Heal Your Relationships

Kavetha Sundaramoorthy
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Heal Your Relationships

This is a show about marriage, Unlike other shows about marriage, Heal Your Relationships is for women whose partners refuse therapy. If that is you, please know that you can still have the marriage you want, and we can help you get there. I’m your host Dr. Kavetha Sun, M.D. Even as a double board-certified psychiatrist, I struggled for years in my intimate relationships. This show is a culmination of everything I learned over ten years of stumbling through my own healing journey. My hope is that it gives you a head start. Each week, I will share simple, research-backed tools that you can use immediately to help you resolve conflict, restore connection, and pass on a legacy you are proud of. P.S: Whenever you are ready, here are 3 ways I can help you: #1: Ready to master your triggers & communicate your needs so you can feel confident, trusting, and secure in your relationships? Check out our monthly membership community --> SECURE Love Lab™ at https://www.skool.com/securerlovelab/about #2: Have you seen my YouTube Channel? I'm putting a lot of energy into creating valuable content that you won't find anywhere else. Come check out my latest stuff, and give me a like and subscribe. -> https://bit.ly/DrKavethaSunYouTubeChannel #3: Want to get my personalized help to feel calm, confident, connected, and courageous and heal your relationships in just 4 months? Book a call here -> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun to see if you are a good fit for our Heal Your Relationships program. (fyi, we typically accept ~ 32% of applicants into the program, as we want to make sure it is the exact right next step for you.)

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    Simple Steps to Building Self-Trust

    Ever feel like you’re stuck in a loop—digging a hole, falling in, climbing out… only to do it all over again? That’s what happens when we chase quick fixes instead of building real self-trust. We get that dopamine hit from setting a big goal—signing up for the gym, buying a fancy planner, committing to a morning routine. But then… we fall right back into old patterns… In this week’s podcast episode, I break down how to finally break the cycle—not by doing more, but by doing less (and doing it consistently). You must be thinking that I've gone crazy! How is that possible? Well, I'll explain why chasing big, flashy changes doesn’t stick—and what actually does. The secret? Tiny, consistent actions (like brushing your teeth—no fanfare, just habit). This is about actual transformation—not another round of "falling and digging yourself out." Ready to change the way you approach your goals? Listen to the episode now! Let’s build something that lasts. P.S. What’s one small, doable habit you’re committing to this week? Hit reply and let me know! FREE tools: Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    20 min

  2. JAN 30

    5 Signs You Had A Traumatic Childhood (And Don't Realize It)

    Did you know that 63% of adults in the U.S. are living with hidden childhood trauma—and most don’t even realize it? Unrecognized trauma doesn’t just affect your mood—it can increase your risk of serious health issues like lung disease and heart disease, and even shorten your life expectancy by up to 20 years. That’s why in this week’s podcast episode, I am uncovering the Top 5 Hidden Signs of Childhood Trauma and how they show up in your life: Intellectual hypervigilance: Are you constantly overthinking or suspicious of others' motives?Emotional numbing or dissociation: Do you feel "checked out" from life or disconnected from your emotions?Emotional dysregulation: Are your moods on a constant rollercoaster, leaving you feeling exhausted and misunderstood?The glass ceiling effect: Does it feel like something is holding you back in your career, no matter how hard you work?Sex and libido issues: Do you feel ashamed or confused about your desires and relationships? With this episode, I aim to dive deep into these often-overlooked signs, uncovering how they silently shape your health, sabotage your relationships, and hold you back from living a truly fulfilling and joyful life. Don’t miss out—Click here to listen now! P.S. Stay tuned—I’ll also be sharing an upcoming episode on the 3-step system that helped me heal my own hidden trauma.

