 - What happened after he left school for the summer? → 00:28:43 - How did he feel when he returned to school?  → 00:29:55 - How did it feel to drop out of high school?  → 00:31:48 - How did he start to feel at community college?  → 00:33:55 - How was his mom handling his mental decline?  → 00:35:21 - What is the gun safety process?  → 00:37:12 - When did he become suicidal again?  → 00:38:33 - Why did he decide to bring a gun to school? → 00:40:51 - What was in his suicide note?  → 00:41:29 - What was going through his mind that morning? → 00:42:33 - How was he feeling throughout the shooting?  → 00:44:36 - Did he come in with a plan?  → 00:46:50 - When did he decide to start shooting?  → 00:49:06 - What happened when he fired the first shot?  → 00:51:22 - How was the shooting stopped? → 00:53:37 - Why did he finally give up?   → 00:54:17 - How does he feel about being alive today?  → 00:55:36 - What is his mission in life?  → 00:57:52 - How did his friends and family respond? → 01:01:32 - What was prison really like? → 01:04:29 - Who did he maintain contact with while in prison?  → 01:08:09 - When did he decide to share his story? → 01:13:01 - How does it feel to share his story now?  → 01:14:15 - What did he do after getting out of prison?  → 01:16:28 - What happened when he experienced an act of violence?  → 01:24:31 - Why did he accept his death?  Further Listening: → My Dad Planned To Kill Us Check Out Jon Romano:  → https://www.tiktok.com/@jonseekingpeace → https://chooselovemovement.org/ → https://988lifeline.org/ More We Are All Insane: - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 32m
  4. I Was a School Shooter

    Jul 5

    I Was a School Shooter

    Some stories are incredibly difficult to hear—but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be told. At 16 years old, he brought a shotgun into his high school. One teacher was shot, countless lives were forever changed, and he would spend the next 17 years in prison living with the consequences of his actions. Today, he works alongside educators, law enforcement, and mental health professionals, speaking openly about warning signs, intervention, accountability, healing, and hope for those who may be struggling in silence. Topics Discussed: → What causes someone to become a school shooter? → Can childhood trauma lead to violent behavior? → What are the warning signs before school violence? → How does untreated depression affect teenagers? → Can someone truly change after prison? Sponsored By: → AirDoctor | Head to https://AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code INSANE to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models. A 30-day money-back guarantee backs every purchase. → Cozy Earth | Stay comfortable all summer long with Cozy Earth’s Bamboo Sheet Set, Everywhere Pant, and Everyday Polo. For an exclusive offer, head to https://cozyearth.com and use code INSANE to receive 20% off your order. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:57 - What can we learn from someone who committed school violence? → 00:02:52 - Why is he telling his story now? → 00:05:24 - What was his childhood really like? → 00:07:27 - How did childhood sexual abuse shape his mental health? → 00:08:01 - When did depression begin to take over? → 00:09:05 - Why did he attempt suicide? → 00:12:21 - How did his relationship with school change? → 00:13:59 - Did the mental hospital actually help? → 00:16:16 - How did his mental health spiral so quickly? → 00:17:36 - Why did his mom hire an attorney? → 00:20:18 - Why didn't he tell anyone about the abuse? → 00:22:59 - What is the impact of being open about your trauma? → 00:26:20 - How can we all relate to each other more? → 00:27:57 - What happened after he left school for the summer? → 00:28:43 - How did he feel when he returned to school? → 00:29:55 - How did it feel to drop out of high school? → 00:31:48 - How did he start to feel at community college? → 00:33:55 - How was his mom handling his mental decline? → 00:35:21 - What is the gun safety process? → 00:37:12 - When did he become suicidal again? → 00:38:33 - Why did he decide to bring a gun to school? → 00:40:51 - What was in his suicide note? → 00:41:29 - What was going through his mind that morning? → 00:42:33 - How was he feeling throughout the shooting? → 00:44:36 - Did he come in with a plan? → 00:46:50 - When did he decide to start shooting? → 00:49:06 - What happened when he fired the first shot? → 00:51:22 - How was the shooting stopped? → 00:53:37 - Why did he finally give up? → 00:54:17 - How does he feel about being alive today? → 00:55:36 - What is his mission in life? → 00:57:52 - How did his friends and family respond? → 01:01:32 - What was prison really like? → 01:04:29 - Who did he maintain contact with while in prison? → 01:08:09 - When did he decide to share his story? → 01:13:01 - How does it feel to share his story now? → 01:14:15 - What did he do after getting out of prison? → 01:16:28 - What happened when he experienced an act of violence? → 01:24:31 - Why did he accept his death? Further Listening: → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zz47y_L2VgA Check Out Jon Romano: → https://www.tiktok.com/@jonseekingpeace → https://chooselovemovement.org/ → https://988lifeline.org/ More We Are All Insane: - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    1h 28m
  5. My Brother Died at School

    Jul 2 • Subscribers Only

    My Brother Died at School

    Alyssa was 18 years old when she boarded a flight to Jamaica to visit her grandparents. After landing, she learned that her 14-year-old brother had suddenly passed away while at school. She shares what it was like to lose her little brother without warning, the unanswered questions that followed, and how her family navigated unimaginable grief. She opens up about finding peace through faith, supporting her younger brother, coping with the uncertainty surrounding his death, and how losing her brother forever changed the way she approaches life, relationships, and healing. Topics Discussed: → Sudden Loss and Sibling Grief → Coping With Unanswered Questions → Finding Peace Through Faith → Supporting Family After Tragedy → How Loss Changes Your Perspective on Life → Learning to Grieve in Healthy Ways → Honoring a Loved One's Memory While Moving Forward On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:31 - What was her relationship like with her little brother? → 00:03:10 - Why did she have a sinking feeling during her flight? → 00:04:50 - How did she find out her brother had died? → 00:09:18 - What happened after she landed in Jamaica? → 00:11:07 - What happened to her brother at school? → 00:12:59 - Why was his cause of death never confirmed? → 00:15:29 - How did her family cope with losing him? → 00:17:06 - Why did she choose to stay in Jamaica after finding out? → 00:18:01 - How did she help her younger brother through the grief? → 00:20:34 - How did her father's diagnosis bring unexpected answers? → 00:22:25 - What did grief feel like after losing her brother? → 00:24:20 - How did her faith help her find peace? → 00:25:50 - Why did she keep rereading her brother's medical records? → 00:28:56 - What did losing her grandmother teach her about grief? → 00:31:04 - How did the loss change the way she lives her life? → 00:33:24 - Why does she no longer hold grudges? → 00:36:08 - Why did she decide to share her story? → 00:37:12 - Did she know something was wrong before anyone told her? Further Listening: → https://youtu.be/wVszcg2IeEE?si=_-NRY69Om1F6rXzI More We Are All Insane: → OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time | https://were-all-insane.myshopify.com/ → Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts | ​​https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    39 min