    18 min

  3. JAN 23

    Encore: What Are Feelings and How to TRULY Let Go [Step 5]

    Welcome to the final step in our Getting Unstuck journey—Step 5! Over the past few episodes, we’ve explored powerful tools for navigating your inner world and creating real change. In this week's episode "What Are Feelings and How to TRULY Let Go," we bring it all together. Now, it’s time to take action with a step-by-step homework assignment that ties it all together:  Your Homework for the Whole Series: Pick a Small, Measurable Goal: Choose something you’ve been procrastinating or feeling stuck about—something specific and achievable.Notice Your Thoughts, Feelings, and Sensations: As you take steps toward this goal, observe the passengers on your “bus”—those thoughts, feelings, and urges that try to hold you back.Label and Accept Them with Kindness: Write them down. Say, “I notice the thought that…” or “I notice the feeling of…” and respond with, “And that’s okay.”Find the Feeling in Your Body: Where does it show up? What does it feel like? Make space for it by imagining opening windows and letting it be.Ask Yourself, “What’s One Thing I Can Do?” Instead of battling the emotions, shift your focus to what you can do. Take one small action to move forward.  Pro Tip: Repeat this process daily or whenever you feel stuck. With practice, you’ll notice the resistance quieting down and a sense of freedom emerging.  Need a Refresher? You can find here the whole series episodes. [https://apple.co/40HyHQx] The power of transformation lies in action, and I can’t wait to hear how this process works for you. Share your progress with me —I’d love to celebrate your wins and answer any questions.Here’s to leaving “stuck” behind and stepping into a life of clarity, purpose, and freedom!

    42 min

  4. JAN 16

    Encore: Find the Exit Door Out of Suffering [Step 4]

    So, in last week’s episode—Step 3 of Getting Unstuck—we explored how to “drive your school bus.” Good for you! That’s a huge step toward understanding how to navigate life’s challenges while staying grounded in who you truly are. But let’s face it—what if the kids on the bus (a.k.a. your thoughts and emotions) are loud, angry, crying, or making impossible demands?  How do you manage all of that without losing control? This week, we’re taking it a step further. In this fourth step of the Getting Unstuck Series, I’m introducing you to a simple yet transformative tool that will help you handle the chaos safely, calmly, and compassionately.  Whether you’re managing emotional turbulence, intrusive thoughts, or just the general overwhelm of life, this strategy is here to help you regain clarity and control. If you’ve ever felt like your emotions are in the driver’s seat—or that your inner “school bus” is headed off the rails—this is the episode for you. Are you ready to learn how to quiet the noise and bring peace to your inner world?  Let’s GO! FREE tools: Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    25 min

  5. JAN 9

    Encore: How To Think About Your Thinking (and stay connected to who you truly are) [Step 3]

    Do you ever feel like life pulls you in so many directions that you lose touch with who you truly are? Or struggle to find clarity and alignment when everything around you feels overwhelming? This week, we’re diving into Step 3 of getting unstuck: How do you stay connected with your true self? Last week, we explored a powerful exercise to shift your perspective and help you see that you are not your thoughts and feelings. If you haven’t had a chance to listen yet, it’s a great starting point for this next step in our journey together. So, in this week's encore episode, we’ll focus on a common challenge—how to stay true to who you really are when life gets busy and emotions take over. Allow me to introduce you to something I call “the school bus between your ears.” Intriguing, right? This metaphor has been one of the most impactful mindset tools for me and many of my clients. It will help you navigate challenges while staying true to yourself. So, if you want to know everything about the school bus analogy... Take some time to listen—it could be the step you’ve been needing to move forward with more clarity and confidence. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences with this approach. FREE tools:  Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    18 min

  6. JAN 2

    Encore: You Are Not Your Thoughts Or Feelings [Step 2]

    Happy New Year! 🎉 As we step into 2025—a season of fresh beginnings and endless possibilities—I wanted to share something special with you. Today, we’ll be doing a little experiment that could change the way you view yourself forever. It’s a powerful exercise that will show you in real-time that you are not your thoughts or feelings. Now imagine this: If you are not your thoughts or emotions, then who are you, really? The answer might surprise—and even delight—you. This exercise is your chance to break free from limiting beliefs and experience a new way of being. Once you’ve seen it for yourself, you’ll never look at yourself the same way again. Here’s the fun part: This is a repurposed episode from one of our earlier podcasts, but it’s just as powerful today. Think of it as a New Year’s encore gift to bring clarity, peace, and a stronger sense of self into your life as we begin this new chapter. So, grab a cup of tea, find a quiet spot, and just tune in! Wishing you a peaceful, empowered, and inspiring start to 2025! FREE tools: Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    12 min