  6. Jun 28

    My Dad Planned to Kill Us

    Victoria grew up watching her father abuse her mother, never knowing what would happen behind closed doors. In this episode, she shares what it was like growing up in a home shaped by domestic violence, addiction, and fear, and how those experiences continued to impact her long after her father was arrested.  She opens up about the night everything changed, the grief of losing multiple family members while trying to rebuild her life, the complicated relationship she has with her father today, and how she's worked to break generational cycles of abuse. Victoria's story is one of resilience, healing, and choosing a different future despite the trauma she endured. Topics Discussed: → Growing Up in a Home Affected by Domestic Violence → Living With the Effects of Childhood Trauma → Escaping Abuse and Rebuilding a Life → Grief, Loss, and Healing Through Family Tragedy → Breaking Generational Cycles of Abuse and Addiction → Navigating a Complex Relationship With an Abusive Parent → Finding Healing by Sharing Her Story Sponsored By: → Cozy Earth | Stay comfortable all summer long with Cozy Earth’s Bamboo Sheet Set, Everywhere Pant, and Everyday Polo. For an exclusive offer, head to https://cozyearth.com and use code INSANE to receive 20% off your order. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:31 - What was her childhood like growing up in a Mexican household? → 00:07:10 - When did she first realize something was wrong at home? → 00:12:49 - What was it like growing up with domestic violence? → 00:18:03 - Why did her mom stay with her father for so long? → 00:24:18 - Why did she feel safest with her family in Mexico? → 00:31:12 - How did her family finally escape the abuse? → 00:37:58 - What happened after her father was arrested? → 00:43:55 - How did her family begin rebuilding their lives? → 00:47:07 - How did losing her grandfather change her quinceañera? → 00:48:34 - How did her mom turn a quinceañera into buying their first home? → 00:50:12 - How did growing up with abuse affect her relationships? → 00:54:05 - How did losing her aunt and cousin change her outlook on life? → 00:57:14 - Why didn't she want her father at her graduation? → 01:00:45 - What did a detective tell her that changed everything? → 01:05:32 - How did she begin healing from years of trauma? → 01:09:48 - How did healthy relationships change her perspective? → 01:14:18 - How did alcohol become a coping mechanism? → 01:18:42 - What helped her finally begin letting go of the past? → 01:24:09 - Why did she decide to reconnect with her father? → 01:31:56 - How did she learn to forgive without forgetting? → 01:38:27 - What did she discover after searching her father's room? → 01:46:35 - Why was telling the truth so difficult? → 01:52:18 - What is her relationship with her father like today? → 02:00:45 - What did investigators uncover during the case? → 02:05:15 - Why did she decide to tell her family's story? → 02:09:02 - How does she protect her peace while keeping her father at arm's length? → 02:13:12 - Why did she decide to share her story publicly? → 02:16:38 - What does she hope other survivors take away from her story? Further Listening:  → I Lived With Bill Gates After Escaping Abuse Check Out Victoria:  →  https://www.instagram.com/ruizandrobledocleaningco/ Resources:  → https://www.houseofruthinc.org/ → https://www.loveisrespect.org/ → https://www.thehotline.org/ → https://www.cpedv.org/ → https://ncadv.org/ Megaphone  - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 25m

  7. Jun 28 • Subscribers Only

    My Dad Planned to Kill Us

    Victoria grew up watching her father abuse her mother, never knowing what would happen behind closed doors. In this episode, she shares what it was like growing up in a home shaped by domestic violence, addiction, and fear, and how those experiences continued to impact her long after her father was arrested. She opens up about the night everything changed, the grief of losing multiple family members while trying to rebuild her life, the complicated relationship she has with her father today, and how she's worked to break generational cycles of abuse. Victoria's story is one of resilience, healing, and choosing a different future despite the trauma she endured. Topics Discussed: → Growing Up in a Home Affected by Domestic Violence → Living With the Effects of Childhood Trauma → Escaping Abuse and Rebuilding a Life → Grief, Loss, and Healing Through Family Tragedy → Breaking Generational Cycles of Abuse and Addiction → Navigating a Complex Relationship With an Abusive Parent → Finding Healing by Sharing Her Story Sponsored By: → Cozy Earth | Stay comfortable all summer long with Cozy Earth’s Bamboo Sheet Set, Everywhere Pant, and Everyday Polo. For an exclusive offer, head to https://cozyearth.com and use code INSANE to receive 20% off your order. On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:31 - What was her childhood like growing up in a Mexican household? → 00:07:10 - When did she first realize something was wrong at home? → 00:12:49 - What was it like growing up with domestic violence? → 00:18:03 - Why did her mom stay with her father for so long? → 00:24:18 - Why did she feel safest with her family in Mexico? → 00:31:12 - How did her family finally escape the abuse? → 00:37:58 - What happened after her father was arrested? → 00:43:55 - How did her family begin rebuilding their lives? → 00:47:07 - How did losing her grandfather change her quinceañera? → 00:48:34 - How did her mom turn a quinceañera into buying their first home? → 00:50:12 - How did growing up with abuse affect her relationships? → 00:54:05 - How did losing her aunt and cousin change her outlook on life? → 00:57:14 - Why didn't she want her father at her graduation? → 01:00:45 - What did a detective tell her that changed everything? → 01:05:32 - How did she begin healing from years of trauma? → 01:09:48 - How did healthy relationships change her perspective? → 01:14:18 - How did alcohol become a coping mechanism? → 01:18:42 - What helped her finally begin letting go of the past? → 01:24:09 - Why did she decide to reconnect with her father? → 01:31:56 - How did she learn to forgive without forgetting? → 01:38:27 - What did she discover after searching her father's room? → 01:46:35 - Why was telling the truth so difficult? → 01:52:18 - What is her relationship with her father like today? → 02:00:45 - What did investigators uncover during the case? → 02:05:15 - Why did she decide to tell her family's story? → 02:09:02 - How does she protect her peace while keeping her father at arm's length? → 02:13:12 - Why did she decide to share her story publicly? → 02:16:38 - What does she hope other survivors take away from her story? Further Listening: → R*ped by My Parents Until I Was Mute | https://youtu.be/ZbRALGFLlOA?si=lVV6lcZYXSfVf5kB Check Out Victoria: → https://www.instagram.com/ruizandrobledocleaningco/ Resources: → https://www.houseofruthinc.org/ → https://www.loveisrespect.org/ → https://www.thehotline.org/ → https://www.cpedv.org/ → https://ncadv.org/ - OFFICIAL MERCH NOW AVAILABLE - code INSANE10 gets you 10% off for a limited time: https://shop.wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane

    2h 19m

  8. Jun 25 • Subscribers Only

    My Parents Terrorized All 10 of Us

    She grew up as one of ten children in a strict Catholic household where fear, emotional abuse, neglect, and control shaped daily life. In this episode, she shares what it was like being homeschooled with little formal education, helping raise her younger siblings, and growing up under a father whose explosive behavior, verbal abuse, and inappropriate comments left lasting scars. She opens up about a CPS visit that led nowhere, the challenges of protecting her younger siblings, her youngest sister's mental health crisis, and how increasingly extreme religious beliefs fueled fear and anxiety within the home. She also shares the difficult decision to leave home before turning 18 and what it's been like building a life of her own while supporting the siblings still living there. Topics Discussed: → What does abuse look like in religious homes? → What happens when children are forced to raise their siblings? → Why do abused children stay silent? → What happens when CPS visits go wrong? → How does childhood neglect affect mental health? → How do you escape an abusive home? → What is parentification and how does it impact children? → How can religious beliefs be used to justify control and abuse? → What happens when fear becomes a parenting style? → How do you maintain relationships with siblings after leaving home? On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:01 - What Was the First Memory That Came Back to Her? → 00:01:56 - Who Was She Closest To in Her Family? → 00:05:24 - Why Wasn't Their Homeschool Monitored? → 00:12:24 - What Type of Abuse Happened Besides Physical Abuse? → 00:15:39 - What Inappropriate Comments Did Her Dad Make About Her Body? → 00:17:56 - What Did Her Parents Fight About? → 00:23:45 - How Does She Feel About Her Parents Now? → 00:26:29 - Why Shouldn't You Compare Your Trauma to Others? → 00:29:29 - What Happened When She Tried to Report the Abuse? → 00:33:04 - How Does She Look Out for Her Siblings? → 00:38:53 - Why Did They Take Her Sister to a Behavioral Health Center? → 00:43:12 - When Did Her Father Become Abusive Again? → 00:46:38 - What Is Her Relationship Like With Her Siblings? → 00:48:17 - One of the Scariest Encounters With Her Father → 00:53:06 - When Did Her Parents Get Married? → 00:55:41 - Why Aren't Her Siblings Allowed at Her House? → 01:01:01 - Who Can She Talk To in Her Family? → 01:03:45 - How Is Life After Moving Out? → 01:06:55 - How Often Did Her Family Talk About Heaven and Hell? → 01:09:51 - What Was It Like Growing Up in a Traditional Latin Catholic Church? → 01:13:18 - Do You Owe Your Parents a Relationship? → 01:14:35 - Is She Going to Therapy to Process Her Childhood? → 01:16:07 - What Did She Wish Would Happen as a Child? → 01:17:02 - Why Sharing Her Story Matters → 01:17:47 - Outro

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A podcast where real people share raw, unfiltered stories about their lives, challenges, and traumas that have shaped them. Each episode offers a deep dive into the unique journey of the guest—No scripts. No interruptions. Just authentic storytelling that unfolds naturally, in the guest's own words. If you have a story you'd like to share on the podcast, please send an email to wereallinsanepodcast@gmail.com or fill out a form here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUFf5ushHFd57GAZ2hAg5vvTSZNQxlOaRutdjggN-HQjufYw/viewform

Information

  • Creator
    Devorah Roloff
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    220
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    We're All Insane
  • Provider
    Devorah Roloff

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