  7. 12/26/2024

    I Was a Harvard Educated Psychiatrist and then I Quit - Why I Left

    I want to share something deeply personal: my journey from traditional psychiatry to helping people heal at a foundational level. After losing my mother to suicide and stepping into a parenting role for my siblings at a young age, I had questions that shaped my life: Why do people suffer? Can we truly heal? These questions led me to psychiatry, but over time, I realized the system often felt like treating symptoms instead of the root cause. My own healing journey taught me a powerful truth: true recovery begins by reconnecting with our bodies, calming our nervous systems, and building a solid foundation of safety within ourselves. This approach transformed my life, and now I’m dedicated to helping others do the same. If you’re curious about my story or looking for ways to reconnect with yourself and truly heal, I’d love for you to tune in.  Listen to the episode here: [Insert Link] That’s why I started this podcast—to share what I’ve learned, offer tools for healing, and spark meaningful conversations. If my story resonates, I’d love to hear yours. Share your story, thoughts, or questions—I’m here to listen. Take care, Kavetha FREE tools: Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    22 min

  8. 12/19/2024

    Encore: Five steps to getting unstuck, from ANYTHING [Step 1]

    Do you feel like you're starting the year in a cycle that you can’t break? Maybe you're stuck in your relationships, your career, or your fitness goals? What if you could finally break free and start 2025 with a fresh, empowered mindset? Well, I have something special for you. ​In this week's encore episode​ of the podcast, we’re diving into 5 powerful steps to get unstuck—from anything that’s holding you back. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by your current situation or just know you need a change, these 5 steps will give you the tools to shift your mindset and create real breakthroughs. So if you are ready apply them over the next few days, you'll be ready to move forward—no matter what you feel stuck in. So, shall we dive in? ​In today’s encore episode​, we’ll uncover how the human brain works and why it sometimes feels like quicksand, pulling us deeper into unproductive loops. Once you understand this, you’ll start to see the way forward clearly. Here’s to ending 2024 strong and kicking off 2025 with confidence and clarity! ​Listen now and get ready to break free! FREE tools: Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-Newsletter Need more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

    18 min
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This is a show about marriage, Unlike other shows about marriage, Heal Your Relationships is for women whose partners refuse therapy. If that is you, please know that you can still have the marriage you want, and we can help you get there. I’m your host Dr. Kavetha Sun, M.D. Even as a double board-certified psychiatrist, I struggled for years in my intimate relationships. This show is a culmination of everything I learned over ten years of stumbling through my own healing journey. My hope is that it gives you a head start. Each week, I will share simple, research-backed tools that you can use immediately to help you resolve conflict, restore connection, and pass on a legacy you are proud of. P.S: Whenever you are ready, here are 3 ways I can help you: #1: Ready to master your triggers & communicate your needs so you can feel confident, trusting, and secure in your relationships? Check out our monthly membership community --> SECURE Love Lab™ at https://www.skool.com/securerlovelab/about #2: Have you seen my YouTube Channel? I'm putting a lot of energy into creating valuable content that you won't find anywhere else. Come check out my latest stuff, and give me a like and subscribe. -> https://bit.ly/DrKavethaSunYouTubeChannel #3: Want to get my personalized help to feel calm, confident, connected, and courageous and heal your relationships in just 4 months? Book a call here -> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun to see if you are a good fit for our Heal Your Relationships program. (fyi, we typically accept ~ 32% of applicants into the program, as we want to make sure it is the exact right next step for you.)

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  • Creator
    Kavetha Sundaramoorthy
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    152
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Kavetha Sundaramoorthy
  • Show Website
    Heal Your Relationships

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